 I didn't learn this until college either. I was always trying to wrestle into the wizard, to keep circle back into it or maybe throw the slag in. I'm doing something crazy. The more you wrestle to his butt, the tighter that's going to get. How would I beat it? I got to unwind it. I got to circle back in front and I need to get my head back to the side, my head above the knee. So I'm in here, he's wizard hard, but he sits on my shoulder, there's a lot of pressure. I don't circle into this. All I'm going to do is I'm going to circle, half circle right back in front, my head goes tight. Now I got to get a hand above the knee, right? There's a batter which hand. Nope. Reach right in front grab. Now I'm wrestling his hip, not his leg. It's that simple, but we're never taught that. We always want to do the hard thing. Swizz your knees, heavy. I don't circle into this. I don't try and limp our mouth. My head goes back tight above the knee. Some people will drop their front knee and switch their back knee to pull it up. For me, it doesn't really matter if I step up with this slag, if my pressure is into it. He won't be able to far pick me if my pressure is in it. Now if my pressure is in my butt and I'm pulling back to come up. Yes, he can pick me over the leg. But if my angle is right and I'm driving into it, my weight, all my weight is on his far knee, he can reach across. Reach across. There's no pick. If that pressure is into it. Got it? Now circle all the way back. Circle just enough to replace my head. Your shimmers are me. Just enough to get my head back. Grab. Once I get here, got it? Set. Go.