 Okay, so this this video is gonna be more geared towards the men Because I know a lot of guys watch this Channel and I don't hate men. I love me. Okay, and I'm not bashing men But I am teaching women how to Navigate men and get what they want if there's nothing against men Because obviously the whole channel is about getting one and getting one that's going to provide and do nice things for you So I don't really hate men at all Never did so I just want you guys to know that like I have nothing against the men You know, they're just like women are at different phases of their lives so are men, you know and I feel like society pushes Marriage and you need to be in a relationship and you need to be doing this this and that So hard that you know, it puts a lot of stress on men. It puts a lot of stress on men and it puts a lot more stress on women because they feel like they got to be married and Doing certain things by a certain age and you know, if you're a man And you're 25 years old just got out of college getting your first job You know, you're not gonna have money to spend on a woman like society pushes you To, you know to do an older man is going to be able to do that because he's in his career He's worked a couple of decades and he has the money You know and all the promotions that you're trying to get. Okay, so I'm not bashing you guys. I'm just saying certain women want established men and There's certain women that will date a man her own age and you know Go 50-50 or you know not expect as much and that is That's you know normal but When when I'm on this channel and I'm talking about guys and women and you know getting money and stuff like that It's not we're not talking about someone who just got out of college We're not talking about targeting that 25 year old who's trying to start his career, you know, we're not talking about that man, you know, so Try not to get offended You know on these videos if you're just starting out, you know, if you're 25 and you're just starting out We're not like we're not target targeting you. We're not Talking about dating, you know guys and your age range. So, you know, it's It's nothing to get offended over. Okay, so don't get upset because Like think about this if you're 25 and you have a decent job, you just got out of college You're making you know this much money a little 18 year old or a 19 year old Maybe a 20 year old would find you very impressive They will see you as the older gentlemen that that can take them to Nicer places than their high school boyfriend or their college boyfriend. Okay, so When you date, it's like there are certain women that you can impress and certain women that you cannot impress and I'm just saying this because I don't want guys to think that I'm so against them And I'm just such a harsh evil person. That's a gold digger because that's not true, you know I have Nephews who are in their early 20s and I don't expect them to be able to buy their girlfriends Louis Vuitton's and take them shopping and on vacation because they can't afford it, you know, they're fairly out of college. So But he is she should be able to do a little something, you know They take on a decent date and don't ask her to pay That's the least you could do, you know that that's the least you could do, right? But I'm just saying I'm not I'm not hating, you know, I love men like whatever. I see a very attractive man I have to turn away because You know, I'm like, whoo okay, so It's not it's not against you guys, but for those okay now I'm gonna get on some of those that I am a little bit against and it's nothing personal This is in general, you know, it's another question. Those men who expect women to want them even though they have not made Anything of themselves, okay, that's sort of like You know, you're you're going on a job interview yet. You have no skills no education, you know and You expect them to hire you over someone who does have Skills Education and perfect for the job, you know, so it's kind of like that. Don't you cannot get mad at a woman who? expects Certain things out of her man. Those are just called standards, you know Not a lot of women have them today But the ones that do are going to keep them and they're not going to bend them for certain people, you know There are many women out there that will date a man who doesn't have himself together There are many women out there that will build with you and help you and you know struggle with you so There are many channels with those women on there begging you to come over there and pick them, okay and comment and Build with them and talk to them. Okay, but instead you guys are on this channel Which is something that you don't even agree with so I'm just asking, you know, why aren't you on the channel of the women who are? Looking for a good man to build with like I'm asking why why are you all on that channel, you know Because if I were a man and I know that you know I wanted someone to build with me and help me and you know do this together and build this kingdom together I will be on a channel where the women were about the same thing, you know I wouldn't be on a channel where the women were looking for a man who was already established successful and ready to Step in and become, you know the man that she wants him to be That's not, you know An option for you at this time I'm not saying forever because you know people change But right now it makes zero sense that you know, you guys are on this channel being upset when There are so many other women who are single, you know ready to give themselves freely and Build with you open up their bank accounts to you open up their homes to you cook a good meal for you There's all these women out there and and they're sitting over there waiting on their YouTube channel mad Because y'all all over here. I Don't know why y'all over here, but y'all over here. I don't know why you don't want the women that actually want you You know, I don't understand why you run away from these women who are freely giving freely giving of everything, you know, I don't know why you're running from them and over here upset mad You know, I don't know why you're not in their inbox Instead of the women who want or have different standards Then you why are you not in those women's inbox who are basically? Willing to give you their all. I don't know why But I would love to someone to answer that question and the comments I'm asking like guys are y'all are on here Why are you not? Because I have a lot of women who ask me, you know, I'm a good woman. I'm a good woman. I cook I'm educated. I have a really good career, but I can't get a man I cannot get a man to save my life, you know, I keep my body in shape, you know I'm clean blah blah blah blah blah blah, but They're always chasing behind, you know, the women that don't want them and don't appreciate them and blah blah blah blah So I want a lot of the women to actually understand why certain men Who would be perfect with them do not Gravitate towards them, you know, I would like the men to comment so I can read those comments And I want to ask y'all why don't y'all gravitate towards those type of women because I can talk and say My opinion all day, but from a man, you