 Boom, what's up fam Anthony dream Johnson here today founder of the 21 convention the 22 convention Co-finement of the red man group and CEO at 21 studios here the episode 114 of the red man group with special guest AMS alpha male strategies a lot of you guys probably know him from his YouTube channel He's been blowing up in recent years. I've heard him call that he's the next Elliott Hulse I can actually see his website right there And actually before we get into sight and all this other stuff He's actually an author to on Amazon excuse me a lot of books will check out Without further ado, please let me welcome to the show today. Hey, MS. What's up, man? How you doing? What's up, brother? How you doing man doing pretty good man join my weekend get ready to go on a trip I really appreciate your time coming on the show man. No problem man. Looking forward to it Fuck yeah, so before we get into the I behold list of questions I want to go through here with you talk about a lot of game stuff masculinity stuff being alpha All that Let's go through your site. So we got your site here And we got you guys can actually visit that too by the way link in the description And then you've been a pretty successful author here on Amazon man. You got 403 reviews on your main book This is your first book. Yeah strategies. Yeah, that's the first one. That's killer man. Thanks 2018 came out. Yeah, damn dude Thank you. These other ones here out from the alpha money strategies and then advanced game Yeah, I got to get these myself. He's in paperback, too. Yes. Yes Fuck yeah, I'm order up all these soon as we're done man. Thank you, brother. Added to my giant collection of books behind me I got a read Thank you So before we get into all the questions I got and stuff, you know more specific ones this some basic ones How did you get started as a youtuber and then eventually as a dating coach? What's the kind of backstory for the guys that don't know you? Well, my issue was when I would be sure I had with women was I had this one big issue that I couldn't freakin Solving it for the left death of me. It was just killing me all the high interests Women I'm gonna say high interest a woman. I had high interest in I Had a hard time keeping them and for the life of me. I couldn't figure out What the hell was I doing wrong any of the girls that I had like Seven eight probably even nines. I had no issues. I couldn't get rid of them But the women that I had high interest in for the life of me I could not figure out why I couldn't maintain them So I this is after banging them and stuff. This is out of banging them everything. Yeah, everything I just couldn't maintain their interest long period of time And it was an issue that I had known all my life and I finally Said got tired of it one day and I got still make fun of me because I still talk about this story from time to time They said damn, man, man, she must be really bad But it you know it got to a breaking point when I had this let this last chick about maybe seven years ago Now I'm thinking give a take and you know, she was crazy about me showing crazy I entered I was crazy about her and then slowly she started to pull away and I said here goes again I said goddamn it is happening again for the life of me. I couldn't figure out what the hell is happening Why is a Scooby-Doo mystery man? So I went looking for answers and I found landed on Corey Wayne's channel Okay, and shout out Corey Wayne and Corey Wayne said treat all women the same that that one little phrase I learned from Corey Wayne was treat all women the same and from that day and I and as soon as he's I heard him say that The bill went off in my head. I treat I treated them different than I treated the other girls I would call more I would you know when I was with them I would be more affectionate more touchy-filly in other words The women never had to wonder about what I stood as far as my feelings So you pushed them away basically Because I was I was coming on too strong because of my interest was too high And so what I heard Corey Wayne say Treat all women the same and that was all my life every time I met a woman that I had super high interest in I would push away and couldn't figure out what the world I was doing Find Corey Wayne and Corey Wayne said treat all women the same do not treat these More don't call these more than and that fixed it right there. And so shout out Corey Wayne On time they get tired of me telling that story about the one but I told I tell guys when I bring up that story And I tell guys that's why he'll mess is here If it's not me trying to seek answers for that one I said that's what led me to seek answers and that and those that that quest for seeking answers Made me solve all my problems. I was just treating those different than I was treating the other women So shout out. Oh, yeah, Corey Wayne is awesome team man. I got to meet him earlier this year I interviewed him interviewed me for this channel. He's a great dude. Yeah Yeah, look for way that's that's my dude now I wanted to get into this question or kind of this thing later But let's do it now because I'm curious if it's related. So a couple days ago. I found this chick who's bitchin about you I think she just wants to bang you basically And a loza am s is heartbroken alpha most strategies response tan commitments of a dating I think that was a big video. You did ten commitments of dating. Yes. What is up with I mean? I don't know if this is specifically related to you kind of origin story with that But what is the deal with this chick and this kind of criticism because I'm sure you know feminists and you know Whoever the fuck on YouTube they've said oh am s is heartbroken. I get this shit too. You're right loser, you know So what is what's the deal with this and what's your response to this kind of criticism in general? Well, the thing is if you go through that comments, right? And I hate I hate even giving her that much attention if she sees his interview this way too much attention I mean, I just I mean we just gave her way too much attention is what she and that's what she was crazy But I almost think she made that video so I'll make a response video Maybe I'm in the comments and not she feels better all that validation. So she see this interview. She's gonna be like Well, she was even she's even rubbing her hands with she opens She wants a dick man. That's all she wants it. That's what it is But the thing is if you go through the comments, you see the guys are not following it She you make those videos and you thank guys and if you go then you read the comments guys are like I don't know what you talking about this guy changed my life blah blah blah I read the comments and yeah, you read all the comments and all the guys are like I don't know what you talking about this guy changed my life blah blah blah My life was crap before I met this guy or whatever. Those are shame intact Yeah, and women are masters at it any time you start discussing anything about women that they don't like They resort to shame intact as I've heard it from men and stuff like that. So but the guys I don't worry about a response or stuff like that because the guys don't fall for it And if you go through the comments the guys are tearing her new ass on that video She made two videos and the other video, which lets me know that you know what your trick was to tell my guys Oh, they got don't listen to that guy. He's hard-broken. Well the guys And you know that this guy here is more of a life coach than a dating coach Yeah, I got it got a ton of downboats to like obviously the guys are just nailing it. No, just good, you know Fuck right exactly and but she loves it. She has you guys got to understand don't come in Don't do nothing that she loves when y'all and she actually made another video Basically men that she loves it and that's the thing if she didn't love it guys y'all guys must understand She would block and delete your comments the fact that the fact that she don't let you know She cherished in and she wakes up every day like another one I suck at another one in you know Because she's don't she's doing what the average woman does giving you all center I'm gonna talk about your guy you love and now you're hot and bothered and I'm gonna sit back and laugh and eat cookies It's very standard female behavior. They're obsessed with getting that attention whether it's Instagram or YouTube channel They just want to get it get it get it get it especially the ones who are unhealthy or just trolling and shit like that Yeah, no, I mean the no doubt people don't get it to on YouTube downvotes actually help a video Yeah, which about a video YouTube is like oh, there's it's captivating or polarizing so they want to send traffic to it Right, that's that the guys don't understand that that Some of some of the biggest videos on YouTube got an equal amount of even in downvotes Even though it got a lot of downvotes It's still what what kills is that our watch time. Yeah, but I mean personally though, I think it's good You got haters. I mean that's kind of a sign of success As you get bigger and bigger you're gonna get all these haters and shit that come after your girls and guys You know whatever and they're gonna lob all this bullshit. I use so I think it's part of the part of the game Part of the journey my when you first get on YouTube, maybe you thin skin and some of that stuff body. I'm into the point now I I don't it does nothing. It matter of fact, I'll even go this far, Tony I don't even search my name on YouTube no more. I just You want to I don't even search Alfa male strategy in the search bar on YouTube to see if anybody made videos. I period if I haven't done it and Over a year now that this is what say I'm not responding. I'm not responding to shit So that's how I do and people around me know People around me know don't bring them. They don't even speak no negativity around me. Don't not Somebody you see a video made about me got people around me. No, don't call me or hit me with that bullshit You know, I block you. I don't I don't because you bring a negativity into my life I don't I don't bring it into my life. I don't address it So you're very strict philosophy focusing on positivity for positive content basically, right? Is that it's like a brain diet man brain for a diet for a soul? And if you ain't if you ain't got haters guys have to understand if you don't have haters you ain't doing something Right, you only you only haters when you're doing if a message over there saying that same stuff The exact same stuff getting 2000 views of video. Guess what that woman you just showed She don't make that video and I'm talking about let's say all my videos were the exact same But I was only getting two three thousand views of video. She don't even waste her time Making that video. She don't shout out Tony Bruno, man She only made that video because it you can use my man my name for clickbait. Yep Yeah, she's this bill. She's basically leeching off of your success is what she's doing. Yeah, that's all that cloud chasing Yeah That cloud chasing. Yeah, let's talk about this. I wanted to ask you about the sleaze ball phenomena I've seen your fans start debating the stuff and they they fight with each other like sleaze ball. Yes sleaze ball No, yes, so talk talk to me about the sleaze ball phenomenon. What's the deal with the what's the current status on sleaze balls? Well, my thing is I'm more Guys, you know guys, I don't I don't really say it no more But okay guys to hold on to it or whatever But my lingo has more so many times in these almost three years since I've been on YouTube It's done more so many times like I don't think I said sleaze ball no long A long long time but the guys still you know, they watch the old videos where I used to say it But my lingo has more if you go and watch some of my first videos a lot of the verbiage that I use in old first videos I don't even uh Say anymore But the guys are still they still like the sleaze ball lingo or whatever so I don't have an issue with it And what what is the sleaze ball? Where does that come from? That was for lying? No, the sleaze ball come from the world the phrase of Doing what's best for you? So what what what when I first started and I pretty much done more from this now if you watch on my later videos like the last year I kind of been Different, but the first videos was about y'all guys do what's best for you So if you got a date Saturday in a and with a girl that you said Tuesday and Thursday I had a chick you meet a hot a chick and she want to see you says I said I say do What's best for you? So that's where the whole sleaze ball lingo came from was do was do what's best for you? Okay, but I've more of more and since since that time since that time I've more of more into a life coach where I talk more about You know purpose and stuff like that. I really and one thing I've noticed about the guys is they actually like my life videos um Like I'm talking about my personal life not not purpose videos Obviously those get less views than the women videos, but like when I talk about my life experiences Like this like the video I made yesterday Do this every week like that video there they like those type of videos now even more so than the female videos I got on my other channel. I got the biggest mistakes. I learned in my life got a lot of views. Um nice What's the other one? Uh, 10 things every man should have that's on my other channel. It got a lot of views um What I what the most important things I've learned in life that got a lot of views Like guys like when I do that story time I notice that more so and they tell me in the comments. I like these videos More than I like the the women videos Shout out George. Appreciate that George. Yeah, man. George is the brunner brothers. I call him like the mario brothers And so that's that's why I've morphed into I've morphed into more um More of that because I'm seeing that that's what guys was fun They like they like when I talk about my failures and experiences that I had in the past To get to where I'm at now, which I'm glad the guys are receptive to that That'll do that'll do if I if I make a video like that Of my life experiences that'll do better than me making the top 10 Ways to attract a female Experience right now. And so I noticed that and so I've been gravitating more towards that type of content Yeah, I gotta say man I think it's I think it's very healthy for the manager to have a comprehensive focus As many guys not everybody's got to do that but a lot of guys should do that I've been focused on that for a long time. And I think it's really good. You're doing that too I'm not surprised the guys like it they need more content like that more positive media for men, you know, right? And and and the thing is guys have to understand is that you have to transition You know, you have to evolve On youtube or you die if I was making exact same content on youtube that now that I was Two and a half years ago when I first started It just the channel would die. It's like, oh, he's still talking about, you know, dick him down and toss him to the side of the road He's talking about that three years ago. It was a dick him down the side of the road That was that was on my that's that's the infamous wound against the mix out movement video Dick dick him down and toss him to the side of the road and uh, but if I was still saying those type of things Uh guys would be like this dude sucks. He's you know, you don't evolve It's just it's just boy you have to evolve if you want to survive on youtube or It's just like when you're watching the tv series You don't the tv the tv series has to evolve from season one to season five If they do if they go on through the dealing with the same issues on season five as they did on season one You've been tuned out a long time ago, which is one reason why I stopped watching the walking dead It's just a bunch of idiots running around in the wilderness Uh running from zombies. It's like, okay It was I was so hyped for like the first five seasons But then I'm like, okay, they still running their ass around these goddamn woods from zombies Watching about three years ago This is great. Hang on Let's take us a few steps back that you got me thinking about this They're talking about evolution and evolving and and growing up growing over time and things like that So you were banging there like you said, uh, you know sevens eights and nines before You know, you found corduway and before that Either 10 10s. Yeah, I couldn't keep them. So how did you how did you get because a lot of guys Like when I was growing up, I just suckled girls and that's why I found the pickup artist community And then helped me get better. I started going out approaching women learning the hard way basically How did you go from, you know, when you were an adult 18 19 20 or whatever to then in your 30s How did you get to the point where you're just banging these girls that came naturally to you? Or was there like a journey for it? Well, the the issue with that is and that's why I always sympathize with guys who say who don't feel confident about themselves I was always considered good-looking by women So even even with no game just being a tall considered good-looking guy to women Always made it easy for me and and in high school One of the issues I don't even get along with uh, my brothers was because Uh, the girls that they like would ask them Hey, is your brother single? Yeah, so that's that jealousy I've been dealing with jealousy and stuff like that all my life from guys even when I was at school so Um, that was never an issue the only and the only thing I had to do was go out and just approach enough women And you know, if I approached 10 women at the mall, I would get four or five numbers Like that was never no issue with me attracting women The only issue I ever had with in women with women in my life was Not keeping the women that I Found very attractive the the teens to me. I could sleep with them and I could keep them for You know Four months five months six months But at some point I would just notice that they they would start to lose interest And they wouldn't do what they did at the beginning like they would be calling Blowing me up everything would be easy and then as soon as I started catching feelings I noticed they started pulling back Yeah And for the life of me for a long time I just ignored it and said well, you know, whatever but at the the breaking point was about seven years ago when it happened again I said, oh, that's it. I said, I gotta find some goddamn answers. So I actually googled uh Why did she lose interest and I think one of core Wayne's videos popped I'm not I'm not mistaken and and I was I was just like I was like I've like 33 years old at the time I'm like it happened again And I'm like that god damn it man I had a similar founding of the manosphere man I was in high school about to go to a dance and I was scared shitless Because my best friend hugged me up with this super hot chick that was like way out I could have never got her on my own right? He like he kind of fucking knew weren't gonna hooked it up. I was just like sweating bullets I was nervous as fuck under this dance, right? I never danced before It's like this googled how to how to do club dancing or some shit Right and the manosphere pulled up the rush jeffree's pick up artistry and it right to change my life man Just like finding core Wayne. Yes That changed my life Then the whole purpose thing what he talks about all the time And I always was taught that a man gets on his grind, right? And then I'm listening to core Wayne core Wayne say purpose And I found out that is so much more important for man on his purpose opposed to grind I always thought you get on your grind, but I found out I'm listening to core Wayne That purpose is what a man's need because not only so you just get on your grind. That just means you work a lot That's not that's not fulfilling You see what I'm saying So if you don't love your work, you'd be grinding you don't even care about right and listen to core Wayne talk about purpose It changed my life because I realized that it's not enough to just work a lot of hours It's it's important to be on your purpose and find something you love to do and he was so right And um, that's what I've been teaching the guys from, you know Since then was You need you don't need to just get on your grind if before core Wayne I would just say get on your grind Well, girl on your grind mean you might be working two jobs that you hate And yes, you might be making a lot of money But do you love it and it's so important to find your purpose in life? You see what I'm saying So shout out for core Wayne for that also Teaching me about purpose and a man being on his purpose Opposed to being on his grind. I always just thought You know a man has to get on his grind and that's and then that that changed the direction of my life because I started looking at What do I what am I really passionate about? You see what I'm saying? Yeah, well, let's talk about that. So you mentioned talking about purpose slider. So number one How do women affect your purpose as a man and number two? How did you get into youtube because it seems to be a really big purpose for you in life It seems to be like your main thing by far you kick an ass with it I mean you have hundreds of thousands of followers millions of guys watch your videos So how do women affect your purpose as a man and how did you get into youtube and how is that been? I mean that's a that has to be a major life change for you to get into this world Yes, well the thing with purpose is and women is it actually has helped me with women even better because What happens is it keeps it got me detached from the outcome of anything So without purpose in life guys, what you try to do is you try to get your happiness from women And women try to become your source of happiness So when a man has purpose What ends up happening is when I'm with those nines and tens that I really won't I'm detached from the outcome Because no longer am I seeking them for my source of happiness my purpose becomes well I'm seeking my happiness is so any y'all guys that know that with women when you don't give a damn That's when you get a response from them And the best way not to give a damn is when you know Your life is fulfilled as is not when you're looking for that validation from a female So the average guy typical guy will work eight ten hours a day And then he wants to cut up with his girl on the couch And that's what he wants to get his source of inspiration. That's where you want to get his validation from his love from And when you have purpose What happens is you're detached from that you no longer need that So guys if you don't have purpose you're gonna you're gonna you're gonna need a woman in your life because That's where you're gonna get your source of happiness from i'm just or you're gonna get involved in vices Like gambling or drinking or drugs Something to get to make you feel fulfilled because yeah And you work a job you hate and then you come home and now you've got six to eight hours to kill And so the only thing you've left to do is you're either gonna be on porn hook Go gambling Drinking alcohol or chase till none of those things which bring value to your life Opposed to if you have purpose that's going to bring value and happiness to your life If you don't have that then what you're going to do you're going to look from it from a woman from a woman So if you don't indulge in those things Now you don't tender and match and you're swiping your ass off Hoping to get a match because now you're lonely So you It's burning and burning calories swiping man. Just right exactly. So you we let's say we sleep eight hours a day We work eight hours a day that other eight hours is where guys fall in trouble at so how am I gonna feel this eight hours Well, this is gonna be indulging in crap that don't do me no good cost me money Pornhub, I think larry wills just made a video that um about a month ago that he was addicted to um Porn and stuff like that and he was spending all his money in the chat rooms on porn and stuff What the fuck? Oh, he got a video he made a video about that that he had no He got all those views and it's not me talking about him. He admitted him. He admitted which I'm glad he admitted because I'm quite Larry wills the big the big bodybuilder youtuber. Okay. Yeah, I'll check him out the dams. I didn't know this the fuck He got over a million subs and he made a video Yeah, he's he's like the he's like the world's strongest man or one of the world's strongest man He's got like a million million youtube followers He gets like two three hundred thousand views each video and he posts almost every day And he made a video about a month ago saying that he spent all his money on poor porn And uh in the chat rooms and stuff like that and basically was saying he didn't have it was It was so bad that he couldn't even take his girl out to eat because he was spending all his money on porn It was it was that bad and and this guy got to be making At least half a million a year. I'm just being generous, right? At least half a million a year off from merchandise and views off youtube and stuff like that and to go to the point saying Uh You you you if you're gonna spend your money on crap like that Or be on your purpose or you're gonna search for love and validation from a female And if you're a purple peel guy and you just one of those guys that do a one-woman guy and stuff like that I don't knock those guys everybody is not meant to be a player Or date multiple women or some some guys want to start families and stuff like that and I get all especially my religious guys I got a lot of Muslims on my patreon and basically telling me hey, dude I get your red pill but I can't do that in my culture. We have to get married and stuff like that So I understand I understand that but the thing is even if you want to get married or whatever you want to do You still have to have purpose because if you don't you still gonna kill the inches of your woman being up on her ass all day Women need to wonder about us. Women need to think about us You can't just be up under a woman's ass all day married or not You have a man has to have purpose in life Yeah, if you don't they hate it man drives it drives a vagina like it's like a desert man Oh, yes, they hate it. You you think in theory My girl Wants to be up under me You know like you you think in theory and that's how she acts But then if you give her that you would notice over time she starts to lose attraction, right? and so What guys that and that's the issue with me with the the tans that I had a high attraction for I would call I'm thinking like I want to show her That I really want her I'm trying to show her and it would just repel them And I and simply I was treating them different as far as my purpose and on youtube and stuff like this I just couldn't take the the crybaby videos or more I just I literally couldn't the crybaby videos. Oh when I came on youtube the whole midtown movement was huge Okay, now I get it. I'm like, what the fuck is the crybaby video? Okay, okay Is the whole midtown thing was huge It's like every content creator had midtown a name and it was just A bunch of videos telling guys to stay away from women and this the women are not the issue You are the issue women are the same. They've always been women are not I tell guys this all the time You you guys hate women because you don't know how to make them respect you That's why that's why women are so terrible Women are not the issue You're the issue when you are masculine man in your masculine energy carrying yourself like a masculine man A woman with pearl like a kitten. She would act and behave Is when you act like a little bitch when you act like a little girl That when a woman started getting her masculine energy and that's all because you aren't acting like a man Men don't act like men. I was women act like men and that's the thing. I said I tell guys Stay in your masculine frame and watch you have no instead stay on your purpose and stay in your masculine frame And watch women act right It's when you start doing all that other when you start acting feminine and you're chasing behind her and stuff like that Or you you're acting like a little beta male. That's when she gets masculine I have no problem spending time with women and they act right. They don't act masculine That's because I act like a man, but I have to hear that Tony Why why do you think that women uh, if they're not prone like a kitten when you're being masculine So you're being a bitch Why do they act out like that? Are they scared? Are they punishing you for the beta male behavior? What do you think the motivation for their their responses to that because I I agree with you a million percent So I've seen in my own life You act like you act like a bitch you're gonna pay for it But what do you think the source of that is well the thing is like this Tony When you start acting like that you're basically submitting to a woman And it starts to repair her because what happens is when guys get unsure of themselves They start submitting to their woman and they stop checking her and they start letting her get away with shit Women want to submit. They want a man that They feel like it's more valuable than them and when you start acting like they're more valuable And when you start acting like you in scarcity like you're unconfident So basically this is what happened Tony when a man starts letting the woman say and do what she wants He's acting unconfident. He's acting like a low-value man. He's acting like a man that feels like he can't replace her Women hate that and they hate when a man starts acting like he is scarcity Starts letting her say what she want to say and do what she want to do and they lash out at it and they hate it And so anytime you get anybody too much power. They are actually Anytime you get anybody too much power Tony they are actually are going to abuse it So anytime when you give a bully when you let a bully slide They start to abuse their power when you don't stand up for yourself And that's the same way it works with women So when women start acting when they start seeing that you won't respond I said this I did this he says nothing. He lets it go. Okay, baby. Okay, because he's in scarcity now He's in love. He's gotten attached Women repulse that because it's weakness and it stinks It's dangerous for them too, right if their man is a weak bitch. I mean, it's got to be dangerous to be around What is the thing you're supposed to be the emotional the the emotional strong one They're supposed to be the one that's emotional. You're supposed to be the rock Hey, the house is burning down You're supposed to be steady And no matter what goes on. You're supposed to be steady the woman is supposed to be the one like, oh my god You know, you're supposed to be like baby come down When you start acting emotional when you start acting like that Now she can't trust your masculine core because now you're acting like her You're supposed to be the steady rock. I lost my job. You lost your job. You're supposed to calm me down I got to calm you down I'm acting so now we don't switch roles now I'm the man and you are acting like the emotional girl Which is why I try to tell guys you got to always remain steady You got to always remain in your masculine. So when a woman sees a man acting like a little girl She naturally is going to get her masculine energy because now you're acting like a little bitch Yeah, what else is she gonna do right you put her in that position and she's gonna get now She's gonna be resentful for it and get pissed off and lash out at you Well, that's that's the loss of interest So that's the loss of interest coming like that And that's where the cold shoulder and all that's coming from Tony because now You acting so low value like that now I'm losing interest And so now I don't talk to you the same way A woman for if a guy's all wondering how I know this I done all this before right? one of the things when I was Back in my 20s when I would fall in love with these 10s One thing that would happen was I would start getting too affectionate too emotional Stuff like that couldn't couldn't control my emotions and stuff because now I'm catching feelings as I say I started catching feelings. So once I started catching feelings now I'm starting to get a little, you know, two touching fillies get all in my feelings and stuff like that Also would show jealousy at times all of these type of things Shows that you're in scarcity a little bit. Y'all guys got to understand that that when you show those insecurities when you were the woman Like oh, you know, what took you so long to get home or you know, all these little insecurity type things At that at that point guys, you're acting like a guy in scarcity You're supposed to always feel like you're the best value The best option for your woman Yeah Damn, this is this is a lot of fun to go through this stuff man. Fuck yeah You take a lot of bad memories though Yeah, you mentioned something a second. That's what I want to ask you. So You're talking uh, you're kind of acting out a minute ago. You're like role playing like a beta male and like, uh, baby Yeah, whatever baby. Okay. Like, yeah So this kind of appeasement bullshit So Do you think women is that women looking for boundaries with a man relationship or not? And is that that is then the man not having them? So it's like weakness You have the thoughts on boundaries basically No, I Well, I actually just made a video on what you call about boundaries and stuff like that The rules of the relationship. I just think it goes more to the aspect of I think women just like to feel like They like you more than you like them. I think women just like that challenge Yeah, I just think women just I just I think it when a woman sees a man that's Indifferent to her what I think that it's it symbolizes to her Is that the man is of higher value when those roles start to switch? And the man starts treating her like she's the best option Then I think that you know with this pre-selection that goes on with women with them uh, always wanting the man that is Pre-selected and stuff like that the man that gets the most women and stuff like that I think it just lowers their attraction Tony I think I because now you're acting Unconfident you're not acting like a man that can replace her easily if all my guys are that wonder when I say that type of stuff I don't just simply mean get another woman. I'm talking about better than her So you could be a guy That could get all the women like say so like say when I'm with a teen, right? So I was like I can get another woman, but a woman want to feel like This is nothing for you to get especially the hot women that know they're very hot And I heard first Montana say this about when he was dating celebrity females and stuff He said they hate that the female celebrities hate guys that put them on a pedestal because they're female celebrities They hate that and that's the thing teens hate that you're treating them like they're a teen They want you they want to be with a guy that they feel like attracting teens Is easy and and ten is subjective because most women think they're ten and they're not right Yeah, entitlement attitude. Yeah, but the point goes to I want to A woman wants to feel like I know that you can attract My caliber of women all the time and there's no issue what guys fall into is Yes, I can go get another woman But I don't know if I can get another one of these And that that's the issue see that's that's the issue tony. It's not that Another woman is that can you go get another one of these and that's what a scarcely comes in at and it's so Unattractive to women Yeah, because they want to verify like you're saying pre-selection They want to verify that you can go you can do better than them But you're for whatever reason you're choosing not to at the minute, right? Yeah It's almost like they want to feel like you chose them Like I could have done something else But you know, I chose you and it's an issue and throughout the relationship She needs to feel like you can always go and replace her. That's why a man who shows indifference That's how he acts and that doesn't mean you got to be an asshole or nothing like that guys That being indifferent doesn't mean you got to be an asshole It just simply means that At any given point when she gets out of pocket, you don't stop checking her In my past in my relationships when I started catching feelings. I would stop checking women So basically you got to reserve the right to walk at any all the time all the time guys all the time You got to let women know that you are in abundance at all times all times Talk to me a little bit more about your adventure to get on youtube I mean, you're not you don't do something like a small channel. You have several channels. You have a network of channels You're doing collaborations now. I've seen the four horsemen a game. I think Elk's pretty cool. I got to watch that. Yeah. Yeah But how's that journey been and what really inspired you to get going on youtube and then continue with it It's one thing to start it but you you kept you started it You kept going and you've had a lot of haters and all this shit So what is what inspired all that and then to keep going and blowing up like that? Well, actually when I started it, I really didn't care about Views, uh, none of it. I said I had been planning it two years Before that because I was listening to a lot of these guys videos. I'm like, I'm better than most of these guys I'm just I'm just being honest. Like I'm better than most of these guys I'm like these guys so and so I but it took me a couple of years to go and do it when I did it The reason why I was able to stick with it From the beginning was I didn't care about the views. I just I said, I'm gonna put it on there for fun I never never what happens to guys is when they start doing this They have all these big dollar signs So right now they can kind of try to draw a picture on what I make And then they say well, I want to make that and I'm gonna start a channel And then six months in they not and then they quit I came into it with the mindset of I didn't give a damn if right now I was only getting A thousand views of video I would still be making videos and just personal training or whatever because I came into the mindset that I love doing this. I'm just gonna tell guys how I've always attracted women and what I've done throughout my life And that's what I did. I came on with the right mindset a lot of guys get into things with the wrong mindset I just felt like I could bring a lot of value Plus, I