 I believe this dude is one of the best public speakers on the planet. Always gets me excited. He spoke at the most recent 10X for about 14 minutes and just unbelievable. He took us to church on a Sunday morning at that event. Unbelievable job. Please welcome to virtual stage my good buddy unbelievable speaker and someone I'm trying to emulate so I can be a better public speaker myself. You could see him in Vegas and now you're seeing him on virtual. Mr. Tim Story. What a privilege to be part of this conference again. I got to do it before but now I got to do it again. So to Cody and to Lauren askings thank you guys for inviting me and your team. I noticed that when I was with you guys in person you guys had an amazing team that really cared about all the people that were there and I know that your vision is to see other people's vision come to pass. So we're talking about this great conference the 8% nation conference and once again what a privilege to be a part and today I want to talk about getting the right breaks in life because I'm convinced that there are so many people that do good things but it seems as though they don't get the right breaks that they need. So I want to start with the story that some of you are familiar with and that is the story of George Foreman. George Foreman was a very good boxer had come from humble beginnings and the interesting thing about George is that he was a very angry person you know he talks about in his speeches now and even his book about his life that he was just an angry person. Some of you remember that George Foreman fought Muhammad Ali he fought George Frasier and you know he's a great boxer but one day he was boxing and he fought a competitor where he was expected to win in over 10 to 1 odds and he lost. According to his story after the fight he was in the back and he felt like he had a visitation actually he says from God and that he felt like God said to him don't be angry George anymore that you're going to be happy George well it actually happened in his life where he started to make the choices to become happy George okay he said all right Tim what's that have to do with me everything because it was many years later that he was approached to do a grill a grill a grill that would cook hamburgers it would cook steaks cook chicken could cook many things and they called it the George Foreman Grill. Now thank God for women in our lives whether it's your mother your girlfriend your sister your wife because sometimes a woman has a perspective the man can't see so George Foreman's wife saw the grill and said George I kind of like the idea but I don't like the grill so I think that in order for you to do this project we need to say no to the talent fee that they want to give you and say if you let us put some of our ideas on this grill and become a partner of the grill then maybe we'll do it well knowing the inside story this is exactly what took place they wanted to pay George a certain amount of money that I know the amount okay it was not large just to be talent George's wife said not good enough for us we want to be partners well here's what happened they retooled the George Foreman Grill and over a period of time the George Foreman Grill from the beginning of the grill to now to present day has sold over 100 million grills worldwide so let's just suppose that he only made four dollars per grill you can do the math that's a whole lot of money what do I call that that is a break now there is a proverb that says this unrelenting disappointment can leave you heart sick and I really want to deal with this because this is a lot of my strength I've spent so many years teaching on the comeback now about 30 years and as you know many of you that I work with a lot of entertainers over 300 entertainers at present and so many of the people that I work with if they're not in a setback now usually when they came to me they were in a setback in one area of their life or another so here's what I find that this proverb is real unrelenting disappointment can leave you heart sick now unrelenting means this unyielding steadfast with determination a lot of us have been facing in our lives unrelenting disappointment mostly with what's happening with COVID-19 I know friends that are in the gym business as in physical fitness of over 100 gyms that had to close down I know some of the biggest restaurant owners around the world closing down the restaurants people who speak for a living not speaking uh close people to my life their jobs shut down in the entertainment world all of us have been hit by COVID-19 now so unrelenting disappointment which means it just keeps coming it's unyielding steadfast with determination can leave you heart sick now the heart is the center of your core and this is so important for you to hear because it is going to still be a great year for you you're still going to live an utmost life that life will call you to upward moments and downward times do I still believe this absolutely but we have to deal with the disappointment we can't just act like it's not there we can't pretend that it's just going to go away you got to deal with the disappointment so unrelenting disappointment can leave you heart sick so the heart is the center of your core and the reason you have to get your heart healed is because watch this courage comes from your heart peace comes from your heart joy comes from your heart gratitude comes from your heart generosity comes from your heart faith comes from your heart so if you have been disappointed and disappointed and disappointed and your heart is sick then it's hard to manifest all these amazing things so I believe that some of you you are ready to manifest amazing things but we have to deal with your core we have to deal with your heart the word sick there means to be ill to be ailing to be down okay so unrelenting disappointment can leave your heart sick but in this proverb it says but comma a sudden good break can turn your life around so I was doing some research for you guys and I found out a little more on this word sudden it actually means unexpected unforeseen immediate quit hurry wouldn't that be so awesome that out of nowhere something unexpected unforeseen immediately quick hurried came and gave you a sudden good break just like George got the George Forman Grill don't you think life is big enough to give you the right kind of break now I'm going to give you something that I think is super super cool and I want you to really catch this I was at a baseball game I love I love sports and I was watching the LA Dodgers and I was about the third row right by the dugout right right behind the dugout third row and I ended up sitting next to a retired medical doctor he had been a heart surgeon from the area of Santa Monica very classy man must have been mid-70s very classy wife who happened to be sitting next to me so she asked me what I did and we started dialoguing and she was very interested in what I did for a profession and so as we were talking we were going at it about life and turning setbacks to comebacks and and celebrities etc true story don't forget we're at a baseball game we are on the first base side right hand hitter boom hits the ball veers off it goes towards where we are sitting three rows back out of nowhere this lady who I later found out is 72 years of age classy lady from a good neighborhood reaches under the seat okay in front of her pulls out a baseball glove and goes bounding for the ball and misses this time so I had been talking there for about four innings so I could not stop laughing I was with a a male friend of mine a businessman and he was laughing I was laughing I could not stop laughing and I said miss what in the world are you doing and then the doctor spoke up and he said all she has been doing this for years she brings her baseball glove to every game because of season ticket holders for the Dodgers and I you know because I'm curious I said I said about how many balls have you ever caught and she says well my record is 13 I said you caught 13 foul balls over the season in one in one year and she says yeah but I I do usually about 9 10 or 11 balls and and then the doctor teased and he says yeah because people feel sorry for you for you and get out of your way and I thought nevertheless she she catches the balls so here's my point in order for her to catch that foul ball number one she had to be in the right position number two she had to breathe she had to be prepared she brought her baseball glove every single game so good guys number one she had to be in the right position had she been sitting way in the top okay not the right position secondly she had to bring her baseball glove every game she had to be prepared number three this is so important and I'll get into this today she had to have the right posture and I'll never forget even though she was talking to me she had one eye on the game she was talking to me one eye on the game she had to have the right posture disappointment if you're not careful it'll give you the wrong posture many times I'll say to somebody how are you doing I'm doing okay how's your wife she's doing okay how are your kids doing I'm okay they're okay how is your job doing it's okay and what's happened is they found themselves in what I call the land of okay this lady was in the right position secondly she was prepared brought the glove every game thirdly she had the right posture and fourthly she was patient I believe that big breaks are coming your way why because you heard me teach us before it's called the law of the harvest when you plow the ground and you plant the seed and you water the seed what's going to happen you're going to get the harvest so you right now that are watching me you've been plowing plowing plowing planting planting planting watering watering watering you better start looking that payday is on its way but first I got to deal with your disappointment because you're going to miss it if you're not in the right position if you're not prepared if you do not have the right posture and if you're not patient I'm trying to tell you guys I've seen so many people miss big opportunities because they were in a downward spiral and didn't realize that a big break was trying to knock on their door let me give you an example there are three d's that usually happen with disappointment number one people become downcast and you've seen that before where people just are downcast and you see them in their job they're they're they're downcast or in their relationships or downcast the second thing and this is very important today is they become dispirited so to be dispirited actually means watch this to almost just vacuum cleaner out or take out or drain out the spirit of a person so when you are dispirited it's as though disappointment has sucked out the strength of your spirit deep stuff so three d's of disappointment number one downcast number two dispirited and here we go today number three people get discouraged to be discouraged is to be disheartened number two to be dismayed number three to be deflated I love sports so therefore you're going to get