 Leaving the place, you know saying Steve oh man like this happened Da-da-da-da and he's he's getting it on with it. They're making out. He's you know, it's continuous escalation They're making out. He's got her top off. He's fingering her She's got his hand on her dick and all this stuff and she has turned on man It's a very sexual person. She's turned on and he's pushing like a guy pushing like a guy Oh man, I want you to own my cock blah, but he's saying like I'm like Did I fucking talk to this guy and he's going on and on and on but he didn't elicit her intent Guess what a woman has got to be individualized and bottom line is The only people you should be having sex with are people who want to be having sex with you. All right We're not here to learn how to You know disrespect that shit. So in order to get that what he didn't do Was say well wait a minute. I want you to do something to me Do you like that? Another example would be like this I'll be making out with the girl trying to escalate whether this is like the total awesome go-to move That you should do making out with her she starts to get nervous. Hey, you know, it's totally cool Like dude, we don't have to do anything. Let's be mellow. I want you to kiss me I want you to kiss me though. Like don't think about Anything sexual I want you to kiss me just kiss my neck and see what's going on Like I'm gonna feel you and then because she is taking an action She's showing her brand of sexuality. She's showing herself who she is as a woman and then when I start Accepting that getting turned on by that and going oh man. Fuck dude. I can't control myself. Look what you're doing to me Geez man. Why like oh man fuck. Do you like that? Do you like that? You are doing this to me see this distinct point? She has shown her intent. She is you have elicited that now in your situation So now that we're trying to get this map a little bit better your situation. I contact she accepts you like Oh fuck a man. I contact she got close to shit. It's sexual tension. Hey, dude. Just relax Like I you know you're a cool person I want to know more about you to find comfort relax and then you can say but you know what man It's harder in a conversation But you could say man you're making me kind of nervous when you look at me like that. Do you see her doing it again? Should you like that? You like that? No, but I really like it too and So what's happening then is if you'll see her light up again You'll see that fear alleviate and pick back up and then what you got to do is escalate and escalation is a constant process These are cycles seduction is a cycle rapport emotion They're all cycles that build feedback off each other and then what you would do is you could either stop get a date You could move to an emotional thread and continue to cycle again But you want what you're going to realize is if you get here, especially if you elicit this intent you can go really quick You should be getting to anybody here who's interacting with people and being social if you are having Conversations that are over five minutes and you are not making an emotional connection. I Would believe you are wasting time if you are not making a sexual connection within ten minutes. You are wasting time It should it should be happening in that that you know your statistics shouldn't be you can't just approach people and be a hundred percent But on the ones that do connect they should happen fast Cool Yes, sir. Hello Yeah, I have been struggling with concepts from other company but yeah pick up is primarily about action and execution and I find it really difficult When I'm taking action and approaching women to not be validated by their reaction So this is one thing that is always weird. You should be you should it should affect you like and this is what is always said that like, you know Kobe Bryant or whoever Dwayne Wade or whatever, you know athlete or in any form of sport Doesn't react, you know to their failures bull Shit when they make a basket, they're fucking on fire like it like we should like we have to control ourselves as men But you should you should care about validation. The thing is action is a key thing action Nothing in your life can happen you being your best self Is dependent upon action perfect example there was a girl Who I actually Do some crazy orgasmic meditation stuff with amazing person. She's like a life coach Of course, I say this because you know we're orgasmically meditating amazing amazing person, but I She she was telling me I said man should I go on this trip? I got all this crazy stuff and this was maybe last Sunday I didn't buy my ticket for here today. It's Sunday. So a week ago I don't buy my ticket till Tuesday. I'm like man, should I go? I really feel I need to give this speech and This convention means a lot to me. You have no idea like seeing seeing you guys and also the guys that created It's like a huge thing in my life Like money and business structure is like way fucking 8th place and priority 21 convention is a big deal And she said man if you feel that you need to do it Yeah, it sounds like a risk and maybe there might be some stupid business pros and cons going on but it sounds like you want to do it and your passion is your job and what you do and how you express yourself and In what gives you meaning is you and you need to take action on it The only way that this can turn into something good is if you take action on it now The problem is is there's another thing don't listen to too much pick up shit pick one go with it You have many things conflicting they might be saying the same thing But they're with a different voice and you're gonna go in a circle and confuse yourself pick one Go with it dedicate yourself to it. They'll get me wrong man There's probably a lot of fraudulent stuff out there, but I bet you all the technique is probably pretty legit The second thing it that I notice in that is man use yourself as the value Dude when I put myself out there and somebody rejects it it sucks When I put myself on the line and share myself with a woman because that's what it means to give the best sexual experience That I can have I need to do that when I put my entire life, you know when I am Whatever even if I'm just hook it up with a girl I'm still being me when I'm the only way that that's gonna turn into a good experience is if I'm being me If I'm not being me, then it's almost impossible because sex is organic It's impossible once you are in a sexual state once you're in a state of what you really believe in doesn't even have to be sexual It could be what you're passionate about. It's impossible to be inauthentic You you have to take that road Pass it on The photographer and what's up, man? I think a lot of The struggles that we have across many different areas of different stages has to do with having Courage really okay a lot of times we we know what we've learned. We've read something. We've talked to somebody. We know where we are We want to do in a particular moment and looking back we will wish we would have done but how do you build That up. How do you build that biggest way you can have courage? I mean courage Courage means that you're presenting yourself at any lengths right and putting that risk out there And so you got to look at what you're having courage about if you're having courage to perform a technique That might be necessary for you to get in a mode Dude if you're stagnant you don't know what you like you Don't know where to meet people you got to take actions outside the box and push your comfort zone However, if you're obsessed with pushing a comfort zone, you're gonna go in a circle Right, you're never gonna get there So the true the best way the straightest line to have courage is to take action on what you believe in That's what courage is so you need to start doing that your technique should reflect walk hand-in-hand and be married with what you believe Quickest way to do that. I have this huge inventory that have you guys do. What are you attracted to? Physically mentally idealistically all that sort of stuff. What's attractive about you? That should be your pathway. That's what's gonna turn you on That is what is going to Get you aroused and when you're aroused You're in action, you know something has to happen