 Oh hey there lovers and friends, this is an interesting video about a topic that I'm shocked. I have not made a video about this yet because I've actually been using this technique or researching it and discussing it for the past decade, but I guess the first time I ever officially put it out there was in my new book, The Game of Desire, five surprising secrets to getting what you want in which I worked with six women who were struggling to make the kinds of connections they were proud of and I worked with them to turn their love luck around. Through that, what we did is a lot of different experiments. We tested out different ideas and one of the things that we tested out was using your vaginal juices, your vaginal fluid as perfume to draw people in. Now I will not take credit for this. This is not my brainchild. As a matter of fact, there's actually a word dedicated to this practice and that word is vabbing. It is dabbing with your vaginal juices and so in this book I went to Soho House with three of the women and we tested out vabbing to see if it actually worked. Now Refinery29 read the book, loved it and wanted to use an excerpt of the book and that was the section they chose to use. Now two days after Refinery29 ran it, a bunch of other tabloids picked up on the idea and then it kind of became this tiny little media circus. So because I've never officially talked about it before, let's discuss the why behind using your vaginal fluids as perfume. Does it work? Is it sanitary and should you try it? The term pheromone is derived from the Greek words pheron meaning to transfer and hormone meaning to excite. Thus pheromones transfer excitement. Now pheromones are chemical molecules released to trigger hormonal changes and elicit behavioral responses from others and these signaling molecules are used in bodily fluids such as vaginal secretions and that is why you can use your vaginal fluids as a perfume to draw other people in. In the book I suggest women put it on their wrists because we talk with our hands and so we might create that waft. I did it today. And as a little fun fact and a thought starter, this notion that our bodies are smelly, gross and need to be treated by commercial products in order to be acceptable is an idea that came about around the same time as consumerism. Now prior to this there was widespread knowledge that pheromones worked in transferring excitement, that pheromones worked in drawing people in. In the 19th century men used to actually take their handkerchiefs that used to go in their suit pockets and put them under their armpits for an entire day so it would become drenched in the smell, the natural smell of their pits. And then throughout the day if they saw someone they fancied they would take that same handkerchief that was soaked in their pheromones and wipe the sweat off someone's face or lightly dust a little stain on their collar. And by doing that they would be transferring their pheromones to them, transferring that excitement and making that person drawn to them through their raw human scent. And that is the BDE that we are using when we talk about using your vaginal copulins as perfume. So your natural scent is not disgusting, the natural scent of your vagina is not repulsive, it's not gross, that's if you said health professionals who have to wait in on this topic have said wearing your vaginal fluids behind your ears is not going to put other people at risk. So in conclusion, vaginal copulins as perfume, should we all go out there and use it? Maybe not, may not be your cup of tea, may not be intriguing to you. And like I said, yes I am a woman that from time to time uses my vaginal secretions as perfume as a little extra boost of confidence to draw people in, no different why someone else uses perfume to draw people in to give them that little extra juge, that extra pep in their step. And as somebody who has been using this for the past decade I can say I've gotten some great results from it, but sometimes I've gotten no results from it. I really can't say a conclusive for sure if this does work because once again there's a lot of competing scents in this world and I do shower and have other scents on, I have hair products in so who's to say that somebody is responding to the smell that I have added versus the smell that's naturally a part of my daily routine. And if you guys are curious again about how this went down and you want to learn more about using your vaginal copulins on your body to attract other people in public places, you can read the excerpt of The Game of Desire for Free on Refinery29. And of course if you like to free free, did you guys know that if you order my book on Audible you get a free trial with Audible, you get two free books, thus you can get my book for free if you sign up for Audible and you don't have to stay when the pay wall comes up. So go get your two free books, bounce when you want to, stay if you want to, but that's the way to support The Game of Desire at zero cost to you. But those of you who have invested and who have gotten the book, thank you. The book has a perfect score on Amazon, it's five stars. So in the comment section below, a little call to action. I would love to know your personal thoughts on this. Have you ever tried vaping before? Have you ever considered vaping? Would you never have? 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