 Welcome back 21 convention 2019 overland of Florida. Our next speaker is from the man mindset calm He's an alumni speaker of the 21 convention from both the patriarch edition earlier this year as well as in Warsaw, Poland in the summer He is known as well actually more importantly than what he's known as he's heard a punch you guys in the chest And I'll do protect your fucking name Without further ado, please tell me welcome to the stage Steve the Dean Williams What's going on everybody, how y'all doing almost done, let's get it going One of the things y'all most of y'all guys were asking is Why is it I read books and I do all these things, but yeah, I just can't move forward Let me ask y'all a question How many y'all if y'all had the opportunity right now just show of hands if you had an opportunity to have money right now If I pulled money out of my pocket like this and I said who wants money how many if you really want a month show me Show of hands who I wanted Alright show of hands, right? All right, y'all want money, right? Well, let me show y'all something see that right there the pennies the dimes the nickels The end result of me being a man the end result of me being a whore the end result of me being a jiggaloo and a fucking asshole Started with this with my mentor because my mentor at I started in 1980. I was nine years old That's the first thing my mentor did he asked me who wanted money and because I said I wanted money because my thoughts Were in line with my behaviors Did I hit the wrong thing? Let me see hold on I Guess I go backwards, right? Let me see. Oh There we go. I'm sorry. I got it now Asked her money. See the thing about the money. I want you to understand is this for a lot of you guys You didn't come up there and get the money That was the opportunity you rose your hand. You said you wanted money But when the opportunity presented itself you didn't take it Because you don't realize that nickel that penny and that dime is a penny diamond and nickel more than you have in your bank account But what happened was your pride and your ego stopped you from getting the money because in your mind It wasn't enough you were looking for the dollars the fives and the tens and things like that you see gentlemen pride and ego hold people back from things they want to do and It keeps them from things that they should have But there's another side of for a few of you other guys a lot of you guys are worried about What the other person might think of you if you came up here and grabbed a nickel a dime or a penny Now I'm a big kid. I got kids grandfather So there was a movie called the Lion King and there was something that was in the trailer That was really powerful that was said Life's not fair While some are born to feast others spend their lives in the dark begging for scraps You see most guys are rather staying the same spot then take a step forward Because they want Instant results. They want to be a doctor today a lawyer in a day. They want to fly airplane in a day But the problem is most men are Out of nature and that's what we're gonna talk about we're gonna talk nature verse flow You see when a man is out of nature, okay? And all you do is think about the things you want to do and you don't do them They're only dreams fantasies and waste it fucking time All you're doing is wasting your time Dreaming about it when your behaviors are not in line with what you think But see when a man is out of nature, he tends to do things that men don't do as Ed was talking about trying to cheat the game They will some of them Will try to cheat the game by roofing a woman's drink When a man is out of nature Some of these guys out there will have male cuddle parties where they want to bond now Don't get it wrong. We're bonding as men, but I'm not cuddling with you motherfuckers When a man is out of nature They dress a certain way now if you any know a thing about prison You're not supposed to dress that way There's there was there's a rule and reason why they did that in prison, but it shows when you're out of nature When a man is out of nature, he hangs out with the food Hanging out with women trying to be their fucking best friends Trying to be their shoulder to cry on thinking that if I just hanging there long enough. She's gonna give me an opportunity No, man, I don't I don't hang out with the food. It's not my job That's the I can't I don't even we're gonna talk about that bullshit, but that's not not happening Also when a man is out of nature, he walks on eggshells meaning when there's a woman that you like or someone you're interested in You tipy toe around because you're afraid of either she is not gonna like you She's gonna judge you or you just don't know what to say and get your point across So what they do is walk on eggshells Very important get your crayons out when I say get your crayons out write that down. Yeah, I mean No, no when I say y'all fucking me y'all mean Motherfucker y'all mean one time goddamn it. All right The way you think must be in line with your behavior See the problem is when you are out of flow you are what I call a victim. You're always distributing Types of behaviors that are not really necessarily manly and what do I mean by that? When you're out of flow, you're always blaming everybody for everything that goes wrong in your goddamn life You're always making excuses You always lie to yourself and tell yourself. You're something that you're not You live in the past and you're always prejudging things that will hold you back Also When you are out of nature what happens is you will begin to follow somebody that is trying to prevent you from learning Where they will sit around and they will try to stop Places like this and information that will get to you because they are out of nature. That was 284 individuals out of nature Just because they were mad and angry with a fucking shame When there isn't a connection between your thoughts and actions most men are lost And when they're lost they will obey follow confirm fit in and submit Motherfucking man doesn't submit gentlemen at all But what does it make you? It's like you're in the Serengeti as a lion and some Hippopotamus comes up to you and says why don't you try an impossible zebra burger that's made out of grass? It tastes like a real zebra, but it's not the real thing, you know, there was I think this is like 1959 There was a cartoon that came out way before the internet and it was all about Lambert the sheepish lion And what it was about was a lion that I guess he got lost and he was raised by sheep Until a point he thought he was a sheep and not a lion You see when one is out of his nature even the lion believes he's a sheep if he's told he's a sheep But when it comes to a man and it comes to y'all out of order Y'all have what I call two plus two is five thinking not four, but five thinking and I'm gonna explain that to you Two plus two is five thinking is is that those that are begging for scraps think the world owes them something That is two plus two five thinking when you feel life in the world owes you something Let me tell you something life the game they don't owe you a goddamn thing They don't owe you anything, but a lot of people have this thought process that life owes them something You believe the negative stories that someone tells you matter of fact now only do you believe the negative stories? You will take somebody else's story and You will make it your own story because of your trust to somebody who is not really being a man himself Two plus two is five thinking believe in someone because other people believe it that heard mentality Just because one person believes it or the herd believes it for a lot of you y'all want to sense to be somewhere or to To be a part of the group and sometimes you feel like you know what in order to be a part of the group I have to go ahead and believe that two plus two two plus two five thinking that Thinking your behaviors and past attitudes can never be changed a lot of y'all feel that look these are the these are the This is what I am. I'll never change. I'm too tall too short too fat too skinny to this to that I'm too poor. I don't have it. I can't get a woman poor poor fucking me Drawing conclusions based off the information that goes against manhood See one thing that it was talking about about cheating the game is that the game is a constant flow And that is one thing you can never cheat is the game Adopting the opinions and behaviors of the majority to feel safer now for a lot of guys That means joining cults or joining organizations that Declaw you and defend you and take away from your manhood instead of help you to be a better man Believe in that you cannot control your outcomes Every man out here as a responsible man We can never blame a woman for doing anything that we don't allow her to do We don't allow her to do but also remember a woman's gonna do whatever you allow her to do And if you are a doormat, she's definitely gonna walk over you Assuming that you know everyone Is thanking without any proof trying to think or trying to automatically Harry Potter something like you see a woman You automatically feel that oh wait, she's not gonna like me. She's not gonna be interested in me There's no way I've got a shot in her matter of fact. She doesn't want a guy like me She wants a guy like this She wants a tall guy a guy with money a guy with a nice car that is pottering the game Thanking and believing something won't happen because it it because it hasn't happened before Ignoring the truthful information so you don't have to think about the unpleasant facts Truth of the matter is man when it comes to this game and it comes to you gentlemen learning the problem is you're not Honest with yourself and you have to be honest with yourself in order for you to grow Judging outcomes and decisions and how they turned out rather than looking at the decision when it was made Drawing conclusions rather than accepting the facts and the fact of the matter is She doesn't have to like your asses at all She has every right to say no and she's got every right to reject you. She doesn't have to like you Sticking with the bad decisions because you invested so much time and money there's a lot of you guys out there that have followed guys and Realized that they were wrong and gave you wrong information But yet because you invested in them you stuck with them and stood by them now it's time to talk about understanding flow now I'm a big Marvel guy like I would say this big-ass kid. I'm a big-ass kid when it comes to Marvel So this is my dude right here. Thanos is my guy. I love Thanos because Thanos is How you men should think not only when it comes to life when it comes to everything that you do So there was a saying that he said in the last the movie and and this was I mean push I like a it say push my wig back and He said as long as there are those that remember what was there will always be those who are unable to accept What can be? And what did he mean by that? As long as there are those who remember what was they will always have Two plus two five thinking that means the man that lives in the past He's he's in the present, but when he sees something he likes or something that he wants he goes back to the past But he never falls forward into the future There will always be those who are unable to accept what can be and what can be is that you all are great men Two plus two is four, but I