know, it's probably gonna be more Believable, you know Okay, I'm looking for men comments Okay, Glenn says a lot of women aren't as good as they think they are So as when you say good, what does that mean? I Don't hate me. I don't hate me at all. It's like I Don't hate me at all. If I hate a man, I wouldn't be married I wouldn't have a whole channel about how to get with a man if if I hated them, you know I'm just saying that's a misconception because I just have standards of the type of men that you know Need to be dealt with at a certain age You know when you're a woman and you want certain things in your life You have to deal with certain types of men, you know Just like if you're a man and you want to accomplish a certain thing in your life You have to deal with a certain type of woman And I don't come on here and bash someone. I just got out of college I don't come on here and bash the one who you know is working their way up and making you know their money and getting their Promotions I'm I'm saying if you want if a woman wants to get married settle down half kids She got to get someone that's already there established and things like that because Some women do not want to struggle not all women and these are the women that I'm talking about the women Who will struggle with you you paid them no mind like they're invisible to you All the women that you do want don't want to struggle like Seriously, they're like I want you know this this isn't that and you get upset because You feel like it shouldn't be that way, but there are so many other options that will you know Be perfect for you, but a lot of men will not go give those women the time of day so what I'm asking guys is Why okay, what's wrong with finding a man that you can build with it's nothing wrong because there's so many women out there that are screaming in the comments in Other videos on Facebook that they will build with you. Okay There are some women that don't want to build with you So why would you gravitate towards the ones that don't want to build with you? That's what I'm that's the question There are so many other women out there that will build with you, you know, but you don't want to build with them You want to build with somebody who doesn't want to build so what's wrong with you guys that you can't Go to the women who actually want to build with you. That's my question. Okay, Glenn says I'm 26 I've run into plenty of women that already have children and baby fathers drama and get upset at me because I'd rather not deal See, it's the same thing it's just the same exact thing There are some men who will not deal with women with a bunch of kids and there are some women that will not deal with guys until they're fully established, you know It's the same thing. It's just what you prefer How do you see your life going if you have a life plan and it does not include children and other people's kids Then you're not going to entertain that woman just like if you have a plan and it doesn't entertain building with a man or Struggling with a man then you're gonna avoid those men that Require that, you know, so it's not anything against the man himself. It is his situation It is against it's not even against the situation. It's just that the situation that he's in You don't want to be in so you cannot Be with him. You know what I'm saying and Again, there are women who will be with you in your situation, but For some reason They're invisible to you guys. I don't know why but they are But they're everywhere. They're everywhere. They're up. They are those women who are in the comments Taking up for men when a woman is bashing them. There are they are those women in the comments that Are Telling you I'm a good woman and I would do ABC and D, you know, but all those comments either just get likes And things like that, but you don't take them seriously But why wouldn't you take someone seriously that says hey, I want to be with you, you know, I have a good job a good career We can build up together. Why don't you want to build with me? You know, why are you over here cheating with? Sharkisha, you know, why why are you over there cheating when you want me not me But, you know, when you want that person to build with you, but you're not, you know, why but why so We like we already know as women why women don't want to deal with a certain a Certain age of men or a man in a certain Spot in their life. That's not at the level that you know, they want to be at But there are women that will deal with you, you know Not even deal. They will worship you. There are women that will worship you even with there are women that will worship you If you don't have a job There are women that will worship you if you got five kids by five different women There are women that will worship you just because you are a man Okay, but y'all pay attention to those women and I that's what I'm asking like I don't hate men I'm just saying, you know There are certain men and there are certain standards and that's what my channel is about You know, it's not about hating man or bashing man. It's about Getting the type of man that you want You know, if I had a different channel, you know, how to get a man When money is not the issue, you know, I would have some trouble on that channel How to get and keep a man when money is not an issue I would have so much trouble on that channel because they're So many women out there who are willing to work with you, but y'all bypass them daily Some okay, so y'all want to do who is balling already over look the nerds and good guys Then get mad when they get white girl because y'all want pokey or trace You know, that's not true because Someone's already balling. Okay for me, I call that financially stable It's not called balling and the real world is called financially stable financially responsible Okay, and the hood is called balling So I want a financially stable man. Yes Why? Because I want a financially stable life So I'm not passing up the good guys I'm not passing up the nerds because it takes a nerd to make money. Okay. If it's a nerd, he's gonna have some money So what I'm saying is we're we're bypassing those type of men because they are not financially stable Okay, it's not called balling. It's in the real world is called financially responsible and financially stable Okay, it's not something it's not an it's not something that is like You know fake boobs it's not like fake boobs. It's not like a fake, but it's something that is necessary to survive In this world, you know what I'm saying so, uh It's not like we're bypassing guys because they don't look a certain way or they don't have a certain thing It's just because they're not Financially stable or responsible enough to have a girl a wife or whatever. You know what I'm saying Okay, glenn says I can't buy with a female that wants to be a housewife How can she relate to me if she isn't going if she Isn't a go-getter herself Because if you want to relate to a female who works just as hard as you just as hard as a man Then you Like masculine females because she's just going to become your competition. You know what I'm saying? She's not she's going to be relate She's going to be able to relate to you and surpass you