 I like shouldn't talk about this probably Hey guys, what's up? It's Kinsey and welcome back to my channel today. I'm going to be doing a personal Q&A video I am filming a ton of videos today. So this video I have no idea when it's going up. Hopefully it's not too out of date I asked you guys for some questions on my Instagram as always my Instagram we linked down below It is like 110 degrees It's Coco Coco you're either in here or you're not um, I am currently texting and just do not talk about happy hour in Our in at taco. Oh, it's really the important things in life So I'm gonna be answering some questions if you guys like this video be sure to subscribe also check out my Instagram What are you doing for your 21st? So my 21st birthday is on August 1st I am so excited at one of my best friends from home actually like my best friend from home is coming to visit Which will be really good. That'll be really fun I think I'm probably just gonna have a bunch of friends come over to like my house and like host like a pregame And then we'll go out about like midnight or whatever for my 21st I wanted to like go to Malibu like get a house somewhere But it just doesn't work out with scheduling and like with having like sad come visit and blah blah blah So it's kind of gonna be more low-key, but I'm excited. It's gonna be a good one If you could date any of your friends who would it be and why I wouldn't any of my friends here I would date Like my hometown friends because I've just known them for like ever. They're also like family So it's weird. I have a marriage pact with John So like that works out for me, but also good old Texas boys, and I love them How do you deal with being homesick living in LA and having your family in Texas is long-distance, and I know it can be tough It's definitely hard Like being away from my family. I find now that every time I go back. It's harder to my family I grew up my parents were divorced, so I would go like months without seeing them so Like I've always been very independent. I've never really like relied on being with them like physically all the time But now it sucks, and I can't just like drive over to like my dad's house and stuff like that really really sucks I also hate that I'm not there to see my little brother grow up So I like try to go home as much as possible, and I talk to them all the time, but it still sucks But yeah, I really just call them and I make trips home as much as possible They also come here too. How many boyfriends have you had? Officially three? Am I forgetting someone? When you're 21, are you planning on drinking or do you drink slash when you're 21? Are you planning on drinking? I Yeah, I'll be drinking when I'm like of age whatever happened to Andrew. I've answered this I think I answered my last personal Q&A I'm making we're making like a whole thing about this I don't know if it's up by now or whatever if it is I'll have a link down below if not be ready I'm gonna like answer it more in that video, so I don't really want to go into depth Part of it is that we live like an hour from each other in traffic now But also we definitely have a fair share of issues So Andrew is definitely the friend that I've had the most issues with the island is like dramatic I don't I don't know you watch the videos you'll understand, but he's been at the house like to he's the past three days He's been at this house twice so Actually came three times, so he's been here a ton lately. Do you still talk to Alicia Marie? I'm actually filming under camera right now. Thank you, Alicia Yes, I do both of them busy, but we're hanging out next week. What is your driving force in this life? I think I'm kind of in the process of switching. I feel like I've been in the process of switching my driving force I Just like okay like driving force like I know you don't mean like drive But like I just have a lot of drive So I feel like that used to be like my driving force But I'm trying to not have my driving force be like efficiency and productivity and stuff It's just like not healthy at the end of the day I would love to say God. I want it to be but I'm working on that Do you miss having a boyfriend or do you love your independence personally love ain't being independent? So I'm fine. Love you. Um, I think sometimes I like miss being in love But I don't miss My boyfriends that I dated if that makes sense Like I think I miss like the really good parts of like maybe one relationship that I've had but I don't want I don't know how to describe this like I definitely love being independent if I like met someone and they were amazing Like I'm only gonna date someone if they're like the best ever and I can't imagine my life without them I don't want to date anyone like but I'm like, oh, yeah, you're fine You know like I have to like know that I want to date this person but I Don't know. I wouldn't say I miss having a boyfriend. I think I miss being in love sometimes if that's like it Have you been in love? Yes. Oh, we ever had feelings for someone you're living with this one's good Not while I was living with them Have you dealt with controversial topics with friends and family? Oh, oh, absolutely I have of course what it is like something that you're learning right now. I love when people ask me these questions I love these questions. I'm reading this book. It's not here though. It's called present over perfect. Anyways, it is so good if you or someone who like is if you connect with me in any way and let their productivity and like working really hard an efficiency thing it is so good because I Look I have all that naturally But I do not know how to naturally like relax or chill out or whatever when I say that it sounds stupid because like obviously people know How to relax but like I really don't and you're probably like oh what a hard time whatever But like it really does just like kill you like I was just burnt out all the time like running from place to place I didn't really know how to like just be present and chill and also I don't know that book is like literally it's helping me so much I just finished reading it last night and I'm gonna go through and like study it I also kind of want to make a video about this Okay, because I feel like I love being I think it's really equally important to be productive and work really hard and be Efficient as it is to like rest. I don't think I think obviously I'm always trying to find like the middle ground I never want to be