don't have to tell you that you should know that but One of the things Thanos said is one of the hardest choices Require the strongest will and The thing that separates the men from everybody else is the willpower Now let me explain Thanos for a second here because in the movie just the movie not the comics or anything But in the movie Everybody thought it was all about the snap Him snapping his fingers But it wasn't Basically what Thanos was the Thanos is that it didn't matter see he had to eliminate half of the human race Okay, that was the goal, but the thing was is that he didn't care what was next? He always was moving toward what he had to do and when he was doing it His thoughts were always in line with his actions Even when he lost he kept going forward even when he was rejected. He kept going forward even when he got kicked down He kept moving forward Thanos's ultimate goal like I said was to get rid of half of life But the thing was he wasn't in the calculations he was just into half and That means that when it came to half Thanos wanted to get rid of half, but he didn't think about the half He didn't say well you get to stay and you get to leave and you he didn't give a fuck His ultimate goal was to get rid of half. He didn't care what half it was His thoughts were in line with his behaviors This is the most important part who the fuck are these guys Do you think he even thought or cared about what they thought? Did he care just because they wanted to save the planet? Do you think Thanos is going to say okay? You know what? I'm gonna do what you want to do. No Because when your thoughts are in line with your behaviors, you necessarily block out Everybody that has a thought and it didn't matter even if they agree with Thanos He didn't care because he was laser focused on what he wanted But this was the best part about Thanos that made him so fucking cold and why I love him Because once he reached his goal He could have kept the glove Once he reached it, but what did he do? he destroyed it because he didn't need it anymore because He reached his goal. He achieved what he wanted so he didn't need it anymore He destroyed the stones and moved on because his thoughts were always in line with his actions and That's the thing that is hurting the majority of you guys today You want to be men and I'm proud of you for wanting to be men Oh, you want to learn what it takes to be a man. You want to learn what you need, but What are you gonna do if you had the information? So many of you guys now nowadays are trying to do one or two things You are either trying to fit out of the box meaning that you're trying to be a little bit different thinking that being different Is gonna help me win either with women or whatever it is you want and Some of you feel like you have to conform To fit in the box of what a woman wants you to be Well, this is what I say to you guys Fuck that. Why can't you be the box? Who says that you have to fit out and who says that you have to fit in? See society tells you guys all the time that you should play by their laws rules codes and standards And what I'm telling you is fuck what they think I Want to be the box and I'm gonna do what I want to do The biggest problem y'all have is right here This is y'all thinking when lose a draw I'm either gonna win with a girl. I'm either gonna lose. I'm gonna draw But let me tell you the truth about being a man There is no such thing as losing. I Don't fucking lose. I'm Steve the goddamn Dean Williams when I when I See a woman. I'm so motherfucking cold with women. I Bet myself of how fast I'm a picker up. I don't lose If she says no, do you think I lose you say if she has a boyfriend, do you think I lose? No, I don't lose because I go after what I want because my thoughts are in line with my behaviors So technically instead of when lose or draw I When I learn and I draw and Victory you think I'm happy hell no Because my question is is why can't I do it faster if I picked her up in 15 minutes fuck, why can't I do it in 10 and Even if she said no what she has a right to say no I can still learn from the experience and don't let the experience control me now drawing with just her just saying You know, I have a man or something or maybe she said something that turned me off and I threw her ass back in the water See guys, it's basically like this how you think has to line up with how you behave and Other certain things happen just like Thanos once you achieve the goal you move on Because that's just a part a chapter in the story of the life of you as a man And guess what if you don't achieve it if she says no if she turns you down She doesn't talk to you at all. Who gives a fuck you learn from the experience You don't allow the experience to control you and your narrative Hey, my boy Goldberg always like Goldberg said when Goldberg in the night as he was kicking everybody's ass That's all we say who's next Who's next he didn't care what was in front of him He would always say who's next and that's the mindset that you guys need to begin to incorporate To solve the riddles that you have of how do I go about in breaking and how do I learn how to do this as a man What is important here is? That you have to begin to take a mental journey Now I know y'all guys I'm not telling y'all getting a spaceship and fly the galaxy for for pearls and all the other stuff No What I'm saying is is that you guys have to take a mental journey To go ahead and found your stones of willpower That are going to push you to in line your behaviors with what you think Because if you cannot align your behaviors with what you think It doesn't matter what book what YouTube or what person is on this stage The problem is because that is a victim mentality You are never going to find and achieve the success that you want to achieve First thing that you need to do is discipline. You've got to have self-control You've got to have self-control with itself control to me when I meet a woman for the first time I'm not even thinking about having sex with her. I know that sounds crazy I do want to smash don't get it wrong, but I'm not thinking about having sex with her Why because I can have sex with a lot of other women. What's so special about her? What the fuck is she bringing to my table? You see I'm saying guys See most of you guys she already knows the game. She knows you want sex So she's gonna play you based off of your desire and your hunger for sex But when you have control over your thoughts and who you are you don't make it about sex because what y'all don't understand is While you're talking to on the phone or texting her you really having sex with her on a mental level Next thing self-motivated. You have to drive. You have to have a strong sense of purpose What is your in-game? What is a woman to you? What is a relationship to you? And if she can't qualify She's not worthy of you Focused you must be able to eliminate all distractions. We're gonna talk a little bit about that in the workshop, but I'm gonna explain to you that all of you were able to do this at one time But because you believe the stories that have gone on in your life you worry about everything else around you except What is in front of you? Adaptable you must adapt to every challenge in circumstance instead of making excuses. You've got to be air water and sand Meaning that women are not like us and we got to stop thinking that they are nothing like us They are driven by their emotions We are driven by that ass and not the emotions and I know y'all don't care about the emotions But what I call that that's the second pussy between their ears We've got to focus on that instead of making excuses for ourselves why we can't do certain things Zillion you have to be able to bounce back from rejection But what did I tell you before is there really such thing as rejection. I mean guys if you think about it You get rejected every day. What happens if you go to the grocery store McDonald's? I know some of y'all eat healthy just follow me on this shit What happens if you go to McDonald's and you want to shake you we all know the shake machine and ice cream She's always fucked up, but When you ask for something that you want are you thinking about the people beside you? Are you thinking about what the people behind you and if they don't have it? What do you automatically do you automatically come up with a solution? See guys, I can tell you right now. Just tell you at just say to yourself right now I'm hungry just say that to yourself and your mind is going to figure out Possibilities is going to figure out distance. What do you want Chinese food? It's gonna do all these things, but what you got to understand is this life doesn't owe any of you anything It doesn't women don't owe you shit. She doesn't have to like you She doesn't have to want to be with you. She is allowed to say no She's allowed to do that, but here's the thing if you go and have a learn mentality Instead of a lost mentality Then you don't give a fuck about the end result I don't care because I could run into 50 million women like you There's nothing special about you until I say there's something special about you Competitive You've got to love the thrill of the challenge like I say there is not there is nothing like seeing a woman and saying yes Hey Steve, how are we gonna do this land? See your air? How are we gonna attack this? How do you want to make a smile first? You may or may want to make her laugh Do you want to make her blush? Do you want to make her think? What do you want to do first because I'm in control of me? I am in competition with myself. I'm not in competition with any other man And that's the way you need to think to win at this Also, you got to be determined you got to be eager and prepared to go the extra mile So many y'all guys do things on the surface level because I know you're afraid of you got the fears and you got the Rejections and you don't think you're good enough But what I'm telling you if you ever see that have you all seen that movie it with the clown that motherfucker clown Y'all seen that? Well ask what think about this for a second. They gave you a secret What gave the clown power? It was the fear that gave the clown the power and what I'm saying is once you take the power and the fear out of the Pussy they ain't nothing those goddamn women can do Zero there is nothing that she can say there is nothing that she can dangle in your face when you make it all about you Next thing process mind it. You must stay in the moment at all times stop going in the fucking past Stop thinking that you're not good enough because you're filled with one woman Because all you do every time you meet a woman is you keep going back in the past fuck the past You can learn from the past, but stay in the moment These women are the ultimate chess players when it comes to the game and they've been doing this shit If you're biblical since goddamn Eve, she knew that look at a game She ran on Adam's ass think about that for a second think about that for a second These women are not stupid They know every move that you're gonna make before you even make it They know you they you don't think they watch the red men group You don't think they watch Tanner show or they don't think they watch Elliot. You don't think they watch all these guys They're watching everybody why because they're soaking up information to know how you think so they can come up with the cure