and become Head of the household because women get promoted a lot faster than men in this world a lot faster and a lot of you know because Especially if she has a different type of career where she can excel quick And then she's going to be the top moneymaker. You know what I'm saying? It's going to become a competition and she's not going to see you As a man because she's more masculine than you in that area So this is why a lot of women don't want To get with a man on her same level or that works the same Amount and makes the same type of money because she can't respect him. She can't look up to him, you know um, and it's almost like She wants to you know, there was a study and a survey done that says women tend to do Less careers in science and math because they don't want to seem So smart that they can't secure a husband So they go more like in social sciences and stuff like that business And they will not They there's a lot that do But the number is low because women don't want to Intimidate men by being a scientist a mathematician You know all this kind of stuff because it's intimidating and men don't like women smarter than they are You know, they say they do because they did a study on this They they they put a woman in a room who was really intelligent and could you know interact and discuss You know broad topics and he found her very attractive But then when they put him in the same room with her and they had to go back and forth and Conversing he lost interest quick Because she was smarter than him and he could not keep up with her and it was It wasn't a challenge that he wanted It was a competition at that point And so he felt like he was in a room with a man or another man probably, you know So men say that they want that but when it comes down to it, they don't want it, you know because It seems like it sounded good But as soon as your woman starts making more money, then you're just gonna start telling you what to do You're gonna have to ask her for permission to do stuff. You know, I pay all you you know It's not gonna be pretty and women know this already men find out women notice men will find out Because they don't think as far ahead as women do but I can't respect the man who I have to hand my check to That's crazy. I think I can't respect it because I feel like You know, uh It's a child. So I'm just being honest. I don't hate men. I just can't deal with a man who makes less money Because I can't respect him. You know what I mean? Okay Sorry glenn No disrespect. I'm just saying, you know, that's why I can't Okay, he says his girlfriend is a chef and has her own catering business. She is a go-getter and Her own feel so it doesn't really feel like competition to me. Well, that's great But what if she starts making more money than you? Oh, that won't be great, you know, I was I'm a trained chef too. Do you see me out here cooking? Um The thing is, you know, that's great. I did all that too But my husband will always make more money than me Because Well, I hope well, maybe I don't know I might I might surpass him You never know, but I'm not trying to you know, and I don't even really work Whatever I do is on at home on on the internet, you know, but I know for a hundred percent sure I'm a hundred percent sure if I made more money than my husband I would probably leave him Or cuss him out every day or you know find something wrong with him every day Why because I feel like You know I don't need him. I feel like I don't need him. I wouldn't need him for anything. Yeah I really wouldn't need him if I made more money than him. You know what I'm saying There's no need for him I'm just saying like I'm honestly just being honest so Hmm My boyfriend makes seven figures and he don't want me to work. Of course not um You know, I I'm just being honest, but I don't hate me at all I just could not be with one that didn't Provide for me. That's all I'm saying I would rather be single And you know make my own money Then be with a man who only gives me half of what I need. You know what I'm saying Uh because I can't Fully feel like I need that person, you know So a lot of women feel like this a lot of women feel like this a lot of women are former Women who did help men build did you know work a job and help their man get to the certain, you know help their man Pay bills and stuff like that only to get left behind for some other chick And that he now takes care of us, you know and don't and then she don't have to work So a lot of women have been betrayed by men who say they want a go-getter And a this this isn't that you know and there's nothing wrong with wanting that, you know, but these women who Want to build with you have been betrayed so many times that now there's now they're starting to switch to the other side like I'm only interested in someone who can provide now because I've given my all and didn't pay off so That's what's happening. That's what's happening. That's why there's so many women out here now that are only about You know their paper or what you can do for them because they don't trust men to be faithful, honest and You know love them anymore Because a lot of the times the men who you know The woman is building with It's not trustworthy and she's giving her all she's sacrificing her femininity for you. She's sacrificing her right as a woman To be provided for fully by a man Just to be with you. You should be complimented. You should feel like a king You know, but a lot of times these women get cheated on messed over left behind scammed used and then You wonder why a lot of women start saying, you know what? I'm just gonna get with men with money now because that way I'll get something out of it, you know And that's what the world is coming to. That's what the world is coming to men have done these Women so wrong who were trying to build with them But they ain't building nothing no more. They're like they threw the bricks down and say you finish I'll see you when you done or I'll find somebody who's done building already I'm gonna bypass this step, you know so Men if you want more women to be less materialistic and build with you more women to build with you You got to stop leaving them For other women who didn't build with you Okay, that's all, you know, if there's nothing against you you got to stop breaking up with them And leaving them behind for women who didn't do anything That's what you got to do y'all got to stop doing that because Every time you do that to a woman She she she if she's smart If she's smart, you know, some women don't learn but every time you do that to a woman if she's smart The next person The next man she deals with she's gonna deal with only if they have money, you know and So the men are actually creating These Materialistic women who are only about their money because no woman starts out only about her money all women start off They want that love They want that faithful man. They want that man to honor them and Want to marry them and propose to them and then when that don't happen They turn it into this They turn into a woman who only about her money like look i'm done with love Okay, y'all keep that. I already had it didn't work out. I'm going for this money because I know money is Going