 The narcissist will never forgive you for this when you do this The narcissist will never stop blaming you. They will never stop being angry towards you They will always feel bitterness and resentment Because in their minds you have offended them, but what is an offense to the narcissist? It's empowerment for you. It makes you stronger and more confident in controlling your life and claiming your rights But it will cause the narcissist to feel upset, annoyed and resentful Because it will cause problems to them The narcissist will never forgive you for this They will never forgive you for when you begin to think for yourself When you have an independent mind and attitude When you have your own ideas and opinions When you make your own decisions without their help Rather than being under their influence and control The narcissist will never forgive you for breaking free from their control When you do that it will irritate them And they will become very resentful Because they see your free-thinking and independent decision-making as an insult They see it as though you're treating them as unworthy of regard As though you're rejecting their ideas and opinions They hate it when you begin to think for yourself When you develop your own ideas and opinions It takes away their control It affects their ability to a direct the course of events Because once you begin to think for yourself And make your own independent decisions It's because you've already questioned and confronted their ideas and opinions You've already given them an opportunity To justify their actions and decisions You've already tried to hold them responsible You've already tried to understand them But they weren't having it They couldn't accept that Because they see you as their subordinate They believe that they are superior to you So you are not meant to question their authority Which is why when you did confront them They just brushed it off They acted like it wasn't a big deal Or they got mad at you for confronting them And then they gaslighted you And shifted the blame onto you But if you do take responsibility for it And take the necessary action to correct it It will still cause a narcissistic injury And they will still get very angry They will never forgive you They will never let it go Because by you going your own way Thinking for yourself and making your own decisions You are exposing them to other people You are unintentionally showing people That something is not right with them And they don't want the truth to be revealed Because the truth is against them The truth doesn't make them look good Which is why they get so mad when you try to leave They want you to pretend like they haven't done anything wrong They want you to uphold their false image of reputation Which is why when you do finally break free from the narcissist control They see it as though you have betrayed them They see it as though you have exposed them to danger And that is why it will seem like they are in a fight for their lives Because they are trying to hold on to their false image Which you are no longer validating or supporting Which you are no longer enabling They see it as though you have gone against them Because it triggers them to feel shame But they don't want to deal with those emotions So they deny the truth They deny any wrongdoing And they create an alternate reality With their own distorted perceptions and interpretations And then they pull other people into this fake world People who enable them to continue doing what they are doing People who think you are just trying to ruin the narcissist reputation Because that's what the narcissist is thinking But the narcissist is not completely delusional Deep down they know that they are wrong They just don't want to accept it So instead they shift the blame onto you The narcissist will never forgive you for this But you need to forgive yourself For being involved with them in the first place Because you didn't know what you were dealing with And although the narcissist may be against you now You now have the power to think for yourself You have the ability to recognize That not everything is your fault They just didn't want to accept their faults and mistakes So they blamed you for everything The narcissist may never forgive you But you need to recognize That you never intended to do anything wrong You never intended to hurt them You just wanted to protect yourself But the narcissist went all out to destroy you That was their intention and objective And you were trying to help them So if they think there's something wrong with that That's on them You can't get them to see sense They have a mental disorder So they're not going to admit their faults They're going to lie to themselves And they're going to lie to you Because that's how they support their false self That's how they maintain the illusion By denying that there is anything wrong with them Thank you for watching I hope this video was interesting with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching queries You can email me at coaching.naarksurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon