 Linda says, what if you are already sleeping together after two months and now it's been a total of three months and all has been good? How do you bring up exclusivity? Well, you bring it up by letting him know what I would do if I were you is I would bring it up by saying, hey, you know, like having a talk with him and preferably before you guys sleep together again, where basically you let him know that you only that you've decided that you only want to be physically intimate with a guy if you are being exclusive together and that you're not neither one of you are sleeping with anybody else and then tell him say, hey, you know, if if you decide, you know, I want to make sure that we're being safe and that and that everything's good and that, you know, we're being exclusive with each other and so if you decide that you want to sleep with somebody else, you know, will you make sure that you tell me about it so that I know what's going on and just listen to what he says because he'll if you tell him if you let him know that you want to be exclusive and you're just like, hey, I I've decided that I really I don't want to see other people, you know, I don't want to be having sex with other people while we are being physically intimate together and I don't want you to be having sex with other people while we're being physically intimate together because it you know, I want to make sure that we're being safe and that, you know, that everything is kind of understood between us, you know, and and you know, and then ask him, will you make sure to let me know if you decide that you want to go and sleep with somebody else so that I understand, you know, what's going on between us and making sure that we're being safe together and just just have a conversation with him kind of from that basis point, you'll find out a lot about what's going on with him and how he feels about that and whether he's willing to do it or not. But if you're just looking for exclusivity and you guys are hooking up together, that is the best way to do it is just to kind of bring up this conversation about exclusivity and and give him freedom, give him freedom to say yes, give him freedom to say no, give him freedom to be like, okay and and you know, based on what he says after that will be very indicative of how things are going, right? If he's like, you know, if he's like, yeah, sure, I'll do that. That's great. If he's like, hey, yeah, absolutely. I was, I thought we were exclusive and you know, I'm not seeing anybody else that tells you something else. And if he's like, hey, I really just want to see you and I think that you're awesome and I want to spend more time with you, that will tell you more, right? And so how he kind of responds to that conversation tells you a lot about what's going on.