 Hello everyone live from my hotel room. I'm going to be Answering this question that many of you may have which is Did the narcissist really move on and I'm sure it's something that a lot of you want to know because maybe the narcissist decided you and it may look like they've moved moved on to someone else and So much happier now without you They don't need you because I know many of you are empaths Good people you want to feel needed you want to help people And they never give you that they never let you feel like you have helped them Or like you are needed Because they already know that you are an empath They may not know that exact term, but they know you're a good person a Kind giving generous person who just wants to feel loved and you want to feel needed and Yeah, they make it look like they're giving that to someone else like they're having a great time without you and You're left alone confused You feel like you're missing out, but I'm here to tell you that it is all an illusion It is a deceptive appearance an impression of Happiness It isn't real It is just as fake as What you had with them, but you may think That they have moved on and they found this new person And there's so much happier now And it hurts you you feel like you're not good enough You look at this new person and you think what have they got that I haven't got what are they doing that? I wasn't doing Because many of you everything they wanted you to be or do You became that you did that when they said jump you said how high it's like it was never enough And now they've moved on the with someone else And it hurts You don't want to accept it I get it, but the good news is that you don't have to accept it because it's all fake It's just as fake as everything they had with you and I can tell you that every relationship they have Will be fake There is actually no such thing as a Relationship with a narcissist. It can only ever be a transaction An exchange of value, but that value goes one way From a person to the narcissist That person doesn't get anything back in return They lose everything that they have to sustain the narcissist They are only there for what they can get from you Which is why they do not connect or attach to you probably Which means that the relationship was never real And the reason why it was never real is because they never cared about you Which is the most important part of any relationship You're meant to connect to the other person You're meant to care about them, but unfortunately you've got involved with someone who Only cares about themselves Someone whose only interest or concern is what they can get from you And that was not a relationship Because your sole purpose was just to make them feel good, but of course they can give you the illusion of a relationship They give you these lies and false promises But always being there for you They might have said that they were gonna do all of these things in the future Future faking and that's just it. It's fake None of it was real It may have seemed real to you Because you wanted it to be real, but they were just saying it To get your money Or to have sex with you They were saying that so that they could get what they wanted But it was just a means to an end Whatever you liked whatever you were interested in they reflected that back to you But it was only so they could get what they needed from you It was all fake They're frauds, con artists Scammers And they're always going to be that way whoever they're involved with Their new relationship is going to be just the same It's still going to be fake. It's still going to be an illusion They don't really love or care about anyone that they are with The only thing that they love The only thing that they care about is what that person could do for them They love how the other person makes them feel They love what the other person is giving to them, but That new person is not getting anything from the narcissist They are not getting the narcissist love and attention Because the narcissist has no love to give If they had any love to give they would have given it to you for real So Even though it may look like they have moved on It's actually just the narcissist who is Consuming from another person They gain what they want by putting on an act By reflecting back to this new person whatever they think they want to see And by doing that they are constantly consuming They're constantly Getting their needs met, but they're not giving them anything There's no mutual exchange of value There is no reciprocation So you should not feel like you're missing out on anything You should not be jealous. There's no reason To be jealous of anything There's no reason to miss them Because you have to remember what you went through with them All of the horrific things they did to you Just remember how when you when you questioned and confronted them on it They turned against you Because that is the person who they really are They are broken people They're damaged They cannot deal with their own issues They cannot deal with their own self-hatred So what do they do? They push you away And they push you away because they are not ready to love And they will never be ready to love You're never going to get any real love from a narcissist And the reason why is because they only want what they can get from you They have no interest in giving anything to you So please don't feel jealous about them moving on It isn't real It is just an illusion It's just these ideas and thoughts that they have implanted In your mind The reality is very different And if you weren't proof of that You've only got to look back at your relationship Even when times were good in the beginning You know I could not have been real Because if it was real Where is that person now? Why aren't they there for you now? Why did they run off to someone else? That's how you know it was all fake It was all a lie Because they never followed up with their promises Nothing they promised you in the future ever came into fruition So it was fake And whatever they have with another person is fake too It's all manipulation So that they can get what they want And they are very good at putting on an act because they have So much experience at doing that They've had so much practice They know how to create an orchestration They know how to plan and coordinate the elements Of a situation To produce their desired effects To get the reaction that they're looking for from you And I get it it hurts It's not nice is it when you go On social media you want to see you want some answers You want to know why they just