know I got a bit of a personality a funny personality Yeah dating coaches and I said, okay, that's what's gonna separate me, right? Probably while you're better with women too, and I agree with you There's a ton of frauds in the man's hair. That's been true for 20 years, man There's always the pickup artist community, especially dating coaches because there's so much money in it Dudes are desperate to learn when they suck, you know There's nothing worse or almost nothing worse than if you suck with women and you're a man and you don't want to suck It's like how do you get better? Then you get all these these frauds to come in to sell you bullshit a lot of them suck you're right Like tony bruno tony bruno is probably better than most 80 percent of the dating coaches on youtube, right? But what but he's not a dating coach. He's just a contractor entrepreneur And there lives on a beach in florida, right? Unexpected people you're you're a personal trainer, but yeah, I've no doubt you're better than all these dudes Yes, I What I just came into the game was I just had to slept with a shitload of women all my life, right? And I don't want to get guys to come the confusion that I had trouble with women I just had I had trouble with keeping the ones that I liked it But yeah attracting women and even sleeping with the ones I like I had that that was no issue in all my life And that was just yeah, if all you guys wondering Well, how did I do that? Well, the simple of the fact is I just accepted my uh Insecurities or my flaws and just understood what what rejection was about and that's how I would get rejected guys Regardless of women who found me attractive or whatever I still if I approached 10 women at the mall I would get four numbers, right? That's six rejections Those six rejections Then lower my self-esteem That that was the issue. That's what kills most guys Rejection kills them and I never let and and that's what the issue. I've been trying to teach guys for the longest is You're taking rejection personally Rejection is basically just preferences and time timing it has I would go to the mall some Saturdays Talk to 10 women 15 women get no numbers Yeah, turn right around the next Saturday can't miss It's like every girl I walk up to is like Boom boom boom now. Did I get better looking in the week Tony? I don't know. I did not get better looking in the week this week for whatever reason. It's just better timing It's like sports almost years. You got in the zone. You're gonna fire. Yeah. Got in the zone. Boom boom boom I had the same I had the same thing man I did thousands of cold approaches as a pickup artist and stuff and sometimes you do good Sometimes it just blows up in your face like the whole night just fucking shit But you keep going you keep going and you learn And and and but those rejections that you got you didn't look in the mirror and start finding shit wrong with you Like, uh, you know, maybe my nose is too big. Oh my ears are too bad. Yeah negative negative talk and it's toxic You know, it's like eating garbage food drunk food Exactly Tony and that's the guys for all y'all guys that's wondering what's the difference between Tony and ams and you the guys who struggle with women. That's simply we don't let rejection bother us. That's it That's it. If if I let those rejections bother me and I went home and look in the mirror hard enough I could find start finding shit wrong and start blaming it on that. Oh, they don't like ball-headed men Oh, they don't like guys who've got eyebrows this thick like I can just find shit That's wrong if I want to the thing is I'm not changing And so I just understand that I'm not going to be some women's cup of tea and that's fine But you know what next weekend I'll go. Thank you long reach one women have wildly variety taste of men Exactly And I know next week will be different. That's it guys. That's it. You let rejections Lower your self-esteem and confidence and I don't I think I could I remember back in the day when I used to do that at the mall I would go through a month where it was like, oh, it sucked that month the next month can't miss sleep with 20 women in a month different Just had a month where I couldn't hit nothing maybe slept with one girl like god damn suck Next month 20 25 women and just past the previous month was like damn. It was a slow ass month That's the thing guys and I would never let it deter me. That's the thing When some women would reject me like what get out my face. I didn't look like literally get out of my face Yeah, I've had that man. Does women just blow up on you sometimes especially if they're drunk and shit Yeah, it's like but I I never let that got to me and that's what I've been trying to teach guys from day one whether you're five five Or were you six five? Your brother Tony bought up on the other video About god dre he saw the video I was talking about the short guy dre in middle school Well, he was more of a ladies man. He was only like five four five five and he I was at the time like six two Damn We both was considered good looking But the women would let him get away with stuff and they would not let me do stuff And and that's what I'm trying to tell guys if you any guy who tried to tell me about height I'm just like you you kidding yourself. I saw it firsthand in middle school. You know, um Your brother bought that up and I'm like you gotta tell me who I'll never forget that dude night 20 25 years from now I never forget that that dude was a legend in middle school And why would you think uh, you know that was is because women are very emotional That's what comes to mind for me when I hear that because they're so responsive to emotions Even if a guy is short if he makes him feel the right way Maybe it's charisma in his game or whatever Is that something like that? He's his masculine energy. He was he was what we call cool And he was always like He was always even killed for guys who wonder what cool is cool means cool mean you don't get too high You don't get too low. You just always right here. You know, most of us we get real happy We get real sad or you know, we get real playful, you know, whatever He was always right here. He was very mature for his age I think we're times like 13 years old 14 years old and he was very mature He carried himself like an adult at an early age and that's why I tell guys about that masculine frame because one thing that screwed me around when I was young in school With a lot of girls despite being good-looking and tall considered, right? It's no universal good-looking guy in that case. I would never got rejected. But the thing was Me acting very immature In middle school compared to him and that's when I started to notice that This guy gets women let him get away with more just because He is more mature more in his masculine frame, you know, and then I was I was more playful more like I act more like the other guys 13 14 years old more playful and he was more in his masculine frame So women feel more comfortable letting him get away with stuff because he acts more mature and that's the thing Well, I tell guys shout out my man afric kingdom. That's my brother right there. Gotta get Gotta get Appreciate it The thing the thing was and that's why I teach guys when women see you act like a man They'll treat you like a man in middle school. I acted like a young boy Which ain't that wrong without I was acting my age was only like 13 14 at the time So but what I mean, you know is They treated him different because he was in his masculine frame and I was Acting immature and acting young and that's why they would let him despite being half my size Damn I want to get into some more specific questions here. I got listed out. So kind of we'll do hot takes on this stuff Go as long as you want. Okay. Go ahead. Number one. Should you ever argue with a woman? No, I never argued with a woman. Um Dan was blunt. I like it. No, never Never never argue with a woman. Uh guys arguing with a woman is acting emotional and stuff like that And you're not going to get no logic out of them. I'm telling you that right now So this is what you got to do You got to sit down. Let's let me think of something that uh will cause an argument not compromising All right, so you guys got to understand that I teach you guys this too all the time also in in some of my videos Uh submitting is not not being able to compromise uh You got to compromise with your woman sometimes or you're going to create arguments. Okay I the one thing that why I never argued with my girls and then like that is because I know how to do some things I like and then I also know how to do some things they like when we do everything I like that's going to cause an argument and see that's what you guys got to understand That's what a lot of the times that's where the arguments come from is you never You never do none of the things she likes to do. We never go none of the places She likes to I always take all of my women What they like to do into account also, so we're gonna do this. I I want to watch the Lakers game Okay, fine. We're gonna see them watch the Lakers game, but altherists Oh We might watch the notebook or whatever because Wait, wait, wait, AMS watches the notebook Oh, I asked me just watched the notebook and it was good and I I've never seen it. I've never seen I've seen the fidget shades of gray movies But I've never seen that one. I gotta watch it now. I'm gonna watch now. It's cool and now we're gonna watch it. Okay Yeah, because she was sitting watch the games with me, right? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Okay She was sitting watch the Lakers game with me. She'll she'll watch all the Lakers game with me You know, she know I'm gonna watch the whole game. She's gonna watch football with me and stuff like that and Even though we're not in a monogamous relationship It's still this little give and take right? It can't be all about AMS AMS AMS That's why I've learned well a lot of these arguments come from because I've been selfish like that in the past And that's what four years on his air path taught me that whether it's monogamous or non monogamous Uh, that's why I meant to say non monogamous relationship What is that or non monogamous? The thing is you still have to compromise and it can't be all about you if you guys start compromising just a little bit I guarantee some of those arguments you guys are having would dissipate and say if it's something about That's just how to take this is nothing like that. Let's just say you come in the house and she's just acting Bitchy or whatever the case may be just understand guys that this is coming from your behavior before That's how women act when you not acting like a man They start getting real bitchy and testy and stuff like that Now you have to say from this point on i'm not getting involved in that bullshit Do y'all guys understand? I don't y'all i'm not getting involved in that bullshit I like this a lot man. It really reminds me I've said in the past in some of my speeches and stuff that masculinity good masculinity like really solid Shit is very inclusive Of other people including women and that sounds like what you're doing is a style of masculine leadership Whether monogamous or non monogamous You're taking what she's doing and what she cares about it into account It's not going to dictate. It sounds like what you do But it's going to influence it and to her whatever what you want to do with it. That's I think that's pretty good Right, is that what you're saying? Yes, that's exactly what i'm saying. Tony is that you guys got to understand that Monogamous or non monogamous relationship is not a dictatorship and that doesn't mean that she doesn't want to submit to you You can't expect a woman to want to do everything you want to do and you never want that's gonna cause arguments I'm I promise you you can't I like the Lagos play today She's gonna take one for the team and she's gonna watch this Lager game They watch they play tonight and she's gonna watch it and she likes basketball a little bit But that's that's not kid ourselves like she wants to sit down and watch Lager's game Every other day that's bush like she likes it like okay fine but No, she don't want to watch but she will for me and so I will watch something that she wants to watch And the funny thing is guys is and when you do this the funny thing is A lot of times they end up putting you on something that you might not have liked that ends up being good I like the notebook, but that's something that's something that if I was This is very surprising is someone's gonna cut this out and like ams loves notebook. Oh, there's gonna go after you I don't care about Guys know all my flaws. I tell guys about the basement. I tell guys about They I couldn't attract one thing. Well, I think helped me On youtube is me being authentic me at my flaws. I tell guys that I was a loser up to 34 I told guys I tell guys I guys they know