 And men swipe right 60% of the time because our threshold for who we'll have sex with is a lot lower than your threshold who you'll have sex with. In other words, we'll have sex with most anyone. Even Billy Crystal said it in the movie when Harry met Sally, but who we'll commit to our threshold is incredibly high. And so why I think it's important to recognize this is having deeper conversations and building intimacy, emotional intimacy before you build physical intimacy ensures better communication so you don't have to use these techniques that other coaches or even, I mean, by the way, it's important to express your needs, okay? And do it in a compassionate way. I am all for that. But when it's done in the way that's taught, I would feel good if you did this.