disappeared And where they've gone what they're doing who they're with You want to know these things because they're not going to tell you Or sometimes they might but it's only to hurt you But you're hoping you're going to see it on their social media And you go in there maybe you see them with their new supply They look like they're happy they've moved on It's all fake and you have to start seeing them as so important Because they made you believe that while you were with them But the reality is they're actually very small and insignificant It's just that while you were with them You were looking at them living their lives and having all their fun They were doing everything that they wanted to do And you felt like you were missing out But that's only because they condensed your world They made your world so small and they did that by isolating you Separating you from other people other sources of influence And you only had contact with people within their world Which was never going to be anything good because it's just their flying monkeys And it made you feel like that's all there is So the next step for you now is to stop looking at their social media Because that is not going to help you That is not going to help you to move forward And I know maybe right now that's not what you really want Maybe you don't want to move forward Maybe you want them to come back But there is no one to come back That person you thought loved and cared about you in the beginning That person does not exist So they can't come back The only thing that can come back is the illusion And that's not going to last for long It's just going to be some fantasy That you have to share with them inside your mind So yes, you have to stop looking at their social media Stop validating the illusion Stop responding to their texts Stop picking up their calls Just cut them off Because they are a grown adult And you are not responsible for them They're not a baby, they're not a child It's not your job to take care of them It's not your job to fake things, to make things right They want to do what they want to do So let them go and do it Forgive yourself Because all right, you made a mistake You gave yourself to someone who did not deserve you Someone who could not reciprocate So learn from that mistake and move forward And when you do that, when you finally go into contact That's when you will realize just how small and insignificant they really are How unimportant You will see that they just don't even matter In the outside world Outside of the world that they created for you But they had you trapped Because the entire thing is all just an illusion They really is Of course they're going to try and move on with someone else And you should let them do it Because soon you're going to realize that they are just fooling them to Just as they were fooling you And you're going to move on And you're going to find somewhere where you belong You're going to find someone who is on the same wavelength Someone of like kind Because there is a great world outside of the narcissist You have to remember that there are hundreds of countries in this world There are billions of people And there are so many people for you to meet There are so many things for you to accomplish And we only have a short amount of time I mean I look back in my life and I can't believe it, it's only three more months Until I've been doing these videos on YouTube For five years It's incredible how quickly time has gone Do you really want to waste your time chasing someone Who really doesn't care about you or anyone else Is that really something you want to do? How many years of your life have you wasted already? You have to remember that your life is very valuable This is a gift from God or the universe Your body, your mind, your brain These things are very valuable Do not share these things with someone who does not deserve it Because they will only mistreat it They're not going to value it the same way that you do So realize that there is more to this world than just the narcissist Realize that there are so many people for you to meet Because you will meet many amazing people I can promise you that if you would just Leave the narcissist alone, let them do what they want to do Let them move on or at least pretend to move on And you will find people who are of a much higher caliber A much higher class than the narcissist People who have the capacity to value you Because they actually value themselves When you value yourself, you can value another person I believe that we have that in this community that I have created Where we all love and respect each other And you can find that of YouTube and the internet as well Because it is a big world and the narcissist The narcissist is small They are very insignificant in the grand scheme of things So if you have seen their social media And you've seen the new supply and all of this Please don't fall for it Remember what I said, it is an illusion It really is They're not really happy, they haven't really moved on They're never going to move on Not only do they not attach to you properly But they also don't detach So they will still be holding on to you And they may even try to hoover you I've heard stories where narcissists have hoovered years down the line Because they never let you go They don't know how to detach But you need to detach You need to forgive yourself and you need to move on That's what you need to do Because nothing good is going to come out of engaging with these people They have nothing to offer you You have everything to offer them And that is the only reason why they get involved with you Is to take from you Maybe you are craving their attention, their love, their respects Which are all things that they refuse to give to you They don't even have that to give Because they don't love or respect themselves That's why they're so impulsive and reckless But you can give that love and respect to yourself You can do that right now Just say I give myself permission to love myself To respect myself You can give yourself permission to do that, to receive that And that is something you're never going to get from a narcissist They can only give you the illusion of that And it only lasts for a short period of time All right, quite a deep video today Let's end it on a positive note With this incredible view here Of the city Where I'm about to go out now and get something to eat Thank you for joining me I do hope that this video was helpful for you And if it was, please give it a thumbs up down below And I look forward to talking with you in another