 Good morning afternoon evening night everyone Today's video is dedicated to the topic of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder ADHD is it somehow connected to narcissism and Is there a kind of trilateral structure autism ADHD narcissism Similar to the dark triad Okay Let me first clear One of the question one of your questions I've been asked if it is true that psychopaths lack impulse control How can they climb to the top of the corporate ladder? How can they become? leaders of Countries how can they attain any goal? How can they put together teams to work with? If they are goal oriented Doesn't this conflict with a lack of impulse control? Wrecklessness and inability to predict the consequences of their actions well It behooves you and it's very helpful to make a distinction between types of psychopaths There is a primary psychopath There is a secondary psychopath and there is the dark triad psychopath Now the primary psychopath which I also call the clickly psychopath because it's first been described extensively by Harvey clickly This is the kind of guy who is all over the place. He has no impulse control. He's defiant His contumations is he hates authority and authority figures He is reckless. He's ruthless. He's callous. He's relentless. He's a love case in short That's the kind of psychopath who gets in trouble all the time and that's the kind of psychopath that Robert here started his career with Robert here was Psychologist in in correction facilities in Canada That's the kind of psychopath he had described and clickly Even mentions Robert here's work in the fifth edition of his seminal masterpiece the masks of the mask of sanity But then here teamed up with another guy Baby up and together they started to study corporate psychopaths and they got a totally different picture The psychopaths who end up in prison and the psychopaths who end up as chief executive officers of fortune 500 companies They're not the same type of psychopath Now before we come to that other type of psychopath secondary psychopath is essentially a borderline we believe that most People diagnosed with borderline personality disorder When they are subjected to stress to anxiety especially abandonment anxiety When they endure narcissistic injuries because most of them are grandiose they Devolve they become secondary psychopaths. These are psychopaths Which maintain a sense of empathy full-fledged empathy and have access to emotions negative and positive So there's a primary psychopath. It's the motionless empathy less not case Lacking an impulse control all over the place etc. etc. secondary psychopath who Cannot cannot regulate her emotions. She has dysregulated emotions as labile moods is is hyper vigilant Anticipates rejection and abandonment constant it develops anxiety is under enormous stress Subjected to narcissistic injuries all the time and so on and then she becomes a psycho And she acts as a psycho but still maintains her empathy and feeling and there's a third type of psycho It's a member of the dark triad that the dark triad is a set of traits narcissism Psychopathy and Machiavellianism and it is the Machiavellian element That endows these psychopaths with the capacity to plan ahead With the capacity to anticipate the consequences of their actions and with a lot of impulse control and The ability to be pro-social when needed put together people to work towards a common goal so these are the kind of psychopaths who end up being politicians or Senior corporate figures or clergymen or You know people who work with other people and they're pro-social and there's also a pro-social communal narcissism who has the same more or less characteristics so Machiavellian Machiavellianism is the components is missing and now there's another new Suggested confluence of traits and behaviors. It's known as the dark tetrad The dark tetrad adds to the mix a secondary psychopath or a borderline or a covert narcissists So it's all the above narcissists psychopath Machiavellian and plus Lability emotional dysregulation Mood swings in other words plus borderline Characteristics which lead to secondary psychopathy. So within the dark tetrad we would find covert narcissists Who under pressure and stress become essentially primary psychopaths? We would find borderlines who anticipate abandonment and rejection develop anxiety become secondary psychopathy and Within the dark tetrad these people would have long-term careers They would be very self-efficacious They would obtain an extract favorable outcomes from their environment Etc. Etc. So this is where the confusion comes from The Psychopathy is not only a spectrum, but it's a typology. It's like saying bacteria. You have you know hundreds of bacteria I mean millions of bacteria. It's like saying viruses or coronavirus coronavirus is a family The same with the psychopath the secondary primary dark triad dark tetrad I mean there's variants of psychopathy and you can't put all of them in one basket when I talk about psychopaths in my video If I don't mention the qualifier secondary or dark triad or whatever. I Mean a primary psychopath. I mean a clickly a clickly psychopath The psychopath who is dysregulated disco-populated Unable to control his impulses his rage his envy his negative emotionality Separates his negative emotionality from his positive emotionality and represses his positive emotionality to the point of anishi Has no empathy except cold empathy the ability to scan cognitively and reflexively other people and And you know spot their vulnerabilities and then leverage the banner vulnerabilities to obtain goals So that's a goal oriented type of psychopath and so This mixture this mixing is common. Unfortunately, especially online Where many self-styled experts and wannabe experts and would be experts and have been experts and so on so forth They tend to confuse narcissists with psychopaths with secondary psychopaths with borderlines with some with CPTSD. I mean, it's a completely taxonomic hopeless classificatory mess and chaos out there because people who don't have a clue what they're talking about Present themselves as experts and made enormous diagnostic mess So today if you want to know who is who and who is doing what to whom you must attend a university in My own small way. I'm trying to bring the university to you I'm trying to teach you what we teach in academic institutions with what we teach in academic institution Institutions is based on Scholarship is based on studies on research. We don't accept all research unquestioningly. That's why we Try to repeat the experiments. That's why