 Welcome to another Narc Survival Live video. I'm out here at the Ket in Thailand, got the new BMW just out here by the beach, the waves are pretty wild, so let's talk about it. How does the narcissist feel when you're not around? When you leave the narcissist, or if the narcissist leaves you, they want you to think that they're so much happier without you, and so they're living a better and happier life now that you're gone. They want you to think that you were the problem. Of course, whether you leave them or they leave you, it's just an orchestration. It's not real. It's an act. They want you to think that they've just moved on and suddenly overnight they've developed this happier and healthier life without you, now that you're gone. Yeah, they'd love if you would think that, because then even if they've moved on to another situation with a new supply, they can still get supply from you as long as they know that you're hurting, as long as they know that you're struggling without them, especially if you're struggling emotionally because it's those emotions that really give them the supply. So that's how the narcissist wants you to think that they feel when you're not around. They want you to think that they're doing so much better without you. They want you to think that they're happier as though you were the problem. The thing is, the narcissist does not feel better without you. They actually feel a lot worse, and it's not so easy for them to just move on and find another grade A source of supply. They'd like you to think that it is, but it's not. It's not easy for them to find someone to replace you, but that's not going to stop them from crying because they know now that you see through them. They know that you're not susceptible to them in ablation. So at that point all they can do is move on and try to replace you, but that does not mean that they're doing better without you. They haven't really got a choice, and many people mistake their lack of empathy for them being happier when they just leave you behind. Or when you leave them and they don't try and make things right. Many people think that because they don't care about you, because you can't see any empathy from them, they think that means that they're happier, that they're living a better life. Well that is not true. Many of these narcissists only end up downgrading. Many of them lose their jobs. They have problems with everyone they encounter. So naturally they lose a lot of things in the process. The narcissist does not feel good when you leave, when they leave you. They do not live a better or healthier or happier life. And the reason why is because rather than getting their health and happiness from within, like a normal healthy functional person, whether you leave them or they leave you, they go out into the world looking for someone else to replace you as their source of supply. They're looking for attention, admiration and validation from someone else, which is never going to be true happiness. Because true happiness comes from within. But they abandoned their false self. They abandoned their true self. I mean, they created this false self. And because of that, now they cannot experience true happiness. They cannot generate those emotions from within. So by default, all they can do is be fake. They can't even be real with you or anyone else. All you'll ever get from them is an illusion, manipulation, deception. But it's never going to be real. Just remember when they first targeted you. They love bombed you. They told you whatever they thought you wanted to hear. They showed you whatever they thought you wanted to see. But it was just love bombing. And that's why it only took a matter of time for them to devalue you and then discard you. Just remember that person that you saw in the beginning. Do you think that person never would have devalued you or discarded you? Do you think they ever would have done that? No, of course not. But that was a false character. That's not who they really are. They just displayed that to you to manipulate you, to lure you in while knowing that they weren't even about any of that. And they know that there's no future in something that started out as a game. But just remember that. Remember the love bombing phase. And then you will see that they're just doing the same thing again. They're just manipulating you again. Making you think that something's something that it isn't. The narcissist is not happier or healthier without you. If anything, they're a lot worse. They're just manipulating you again. They're trying to hurt you to get a reaction because that is what makes them feel good. And that gives them the fuel they need to present the illusion to you. So stop fueling their illusions. Stop generating their false sense of happiness. Take your attention away. Put your focus back on yourself. Trust me, the narcissist does not feel happy or good without you. Thank you for joining me tonight on this live video. I'm at Phuket in Thailand, just by the beach. Thanks for the donation, Tima Wima. Thank you all for joining me on this live video here in Thailand. And there are many more to come. I'm going to be here for another six weeks. And there are going to be many videos of my travels on my other channel, spiritual secrets. So type that in the search bar up above. Subscribe to the new channel. And then you will get notifications of all my new videos. The first one will be uploaded very soon. Please give the video a thumbs up. Share your thoughts in the comments. Share the video. 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