 Naika sayi kiyangu juu, I do all those things to impress you so that you can consider me. So there is a part of consideration. But after considering me, I cannot continue doing those things, because I was doing those things while straining to impress you. So as easy happen tena. So sometimes I'll start drawing like if I used to call you three times. Na kopa, na bay, na kopa, na kuba eba. Sasa usha ni kubali, ni kisha bai, ni isha ina toasha. Una na, I can continue doing those things. Na najam to kiringa sa ana. Okay, so there is a slide. There are actually two, there are two graphs. Why men get intimate and why ladies get intimate. No, I want you to show the guys first. Go back, rewind, pulo pulo pulo pulo. I want why men are intimate. It's just one reason guys, one. Back, why men are intimate. Adwait 54 Facebook, adwait 54 channel, Twitter. Hashtag is why in the morning. Men are intimate just for carnal drive. And this, by the believe it or not, nili kwa. In fact what I did was I went to a place where I'm not used to being a lot. Nani kenda pekiyango. Lafu I joined a group of guys. So ni kenda tun kansatu kuliza ma suwale. Okay guys, hi, I'm a TV presenter and I'm trying to get content. So what would you tell me about this? Kani bia monomet kaka tu kitumo? Kitumo ja. Nani yo. Ya, that is why. But then when it comes to ladies, ni vitumob. One is to kee suzi ali peyana juzi. Mindi o tu de mua puloti pe kestia peyana o. Pressha. Kido kudogo. Sijui, you want to connect with your man. You feel like if you give him, he'll never go away. Baby, that's not the truth. Another one. Sijui, you want to know. Umpend yosu sasa akai nawewe. Akwe ni boyfriend. Chau kwelo. Sia ti, testing, testing. Asi se mea ti. Oh, we are just talking. No, no, no. He must call you girlfriend. So kako na sidechik. Akwe ajuwe. Sasa wendio number one. That's the man of commitment. So if we may ladies, where would you like to start from? Because piyakuna financial gain. Tenda ugawe, junata kanyuele. Veninani yame se maapa sayai. That's true. Do you agree with this graph first? You do? I completely agree. Ya, pick on one and let's discuss. Let me pick on the financial gain. Most ladies nowadays. That's where you see they are going for sponsors. Ju anata kapesa. Mutu anata kujimaintain. Nuna kuna deyumame. Jeka wizuri akuna natural hair. Akuna ni ni meka piyote, setyote akuna ayo. So like you want to live in this standard. Venye ya akundi wepia unata kubishi. So here in Atfanya tunende ya. Hawa tuni akuna pesa. The mania ko inaisha evo. You are worth inaisha evo ju. You want money, just want money. As long as you have money, you can do anything. And that's where you go around the area. But we don't wake up early every morning to get money, guys. Is that what the point of haso? Everyday you work hard, work smart. However you'd like just to get money. It's true. That is wisdom. I would like to top up a national seed on financial gain. For example, you are a student. For example in campus or maybe high school, you know. Hormones zitu reactoraka. Yeah, very, very fast. Nice century. So you're like, you have a boyfriend. I don't have. And then every time you come, manza kubrag like manzee. Nime ba you are risk watch. Wow. I went to ABCD and ABCD and I was bought this and that. Of which it's very expensive. You're like, why me, why not me? So you also have to look for a person who is financially stable when at least you can brag about it. And then in campus you know you have to dress well. Competition, handbag glasimai kwebizuri. Yeah. You eat in like five-star hotel. You're like, lunch I'm going to. You guys I think had a different campus experience. Actually kwa mimi kwa campus and I know this thing. I had a friend. We joined together for semester. And then took a second semester. She made a sponsor. That's how we call them. Kanza kum spoilek nyuumba. By the way, to some point we have to blame our parents. Toto campus, we don't check on her. You even don't call umemleta. She's there to beg her effort like kusoma ni bidi yangu. Imagine, toto hana cha kula. She has to strain hana job. You understand? So like elibidi twame given to the sponsor nampanya everything. And then later on she ended up quitting the school because she had more than enough. Pesa kunae, what else was she looking for? Wait. Yes. Wait. Mi kwa dani historitisha na ball? No. Actually. What? Ati she quit school because. I quit because most of the time when I collect. Sina credit. Imagine how much kwa mpesa ya ke. 50,000. I am currently about to. Ushai wneji pato na texte mpesa. Like mbonu me ni amaz. Like ni ni ni. Sisa sii vo. For financial gain manzi sii tu na gonga. Mostly madem we have to strain. Buu hii achenda po inje. Aha sol na juneza. Sidi am toto kube badlage za kakudunga. So sii sii atu wezi. We cannot do that. No kwa elina tu na chaka. I want to go for this person at least. Na ni boosti vivi vene na chaka. Despite what he want. I don't bother. I don't mind. As long as. Provided you're giving me what I want. It's a fair deal. Sometimes I feel like ladies are. Let me use this bad name. Sometimes they tend not to use their brains well. Why now? I'm not saying you ladies. I'm just saying ladies. I have a friend who stays in a. 20,000 house rent. She does not have a job. She has this. This man who always call every friend. Where are you? Where are you? They go meet up. An up to 5k, 10k and a roadie. Kwa yo 10k atatua. 3k unda nyewele. Fani shopping 2k and make a 5k. You know these are university graduate. Asha graduate. Ako na B.A.K. Atak tofta kazi. Kus of the experience. Kwa nai shule. Asha na udina month. She can make like 20,000. Or 30,000. So it means she can pay rent. She can survive food. Nini kutfta food. Nakfanya all those. So she. She's miss. I think the period between. Kampas. Your first year at 4th year. Neskia kuru di Kampo. So I think it's. So I think it's a problem then to style up. Kido go. And I think nipia even in our family. Sisters should try and talk. Engages or talks. Kiyom kubwa. Ma sayde ya da kom dogo. You tell us some of these things. Kwa zizi vitu zina fani kapa. Nika pula ma dimeni. Abdo ako pe kyao. Pumizeli wa pe kyao. Aman, there's a very big gap between the bigger sister. And the small sister. So hei wali ma sisters ake na kweju. Wana wak nai ako tu. They don't check up on her. So I think girls need to be knowledgeable about these things. Okay. There's a meme. There's a meme over a cat over there in a chill chill. A lafu caption ni story nasponyo. Wakini e kia tu yo. Stand by. Umaswa nini, mene ya. Doi. When you get tired of going to work every day. So you start hitting the golf course. Looking for old rich men. Yes. Special nuna. A patalapda. Sponsor na kubuki ya. Hotel siji 40k. Drinks siji li kuja like 30k. It's 70k. Nga utatukapo na 5k ya uba. Shika 5k. Misha manizana. So like... You're like... You spent 70k a tail. Nga umitoka na 5k. Sosa hei wei. And then buti ya nga nakuja puna kata wa kuspoin. A kuspoin mkule. Mwetch movie. Asubui a kwa mebe bain min menda klasu. Nona. We will tend to say a desponsor is better. Kushi na wei umutumigene. Yet, this one has showed you affection. Intimacy. Kila kitu. Without you having that guilt. But we sponsor amukutumia. At the end of the day, gave you only 5k. Okay. Let us discuss those two scenarios. So each of them dear girl child umegawa.