we try to conduct other experiments to elucidate and and Criticize aspects of previous studies previous scholarship. So this is a process. It's called the scientific method by which we obtain Knowledge that is ever closer to what we believe to be some kind of ideal truth. This is called the asymptotic process This is the way to do science. That's the way to learn things You can't just wake up in the morning and say, wow, there's a lot of money in narcissism and psychopathy I'll declare myself an expert. I'll declare myself an expert because when I was 16, I met a psychopath He was sitting at the next table. I watched him for one hour and that makes me an expert It's a mess online. It's a serious mess The other day Someone wrote to me and said Sam. Do you know that your videos are shadow banned on YouTube? YouTube had eliminated your videos from the search results and from the algorithms that recommend videos to people and Of course, there's no such thing as shadow banning. That's yet another conspiracy theory Social medium will either ban you or ignore you But there's no middle ground. There's no like shadow banning. They don't tweak the algorithm for my sake. I'm not that grandiose My videos are simply not of interest to me. People don't watch my videos They don't click on them when they are recommended People don't think the my videos are relevant to their lives. They don't find them helpful And I mean very good company Kernberg Otto Kernberg is the father of the profession He is the one who had described borderline personality disorder in great detail. He's he's the father of the diagnosis He is also the most preeminent scholar after Franz Kohut in the field of narcissism The most preeminent experimental psychologist in narcissism is Keith Campbell who usually collaborates with John twinge And so both Campbell and and Kernberg have videos online Believe it or not if you search for Kernberg borderline or can but narcissism you'll find interviews with him videos with him You'll find videos by by Campbell and Yet these videos get no views Kernberg I think is 15,000 views 15,000 views Any coaches dog gets more than this any Narcissistic abuse coach gets more than this in the first hour of posting a video I'm the guy who coined the phrase narcissistic abuse and it first to have to describe it 25 years ago And I don't get a fraction of the of the viewership that hundreds of self-styled experts on narcissistic abuse get Kernberg is the same Keith Campbell gave an interview four years ago about narcissism This is the guy This we base all our knowledge of narcissism on his studies on his scholarship He's the pillar. He's the rock the experimental rock upon which we built our citadels of knowledge and Campbell gave an interview About his work in narcissism and to this very day four years later. He has 76,000 views, which is nothing Nothing I can show you guys who can hardly speak in the back and shooting videos in the backs of cars And they get 70,000 views within two days Two days not four years. I'm in good company. I'm with Kernberg. I'm with Campbell I'm with CJ Yung Yung videos typically get 20 30,000 views Yung Carl Yung From a rare videos with Freud and videos from the 50s and 60s with pearls the father of Gestalt These videos get 10 15 7,000 views People don't want scholarship What are people looking for echo people are looking for echoes People are looking for other people to tell them that they are right that they are victims That they had done nothing wrong that they are superior in some way. They have a lot of empathy that their knowledge Self-imputed knowledge is actually not anecdotal, but expertise People want to see on the screen people who are exactly like them And so there's a mutual admiration society going on. It's a manifestation of narcissism, of course the whole Field of narcissism and narcissistic abuse in social media is infested Absolutely contaminated With narcissists teaching narcissists Narcissists talking to covert narcissists Narcissists and covert narcissists paying money to narcissists and covert narcissists and psychopaths Corn artists who pretend to be empathic and loving and helpful This is this is the scene Real experts real scholars and I am not talking about this I'm talking about the likes of Kernberg and Jung and Freud and Keith Campbell and Twange and you know, I can Go down the list if you heard If you heard of a single of the names I have mentioned in my previous video if you heard of Glasser The the father of the core complex, of course you haven't of course you haven't The real experts the real scholars the people who know what they're talking about 100,000 percent They don't dare Put themselves out on YouTube. It's a swamp. It's a toxic swamp And I don't deserve any credit for being online and for making videos and so we all know I'm a narcissist I'm a psychopath. I'm doing it for narcissistic supply. I Don't have I I'm not quite sure what kind of supply I'm getting I all my videos are free ad free I am not promoting or selling any products as you see. I'm not pushing retreats Like some self-styled expense. I'm not pushing courses like some coaches. I'm you know, I'm Just giving you information. That's all but okay forget all this. I am here and If I deserve credit and applause for anything It's my courage in putting myself out there as a scholar Because guys you hate experts you hate scholars. You hate medical doctors Poor dr. Fauci is afraid for his life You hate science. You hate knowledge It's an age of occult and nonsense and Religion and corn artists and gurus and mystics and yogis and coaches and Liars who pretend to have doctorates Yes, many of the so-called doctors online are not doctors and you Enable these people you are people pleases because you don't do your homework. You don't ask difficult questions You ask me difficult questions because I'm a narcissist I'm a narcissist you have the right to abuse me But you don't dare You don't dare write a similar message to dr. So-and-so. Excuse me You claim to be a doctor in which university what here where are you teaching? What have you published? No? You don't dare Your cowards simple Your knowledge hating cowards And still I'm gonna continue to make videos And I'm gonna continue to try To penetrate this veil and this firewall of ignorance self-infuted self-inflicted ignorance and I hope One day you will wake up and you will begin to make a distinction between well substantiated well research information and data and Rank nonsense coming out of someone's delirium very often drug induced delirium alcohol induced delirium Thank you for listening