my whole story and I think they last on to that. Nick. It makes me more relatable You see and I think authenticity is very rare today, man. It's associated on the internet It's all fake instagram crab photoshop this all this fucking fake bullshit So it's good man. I'm not surprised that you've been successful with that attitude Me acting like I'm superman and never made no mistakes, Tony It that I'm telling you right now me acting like oh, I'm I'm so perfect and every woman I've ever wanted I slept with and I've never uh Treated put a woman on the pedestal and stuff like that. I tell guys The reason I can tell you what not to do is because I've done it 10 times over. I've done it I've lost girls from not compromising every just being selfish as you know, they would say is Everything's about me me me me me, you know I've lost women from that and that's why I can sit here and tell you Don't do that especially the ones that you want to keep around Don't do that life is about compromise if me and you was to be partners, Tony It can't be all AMS way AMS. I got to listen to some stuff Tony wants to do Tony might want to say, you know what? This is what I think we need to do for our business blah blah blah And I'm like, oh, you don't want to be my partner. You see everything's got to be about me So y'all guys got and and and the thing is uh What didn't like the notebook and stuff like that I'm open minded. I ain't gonna lie. That's something I want to watch that home by myself But I'm always I'm always open minded and I'm always Looking for in other words, let me tell y'all guys some y'all guys know I got on the walking dead and game of thrones by women. I was dating Same same here, man same same exact story for me, man. I would have never watched that shit I would have never watched it me Comparizing with women to watch something that they want to watch I ended up falling in love with the shit and I would have never sat down and watched no damn walking dead or game of thrones because I'm not into that Tight shit. I like more like dramas realistic dramas based on two stories tight dramas and stuff like that Matlock type things and stuff like that. I'm not and end up game of thrones is my favorite show all the time Off of a girl put me on to it It was already in season four before I even had started watching it with her and then I had to go back and watch it So I'm just breaking that out guys because I want you guys to be open minded also that when you try new things You never know what you're going to like Just being open minded Damn a quick shout out to rob cruise of the super chat. Thank you, sir $20 super chat salute to the chat president johnson ams and afi kingdom me earlier. Thank you, sir. Appreciate it Thank you brother. By the way, damn. We got any more super chats another fresh one here buck 99 Compromise and talk about of the time you learn video Do you have any I haven't seen that whole video yet? But I know cut you a guy down as a bunch of guys did reviews on it. You any thoughts on it I thought I seen uh My man kevin samu's I seen the little clips of it on his live screen last night And basically she was just basically uh, because I don't I ain't see the whole video So I don't want to it's long too. It's like a half hour. Oh god. No, I saw like Like one minute of it where she was talking about What you want a chance with women like me and all this I saw like a minute of it So I got a watch. I don't want to come in on it before I speak all of it, but uh The thing is I'm just gonna say this too Y'all gotta see me talking about some tommy lauren video and stuff like that. Yeah Y'all y'all gotta see what I'm talking about y'all think michael join gonna sit down and watch the tommy lauren video I'm just I'm just being honest. Do y'all guys think uh, men who are conquering the world and are doing stuff This this is what I see was wrong With a lot of society with me and now michael join is not gonna sit down Bill gates are not gonna sit down and I need to watch the tommy lauren video And this this is the point that I'm talking about Who cares where she that's one woman her opinion. That's the thing what I hate about me and I didn't even want to make that will and jada video But every damn video I made up to that point Half the comments was about when your video about will and jada coming up People everyone's obsessed with it. Yeah, and I was like if I don't make this goddamn video I was like, okay. God damn you win. I'll make damn video. Leave me the hell alone I I kid you not Tony I hadn't even watched a red man group not a red table discussion, right? I didn't watch the red table discussion. I didn't care and guys just bothered me about I said, god Now let me watch the video talking about but the point being I was like this is this is what Going on with me word about the wrong. Shit That's word about who cares. I don't care about will and jada. I don't care about tommy lauren. Who cares I just Is you on your purpose? What you what you did today? All right, what what what what's your investments gonna be for this year? What are you investing in? Uh, how are you gonna if you somebody who's depending on that stimulus check What's your next plan of action now that cunders didn't pass that did any y'all got nobody asked me that What do you think about uh congress not passing it? Nobody cares about that. That's not it. We'll know no ams. What we need to know is what tommy lauren thinks I need a video on tommy lauren. I don't need to know about Congress passing this three trillion dollar Uh, stimulus package and don't keep our economy afloat that that don't care. That don't matter I need to know what you'll thought about this silly girl tommy lauren and huck thoughts on men and women Who gives a flying fuck? All right, uh, well spoken man, right to the point. You have a laser focus. I think is what you got with the stuff, man It's inspiring. It's good. Well, it's all chatty patty Tight crap man. It's just it's like one thing my uncle told me is don't don't count nobody pockets Don't worry about the other just worry about you You you you anything going with celebrities? Yeah, okay. Did he just bought a new boat? Okay, but What what you did today what that what what significant is that going to bring to your life? No, I need to know I don't want to talk about did it just bought this hundred million dollar boat That's what my life is revolving around right now. Who gives a goddamn. How's that making you a better man? and that's what I just We got another uh, super chat questionnaire, uh, another black experience five-dollar super chat. Thank you, sir He said i'm preparing to go monk. I think he means like monk mode for three months I don't want to get over my addiction to female validation any tips What what I what I was talking about what what what what what I just been talking about this whole What we what mean tony was talking about at the beginning of the show what's your purpose in life? That's what's going for all you guys wondering how I stopped chasing tail And before I became a trainer, right? What I would do is this is no joke, right? um I would Match on match.com I would sit I've never been a tinder fan and every day I was sent out like a hundred copy and paste Messages a day And some respond just that another and that's what I did when I became a trainer at the gym And I was trying to build that business up all of a sudden that went away all of a sudden I pretty much In you know indirectly became monk mode Just by getting on my grind Because at that point I was only focused see up to that point till I became a trainer tony Up to that point. I had ample time on my hand when I became a trainer And I did the math at the at the gym I said, you know what? This is time. This is the time Shout out red peel chauvinist. Uh, this is the time I can change my life I need to eat sleep and crap in this gym This is all I'm gonna do because I'm at a point now in this gym. I did the math I said I can make a hundred and twenty five thousand dollars a year Hundred and twenty which at that time was all the would have been by far the most money I ever made in my life And I said, this is it I said no when I was already dating a woman at time So I didn't have to go out and chase one women But even if I hadn't had her I could have went month mode to build my business and I just Live sleep. In matter of fact that woman we stopped talking because I wasn't able to give her the time Anymore that I was giving her I told her I can only see her on sundays Opposed to when she used to come over a couple of times during the week I couldn't do that no more I told I could only see on sundays over time that came the issue and I said you go ahead. I'm focusing on this Yeah, and that's what killed my addiction to female validation. What was her response when you when you told her that I'm curious Oh, no, it was a slope. It was a it was a slow pullback, uh, tony. So, uh, I didn't tell her directly that my actions Said that I'm not that cold-hearted to say listen, you go. I wouldn't do that but my actions my actions Netton when a woman brings something to you and you don't change your actions Say that and my actions if if I wanted it to work out with us after you bring it to me a couple of times Guess what? I would do tony. I would make the time So my actions is saying If you got an issue with it You go ahead and going on because I didn't I didn't make the time So like what I tell you guys if a woman wants to see you regardless if she worked two jobs in school And to be a doctor if she wants to She could make the time it might be a little tight, right? But if she wants to she'll make the time I I didn't make the time Right. And so that my actions said that but yeah, and so but that killed my Getting on my purpose and grind That killed my because like I tell you guys That that that time has to be filled with something the reason why you attracted addicted to females like this because you got Imple free time in your schedule. So you got to feel that time some way It is what you're going to do. I mean, it's only so much tv you can watch So eventually you're going to venture off into something that's not worth doing and now yours is females I guarantee you if you were studying to be a surgeon in school to be a doctor or something like that I guarantee you wouldn't have time to think about women That's the point i'm saying if you really on your grind if you really on your purpose You you'll see it naturally goes away. I don't have time for that crap I don't have time to be on match all day sending out a hundred messages to a different type of women I don't have time even right now on work writing my next book I'm doing this interview with you as I get through doing this interview with you I'ma go on my patreon and I got to answer Uh, the the questions that they write and stuff on because I you know I go through all the the questions and I answer the question for my patreon because they They support me on patreon. So I answer their questions Which also create other video ideas by the way Yep That's what I'm talking about and so I don't have time to want oh, you know Let's say I wasn't doing this interview with you toni and let's say I didn't have that patreon Well, you know what let's go on match and let's Send out a hundred messages because I don't have nothing else better to do Or be like it's like a dumpster of your time. You just thrown it away Just running away or let's go to the mall and let's see if we can meet some and that's the point guys Either you're going to do some productive or you're going to do something that's going to waste your time The only way you're going to get over that female attention thing you got going on is to do something productive Which is get on your purpose. So you need to find out what do I need to do? What am I passionate about and something that I don't mind working 80 hours a week I don't mind doing this. Look how many collabs I done did over the last week Yeah, you're firing man. You're killing it Well, the thing with me was uh I was in a little shell and so I didn't I just didn't deal with people And I just said, you know what? I mean, you was talking about that. I don't even want to bring it up. But you know what I'm talking about I stayed off to myself And so a lot of guys had done asked me Long time like anybody who watched that roommates podcast the guy said I asked this guy over a year ago And I finally got him on the show I think I had just ignored all Requests I was like, I don't want to deal with nobody. I'm just gonna stay off to myself I don't want to bother with nobody and I just said, you know what? I'm I'm not gonna let Negative people keep me from expanding my business and stuff like that. And so that's why All these Things have just piled up and I just started back doing them. That's a good example You being open-minded and kind of active-minded you're you're like, all right Let me change this up and pursue pursue something new which is collabs your fans I think are loving them and the senior all over the place now Yeah Exactly like give me to see the interactive side of ams because they still used to me just being by myself So yeah, you absolutely right speaking of that what inspired you to start the four horsemen a game The collab podcast you guys have now. What's uh, how did that get started? It's pretty recent. Yeah Yes, so by how I figured I say, you know what if we work together All of us are grow We help each other grow. Yep. So I'm introducing you to my fans You're introducing me to your fans and sure enough. I'm right You know my patrons and my book sales have went up and I guarantee you if you talk to them I guarantee you they would tell you they programs and they book sales have went up And they views have went up So I know that when you work together You actually are more stronger force than individually That's the thing. Well guys have this scarcity mindset Well, I don't want to introduce them to my crowd because you know, they might still book sales It don't work that way. What I've seen is Pulling together you actually make more money and I I would bet my left arm that if you were to talk to them They would tell you the same Thing that they all they've used and all they all the patrons and all that type of stuff I guarantee they'll take the same thing theirs have went up And that's the thing where I try to teach guys Work together, you know, everybody got this scarcity mindset Well, it's only a select man It's millions and millions of guys out there struggling with women There's never going to be a shortage of because women are kind of complicated if you don't understand them So a lot of guys struggle with women So it's always going to be guys out there even me at 33 years Oh, I couldn't understand why I was always losing the women that I the the women that I was highly attracted to The women that I wanted to be in a relationship with Yeah, it can't be I don't think we should understand that that was important to you Like even though you're banging hot girls, I get that man You could still have something that you want to fix or improve or change And even even if you're getting late and banging hot because you girls it's not the same thing If you still have something I met a couple guys in the pickup bars community like this too We'd be surprised that he he was so good looking. It's one guy. We knew ultra was he went by He was just like he was literally like a model like girls would say him and we would joke that like girls would get There'd be puddles on of the girls and shit He was because he's ridiculously good looking like a like a you know model Right, but he but he were like, why did you join the pickup community? He's like, well, I wanted to get better and I still have problems sometimes Particularly like like you like keeping like a really, you know, high value girl like a 10 He would maybe do what you did but finding this community helped him, you know change that Right, it was important to him. It was so but he was so good looking it was hard for us to understand that Well, I can I can sit here and tell you we're out the back toning Uh looks is not the most important thing. So yeah, you might be And that'll get your foot in the door But that's all it'll do because a woman's the way you look to a woman is based off of her interest level So like let's say let's say you meet a woman, Tony and she sees you as a five, right? Looks like Okay, let me let me use me woman see me and I'm a five, right? And you can tell when she views you as a five because she's on a date and she's not all You know talkative and She's not touchy-feely and stuff like that. So But over the course of a couple of dates With my personality and my charm and my personality. I raise her interest. Guess what I'm starting to look like a 10 now Yeah, you see what I'm saying. Let's say a woman sees you as a 10, Tony But she goes on a date with you kind of corny. You kind of lame Guess what you start looking like a five Yeah Yeah, they they change these things on the fly too, man. It's all in their head. So it's just what they perceive, right? Right. So like I tell guys looks just get you in the dough Your personality is what's going to ultimately Be where your interest level is a woman because initially see you as a 10 get you on a date You kind of lame and boring to her you start looking ugly That's the thing you guys don't understand is you you physically start looking ugly to the woman And a guy a woman could get out with a dude that barely she barely gave her number two And over the course of a couple of days his personality is on point his confidence is on point And it don't mean that something she She just likes his personality because I want you guys to understand that some women will even like like nerds like guys who can talk about You know roman empires and stuff like all this is subjective like Like some women are history buffs, right? And you're a well educated guy And you start going out and you can talk about that stuff What you're going to be more interested in that other guy over here that she couldn't you couldn't carry that conversation with some women up Um, they got a what they call that Accessuals or something what they call it. Oh, it's safe. Sapeo sexual. Yeah. Sapeo sexuals now Like that. There's all kinds of bullshit pansexual sapeo Well women are very Interested by the conversation So that's and then and I tell guys that's all subjective and you could go out So if all guys wonder what I mean is let's say I go out with two women both of them see me as an eight But this woman she loves my conversation and personality and this one doesn't I did the same. I'm the same person. I had the exact same conversation This one loved it. This one didn't and that's what guys y'all guys gotta stop taking everything so personal This woman just loved my personality I was the same. I wasn't goofy or corny or none of that with neither one of them But one loved me and the other one thought I was lame and boring Well, the other one that's lame Maybe she's more into guys who know about history or computers And maybe this one more into what I like to talk about sports and uh stuff like that traveling Y'all guys, that's all subjective. That's why I don't take that personally Y'all guys take everything personally this woman didn't like me. Well fine It's not all looks she maybe she didn't like what your conversation was about That's why y'all guys got to understand That's what guys like me understand and what a lot of guys don't understand a lot of this stuff is subjective Every woman is just not going to like you But all you guys that wonder what I mean about that How can you hang out with two guys? You love this guy But this guy you like I don't really want to hang out with him no more What you just didn't like his personality don't mean the dude was a bad dude It just mean that you didn't like he wasn't your cup of tea That's what y'all guys got to stop taking everything so personally Yeah, it's the same way in the reverse man some girls you just you want to bang them in their hop But you just don't want and then you do actually enjoy them and the other ones you just don't want to get it You literally want to kick them out like as soon as you can it's just It's the way that it could be the way they talk it's their interest I had one girl a man this really hot chick I banged back late last year It's super hot great experience and then shot talking about disney plus or some shit and i'm like I just I remember I was like I just want to jump out the window like I don't give a fuck about disney plus Like it made me just want to be away get away from her like kick her out and I ended up kicking her out later Right, it's just that just personally. I'm like fucking disney plus like I don't give a fuck like right And in the bank a lot of the times tony that could have been a time in the u2 sometimes In the mindset of I just want to bang as many chicks a hundred and sometimes you like you know what I'm a little tired of that I got this good girl. Maybe I can settle down with two chicks or something like that and sometimes I think I could settle for two. Yeah Say sometimes and then sometimes you like hell no the sun is out. It's the summertime I'm banging a hundred chicks. I'm just having fun And even if you met the right chick even if you met the perfect chick just mentally you're not in that mind space Yeah timing timing Yes, opposed to it. She would have met you next year It does next same time Maybe you in a more of a headspace to be in a more monogamous relationship You see what I'm saying? And so like I tell guys a lot of times it's just timing too Where you meet a woman and she just maybe she just don't really want to deal with a guy on that level yet And you turn around and meet that same woman six months and now she wants to be all over you It's just It's a lot of this stuff is timing guys and preferences. Y'all got a lot of learning a lot of this stuff is subjective Stop taking everything. That's one reason why you know the main thing I try to teach guys Is that that a lot of this stuff is just being subjective looks Personality a lot of times there's nothing wrong with you. It's just a matter of you Y'all guys want to know where my confidence come from? I just had the confidence to know that you might not like me you might not like me But I know there are some women that will like That's a lot of them, right? There's millions. There's probably millions There's three and a half billion women or whatever. There's got to be millions that want to fuck you That happily would if you know if you meet them exactly without me changing a damn thing without me losing no way without me Changing my personality. I don't need to go and learn some personality courses or none of that Just me being the person that I am I know that There are going to be women that like me and there are going to be women that don't and that's their choice fine All right, quick shout out to some super chats. We got here new vision five bucks. Thank you, sir Hit the like button. We need more content. I appreciate that guys hit the like button helps the video And we got another one too. I think here we go Cochio 1999 she got a suck a whole lot of salute AJ and ams respect. Is that a quote from you or something? What is that? That's that's a quote from me. Uh, so, uh, what you getting that from is that uh I tell guys to walk away, right? And then if it's all like when a woman is not acting right I tell you to walk away and when she comes back she got to suck a whole lot of All right, all right. Fuck yeah, man We got another uh, mr. Chip chat. I missed it here 4.99. Uh pounds or something from ibz Question for ams backstory most of my homeboy has been hating on me for years low-key Can ams, please make a book on male nature. I can't trust people I actually wrote about this in my alpha money strategies book guy And basically what I talk about in that is cutting people off For all you guys don't know my story. I haven't talked to my brothers in over 10 years and um, and that's my that's my brothers but You know, I just get to a point to why I just say, you know Fuck the bullshit. I don't care who you are if you if you somebody that I think has not got my best interest at all I just cut you off right now period you hanging on to them homeboys Is actually you acting in scarcity you showing scarcity you actually see y'all guys just worried about scarcity with women Y'all guys gotta understand you have scarcity with uh friends also and by you Hanging on to those friends that you feel like hating on you you actually acting like a guy that don't feel like he can make other friends Okay, so you have to have that same mindset that you have with women about scarcity With friends also they not immune to that if they if they not Good for you. You got to cut them off you keeping them around It shows that you just don't have no confidence in yourself and making other friends and understand guys The the feel the to lose scarcity just can't be I meet more women or I meet other friends The the scarcity thing's got to come from also the ability to be alone And I don't need another woman and I don't need friends So what what am I going to replace with that? And this is where our purpose comes back into place We all gonna get lonely So you're gonna have to have something to feel that the one reason why I don't have to take crap off friends because I'm afraid of being Lonely or a woman because at the end of the day I can just grind 100 hours a week on this right here I could write chapters in my book so I can be alone because I have my purpose If you don't have purpose you damn sure gonna have to shout out Tony You damn sure gonna have to replace it with something or you're gonna get lonely Which is what you have a fear of you see what I'm saying So when you do get on your grind You have