to provide me with the lifestyle the time the The things that I like and blah blah blah blah, you know, I've already sacrificed my entire self for loves and it didn't work out So guess what? You know, so that's the way these women are, you know So you can't be mad at them because they're only doing this out of pain that other men have caused them You can't be mad at them. They most of the women that are doing this. It's not for fun. It's not for sport. It's out of pain It's out of hurt. It's out of misery. It's out of abandonment And it's a it's a way for the woman to feel safe dating a man and it also frees up a lot of her time So that she can't be a woman and she don't have to work like a man, you know, so that's what that's what I just want to explain to y'all It's not about going 50 50. It's not about building. It's about if a woman Wants a man who's financially stable and already, you know, there That's her feminine Right as a woman. Okay. She does not have to sacrifice for you You know She sacrifices that when she gets married has has your children Raises them and all that kind of stuff. She don't have to sacrifice Anything else but that, you know so When a woman chooses to sacrifice that Sleep with you before you're married Pay half the bills in the house that you claim to be head of she's sacrificing her femininity And once you betray her It's over If she's smart, she's not going to invest in men again the same way She might try to get in just saying, okay. Well, maybe this one will be different after the third time You know, she's probably gonna give up me like forget it. I'm just gonna go get me somebody and Live this good life. Okay so and women have the options to do that They have the options they can do it and men just don't understand why women are like this it's because they're Very emotional and when you treat them bad or when certain men I'm not going to say y'all but when certain men treat them back And the these women have given so much to these men It's like a form of betrayal and abandonment, you know, that causes a mental Mental issues, okay And a lot of these women aren't getting therapy They're not healing And so they feel like they have to protect themselves and when they protect themselves, it's usually with the wall They take out every single string of emotion And they only focus on one thing So when men are mad at women like gold diggers Or women who will only date men who are financially stable or you know abundant Don't get mad at them. They are just mentally ill And they are protecting themselves from being hurt again by trusting someone And sacrificing their femininity. Okay, so don't get mad It's just a form of protection You know, um, that's why you see a lot of crazy women out here going crazy, you know, breaking people's windshield and stalking them and you know, uh Doing all this crazy stuff because they were in love You know, and after all that wore off You know, yeah, it drove them crazy But once they took all that emotion and threw it in the garbage And now they're only focused on their paper You can't get to them anymore and they won't let you And they are the most wanted type of woman Because they're such a challenge and they're not Going to give in ever So it's an ongoing challenge forever. That's why all these guys always chase these type of women And the good women who want to build with you are, you know, are steadily ignored Dogged out cheated on and all that kind of stuff. So in this world in this day and age the way that men treat women It has turned them mentally ill And they no longer value the love between a man and a woman anymore They value the lifestyle that a provider of mail Can bring them That's what happened. Okay, that's the story and i'm sticking to it And it's sad because Now it's almost a a punishment for the man. It's almost like A revenge that wasn't even planned. It's it's just, you know, the effect to the cause Of the whole situation. It's kind of like You know Now that All these things have happened women no longer have these emotions, you know, some of them still do But eventually they won't You know, they're going to grow out of it. They're going to like they're going to learn after the third or fourth time And then they're just going to be cold And if they're smart they're going to get paid So, you know, it just depends. It's it's a form of protection against being hurt Over and over and over because Let's face it women are very emotional and they want love and this is companionship family husband Man wants sex sex sex sex, okay And these women they don't understand that they think When you say you love them it means Oh, I want to have a family with you. I want to be with you forever. I want to have kids with you I want to be your husband. I want to you know Sit with you and watch movies and lifetime and all they think that's They think that well, that's what love is when you think it's just sleeping with you Come at home every night and listen pretending to listen to her while she talks about her day and you know Pay half the bills. That's what you think love is but she thinks it's something totally different A lot of men don't know how to love and that's why women are hurt so much because a lot of men don't know how to love Y'all don't know how to love because y'all weren't properly loved And so it's hard And so if you keep Doing women wrong leaving them after they didn't help you, you know, whatever They're gonna turn into something that you don't want to see later on So it's just Women have become numb like someone says that they don't care They have no mercy on you They a lot of them find pleasure in watching you suffer Okay A lot of them will laugh at we like when they go to jail. Haha. He didn't pay his child for poor You know, uh-huh. He's in jail. You know, they will laugh at all your failures and setbacks because Men have done them so wrong And I you know, I'm fine I I skipped all of that, you know, it only took me one time to learn and I was done. I was like I'm done. That's it. You want to take me one time So those women who keep trying because they don't want to give up They don't want to give up. They keep getting hurt over and over and they still won't give up They still won't give up. They end those comments defending y'all men when other women are tearing you down But you don't see them And you never will see them and one day they're gonna be The ones that are tearing you down and you don't even realize that Because you're so busy You know trying to Upgrade see what out see what else is out there And you never learn how to love a woman like she wants to be loved So men we don't hate you. We just you just drove drove us crazy That's all you drove us to a point where we became numb and only want you for a lifestyle and Not all women are like that But the more you do this to women the more women that will become like this and they'll start teaching the other women before They even get hurt And so y'all won't even have a chance with the future Y'all won't even have a chance. They're gonna come out. They're gonna come out with their hands up like this Okay, they're not even gonna want to experience love They're gonna be like, uh-uh Now you guys to pay me. I