 Save 10% with my code Bobby10 on raw, organic, grass-fed and grass-finished, freeze-dried organ meats from grassland nutrition. Link in the description box. All right guys, welcome back to the channel. If you're new, my name is Bobby. Guys, today a more relaxed video, something laid back. We're gonna check out the channel just pearly things with the video. There is a lot to learn from this woman. As you can see on the thumbnail, it claims that this is the woman that every man needs. All right, we're gonna see about that. With no further ado, let's have a look. What about you? What kind of wife were you and what type of wife would you like to be? I was a confused wife, a masculine wife, a wife who so for context, I'm the eldest. Yeah, I want to interrupt right there. I like that she said that she was a masculine wife and this is really the problem nowadays. Growing up in Germany, I saw it all over the place. The women were more masculine and the men were effeminate. They were soy boys, if you will. It was absolutely repulsive to see because those families bred very, very weak children. If you look into the dynamic of a dominant manly mother and a weak father, it creates pathetic children because they see the father as a loser and not somebody that is a role model for them. So therefore they shy away from becoming like the father, but at the same time they are afraid of the mother and that fear ultimately transforms them into the father. They become weak men and then they seek yet again a masculine woman. I want to hear you about your day-to-day because I know that you're going to be struggling with what you're going to say about your husband. That's why I can see you're picking and choosing. So I just wanted to let you flow with what your day-to-day life was like then and what you'd like it to be like because I know that you've done that respect thing. I would like to understand if she's divorced now or not. Just stick around for them, put yourself in it. I'd rather you just say like what did you do? Get up in the morning because you said you were doing everything. So just tell us your day-to-day as as you were. Yeah, so pre-baby I mean I think we had six months of marriage before I got pregnant and then obviously nine months. So you know just over a year of just us and it was okay. Does she just wake up in the morning now before do you wake up in the morning? I mean I've always worked so ever since I turned 16 you get your Ni number. I've always worked and I've studied and then I went into my career so it was always. Yeah that explains why she was masculine of course because women that always work always have their own money and then even pursue a more advanced career through studying those women have become men. Absolutely they are not reliant upon a man therefore they have no need to be feminine and end up masculine. Wake up at 6am, work out, shower, even working out, go to work, come back. Yeah you just described the schedule of a man. Wake up, go to the gym, go to work, go to work, come back and you know the usual single life you put your feet up, you eat and then do it all again tomorrow. When you got married before you had the baby what did you do then? Same because we were working different so he was doing shift work. I see both. Yeah so he was doing shift work and I was the corporate nine to five so there's days where I'm going to work in the morning and he's not there or I'll come home and he's not there. He was cooking, he was cooking still. Yeah I was cooking. But that's what I mean you didn't say anything you just made it sound as I got off and I done my stuff and I went to work and I come home and I was thinking at what time did you wake up and start cooking for your husband because it just sounds like this is separate lives. I would come home from work and on the weekends I would meal prep so you know us Somalis we like to have like our you know our big lambs and chickens and stuff so I'd cook that on the weekend, freeze it in like little pouches so I know Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday it's like what we're having and so then all I've got to do is the rice and the pasta or whatever it is and he would always come home and there's always food. Let's read the best way to go genuinely if you want to meal prep simply meal prep the proteins be it the beef, be it the chicken, be it the fish and then you just have to prepare fresh carbs it's very very easy. When he's finished 11 or whatever I've got his plate everything done, microwave his cup, drink next to it everything just set up for him so when he comes in he'll just eat, shower and come to bed. There were days where we would spend time together so we'd end up coming home at the same time and I'd we would both make it our duty to spend time together then and you know cook together sit down and eat because you know that you we're still in a honeymoon period you know we're still getting where we're happy anyway baby comes not long after covid came so I still kept up with those duties and I essentially was a stay at home mum for a year for maternity leave so what that would look like is whenever he's getting up to go to work I would make sure I have food ready for him so his breakfast is ready at the time you know I've got a three month old six month however old she was at the time but I'd always make sure that he left with his stomach full and would come home and his stomach is full. Nice so far so good. We'd spend time together as a family