no problem with cutting off women that are not good for you or cutting off friends And family that are not no good for you because now you you have lost your fear of being alone Because at the end of the day now you have your purpose to feel that void Yeah, this is awesome. It's a very healthy philosophy. It's very there's actually a philosophy I follow called objectivism that encourages this too. It's a rational self-interest. It's focusing on yourself Not I'm not at the destruction or fraud of other people, but uh, and it's selfish negativity ship But in a very positive like long-term kind of way, right? I think that's exactly what you're promoting That's really good. So what guys need to hear and there's not enough of it to hear tips and tricks bullshit Right instead Right exactly tone out that that's what I've been getting more into lately I've been getting more into my life experience and then y'all guys go to my other channel. I made like Six, uh, and they the views on those are very good. Those those videos are very good And that's on my smaller channel. I said damn. I wish I would have put these on my big channel, but Um, I see I seen that guy took to those me telling guys the most biggest mistakes and stuff like that Because at the end of the day guys a lot of it is up here a lot of it is just your mental My mental is ability is this right here If you don't bring value to my life you out my life because how I look at it as being in my life is This is something that I don't have to have and so if you don't bring value when I say value I don't mean money. I just mean happiness or you somebody that's positive If you don't bring positivity into my life I don't need you into my life because you just you detracting From you supposed to be if i'm gonna have you in my life you supposed to actually add to it Or at the very least don't detract from it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It should be positive and mutually beneficial Right exactly and you definitely don't get that from me. I never gotten that negative I don't bring negativity around. I don't even address it Fuck yeah, we got another super chat by the way speaking of positivity. We're cash positive on this show Uh 999 probably appreciate that jonathan colby He said being in my purpose means I don't have time to keep putting her Her in check and playing games and she loses respect. I'm an inventor which means long periods in empathic mode not defending No, I like that That's that's the thing about being on your purpose and stuff like that is that everything What what I told guys when I first started youtube Was you know you for all the guys who just finding me You might some of this stuff you might have to pretend Uh because you just coming on to me you've just finding me so you you might have to If you're a guy that's not on your ground now you might have to Fake your value as in responding three or four hours later when you don't have to I said once you get on your purpose You don't have to do none of that type of stuff Being higher value just becomes natural if you've got if a girl takes me right now. I'm doing this interview I'm not gonna say Tony. Hold on one second. I need to just fund my girl right quick. Yeah I don't have to fake my value no more. I'm very busy. I got stuff to do I actually didn't go out last night and went to bed early Simpler the fact that I knew I had to get up and do this interview see little simple stuff like that Yeah, oh You don't have to fake busy and all this type of stuff when I get through with this I'm going to answer the emails on my patron. I don't have time To fake and do this that other I am And that's what I tell guys so shout out to my man who wrote that last comment Basically, what he said is when you authentically authentic authentic On your purpose you don't have to fake Yeah, now I get it man. Yeah you sometimes when you're learning the ropes you got to fake it to you make it We used to say pick up community right now, but at the end of the day it should be automatic I think it's kind of your standard right and it comes naturally. Yeah. Yeah, it all it all comes natural And you don't have to do nothing. You want the fake and it just comes natural I'm on my purpose. You don't have to do nothing to add like I'm too busy. I don't want I don't have time Yeah, fuck. Yeah Some more hot take kind of questions. I wanted to go through with you here Maybe the audience will throw in more here too So you mentioned you had some comments earlier kind of hot take comments on the mixtape community I think you addressed that What are your thoughts on the pickup artist community? As it existed historically and even now a little bit still and then what are your thoughts on the red pill community if you're familiar with that Yeah, uh, I consider myself red pill, but um, okay I thought the pickup pickup community and that's another reason why I started Basically the pickup community was basically teaching guys how to Fake confidence and go up and approach women Even though you're not confident, which is a losing strategy So basically guys how I look at the pickup community was they were taking a bunch of guys who was Unconfident and teaching them how to go up and talk to women and pretend Like you're confident and that's a losing strategy in my opinion I think you have to do the self-improvement to get the confidence And no shortcuts the reason why the pickup community did so well Back in those days because they were teaching guys. Hey, you don't we're gonna take a shortcut This is the shortcut This is all you got to do right because what they basically telling guys was women are checking your confidence when you come up and approach them Right, you don't know it But this they're they're reading your body language and they're checking And this is the body language and this is the lingo and this is how you talk This is how confident men talk this how alpha males talk when they approach women And so we don't teach you how to be one of those even though internally you don't feel it And yeah, this caused a lot of problems too, man A lot of these pickup artists would do that stuff like you're saying Then they'd end up in like these fucked up relationships because they they weren't really the man they were presenting themselves to be The chicks bought the fake bullshit and then it just blew up in their face though. It was fun At the end of the day was stupid Exactly guys the only thing that's going to help you Maintain that because so like you can go up to a woman and you could fake confidence and maybe you get a number, right? But at the end of the day when you get on that date and she started hanging around you Your confidence is true because women are going to test and that's why that's a losing strategy when you do that Yeah, that's a test is coming man. They're gonna get you. Oh god. They're gonna get you. Oh god. She's gonna check your abundance Oh All guys watching this i'ma tell you right now The worst thing you can do with a woman is when she's late Don't say nothing. I'm from I promise you if you don't say nothing I'm telling you that's the worst thing you can do the the best thing you could always You are already starting out on the wrong foot when a woman shows up late and i'm not talking two or three minutes I'm talking y'all guys know what i'm talking about y'all have women show up 20 minutes late 25 minutes late Basically, she left the house at the time y'all supposed to meet you told her eight And she knew it's going to take her 25 minutes to get there and she left at eight Did that's what we do right when you text her and tell her hey i'm here and she's like hey I'm on my way. She's leaving the house right then right that's what i'm talking about and when she get there You don't say anything you're asking this scarcity. You acting like a pushover right off the back If you're not confident It's gonna show you you're gonna be too scared to say anything. Well, you know, I don't want to rock the boat Yeah, she might get pissed. Yeah You know just that other Say something if you ain't left, right? I give women a time limit, right? If you ain't left All right, i'm i'm being honest on that if you ain't left but uh, and I ain't leaving Because uh, i'm trying to raise your interest. I left because you wasted my goddamn time and i'm a high value man I ain't got time to play around with your ass, right? Yeah That's the thing guys when y'all go on a date with these women and then she started shit testing you and she started doing a little crap That's when it's gonna show out. So all that shout out nathan all that Pick up crowd faking confidence. It's it's a short term fix But it doesn't it doesn't work guys the only thing that's really gonna get you confident is to do the self-improvement And i'm surprised that I took off telling guys that about do the self-improvement to get confidence and stuff like that because uh That's been around for guys telling guys confidence confidence confidence alone before I came The the issue I had with guys was and I got in wars over this when I came to youtube was I was telling guys to do the self-improvement to get the confidence And and and I was called i'm teaching beta male game because i was referred to as teaching guys beta male game because i'm telling guys that Uh getting money and stuff like that's how you attract women I wasn't telling guys to get money and give your purpose to attract women Although that it helps I was telling guys that because I know it builds abundance It builds confidence when a man can bring Something valuable to the world it builds confidence like i'm i'm worth something You know i'm i'm creating empires over here that that that that makes a man feel more valuable You got options man when you got you got options I got options now. So i'm not gonna take your crap and that's facts And anybody who tried to dispute that is if they kidding themselves And so If you have to do that to get the confidence That's what I want you to do. I don't want you trying to fake it. I want you to get the confidence Okay, any further thoughts on the red pill community itself They talk a lot about alpha beta alpha males beta males. They talk about a lot hypergamy in these things It's all separate communities separate from the mctown the pickup artists saying got a comments on that Well, the the thing with alpha male beta male like I was telling your brother the other day Uh, I don't believe in alpha male beta male. I believe that everything is what that person perceives So like like me and you honestly perceive ourselves as alpha male. So that's how we act And some guys who are watching this they perceive themselves at beta male. So that's how they act And the same goes for women a woman a one woman can see me as an alpha male And another woman can see me as a beta male But i'm the same person what is all in that person's perception of what they want, right? Of what they what what they view you as and that's what's all that whole alpha male beta male I don't believe there's no universal alpha male or beta male regardless of who you are There's gonna be women who will sleep with leonardo de caprio Simply the fact that they think that he can improve their career Which it which means that she only view him as a beta male as then he can provide her with something She didn't she didn't view him as an act. She's trying to get something from him Now if a woman views you as a beta male, you still banger. Yes Yeah I got I already knew tony was telling me that yesterday I was dying I got bang them hoes too. Yeah My guys know man. We fucked them hoes too, man. We don't we don't discriminate if a woman want to see Like if I got nice stuff if I got a nice car I got a nice house and I dress nice and she says You know what? He looks like he'll be a very good beta male provider. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah for for two dates I'm the best beta fighter for two dates. That's great. That's funny We we bang those too. So the issue with that that's that's my take on the alpha male Beta male as far as the hypergamy and stuff like that. I believe Hypergamy is a woman So what's hypergamy? What brings one one woman hypergamy might be different for another in other words guys and I know this is gonna shock some of you guys Some women don't care about money. I'm just I'm gonna tell y'all guys something I've seen women leave guys with money go be with a bomb. I know y'all like what I'm guys. I I swear to god Any y'all who think that movie casino is just a movie Anybody who's lived long enough would tell you they've seen women Choose a bum a dude sleep on his couch and they had a dude with money They don't left his food to go sleep with his food on his mama couch. I'm telling you I've seen the first hand so That but that is still hypergamy. She chose what she Felt was best for her and that is and that's what when I say hypergamy A lot of you guys just think money choose the most money No, hypergamy is a woman. It's just cutthroat and what it just do whatever Makes her feel good. So the guy who got the money. He's heartbroken. He want to kill himself tough Shit, I want to be with this guy on his couch. That's what I want to do So hypergamy makes women cutthroat like that any y'all guys know us men We don't we not as cutthroat like that. Yeah, we not we have empathy Before like I can't you know, I can't do susan like that man susan susan help me out man I just can't Susie still cooked me that dinner one time that shit was so good. I can't do her wrong Yeah, I know man. I know susan susan did me right women ain't like that Oh, but mark did I don't give a fuck. I want to be over here with Jeff and and and Yeah mark let me stay and he looked out for me took care of my three kids He raised us and that's out of but Jeff I just that's what my heart is the heart wants what the heart won't and she'll leave that dude cutthroat So hypergamy guys is women's ability to just do what's best and they interest whatever that makes them feel good Not money not saying that it can't be money a woman will leave you for if that's what she values the most If a woman if a woman values money over everything She will leave you for a guy that makes more money, but i'm telling you sometimes it works the other way Well, a woman just likes a guy the way he makes her feel He he makes her tingle and she'll leave a guy with money to go be with a guy that don't have nothing Just because he makes her feel better, but that's still hypergamy Yeah, now in your opinion too. Does that change over time for each woman? Is that going to adjust as she gets 20s 30s 40s stuff like that? Yes, like also what another thing I teach guys is that and guys this whole I hate this whole This one philosophy of the red pill that I hate is that women Um sleep with the alpha male when they're 20 and then when they're 30 they start looking for the beta male provider I hate that I hate that crap because this is the thing with that guys As with us women we mature and we evolve This the type of women that I would sleep with today Is different than the type of women I would sleep with when I was 20 years old and that has nothing to do With me looking for a sugar mama That simply means that I've matured and the type of women that I was attracted to so when I was 20 years old I would sleep with hood rats with yellow hair and gold teeth They would be beautiful Ratchet, you know, they was very hood but they had beautiful bodies pretty faces But they were just I would not I would not talk to those type of women today I don't I don't like hood women these days back in the day Only thing that mattered to me was a big butt and big breasts and a pretty face And I didn't care how hood or ratchet he was that's what I'm 40 years old now I don't want to talk to that type of woman. I like a little bit more than just The physical now I'm like, what's the conversation about? You know, can I sit down and have a good talk with you is more than just Oh, she got a big butt. Oh, and this is the same thing that goes on with women that A woman is 20 maybe the little, you know, guy that walks around, you know With his pants hanging halfway off his ass and maybe and he's sleeping around with maybe that was hot then Now I'm 33. I don't want to deal with that that crap, you know I want I want a guy that's More stable in his life and that's more attractive to me now to where as in I yeah I used to hang out with the thugs and you know, the guys that were Getting around that was attracted to me. But now that I'm 33 years old That's not appealing to me no more. That's not me looking for a better male provider That's just me maturing and I can speak for this from From my opinion, I've done that the women I used to talk to when I was 29 all of them I talked to them but a lot of the women would just have big butts pretty face and big boobs and then upstairs And the wind have a job a lot of them wouldn't have a job Some a lot of them had no plans for the future. They were just attractive I would I promise you Tony. I wouldn't even sleep with that now I wouldn't even I would not even I wouldn't even waste my time with men like that I all the women only I'm attracted to now is Even though I'm not looking for the relationship and then like that I'm looking for a positive woman that have goals in life. I will I can't even talk to that What's what's you gonna be talking about crap? That's Disney plus man. Disney plus is what they're talking about. I don't even want to sleep with that I don't even want to deal with that and that's not me looking for a sugar mama now That's just me maturing and looking for more than just oh, she's hot And so y'all guys gotta understand that once a woman matures, she's 32 33 34 years old What was appealing to her when she was 19 to 20? It's just not simply going to be appealing. She wants a man That's more stable. That's just maturity. All right now Ken possibly a woman who was 20 and now she's looking for a better mother. Can that exist? Yes But to to to to make a generalization like that. I think it's crazy when I just think we all evolve as human beings All right. We uh, you you could be a guy that lived the uh, the bachelor lifestyle I think Sean Connery didn't get married till he was 55 or 57 or something like that He lived the bachelor life all his life and he he finally That don't mean that that just means that he evolved and he changed He's like, okay, his his taste buds changed like I don't want to sleep with A thousand women a year no more data thousand women, you know, just one and that's just what happens guys We all evolve In human beings and then you guys go back and watch my First 10 videos and then watch my last 10 and see my how much ams has evolved And i'm quite sure three years from now from still doing this I'm gonna be evolved some more and that I might be making financial videos Well, I just don't even want to talk about women no more And we in human as we live we just evolved and changed I know I done changed so many times throughout my life, man That I think we all changed so that's what I think about the whole Beta beta male provider and women doing all that programming. Yeah, I've heard of me yet that that people just evolve Yeah, I've had the same experience man I wanted to say that that as I've aged and matured that my taste of matured and stuff You know 10 10 years ago if some girl was talking to me about Netflix or something I might have been more You know, okay with it But now I'm just like I don't want I don't want to talk about this shit Right that you even brought it up is just kind of odd like, you know There's nothing else, but I'd like it I could be better than it's it's a value thing too Like I know I can do better than this. I know there's more interesting women Right better values and they match better and all that stuff. Yeah, right exactly because when I just take those other girls Those girls were beautiful Even with the yellow and purple hair like Even with that like they still was like banging like, you know, but they was just so ratchet, you know saying and I'm like Now I couldn't even like no, I couldn't even you just don't want on your life Y'all just don't want that crap in my life, man About three years ago. I matched with a girl on a match, right And uh, she sent me a message and I had no idea You know just looking at her she's seen Gallant date ratchet as hell. I'm like, oh god. I had no idea from looking at the pictures, right? She just looked normal on the day she ratchet as hell I'm like, oh god. I ain't had one one of these in a long time Just as ratchet. I'm like, oh my god I said, oh, let me get out of here. And that's the thing. I didn't want to fuck. I don't want to fuck. I don't want to I don't want to deal with that Yep, a quick shout out. By the way, we got a couple super chats here from migtao ghost son 1999. Thank you, sir Thank you for all you both do for men The system has shifted masculine strength from men to women And because great men limit the government and women don't after three years I found my purpose and worked 12 16 hours five days a week He sent another one too Same guy finding purpose in life takes time because of all those beta male conditioning society pushes on men And making men more feminine when you find purpose and life your entire mindset will never be the same light becomes better Thanks for the super chat, sir Shout out brother. Good shit man. I like to see in it. Yeah So we're a little bit over 90 minutes here. We kind of start winding down I do want to round out you mentioned a lot you talked a lot about Basically cooperating people now collaborating things like that And for 14 years, that's been my experience too. I've loved being that since day one Even when I did my first conference back in 2007 the under 21 convention for young men I only spoke out a little bit. You know, the other 99% was of the speakers And I've always done that So and I've been doing it now 14 years and I got we got you speaking there We got coach Greg Adams like Elliott Hulse. We got a bunch of guys man coming out So I wanted to pull it up and this pop question Who are you most excited to meet at the event as a speaker? Who are you already collabed with coach Greg? Let me see what's going up the list Yes pop question we got tarynth pop there if you know him from youtube big dude steve brulee Jack murphy steve the dean one. I'll probably say, uh I'll probably say I go with uh Elliott Hulse Okay, yeah, there you go man. I'll eat savages. Fuck man. I love them. Great dude Yeah, Elliott Hulse Yep, we brought him on last year for the event. I even got him. You can't see it on here because it's like cut off I was the Elliott Hulse with the um With the fitness channel. Yeah. Yeah, South camp. Yeah, it's about two million subscribers Yeah, I was into Elliott Hulse with the uh with that right now Yeah, yeah, I think a lot of millennials millennials Elliott got so popular that people like grew up with him He was like like a mentor. I think that's what you're doing for now. You're the next Elliott Hulse man Yeah, yeah I Wanted he was one of the first people that besides the hodge twins I think he might have been the second person that I found when I found the fitness videos about maybe eight years ago I think he was like the second one behind the hodge twins. Yeah. Yeah, I like the hodge twins Yeah, they say Elliott is there uh, they joked Elliott's like a third cousin or something. Yeah, yeah third twin the third twin Yeah, they do kind of favor them though Yeah Well, I really appreciate being the show 10 minutes has been great. Uh, we're looking forward to having you out at the event Meet me and shake in your hand Guys alpha male strategies will be uh at the 21 convention coming up here in land of florida The biggest event we ever done october 1st to 4th 2020 three events total. This is the main event He'll be speaking at alongside coach coach greg adams. Uh, Elliott Hulse a bunch of guys make sure you get tickets And we're gonna have a volunteer opportunity soon too We're gonna take about 12 volunteers and you can check the youtube community tab for our details on that Make sure you check out alpha male strategies at alpha male strategies dot com And you get his books on amazon just type alpha male strategies He's got three of them. He's got the money one the advanced game and the main one. Uh, here we go They really appreciate your time man. It's been a fun show. Thank you, bro. Good for you guys Any closing words for what men today need to hear? And uh, the world today in 2020 it's been a while here Uh, the main thing guys is if nothing else this pandemic and stuff has told us the The main thing we need in life is need purpose and investments All right, the guys who had investments and stuff like that We're taking this and it we don't we don't have to worry about nothing This is why it's very important for you guys to make sure you're investing your money not just buying crap We want to buy crap buy crap later. Let you get your money to working for you first That way if you buy a lot of abilities, it don't mean right now I'm I'm comfortable, you know, and and that's the and I ain't talking about just youtube I'm talking about the money I got invested into the index funds and stuff like that And so for my guys, I tell well, I wouldn't say real estate right now Probably good, but y'all guys get what I mean. We may need to get on our purpose and have investments All right. Fuck yeah, man Uh, well, maybe I'll have you on again sometime may very much appreciate your time Thank you everyone else everyone else appreciate tuned in live to the show super chats likes or comments all that helps the video Greatly appreciate it and I'll see you next saturday 11 30 a.m And we'll have new guests on next weekend special guests again Peace out and see you guys next weekend and thank you again ams. Thank you brother