or the fix They came fix the fucking man though Respectful you got to respect people but never fear them Always treat women the way you want to be treated But don't take my kindness for weakness Because if you think that I'm soft because I treat you nice. I'm getting rid of you now I might let you be a booty call. I'll be a dick in a bottle type thing, but I'm not gonna have a relationship with you I'm not gonna do that Accountable you've got to take responsibility for all your actions Everything you do is what you do and don't worry about the next man Y'all are always worrying about the next fucking man. Fuck the next fucking man. Think about what you're doing be accountable for yourself and Demand these women to do more for you Stop the stop cupcake in these women just because she's got ass and titties You put her ass through the gauntlet you make her slay the minotaur You make her prove that she's worthy of you and your last name But regardless of what happens don't ever fucking blame the woman Don't blame her because she turned you down Don't blame her because she used you because as a man, I'm accountable for that shit If I allow a woman to use me that's on me and I gotta own that shit But that's one of the problems y'all gotta start taking accountability for every move you make and every move you don't make Courageous you got to be willing to take risks. It's a shame And all you motherfucking guys used to take risks when y'all little kids saw that big-ass tree You climb that motherfucker even if you fell and twisted your ankle or broke your arm as soon as you healed up You climbed that tree again. You would always take risks and you didn't care What would happen to you as long as you got to the top of that tree? But as you got older something began to happen to you and you begin to believe the stories that the media Have been kicking out with that would definitely discuss that in the workshop Optimistic you have to believe that you have the will to succeed at all costs Guys, I told you I lose when I was out there whoring around I would lose all the time I would turn down one after that one after one, but do you think I gave a fuck hell no And remember I told you say the word say the word ass You see that smell y'all have just think it say ass See that smile you got on your face come on man. You can't smile without saying ass and hey, guess what? I believe I can succeed even in failure, but remember guys. I don't lose She says no, I just learn What makes you a loser is sitting your ass on the sideline day dreaming of what you want to do That's what makes you a loser and you motherfuckers ain't losers So stop sitting on the fucking sideline Get your ass in the game get knocked down and learn from the experience Think about this real quick gentlemen. How many of you guys When you begin to drive a car you got in there as a little kid You saw the wheel you saw the buttons and shit and everything looked confusion. You were like god damn I didn't think I could drive this shit Look at you now You can drive your car listen to the radio eat a sandwich and talk on a fucking phone all at the same goddamn time Why can you do that? It's because it's the repetition You got to get your ass knocked down to know Where you're at And you learn from where you're at and then begin to make the necessary adjustments Prepare the root of your confidence. Oh my prepare Come on guys Do you even know what to say to a woman? Do you even know what you want from a woman? I always tell you guys any of my clients and stuff. I always tell you I'm gonna shake your motherfucking hand. I'm gonna introduce myself to you And then I'm gonna let you know why I came over here. I came over it now You I keep it shoulder up, of course But I'm gonna let you know why I came over here and then I'm gonna tell you what I'm expecting not sex I'm gonna tell you that you know what I want to take you out. Guess what not Hey, get your crowns out. No more fucking dinners They don't deserve dinner. No more dinners. No more drinks. They don't deserve that shit What have she done to deserve you spending money on her for dinner? And if she's got a problem with you spending dinner, then I say this with love Fuck you I'm not spending no money on you what I'm gonna do is we're gonna go for ice cream tea Or we're gonna feed the ducks. Why because it's simply telling her this she's got a problem with that I just want to know if we're compatible What I want to know Is does your personality match your beauty? That's what I'm trying to figure out Well, what are your intentions with me? Well to be honest with you, I don't know my intentions because I don't know you that well That's why I'm taking you out And that's why after you give her your number Stop taking numbers from women you they they play games with that bullshit If she likes you she's gonna call you women are very aggressive nowadays But the thing is you've got to be prepared. What is a date to you? You've got to prepare yourself for that. What is texting a woman? You got to prepare yourself for that How you approach her you've got to prepare every step of your life is a preparation that you've got to have Already locked and loaded and don't throw shit up Stop this fucking what you do for a living and when was your last boyfriend bullshit? Drives up the pussy guys. They don't like that stuff drives it up next thing confident believe yourself You are all you got You got to start loving and respecting you And you got to start realizing that at the end of the day I've got to know what I want as far as laws rules codes and principles Organized you've got to be structured guys structured Think about numeric just One two three four five I see her. I'm gonna approach