someone who like only rests and it's too chill because I love working and I love like doing that stuff But like I don't want to be someone who only works and then doesn't have like the love and the connections and stuff You know what I'm saying, so yeah with this channel I feel like a lot of it has been focused on like productivity and like girl boss stuff and whatever And I love that stuff. The reason I'm kind of like holding off on it lately is just because I don't Know what that like looks for me look like it's like I don't know what that looks like for me right now Trying to figure it out. I'm still like obviously working on stuff But I'm just trying to like figure out How I really feel about it and like what I really want to talk to you guys about it because I feel bad I feel like guilty especially if there's like girls who think that like You have to work all the time. I don't know. I don't know I think it's really important and I think it's amazing and I'm still all behind all of that stuff But I also want to share other ways that I think are equally as important as that if that makes any sense It probably doesn't thoughts on your last relationship and how you could have improved it I think if you're not like fully invested in something. It's not fair. So just like Yeah, I should have like it's just like I wasn't fully invested I think and I was kind of just trying to do the whole like well, like I'm gonna date people and like see what I like What I don't like but like at the end of the day I feel like that works for some people but like I kind of do know what I like I think it's important to figure things out. You can also figure that out in friendships, too It's important to like date people and whatever, but like I think I Just shouldn't have done it. That's basically what I'm saying. Just shouldn't have done it What advice would you give someone to get over a heartbreak that isn't from someone it gets from a situation experience as opposed to a person The biggest advice I can give you to get over things Like I I fully and like fake it till you make it Look, I understand that in some senses and I do agree with that in some senses But also you're never going to get better if you don't like deal with it and cry and heal then So the sooner you deal with things Probably the better off you are later because things are gonna come back and bite you in the butt If you don't deal with them like I figure that out time and time again, and I'm still figuring that out Like I'm not good at this. That's why I'm like Saying that Should practice what I preach but it's okay to be upset and it's okay to be sad and like deal with things I would much rather someone do that or myself do that then just be like, you know I'm gonna be tough and like whatever like at the end of the day Like being tough and like getting through something and being really strong when you haven't actually dealt with it It's not as courageous to me at least as it is if someone like cries and deals with it And it's like this is where I'm at and then like, you know, it gets better from there What celebs would you be best friends with if you could Casey Musgraves probably any crushes at the moment? I wish like it's just to the point where I'm like, I like there's literally no one no one at all thoughts on politics And what's occurring in our country right now? You know the tweet where it's like, I don't know how hard it is to get people to understand that like it's not hard to just care about people That's it. What's your parents are you closest to? I've always been like a daddy's girl like growing up. I was like super close to my dad But now I'm like equally as close to them. I feel like I've also equally been as close with them Yeah, it's equal. What do you look for any guy? What do I look for any guy maybe this is why I'm single um no, I look for people who are very like This is very ironic if you like know the past few people that I've like talked to or dated But I really want someone who is like a leader Outgoing is really important. Um, look, I'm always attracted to like not the loudest person obnoxiously in the room But the person who was kind of like everyone kind of follows like the leader like I love that Also someone who like really cares about people is like empathetic. That's like huge for me I also think it's really attractive if a guy can like express emotion and talk about emotion and they're not like Like I just know so many people who are so close off And they like won't deal with anything and they won't talk about anything and like that's just not what I want When's the last time you kissed someone? Pretty recently. What's your favorite TV show slash movie guilty pleasure my movie guilty pleasure lol with Miley Cyrus Is it lol or is it lol because they call her lol like lol on the movie, but then it's lol Like I don't know if any of you guys know I've wondered this my entire life Please let me know movie guilty pleasure already answer that one TV. I love Riverdale and I love queer I craziest thing you've ever done. I Don't know that a lot. What is the bond that keeps you and Danielle so close? Danielle Carolyn We are so similar like Danielle is like my best friend But also feels like my like little sister because she's one year younger than me. I'm being dramatic But we're just like so so so similar and we've also like spent so much time together And we've done so many things together and she's just like the best we talk all the time Um Yeah, she's just someone that I can like really count on rely on that I just like love and we've grown up together doing the same thing She just gets me because we both grew up doing the same thing and like doing like YouTube with school Like I just you know you you grew up doing the same thing We both had like YouTube boyfriends like we just have so much in common. So Yeah, I don't know. We just like live very similar lives kind of tell us a little bit about your internship So this is the last question. I haven't really talked about this I haven't filmed it yet. I'm sure I've talked about it on the channel by now But I am interning for zoe through our college. So there's like I think there's 10 interns. I'm pretty sure And I'm interning through my college for the church through our college You guys enjoyed this video if you guys have any more questions leave them in the comments down below I love you guys so much if you guys haven't already be sure to subscribe and I will see you soon