don't know what love is You know So You're gonna have y'all men is where it starts men. I supposed to be the leaders y'all are supposed to Be the head of household. We all supposed to be the leaders and y'all are supposed to do all this kind of stuff But instead all you think about is sex And I need to have this bill money And I need to go get her so I don't have to pay the whole rent You know, it's deeper than that you want your son looking for a woman because He need to go get her because he can't go and get it all himself You know, I would I would be embarrassed if I was a man and My son had to watch me go like this to his mama I would be embarrassed. I I wouldn't even let my son in the room while I was getting that rent You know, I'm like go stand outside fun, you know, and a lot of men see nothing wrong with this Because they watch their mother do it or pay for everything. So they think has a good, you know, that's not good That's not how it's supposed to be, you know a go getter It's not something to be proud of, you know, that's something to be proud of if you are a man But if I got to go get something just like a grown man, then I don't need a grown man, you know So that's what I'm saying It's just how women are going to become And your future generations are going to have to deal with that. So either they're going to have to come up Because women will demand change You know, and it's not it's not Something that can be reversed unless the man changes See So anyway, you know, I just wanted to come on real quick and let you know, I don't hate men It's just Most women have to get in a position where They feel valued and they feel Respected, you know, and they feel Desired and well cared for okay They don't want a lot of most women don't want to struggle the only reason that they say they will struggle with you It's just so they can have you Have a man, you know um It's called sacrifice Okay, most men are not sacrificing anything for a woman They're not sacrificing nothing for a woman, but women are sacrificing a lot for men you know, so Some women just got tired of it and say I ain't doing it no more, you know, I know I look good I know I got this thing between my legs and I can get a man to do whatever I need them to do Without having to go work somewhere, you know A lot of women have come in to realize that they have a power That they never used to exert because they were in love Until they realized The man was not in love with them So the power that women have they don't exert it right away Mm-hmm. They want to do it the right way. They want to love you give you the benefit of a doubt But when they realize their power It's too late. It's over. It's done. You know when a woman realizes her power. She's going to use it Forget what she needs and wants She she sacrifices her power Her femininity just to be with a man Who sacrifices nothing and those days are coming to an end You know, so my advice to men is Do not try to get a woman if you cannot Afford Afford her or if you're not going to be faithful to her because there's some women who don't care how much money you make As long as you faithful This is number one to some women as long as you're faithful to me You can be a bum on the street. You don't even have to work. You can lay on my couch But yeah, he still finds a way to cheat So if this woman or the woman that you're with is sacrificing so much for you and you are out cheating on her You know That that that alone will drive someone crazy So, you know, she has sacrificed so much and then you are cheating. You know And you wonder why women are crazy Women aren't crazy. They're Reacting to men They don't start off crazy That's for sure So that's why I don't I don't tell women Oh, you know Just wait and be patient the right one will come Because most men are not going to be honest or faithful or give the women the type of attention that they want You know most So I tell the woman look straight up. Look Do you want to live a life of always wondering struggling and Barely making it I'm working just as hard as a man or do you want a life of leisure? comfort And a man giving you whatever you need and want Which one you want, you know the other ones this one sounds good the life where you don't have to do nothing you know but The bad the the bad part is He's not going to be like your baby daddy, you know, you ain't he's not going to be the cutest thing And you ain't going to think he's your soulmate or twin flame or whatever y'all call it him these days your whatever But he will give you everything you want Provide for you and your kids and the house and da da da da da And y'all get to go on vacation and when when he dies You don't get left with some nice money. Which one do you want? You want to take a risk on this dude? So you have to sacrifice for who might just cheat on you And you leave with nothing but another child to put on child support for him for his job that he don't have Or do you want to live good? Okay? Women are going to choose this option every time. I want to be good, you know So stop making us have to choose. That's what I'm saying You know stop making us have to choose because we're gonna we're gonna come up You know, we we got the tools and we got all the stuff that it takes to get where we what we need On without doing anything, you know, we have all that already included You know, so we can get what we want There's women who are beautiful out there struggling. We're a cheating man Every day you see them. They had the bus stop cute sitting there Waiting on the bus with their man, you know, and they baby and they stroll her you see that every day And you're like dang that girl looks better to me, but uh She hadn't gotten there yet She will You know So what I'm saying is meant you have to stop You guys stop doing these women wrong who are trying to work with y'all, you know Uh, it's too late for me. I'm old but for the other women They still have faith in you guys. They still have faith, but there's good men out there So y'all prove them right Y'all prove them right and they'll be less gold diggers and less scamming women and less ratchet crazy Women who are just after your pocket. There'll be less of those in the future Mm-hmm Yeah, rest in peace Hugh Hefner, you know, you took care a lot of women a lot so Yeah, man, we we don't hate you. We rooting for you. We want you to do well We want you to be honest. We want you to be good. We want you to be all of these things But you know after so many times being disappointed. We just say whatever we're gonna we're gonna figure out a better way, you know so You know, it ends and it starts with you You know, we're just reacting Right And it doesn't matter what you think that's just the truth that's why That's why women will bypass you Because you're not worth the sacrifice anymore Um Just like I see a very sexy man or a very attractive man walk by me smelling good looking good I can't even get turned on anymore because I already know like You know, he looks nice, but he ain't about nothing You know, he he's not going to be a good he wouldn't be a good man He got cheater written all over You know, uh, I'm gonna sacrifice and pay half the bills just to be seen out in public with some dude looking like this And no one he's gonna go cheat as soon as I go to work go out of town or do something like that No, I'm not sacrificing that anymore. I really go get me some ugly old man Who's gonna be there every night paying all the bills being a father to his kids leaving me a bunch of money in the wheel 401k and stuff like that and who loves me more I would rather that than deal with someone who Is going to mess up obviously so Yes, I would and I'm not talking about I'm not saying that my husband is old enough. I'm you know, I'm just saying that When I met him when I met my husband, he was what 47 years old And you know at 47 a black man they look young. They still look good. You know what I'm saying Um, my husband was a dork nerd tech geek. Okay That's what he is And he wore glasses He talks proper English. Okay And I was used to dating pretty boy Life in baby hairs, you know and stuff stuff like that and I dated dark skin guys too You know, I had some beards. I had all of that. But guess what? This one treats me the best and gives me whatever I want. Okay, so that's what I'm gonna go for I'm not gonna go try to make it work. I'm not gonna struggle with him I'm not gonna You know do this is and I'm not gonna pray about nothing I'm not gonna hope and wish he uh change in the future. I ain't gonna do all of that I'm not sacrificing myself anymore. You know, I'm gonna go With someone who is sacrificing for me now And it's not even a sacrifice because he's financially stable and responsible. So it's nothing, you know He's gonna live in a nice house. Anyway, I'm there. Okay He can already afford to live the lifestyle that I want. So I guess what I'm there and you know I wouldn't change it. I wouldn't change it at all because to me He's a good example of what a man should be to his family You know, I would rather I would rather see A family with maybe an older man who takes care of the woman Provides her every need takes care of the children provides their every need Then a woman who's in love with her baby daddy who's with another woman and got three kids by other people I would rather see my situation Than that situation. Okay Because mine has a future and my situation Promotes a good living environment good schools, you know And things like that Savings accounts 401k trust funds all that my kids are set, you know So we're not looking for a daddy. We're not chasing a daddy child supporting an after-day daddy You know what I'm saying? So I would rather be in this situation protecting myself and my children from a life of You know confusion So men stop making confusion in the world Stop creating children you can't take care of, you know If you can't take care of a kid like michael jackson's life If you can't have a baby then don't have a baby and don't think maybe if you can't feed your baby Okay, that's all I want to say And I don't hate me because I have a man Eyes a man's eyes tattooed on me michael jackson, okay I'm married Okay, so how do I I don't hate men. I just Avoid men that expect women to sacrifice for them And many women are starting to do the same thing, but there are so many other women who are not So do I'm right If if the guys start reading these comments, they're gonna be upset at what these women are saying, but Like I said, there are some women who will say come on over here, baby. I'm a cook for you I'm gonna rub your feet when you get home You know, I don't wear wigs. I don't wear makeup. I'm all natural They're gonna be everything you want them to be that's they're gonna be and You know, they will sacrifice for you And hopefully you will treat them right And they won't be coming to my channel in my inbox Tara So how do I come off? It's not being a user when asking a man to give give something to me. Um You're a woman Physically by nature you are a receiver Okay, you are a receiver The man is a giver. So you should feel Crazy at all. Look, I'm gonna show you this is the woman and this is a man. Okay You see Watch this Okay Now if you have one of these Then you're a masculine person and if you are giving to a man This is the man Okay, this is the woman This is the man Okay This is the man If the man wants something from a woman he has to bend over to expose himself To receive. Okay. So this is how I see men who ask women for things. Okay If you want something from me, you have to Give me your receiving end so that I can give you something I don't know. I this is all I have That I can give you something with my hands Unless you want me to grab something but When a man has his hand out to me to receive I'm going to go back to nature close my eyes and say, okay, this man wants to be a receiver Okay Bend over That's what I'm gonna tell him bend over. I'll give you something you want something bend over, but That's just how it is. That's nature If I was supposed to give I would have An external organ Okay So that's what you tell him when you don't feel bad you ask like hey, baby Can I have this I need some new shoes, you know And He's supposed to be like this. Here you go, baby Here you go He's not supposed to say go get him yourself, you know, he's not supposed to say that Because you bump, you know, you won't need him if you if you are self-sufficient You don't need a plug, you know You wireless if you bluetooth Don't need a man Okay Don't make a woman bluetooth Bluetooth women don't need men They can pick up any signal And get anything they need, okay I'm you know A bluetooth woman is the equivalent to a woman that can hone in on any man and get anything from them Because they're picking up every signal They know how to get it So yeah, don't don't forget who the givers are Okay, if you don't want to give then don't try to give us no penis If you don't want to give us nothing else, okay, we don't want it If you can't give us at all, we don't want we don't want this if you can't give us the rest So That's where some women are now. There's other women who will work hard for you go slave for you, you know Come home after working 12 hours for you rub your feet after she didn't work 12 hours for you You know Cook after she been at work all day while you been at home for you There's women out there that will do this You know, I just got to go and find them they everywhere you can find them in the comments on male bashing threads or male bashing videos or male bashing Facebook Post they they all in the comments and those are those women that will stand up for you and cuss the other women out And call them gold diggers and the same thing that y'all call us Hose gold diggers And self-entitled, you know, those women that will say that about us Those are the women y'all need to be with because they they're on the same level. They think like you They have the same opinions as you they work like you So I don't see why y'all never go and get one of them And you know, there are some very attractive men who aren't rich You know, there are some very intelligent men that don't have enough money for me, you know There are some men that I am very attracted to that I see a lot on youtube on facebook, but you know, I can't even look at their picture because i'm gonna get mad Like why can't you just have some money? I would just be mad which I would be torturing myself. So I don't even look You know what I'm saying? I'm like, dang you're cute But I know I got more money in my savings than he probably making it here So I can't do it, you know, so It's just it makes me up. It makes me sad because If they just had their stuff together, they probably wouldn't even want me, you know what I'm saying? And this is the truth if a uh an attractive man Had money Was good-looking and sick that he wouldn't want me, you know, and I know this Um He would probably want some supermodel that was perfect and beautiful Because he can afford one, you know what I'm saying? And I don't blame him, you know, he worked hard to get to that status looking like he looked You know what I'm saying? So I'm not going down him. Okay. You're you're sexy. You're rich I expect you to be with a supermodel. Okay. I don't expect you to be with me. I'm not delusional Okay, so that's what I'm saying. Some of these guys are expect women to be with them when they don't have a job When you know when this this and that that's called delusional You know, it's not delusional for me to to know that an older man will pay for everything And worship the ground I walk on because I'm young Okay, um, I'm that's not delusional that happens every day. So I'm just saying I'm I'm realistic You know, I see very attractive men that I feel like, you know, if they had money There would be no chance And I know this You know, when I was younger, I didn't think like that because I was good. I was good looking I look good when I was young. I could get anything cute rich Rich and cute, you know, but You know today at my age, I know that a good looking man Who's my age or close to my age Who was super rich? They would they would go get some young, you know, so I'm not hung up all that I admire that When that whenever I see an attractive young man who is making a lot of money. I am proud of them I'm proud of them because I know that they're gonna go and do good by somebody Make somebody happy, you know, I'm proud of them. I'm very proud of them, you know um, because when I was younger And I was dating them they treated me very well And they were nice arm candy And it was, you know, it was wonderful. It was like having your cake and eating it too, you know So I'm proud of them because not many men are going to be able to do that it's like Um, you know when obama became president like so many women were like, oh my god He's powerful rich and good-looking That's very rare because look at what we got now You know, yeah when I was When I was young I dated slightly older men But like they were still either in their 20s or early 30s and I wasn't my 20 um, and it was It was fun You know, um, they were good-looking And some of them even had a lot a lot of money But I'm gonna tell y'all dating an older man. I had never been so spoiled in my life You know like I've never been so spoiled in my entire life. Like, you know, because they want to impress you Um, because they have to make it no choice Right I don't know. There's gonna be trolls in here. I expect that It doesn't bother me. But um What I'm saying men is do right by the women who will work with you That's all I'm saying and we don't hate you. We just done with you like because You know, we're mentally ill because we've been done so wrong by people in the past It's nothing against you. You know, we got the problem. You know, it's not you Because if you haven't personally done anything to us, it's not you But if you have done anything to a woman, if you have done something very bad to a woman If you promised her something left her with kids, you know, if you've done all that stuff then you are a part of You know, this whole problem Because women don't start off using men They don't start off like that. They don't come out. They're not in junior high and high school plotting on your lunch money You know, they're drawing circles and hearts around y'all's names talking putting your last name at the end of theirs Men don't do that You know little girls be writing on their little notebooks. They crush with the their crush's last name like they're gonna get married They're thinking about love marriage happiness. Okay And when they get around 16 17 and got little boy, they're trying to get in their pants you know Lying and saying that they love them They believe it, you know, and then the next week the same little boy is Trying to get into another little girl's pants. That's her first heartbreak. Okay One mark one mark of insanity So after this happens a few times she's going she's starting to get crazy paranoid jealous Angry, you know And then by the time, you know, she Reaches adulthood, you know 18 1920 And she's got a banging body and she sees what she can do She's like, you know what? I know these men are lying when they said they love me I know this this is not, you know But I'm gonna try one more time because that was high school, right? It has to be different now Then they try again same stuff happened Except this time now she's investing in the man. He's buying him stuff gifts because now she has a job She's buying him Jordans and taking him out to eat and doing all this stuff and then She runs into a friend that says, oh, I saw your man the other day with some ratchet chick Now she's heartbroken for the first time as an adult and that one's a big A big mark Okay, so with each heartbreak of a woman she becomes More cold more evil more like a villain And very uh Protective of herself, you know, so Each one it just depends on their level Of intellect what they do with those lessons after each heartbreak Um, some of them don't know what to do and that's why they own this channel, you know, uh, but And the only direction I'm gonna point them in is go for what you can get because If you do leave the relationship And something bad does happen At least you have something in your hand some money some gifts some purses Apartment a house, you know something you're not leaving empty handed and feeling stupid That's for sure and chances are he's he's gonna have spent more money on you And it's not even gonna bother you as much If he leaves because now you understand That you can replace them and do the same thing to someone else, you know My mic i'm on a phone y'all y'all want to buy me the new uh iPhone 8 I have dropped this phone so many times It's not cracked, but I think the audio is messed up But i'm probably gonna get the iphone 8 and upgrade and probably have a better mic Yeah, i was listening to this song i'm gonna talk louder so But i'm about to go in a few minutes, but i was listening to this song called Six Feet Under by the Weeknd That is my song It's about he's singing about a woman who don't have no feelings who don't have no emotions. She's just about her money She's using men for money left and right. She don't care He said Louis Vuitton is her husband, you know like Thick futures in it too, but y'all that song is so hilarious and he knows Uh, so y'all go listen to that song y'all hear it It's called Six Feet Under by the Weeknd So men I love men. I love looking at them. I love the way they smell I love the potential that they have. I love watching them excel and do good and do all