her I'm gonna introduce myself to her. I'm gonna let her know why I came over there I'm gonna let her know what my intentions are and I'm gonna offer her my number one two three four five But what a lot of you guys do as soon as you see a woman. Oh my god. She's so pretty What do you wish you were liking a guy like me? What do I what do I say for or what do I do? Man, let me tell y'all something Like uh ed ed said you can't cheat the game These women already know as soon as you say something that's not authentic and not transparent She already knows your story Don't get that twisted don't think these women are stupid because they get hit on every goddamn day Everything that is under the sun. They have been exposed to Except the drug of man And you know the beautiful thing about the drug of man She can snort it She can drink it She can have it in mushroom form She can light it up in a roll. She roll it up or put it in a pipe and light it But when she gets a dose of man She's not going anywhere because she's not used to someone being 100 authentic You don't have to pretend They want you to pretend because as soon as they realize y'all are fake They play in the game Come on guys. Think about this for a second No offense. I'm about to tell you about women, but I know you over there watching as you oh my god But let me tell y'all something think about women They are the masters of manipulation and deception They are the fucking ginsu if you want it the highest of the high they even above that why? The makeup is a lie and deception and manipulation The weave the hair the eyeliners the fingernails the push-up brawls the girdles. They are walking fucking lies So come on, you know, you can't trick a trickster How are you going to try to manipulate somebody who is the queen of manipulation? You can't do that because she'll let you in and then guess what you either going to be her chauffeur You're going to be her bank account where you'll pay her bills Or you're going to be the shoulder to cry on and unfortunately you might end up just being her bitch But she's not going to give you any pussy for it. That's for the asshole That's for the guy that has these pieces that i'm giving you right now Driven you must wake up each day with a desire to be better than what the fuck you are before And why do I say that guys because who I was yesterday? I'm not him anymore I'm not You know when I do my radio shows I always say this before I usually leave Think about the graveyard before you go to bed at night Because the thing about the graveyard everybody in there thought they had tomorrow coming to them That's all they have all in common. They thought they had tomorrow So i'm thinking if i'm going to die tonight. I'm going to make sure I live every mother fucking day Like it is my last because who I was yesterday. Fuck that guy that guy was weak to me Who I am today. This is who I am and I can't wait to see who I am tomorrow because I am climbing up the mountain I'm not sitting still. I'm not going down. I'm always ascending up because I respect the game And that's why the game works for me because the game is going to give back To those that get their asses knocked down dust themselves off and say what's next Discipline you must have self control over everything in everybody Listen, I know you love your parents and I know you love your friends and all that other stuff But one thing I love telling women i'm a drama free man Anybody brings any drama in my life. They are gone I don't play and that doesn't mean for women that means for everybody Because everybody is not going to like you you want to know why Because you have passion Discipline drive something they don't have so they're going to be jealous of you You're going to have people talking about you trying to knock you down But i'm not saying kick them all the way out. I'm telling mom. You can no longer tell me How to move my furniture or how I should live my life mom. I love you, but please don't tell me how to be a man You are a warm man You cannot tell me how to be something that you're not so I love you mom, but please Stop talking to me that way Dad I appreciate you But I don't like the fact that you're always sleeping on the couch You're always telling me happy wife happy life. Don't make mommy mad that I love you, but I can't I can't rock with what you're saying because to me that's not a man doesn't mean I don't love you But please don't give me poisonous information that is going to do more harm to me than good See guys at the end of the day when you begin to connect all these things together You begin to change your mindset I'm one thing about the man mindset I tell you guys if you want a good job go for that shit If you want a nice body build your fucking body If you want your money stack your fucking cash, but don't do it for a fucking woman As soon as you do that shit for a woman you have just lost Because you're doing it for the wrong reasons everything you do is for you Okay, but I'm about your mind She can't touch your mind unless you allow her You are your own kings You are your own communities and this this right here like everybody else We are nothing but a bunch of communities coming together And sharing information at the table we leave as our own communities as our own individuals We're not a cult when you have the mindset Nobody can touch you How many of you guys heard the uh the analogy everybody's a winner? Have y'all heard that before? I know it's fun. How many y'all believe that anybody show hands anybody believe that No one you don't believe it Fuck shame on all you motherfuckers. I love you all but you all failed Because let me tell you something that's true You all were born winners when your mommy Met your daddy and he talked that yak and mommy's here. I'm not I don't know what happened But after they had sex There was a great race Meaning that you were racing against millions of your brothers and your sisters To do one thing and that was reach the egg And as you were going through your mother's body There were things inside of her body that would destroy your brothers and sisters But because you had drive Because you had passion because you had desire because you had that Thanos thinking I have to get to what the egg Fuck everybody else. I've got to get to the egg no matter what and guess what? You are all here today Because yes, you are winners It's just something happened along the way of your lives where you started to believe that you're not winners You all won you beat out millions if I'm not talking about five millions of your brothers and sisters And you went through the body of your mom to reach the egg You are winners That's not a cliche. That's a fucking truth But I don't I don't have to believe it about me. I knew I was with shit I knew when I was I'm getting that motherfucking egg. Fuck everybody else. I'm getting there You want to know why because I want to live. I want to go on. I want to be great I I want to be all those things, but that's part of the mindset But like I did with the coins Guys, you can't be a doctor in a day. You can't be a lawyer in a day Everything I know it sounds another cliche small steps But the small steps are always going to lead to bigger steps when you begin to believe in yourself You've got the first thing you got to do is one of the most important things Is look in the goddamn mirror and meet the person That is responsible for all your behaviors. It's not me It's you The person that is responsible for all the actions that you take and all the actions you don't take For those that try to cheat the game and for those that stay in the game All your choices and all your successes It has nothing to do with any of the guys to the left of you or the right of you It will always be you but it is important to look at that guy in the mirror and learn him Learn who he is Learn how he thinks Learn how he operates Learn what your strengths are and what your weaknesses, but you don't lose you learn Learn Learn who you are because this is the craziest thing guys Game have nothing to do about women the game has nothing to do with women Women are a fucking perk Until you deem her worthy of girlfriend or wife Ed was talking about again. I feel like you're stealing my shit dawg, but Ed was talking about it Ed was right listen power The 1920s and 40s And and everybody's like well wait. Well, I know you're saying game is a color to it. No King pins kings um All kind triads All kinds of men throughout the ages Were trying to build themselves and their legacy and the and women just came along the way That's the thing you have to understand the game has nothing to do with women but because Someone told you to make it about women you believe the story And once you believe the story you started to live the story That story is not true And that's why when I meet a woman Who are you? Okay? Yeah, you have a sexy body. You look good, but What do you bring it to my table? What separates you from everybody else? Why are you so special? And you know when you say that they go Well, I don't know. I never had a guy ask me that before you goddamn right because you've never been around a real man Because the majority all guys when you see a woman you think you got to take them out. I gotta take her out and impress her I'm impressing enough Let me tell y'all something when you do it right. Guess what? Halloween. I mean not halloween, but um Christmas You have to buy her a present if you want to buy it when you can but I'm present enough Valentine's day. She's cooking for me. She's taking me out Why because I am The goal I'm not trying to remember. I told y'all on the last thing. She's going after my last name She's going after my ring. Why do I need to impress somebody? When I all I need to do is impress myself Because I make it all about me now I know that sounds like I'm selfish cocky and conceited you goddamn right. Absolutely. I have no problem with that. Absolutely Absolutely, you got that clap again. God damn it. I love that shit. Yes, you're absolutely right You guys all of you were born winners Don't ever let nobody take that shit from you and the next time somebody says that shit to you You say you goddamn right. I was born a winner because that's the truth We just got to get you guys back To that time Where you realize wow I don't really care. I just need to win and keep doing the things with the power the passion and the discipline Okay, get back to your two plus two fours. Do your two plus two is four thoughts Guys listen and and ending this About to end this right now, but I want to say this man. I love you guys I don't know you but I love you and you want to know why I love you because I believe in you I believe in all you that's why the fuck i'm here because you know what I know you're gonna stumble I know you're gonna lose. I know you're gonna get shut down and rejected But you know what I'm here to tell you so fucking what if a five seven 48 year old average looking motherfucker can get paid as a gigolo From women. What is your excuse? What is your excuse? Yeah, I was horn back in the day. I told you I was a whore. Yeah My early 20s. Oh man. I was going through hot women like a hot knife through butter But that's another story for another time guys, but what I'm just saying for you guys is this Stop making the excuses They make the excuses We take accountability in actions. Steve the dean williams the man mindset.com guys. Thank you