 Charming people are pleasant to be around. I couldn't make me better blog. Charming people often tend to make people happy. They enjoy the company of others, make them feel special with their humble and modest behavior. Most people either feel jealous or inferior if they find anyone better than them, which is negative conduct. Charming personalities are filled with immense positive energy and they love to praise people. In today's video, I am going to share with you 10 signs you are an exceptionally charming person. If you're new here, subscribe to our channel for more awesome videos such as this one. 1. You are positive Being positive is one of the most charming characteristics a person can have. Is there someone you feel drawn to? Think about it. Do they ever seem sad or dejected? Such people are usually spirited. They laugh without abandon and seem to have all figured out. Everyone needs positivity in their lives. Whoever resonates with a large amount of it will have people drawn to him. If you want to be more charming, try being positive for a change. You'd be surprised at how fast it works. Say encouraging words of kindness to people who need it. The world can be a lonely place but we have each other. Positive people don't complain about things. They instead plan. If people don't make excuses for work they can finish right away. Positivity is something that no one is born with. It is a choice. The difference between leading a weary life of apprehension and living one of abundance is mostly dependent on the person's attitude to life. If you want to live a fulfilled life, start being positive. 2. You are sincere Far too many people have people compliment them falsely or pretend about their feelings for them. People are therefore used to disappointments. But when you are sincere, it makes a difference. According to American writer Ashley Lorenzana, the easiest way to gain someone's trust is to deserve it. This should be pretty easy assuming you are just being you and being real. Minimal efforts too. When you listen to people and really show up for them, you don't need to do anything extra to make them like you. People like authenticity. Don't pretend to be nice if you're not. You will have a better chance of getting along with others when you are consistent than when you are not. Don't tell other people's secrets that you were told in confidence and never ever let what people have said force you to become who you are not. Sincere is about being human. Do you smile with your colleagues when they are sharing a joke over coffee break? Try to be as free as possible. Love when you think something is funny, not when other people think it's funny. Show genuine concern for others or show no concern at all if you're really not concerned. 3. You pay attention to people. People very much like to hear the sound of their own voice. If you listen more than you speak and only ask questions to clarify or make comments to compliment an action or inaction, people will love you. No one likes being interrupted at all. People who are charming pay attention to details. They can recall the names of an acquaintance they met a year ago. When you can recall people's names accurately, you make them feel important. It is a very charming thing to do. If you really want to get someone to listen to you, listen to them first then tactfully bring up the topic you want to talk about and they will feel obliged to listen to you. According to Lifehack, you speak only when appropriate rather than try to prove you are the most intelligent person in the room. Charming people are warm and accommodating. They are not condescending even when they have a superior intellect. A person is after all only charming by other people's standards and not by their own. According to Bustle, mindfulness allows a person to feel at peace and stay in the moment not obsessing about the past or the future. Charming people are mindful about what they say and do while interacting with others. 4. Charming people are friendly. Charming people work well with others. If you want to be charming, you have to become more social, attend networking events and stop burying yourself in the mountain of work in your apartment. According to April Davids, founder, matchmaker, charming people make others feel good about themselves. Talk to people a lot and try to connect with them. People who are snobs can never be charming. Charming people make kind gestures without thinking about them. They reach out to people and seldom show anger and negative emotions. They make others attracted to them. 5. The smile. Do you like smiling? According to Psychology Today, sometimes turning on the charm is as simple as forcing a smile. Research shows that smiling cannot only make you more attractive to others but it can lift your mood as well as others around you. You can't charm anyone without a smile. Smiles are rather infectious because humans are wired to mirror each other. If a person is smiling, the people looking at them will tend to smile too. Think about it. That prom you had a huge smile plastered on your face. How many friends do you make that day? When you look like bad weather, how many of them said hi to you? It's probably because they don't want to get yelled at or anything. People usually stay away from people who are moody or irritable. Smile and laugh at good jokes. Don't laugh at jokes made at other people's expense. Try to talk to people with confidence and listen more than you speak. Do all this and you will probably be the most charming person a lot of people at the event will meet. Smiling is a potent way of countering a frown. If you are unhappy about something, smile. It will shock you how much can change with a smile at the right time. 6. The work and things they love. When it's a bustle, charming people do activities that give them pleasure and this happiness only feeds their disposition. People who are charming usually actively pursue their passions. As a result of this, they have a better sense of fulfillment. If you meet a professor who wanted to teach all his life for example and one who took it up because he couldn't maintain an executive role, who do you think is more likely to be cheerful? Probably the one who wanted to teach. If you want to be charming, do what you love. Don't do anything for too long just because of money. You will have the money but you won't be happy. It isn't worth it. Take a deep breath. It may not look easy now but the first step is simply deciding that you want to do something that makes you happy. 7. They make hand gestures while speaking. Have you ever met a teacher who seemed to teach with every fiber of his being? They were probably the ones who gestures a lot. People who don't do this are smart too but people who use hand gestures are usually perceived as passionate and energetic. According to Forbes, research shows that people who talk with their hands as viewed as more warm, agreeable and energetic. Do your gestures while you speak. If you don't, perhaps it's time you tried something different. Also, according to Make Me Better, people with a charming personality become the center of attraction as they can express more emotions very well using appropriate gestures and facial expressions. They can turn a boring conversation into a highly engaging one. They can easily mingle with all age groups. 8. They are great storytellers. Charming people are usually excellent communicators. They have practiced over time from interacting with so many people. They can hold people's attention while speaking. They usually also know how to appeal to people's emotions. If you have such talents, you will thrive in a non-profit setting where fundraising is a necessary requirement. People who attend fundraisers almost always already want to donate. Still, an eloquent speaker who can elaborate on the situation or the cost for which donation is sought will go a long way in helping the donors decide how much they intend to donate. If you want to learn how to tell good stories that grab people's attention, you can take some writing classes to learn the power of description. 9. They don't judge others. If there's one thing people don't like, it's being judged. Everyone without exception has one challenge or the other. Charming people know how to leverage the common problems to endear people to themselves. They don't act aloof as this goes a long way in making people often open to them. Have you ever judged someone because you felt they are better? Do you think your skin color makes you superior? If yes, rethink your values. You will have a lot of enemies if you keep judging people. Judging people isn't itself a character flaw. Be better. 10. They make strong connections. Because of their many positive attributes, charming people tend to make better connections with people. They also touch people on their hands and foreheads during conversation. This strengthens their bond with the people they interact with. Squeezing someone's hands, for example, can be reassuring, butting someone's back too. If you know the person well, you can embrace them. Touching someone's forehead can make them feel cared for. Charming people know all this and the right circumstances to use them. In all, be happy. There are a lot of things in life that matter, but only a few discover them. If you are charming, continue being charming. If you're not, don't worry, start working on yourself. Being charming has nothing to do with physical looks, so anyone can be charming if they work on themselves.