this kind of stuff All that I love it And I just wish that y'all would treat the women better that y'all are dealing with, you know, that's all And i'm i'm basically here for those women Who have been done wrong That's what i'm here for and to help guide them And save their sanity because y'all don't know I have some women coming to me crazy not even Just off but crazy crazy in need of me it's Because they've been so hurt It equals out to a level of a traumatic experience or PTSD Y'all y'all know that but it does women are so emotional and when their heart is broken It's almost like someone has died You know, it's a it's a form of post traumatic stress syndrome and a lot of women suffer from this and they don't even realize it it's because of a man and you know A lot of women don't realize That and they keep Trying to look for a man again and then they come out even worse the next relationship, you know, so i'm i I help them i help them Uh rationalize things i help them get to that next level I help them to realize the lessons that they need to learn and how to move on and move up and forward and to leave emotions Out of it because if you keep exposing your emotions and getting hurt It's a form of slow death and suicide. So i instruct them look leave your feelings over here Focus on a goal. Okay, you already know this man is not Trying to get married to you. Okay, get what you can get and when he You know If only if he shows you interest and respect and wants to take this further and this this this and that thing Yeah, you know give him a little give him a little bit of you know Benefit of the doubt, but never ever give your all Or your emotions to a man after you've been Hurt to the point where you're mentally ill. Okay Because that's just setting yourself up again I have seen women who are literally Have panic attacks Anxiety, you know because of men Because they give too much women are natural Givers of emotion, you know They want a man so bad to love them because men don't just freely go around loving people They want to be loved so bad that they Sacrifice all these things and end up with nothing But extra baggage And they are mentally suffering Okay So the only way to kind of combat that is to replace it with something else You know Instead of love being their goal instead of love being you know sought after They change it to the next best thing Money and that's what it's all about So, you know, it ain't us it's y'all But we still love you And your money And your money Anyway, I'm reading these comments. I'm reading these. Oh my gosh. Okay, so Thank you And all most of the women are agreeing in the comments because it's true like this ain't my story. This is all their story This is every story I hear my man did me wrong. He cheated. He betrayed me. He stole my money He bought some other girls. So I bought him. I put a payment on his car a down payment on his car He left, you know, I'm like, well, you know, I don't You know, that's a lot of sacrifice You know, you didn't get nothing. What do you what do you have nothing? Okay We'll fix that So and a lot of these women shoot They're not just satisfied with you leaving them. They they come, you know They want they want you to suffer Okay, and it also gives them relief when they can watch you suffer So be careful when you when you make a woman mad your looks gonna change too Don't let them Make one so mad that your look changes for the worse Okay, because they are out there and they will get revenge on you Because it makes them feel better And I can't blame them, you know, I'll shoot I don't invest emotionally in that much into a man You know, uh, but Some do It's easy these days, but just, you know, um And it's okay, you know Some women are not there yet because I get a lot of women who are still trying to make stuff work with the The men they're struggling with And I say look stay with him until You're ready to leave because if you leave and keep going back and forth, he's never going to take you seriously Stay until you're ready to go for real You know if he's If he's not doing right by you To stop expecting him to and then that way you won't be disappointed when he does wrong And until you're ready to leave upgrade move level up find someone better Then Stop complaining You know If you're one of those women who are who kick their man out every week and then beg for him to come back And don't change And they don't change, you know Because you keep trying to love them and they keep rejecting it, you know They don't love you like you love them. That's the whole point And they will never love you like you love them until you get up and leave and go do better Then they'll realize what they missed And they'll be like, oh my god, she really loved me. She used to do all these things for me you know and now She's gone with another man Who's giving her everything, you know, so Remember that men don't realize what they have until somebody else got it. It's like a little kid They won't play with a toy and then as soon as another little kid gets a toy the same toy They want to play with it and take it from them. That's how many You're the toy The man is not playing with you But as soon as another little another man pick you up and starts playing with you. Oh now he wants a toy That's why I always tell women if you want your man back go get another one As soon as they see you or know or find out you that You got a new man. Oh, they're trying to get you back Oh, they're changing for the better. Oh, I'm getting a new job Oh I'm a go. I'm gonna go with you on picnics now, you know, so They always learn when it's too late. So let it if you really want your man back Just go get another one And then don't really take that one seriously and be like And before you take the old man back the dude that you just left Make him do stuff like look if you don't get back on me. I need to do a bc and b I wait once you complete that we'll get back together, you know And they'll go do it because they can't stand the fact that you're with another man and happier You know, they feel like they lost And then if that man is better than him, oh He's gone now. He has competition. You know, so you got to do that You got to leave if you want him back You got to leave and go get a better one. Even if it's a fake or pretend one. Look I'm gonna pretend that we're together. So my man can come back to me Uh Okay, because you got a nice car Get your coworker or somebody Fill him in on it. You know, I'm like, look, you got a nice car You dress good. You got a nice house. You got to pretend you're my man. So my other man The one that I really want Can start acting right, you know, you know, he's losing and the man play along. He'll go, okay Yeah, I can do that Okay, sure. We'll play along Can you take pictures with me on facebook? Sure I know that's what I'd be doing because You know, it works When I was first dating my husband Uh, one time he stood me up I made sure his friend see me leave with some guy In a Range Rover And as soon as he heard about that, yeah, never ever was late again never stood me up again You gotta teach them how to treat you So All right, y'all I'm getting ready to go and I'll see y'all I'll see y'all later. Bye