when he comes home from work and then do it all again tomorrow so and I really enjoyed that part and I actually got to be you know more feminine I wasn't stressed. Yes absolutely when you come what you see in the external world will influence your internal world so if you do masculine things as she said prior wake up go to the gym go to work then you become more masculine but even if you feel more masculine as a woman all you have to do is pursue more feminine things and over time it will recondition you and you will return to your femininity. To give you an extreme example even as a man if you start pursuing feminine things you start painting your fingernails you start putting on makeup of course you're going to become more feminine by default therefore it is the duty of the woman to pursue feminine things cook for your husband clean etc. Going from work you don't want to be was that in the year that you enjoyed now the COVID year did you enjoy because you didn't go out you didn't go out to work during COVID. No no this was pre-COVID so 2019 so I had her in December 2018 so from December 2018 to December 2019 just before COVID year I was a stay-at-home mom and I loved it you know everything was covered it you know it was the ideal life for me you know I would make sure that it is the ideal life for every woman clothes are clean if they want to understand it or not like I'm trying to keep him as the man and like when he comes home from work he's kind of you know if I see that he's stressed out I want to give him some of that some of my feminine energy because I had a lot to give at the time good and try and make his day a little bit better as much as I could um actually how you done that now I'm just asking because sometimes when just want to come I'm just be left to know when they're feeling miserable that's it that's it women tend to go try and like jump so I would gauge that like I'd see like if he wanted cuddles or you know obviously I'll see him sit on the sofa I'd go and sit on the sofa next to him and if he wants a cuddle like he that's what that's what the leading part of the men that we don't really talk about so he'd come over to me and lean over to me and I know that's my cue you know I'd go over to him like if he sits still and he doesn't want me to I know he's had a really bad time at work and me trying to cuddle up on him and all that he's just like men are built differently from us they don't want that so I would just leave him to it you know yes it's correct when you have a very hard job the first thing you want to do generally is come home take a shower take a little bit of me time and then after that you want the attention of the wife my name have his space do do what you gotta do yeah um would you have given that work to stay at home and be a housewife if my bills and everything was paid yeah happily because I really liked it I really did you know it's not a baby I've got it is the perfect life for a woman because it is natural simple as that it is very unnatural for a woman to go out and hunt for the food so to speak it is extremely unnatural for her to put herself at that risk she is there for nurturing she is there to make the home and this modern day environment you're replicating exactly that if you're going out as a woman to work you're exposing yourself to danger of course not as directly depending on the environment as back in the day if you would have hunted but nevertheless instinctively it is the same urge you are going out you are becoming a breadwinner you're going out you are becoming a hunter this extremely unnatural for the woman this is why she loved to stay home to cook and take care of the children first step simple to hear her first if I was at work and like you know in America I think you guys go back to work a lot sooner than that I would have missed all of that and you don't know what's happening with your child like you said you know you want your kid to go to nursery when they can form sentences I wish I had that because and I was really anxious she was she was well uh well COVID here so she was still at home with me but I think she was really two years old when she went to nursery for some kids that's old you know that I know but for me that's early so um would you have gone down and yeah of course it's your baby it's absolutely unnecessary to do that ultimately children should grow up with their family members in an ideal society they would grow up with their parents with their uncles and with their grandparents of course this is the social environment that they truly need moreover your friends your cousins they would have children and this would be the natural kindergarten the natural nursery if you will in this day and age it's absolutely unnatural what people do it's sickening if you really look at it they call it sleep training they already removed the baby from them put the baby in their own room and let it suffer for weeks let it cry it out and it's going to be just fine of course not this is a trauma for the baby naturally the baby clings on to the mother and needs to be with the mother it gives the baby natural protection because yet again in a natural environment do you really believe you would take the baby and let it sleep alone somewhere in the wild of course not what if a big animal appears this baby would be left alone this baby would die therefore it's only natural to sleep with the baby and the same applies of course of taking your baby and giving it away to foreign people to some people that you don't really know god knows what could happen and this is how we create the perfect slaves of course this is what the system wants take your babies remove them from the families put them into an institution then later on they get to school university job etc etc and the old people end up in the nursing home congratulations mission accomplished the family is destroyed i've style in order to attain that so maybe like move to i don't know a house or an apartment half the size yeah yeah yeah because we lived in a really small place and then when i got pregnant we moved to a bigger place so if it meant that i could still stay at home and you know would you've stayed in the smaller place yeah yeah yeah okay no problem at all i mean me talking about earlier you know having maids and all that's the dream that's a dream you know and um that's what my my parents have and the kind of life that i came from but it's not the life that i had with him because i think i was kind of not only battling with age but also thinking you know it you know in muslim girls we get married young and how old were you when you got married 28 29 so that's you know that's hard for a man no because i mean like you've been in the career since you were 16 that's like 12 years of doing what you like and working your own yeah you know what i mean yeah and then to come in wow yeah so that you know there's medals used to there was there was a lot that i had to change and i think that's what see that this point in that see career woman see career woman career woman all right guys and this is already it for today's clip very short and i have to say we got click baited here because i don't understand how this is the woman that every man needs nevertheless the points that she addressed are valid and important of course for this day and age to reflect upon because people truly forgot what it means to be natural human beings they forgot what it means to be a man what it means to be a woman this life is a duality of sorts a life of polar opposites male and female black and white etc etc the point of the story however is those opposites always want to complement each other if a man is truly masculine he wants a truly feminine woman and those two different energies complement each other however if the man becomes more feminine then the female automatically becomes more male and out of a sudden the man is not attracted to the female any longer and the female is not attracted to the male any longer because they change their energies this extremely important to understand you can only have a functioning relationship as long as the man is masculine and the female is feminine wow big surprise i know quite the shocker but nowadays people really have to reflect upon this and understand what it means to be male and what it means to be female i always like to give the example of a little island if it does not work on a little island it won't work in your everyday life either think about it you're left on a lonely island and now the men start behaving like women they put on dresses they put on makeup and they pretend they are women the next step is they have shits with each other and they leave the women alone what will happen with this island in a matter of a generation obviously those people will die out that was an extreme example but think about a lighter one the men simply don't want to hunt what will happen they have no food they will die out let's say the women they muster up their courage and they go hunting now you see an energy shift again the females become more masculine and the males are more feminine now the women go out hunting maybe they will catch something small however in return now they're not attracted to the males anymore because they understand they don't need them they don't need them for protection they don't need them for food and if they don't need them for protection and for food they don't need them for sex either because sex naturally is not only for pleasure if you look into science you will see that the scientists will tell you oh we're the only animal that has sex for pleasure yeah great we eat for pleasure as well and then we become fat that is not the purpose of eating the purpose of eating is to nourish your body the purpose of sex is to create babies but the purpose of the woman is to screen the environment and see which man is strong and will give her a strong offspring yes that is what it is so now if the men are not hunting then the woman won't have babies with them so yet again you understand on this small island example you can understand what is natural and what is not if it doesn't work there it doesn't work in our modern times either and this is why females are not attracted to men because the men are not the breadwinners anymore they don't go out and bring back the meat so to speak even if they go to a job who cares because that job doesn't pay good anymore so therefore the woman has to work and working for the woman will always put her in this unnatural environment where she believes that she is the man once the woman believes that she is the man the man becomes obsolete and yet again the family is destroyed all right guys but this is it for today's video if you liked it leave the thumbs up if you haven't subscribed already guys please do so on that note guys let me know in the comment section as well if you want me to react to more videos like this and guys as always may god bless you all much love and peace