 Another video here at Tintin Abbey. Now why is the narcissist always hating? Why does it seem like they are never at rest? There's always some kind of problem. They're never happy. Why? They always have to pick apart things that you're doing. They always have some negative comment to say. They're always fault-finding, nitpicking, making you feel bad about something you're striving towards or something that you possess. And yeah, you could say they're envious, they're jealous. That may be true. But let's take it deeper than that. Why are they envious and jealous? Because there are certain types of people in this world who, although they may not have as much or certain qualities, whatever it is, as other people may have, they seem to be pretty content. They don't seem to have to go around bothering people, putting them down. So why is that? Why is that the case? And really what it all comes down to is that some people find peace and harmony within themselves. They don't need anything outside of themselves to complete them. I'm not saying that everything is perfect for them. No, they may have bad days, but they don't have to take it out on someone else. That's the difference. And it's not determined by how much or what you have. It's not determined by that. It really comes down to the character of the individual, because that's really what separates us. You will find victims of narcissistic abuse who are very successful. They have a lot of money. They don't go around hating all the time, just as you will find narcissists who appear to have everything on the outside. And yet they're out here doing this. And it makes you wonder why. Why do you have to do that? If you are a successful person, you have qualities, abilities that you have developed, and one might think that you have no reason to do that. But the reality is, it's all determined by how you feel on the inside. That's really what determines it in the end. And that's why haters come in all shapes and sizes. It's not determined by how much money you have or what car you drive. I mean, sometimes that might be true. But then in other situations, it's completely irrelevant. And that's why you'll find, even if you don't have much, you may not be that successful. But yet, these narcissists still find a way to slip it in under the radar. They still have to make you feel small, even if they know you're not really doing nothing. It doesn't matter to them. If they can feel better about themselves in that moment, they will put you down. Regardless of who you are, how successful you are, what you have, it doesn't matter. But of course, that can motivate them as well. If you do have nice things, if you are a successful person, you achieve a lot in your life, of course, they're going to want to hunt you down. Because they want that. We all know narcissists want power, money, status. That's what they want. So of course, if they see 100 people walking down the street, and there you are, you're the man or woman with that nice car, that nice house, you make good money. And they know that they see that. Of course, they're going to forget about everyone else and they're going to come after you. Because they're very jealous, envious people, and they can't stand it. I'm not saying that that's always the deciding factor, but yeah, I'd say probably in most situations that's just how it is. It's determined by superficial things a lot of the time. But then it's also determined by your character, your kindness, your goodness. They can't stand that. Because that just reflects back on them. It shows them what they are. They look at it like, if I'm doing all of this stuff, and I have no conscious about what I'm doing, but then he or she is over there, and they're not putting themselves in that same circumstance, then what does that say about me is how they're thinking. Because it really shows that contrast then. It's like if they think that it's okay to steal, but then you're standing over there like, no, that's something I would never do. Then they're looking at it like, oh, you know, that's the contrast. That's the difference between us. And then that's what really gets under their skin. It's that despite everything they do to you, all the times they hate on you, it's that what if after everything you're not even a bad person? What if you're not even deserving of any of that? I do wonder sometimes if that keeps them awake at night. But yeah, they will hate. Hater's gonna hate. What else are they gonna do? They've got no other purpose or direction in life. So how else are they supposed to spend their time? I mean, if you're a hardworking person, if you've got a life of your own, you wake up in the morning and you've got things to do, you're not going to be out here doing that. But then they expect you to believe that they are these high status people. So very contradictory. Because a person who is really going somewhere doesn't have the time to look around at what everyone else is doing. Think about that. I'm really giving it to you. And I hope you're enjoying it as much as I am. This is the raw truth of what these people do. They put on this front, this facade, and they expect you to believe it even though all of their behaviors are so contradictory to what they put forth before you. Think about that. And that's why they're so determined to put this in front of you. Because really, they just want to see if you're going to do it. If you're going to believe in what they're displaying to you. Because that tells them if they've got you on the hook or not. If they put that in front of you and you believe it, they know they've got you. Because that's really what these haters will do. They will bait you in and they hook you in, making you believe that they're about something. Or making you believe that you have to fix or change something to satisfy them. When regardless what you do, they're going to be hating anyway. It makes no difference because of their dissatisfaction, their envy and jealousy of you. You can't fix someone's envy and jealousy by talking to them, by trying to please them. It's not going to work. They can only resolve that by going within themselves. That's the only way that they're going to be able to do that. But most of them never do. They never come to that conclusion. They never realise that maybe this envy and jealousy is nothing more than a projection of their own self-hatred. Their own feelings of inadequacy. They never come to that conclusion. And that's why the majority of them will hate until the end of time. Until the day they die. Because that's really all they know. They don't know how to operate in a functional manner. And there's really no incentive for them to do that anyway because they're the ones who are always miserable no matter what they have, no matter what they've achieved. So what do they get out of it by acting right? Nothing. So the only other alternative is they might as well tear you down. So at least then they can feel like they're better than you in that moment. Because that's all that really matters to them is that moment. I mean they know deep down they know they're nothing. They know that. But if they can trick you, if they can get you to believe that in that moment, it gives them supply. It makes them feel better for a little while and they're happy with that. That's enough for them. But it's good to know it's good to be aware of the reasons why they do these things. Their whole motivation is to make you feel like there's something wrong with you. There's something you need to fix or change. Or because they don't want to look in the mirror. They don't want to look at all of the things in the past that they overlooked because they didn't want to deal with that. It's so much easier to just point the finger at someone else and say no, you're the reason why I'm miserable. You're the reason why I'm angry. Instead of looking at your own emotional baggage and thinking that maybe you need to clean that up, no, they don't want to look at it like that. But that's the reality of it. Why do they hate? Because they don't want to look at themselves. That's why they hate. And that's why you'll find that a person who has developed a certain level of awareness, a certain level of introspection, the ability to self-reflect and look within yourself for the answers. A person who has developed all of these qualities is never going to hate on you. It's just never going to happen. A person like that would never do that because they have that sense of self-worth and self-esteem within themselves. So they don't have to go walking around tearing people down to get that. And if you already have it, you no longer desire it. So there's no conquest of knocking people down so that you can get what you want. When someone hates on you, that should tell you everything you need to know about that person. It should tell you that they are miserable. It should tell you that they are dissatisfied with life. It should tell you that they have nothing going on in their lives. It should tell you that they think that you're better than they are. And so they're trying to pull you down to their level. It should tell you all of these things. Don't ever let them make you doubt yourself. You're fine. The game is to make you think that you're not okay. That you're not okay. That something is wrong with you. You're crazy. You're emotionally unstable. You have things you need to fix or change. But even if you did, again, another difference, you would be striving towards that change. It's something that the narcissist will never do. If there's a problem, they just ignore it. Or they say that it's you. But yeah, hate is going to hate. Anyway, I am out here at Tintu and Abbey. I'm just going to go over there for a moment now and then do some more traveling over East Wales. It's a very beautiful and peaceful place out here. It's a good place to get away from all of the haters. Life is meant to be lived. Don't ever let anyone tell you. You can't live your life. Don't let anyone stop you. From trying to do that. Anyway, that's all I've got to say for this video. Please like, comment, share the video. And if you haven't yet, click that subscribe button. Thank you all for joining me. Thank you all for supporting our community. And you all have a good day.