 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and in this video we're going to talk about men pulling away and Not meeting your needs and so Before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract the right man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure that you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz there So today's question comes from a woman in our community who says Men pull away emotionally and are not meeting my needs. They start then pull back. What should I do? So men pulling away is actually a pretty natural and normal thing Emotionally men have a much smaller Tank like an emotional tank than women tend to have and and so if they if we end up having too Much emotional stimulation sometimes we end up pulling back and we need to kind of Process things for a little bit and if I were you I wouldn't take that personally and also When a guy does that try not to start chasing him and going after him and just kind of lean back and relax and Let him do what he's going to do so there are three things that I really think that you should do in This situation here and the first one is to slow things down at the beginning a lot of times Guys will get you know, they'll meet a great woman and they will get really excited about her and that's awesome because that shows that he's attracted to you and that he likes you and You know, but sometimes what ends up happening is these guys will end up making big promises Or they'll get really excited and try to impress you and create this image of themselves that is much bigger than who they actually are and that can be a bad thing because a guy's insecurities will end up coming out and He'll be afraid that you're gonna find out who he really is and so if you slow things down a little bit and Make sure that he knows that you are Interested in him as a person and not all these fancy things I mean, it's you know, it's good to you know If he tries to impress you that you are impressed and whatnot, but show him that you know You want to connect with him and know who he is the real him and not just all the fancy flashy things So that's the first thing the second thing is To make sure that you're taking care of your own needs You know, it's It's important that you Take care of your own needs and what's going on with you because if you don't you'll end up coming across as really needy and insecure to a guy and You know that can destroy any potential relationship that you get into and lastly is that Is that you make sure that you Communicate your needs the needs that you do have and the needs that you do have for Relationship in an attractive way and I talk a lot about how to do that and you know tons of different videos and programs and stuff that I have on my website and other videos on YouTube so Check those out and that's it for this video if you want more information on what's stopping you from Attracting mr. Ride into a committed lasting relationship. Make sure you visit my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon