 One thing that I've seen consistently with the students that I take out for like live training and coaching is that they have trouble generating interest and maintaining interest right off the bat and a lot of guys will call this They'll call this hooking the set and I don't really like to use the those pickup terms But how do you generate that interest right off the bat and maintain that interest because a lot of times they'll just talk to the girl for a little bit and Then the conversation will eventually die out and then they'll kind of come back to me and wonder what happened But when I would talk to these girls the girls would be interested that a lot of times they'd follow us around and you know Some of them are even asking for my number and stuff like that. So what was going on? What was I doing differently than them? Well, I know exactly what I was doing differently than them because I used to have this problem too So I get guys that are better looking to me and I get guys that are worse looking for me worse looking worse looking to Me but consistently across the board what they weren't doing that I was doing is they weren't providing enough value When you come into an interaction need to provide value and that's why a girl keeps talking to Whatever shape or form that takes so start asking yourself that question How can I provide value to these interactions and it can be a little bit tough at the beginning? She doesn't really know much about you. She doesn't know where you come or what you do So how do you provide value right off the bat? Well the easiest way or the best way is to be fun Okay, provide fun when people go out That's the number one thing that they're trying to do women are trying to have fun when they go out You know, that's the number one thing, you know, and sometimes they're trying to find a guy as well But fun still comes first and fun should be the first thing that you're going after as well So a lot of times I'll get guys that will be in a position. They're like, oh, I just I don't know what to do I don't know what the next step is they'll reach a point in the conversation They're run out of things to say or they just get kind of feels kind of awkward or there's a Dead silence and then they just kind of like back up and they're just like all right Well, it was nice to meet you and then they leave Okay, when you're in that situation, don't ask yourself. What's the next step? Ask yourself. What would be fun for the both of us and you start asking yourself that question more and more You start figuring out. What are some fun things to do while you're out? Okay in the night life or at bars and stuff like that There's tons of options. I've been doing this for a long time. So I know what I like to do I know what's fun and so I can answer this question pretty easily and I'm providing that right off the bat now There's a number of different ways that you can provide Fun for people really quickly on the interaction first of all you can just provide just by coming in with a little bit of Enthusiasm can go a long way Providing humor making funny jokes. One of my favorite things to do is I love teasing. I love teasing people I love making fun of other people that are around us and so that provides a game that provides enjoyment laughter All of these things are good All of these things are valuable when you're when you're looking you're trying to have a good time when you're out Most people are bored honestly when they're just sitting there Okay, so these things can definitely help also being interested in what they have to say having interesting conversations is good too So being a good talker can definitely help with this and I'm a great talker But this doesn't compare to the next point that I'm gonna make which is Knowing your area knowing fun activities to do at the bar that you're at or knowing cool places to go That is gonna be the ultimate value provider right there That's something that girls aren't gonna be able to have especially if they're visiting Especially if they don't know the area that well and you know the area That is some real value that you can provide right off the bat the bar that we are at Over the weekend had like an arcade in the background. Sorry. I had an arcade in the back It had like pinball machines. I like a miss Pac-Man set It had some shooter game It had that it had a dance floor it had photo booth, which you know, maybe not right away, but It had an area where you could sit down you can come be my friends There was a bunch of fun stuff that those if I'm talking to a group of girls that they can do with us a Tons of if they're just staying there wondering what to do I got plenty of fun awesome options who wouldn't want to come with that who wouldn't want a fun Experience to go with and that is gonna separate you from 90% of the guys out there because sure you can be a guy who You know, if you think you're good-looking or whatever you think you're funny But there's gonna be other guys that are you know, probably good-looking and funny too what you can provide is provide a fun Experience that's what most guys don't know how to do and they're kind of clueless when they're out So if you know this you know your area You know where all the fun stuff are then you can lead people to do those fun things and people are gonna follow you because They're trying to have fun too So a lot of times I would get these girls not only interested But I would get them to follow me around and then they see me leading they see me leading the group They see me taking them to all these fun places They they feel an enjoyment and a good experience when they're hanging out with me like no wonder a lot of them Were attracted to me When we were doing this sort of thing and I wasn't able to do this at first because I wasn't asking myself that question about how to Have fun You need to develop skills to be able to enjoy yourself when you're out and once you start doing this a lot of this pickup You know a lot of these pickup step-by-step things that you're following that are like making your brain hurt A lot of them are gonna go away your results are gonna go up And you're gonna be a lot happier when you go out to trust me So if when it comes time to to figure out what to do like let's say a perfect example is like the end of the night Let's say you're talking to some girls sounds like they're interested. They're they're attracted to you But 2 a.m. Rolls around bars closing up. What do you do? You're basically your only option is to try and you think your only option is maybe to bring them back to your place But they're not ready yet. They don't know you will enough They want to keep partying or they want to have some more good times There's plenty of options that I have available like there's usually a diner down the street that we can go eat at There's usually an after couple after parties that I know about You know, we can go to back to my place play some board games have a couple drinks or something like that I have fun shit plan and that's why people stick around and hang out with me And that's why I was able to create interest and keep the interest going right off the bat So that's what I would invite you guys to do is remember when you're going out people are trying to have fun So learn how to be a fun person when you're out, okay? Ask yourself that question not what is the next step ask yourself what would be fun for the both of us to do and know the areas that you're going out into like look at the If you're at a bar or if you're at a party or something like that look for fun stuff to do find out what you like to do What's enjoyable for you because you know a lot of the rule when it comes to dating is whatever you feel She feels then you're gonna be able to give her a better experience. You're gonna have a lot more fun She's gonna have a lot more fun too. She's gonna be a lot more attracted to you because of it So that's all I have to say about this you guys if you made today and consider subscribing and come out with videos like this every single week If you have any questions that you'd like me to answer put them in the comment section below or shoot me an email If you're interested in my mentorship program, shoot me an email to the single guy 2017 at dmail.com Thanks a lot you guys