some sports analogy sometimes I remember one time as a kid we wanted to go play basketball it must have been about 11 and had a nice indoor outdoor leather-ish basketball and I grabbed it from my garage and without even paying attention that it wasn't pumped up correctly I got on my bicycle my Schwinn bicycle rode to the school there was three other guys we were going to play together with timmy story's ball and the first dribble I tried to take watch the ball went plump so without checking if there was air in the ball I got on my Schwinn went all the way to the school and then there was no air in the ball why because it had been deflated so some of you listen to me disappointment has made you downcast dispirited and discouraged discouraged can make you disheartened dismayed and also deflated dismayed what do you mean by that dismayed people that even when optimism comes they shrug they roll their eyes they fold their arms because they feel like I tried that I tried that before I tried that it did not work so I want to say this unrelenting disappointment leaves you hard to say but a sudden good break can turn your life around what if what if your miracle is in motion what if while you're feeling the sting of your setback that life is preparing to come back what if something huge is about to happen in your life and you are going downward when something upward is about to happen okay don't forget this when somebody is sick they go singular okay I don't feel good when somebody feels well they go plural they want to help people they want to heal the world okay so I believe that unrelenting disappointment leaves your heart sick but a sudden good break can turn your life around now and teach us for a few more minutes what is a break time story it's an opportunity what is a break time story it's an opening what is a break time story it's a possibility sorry gotta give you one more sports analogy and illustration my friend Eric Dickerson who's in the hall of fame he was a running back I said to him Eric as a running back when you're carrying the ball I said when the linemen are blocking how much room do you need to get through that hole when you're running to get some space to get past the defenders he says Tim I've never been asked this in my life this is such a great question he said I literally need about that much room I literally need about that much room he said so those blockers are fighting and and going against the defense with everything they have to try to give the running back this much space so they can come through the break life is trying to give you this much space for you to get through the break I'm trying to tell you I've seen it in so many of my actor friends they got this much space do you know that even with Jennifer Aniston with friends they only thought that that show would only go so far but they were relentless in the first season they all got together as young actors and talked about let's work you know like this thing is going to be gigantic and they got together they banded together and you could still watch friends Monday through Friday it changed their lives forever the same thing with Jerry Seinfeld that life changed his life forever all you need is a break okay to get a break through again a break is an opportunity and opening in a possibility all right so let's close with this I'm relenting disappointment can leave your heart sick all right so how do I deal with that Tim story number one let it out let it out tell somebody about it share it with me show it with Cody share it with somebody share it hey I'm disappointed things that did not work out the way I thought they would don't share it with everybody you don't have to take it to social media but share it with someone who cares that can be your power partner every one of us needs people that we can partner with that have power number one way to deal with disappointment let it out number two watch how powerful this is you have to shift your satellite dish I've been teaching this for 20 years you got to shift your satellite dish to the all things are possible network you have to start looking for the good looking for the break looking for the opportunity this doctor's wife brought her baseball glove every day she looked for the opportunity how do I get through disappointment Tim story number one let it out number two shift your satellite dish number three you have to make a choice to not stay stuck what do you mean by that some people love to just keep on talking about what did not work you have to make a choice not to stay stuck so if you've been through things like always have don't nurse it don't curse it don't rehearse it disperse it and watch life reverse it I believe this is still going to be an amazing year for you some of you your life's going to get so great it's going to be weird thank you for the opportunity to talk with you today I told you that Duke it's pretty Mr. Tim story knows his stuff unbelievable job buddy looking forward to you to you speaking in front of 2000 agents in Vegas on the stage in Pearl Theater inside the Palms truly one of the best speakers on the planet if not the best one okay the dude is amazing awesome job thank you bro appreciate it thank you so much you watch this video and you want to learn how to take a live call and transfer it from an opener to a closer that video is for you click on it and I'll see you there again I'm not sure what time you're watching this video right intro expert control qualify transfer this is how to effectively transfer a live call from an opener to a closer