 Get your own life together. Get your own living situation together. You're giving us advice in your one bedroom apartment You know what I mean? Like get your own together If you were this genius mastermind like knows everything Joel will seem friggin dr. Laura Dr. Phil You have a lot more together Tristan call 911 it hurts it hurts so bad being right What is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem But focus on the solution and if you're new to my channel I used to primarily focus on mental health But a lot of people came after me So I kind of switch things up and now I just kind of look at the YouTube community and do some commentary and try to analyze It so if you're into that stuff and if you're into people being right Make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and follow me on Instagram and Twitter at the rewired soul All right, so this video if it is monetized will be donating 20 to Nami the national alliance on mental illness All right, so yeah sit back relax Let me cut you all up to speed with a little bit of a story So like I said my channel originally started out as a mental health channel And yeah mental health wasn't getting that many views So I was like how do I teach people about something they don't necessarily want to learn about And every now and then I would intertwine like you know YouTuber topics and things like that and I started getting a lot of requests saying hey Um, you seem to know a bit about borderline personality disorder Can you make some videos about tuitia pedis and for a long time? I said no, all right And plus I wasn't gonna diagnose her. I'm not a licensed therapist or a psychologist How can I diagnose anybody? But more and more people started sending me clips old videos some of them deleted Where she said she had borderline personality disorder So I'm like all right because I learned a long time ago one of the best ways to teach people I know it's the way I learn is when people can give me an example Of something right so when I was just a little little tiny youtuber I was like, okay And what I was trying to do was you know show different behaviors that tuitia pedis have I'm like these you know correlate with symptoms of borderline personality disorder If this is what you have as well see a therapist Here are some different exercises and practices that you could do like dialectical behavioral therapy If you cannot afford a therapist and I would recommend books and things like that that teach dbt Well during that time too I said that Her and Jason Nash had a pretty toxic relationship and that's something that I'm no stranger to I used to be in a bunch of toxic Verbally sometimes even physically abusive relationships And I would point to them and say yo if your relationship looks like this It's a bad idea and eventually tuitia pedis caught wind Of my videos and she made a video really mad at me where she was eating a chicken sandwich In a car and she said this We do put our lives out there but to diagnose someone He puts in the description like tuitia has by borderline personality disorder I don't so this started a narrative that I diagnosed her with borderline personality disorder But as I said, I'm not a licensed therapist or psychologist and I don't even know her so I couldn't diagnose her Even if I wanted to so I pointed to clips like this You'll you'll you're in a good mood you're gonna love it Isn't that the fun part though about dating someone with like borderline personality is like you don't know What mood they're gonna be in are they gonna be happy are they gonna be mad? You're always in a good mood unless I piss you off Now that did not stop a bunch of drama channels and commentary channels From making videos about me claiming that I diagnosed tuitia pedis with borderline personality disorder But today while watching her reaction to the h3 podcast I realized that she posted this video on world mental health day Discussing how she has borderline personality disorder. He puts in the description like tuitia has by borderline personality disorder I don't And oh my god Just like I said, I was merely relaying What she had already said her diagnosis was all right, but getting back to things that I was right about We've been really good at like working things on just like talking about it and like both apologizing when we need to um It's my best relationship. Um It's my best healthiest relationship honestly I'm supposed to or I need to put off like I've never wanted someone to off more To like say these people shouldn't be together these people like Uh, I'm like, I literally it literally pisses me off and not a lot pisses me off Just saying when I was talking about that relationship being toxic There's so many videos about me and jason And our relationship as if he's a relationship expert. It's like look where we're at now Maybe I know what I'm talking about Anyways, I say that if you guys know me obviously if you follow me for a while You know my intentions are never to hurt anyone They just aren't and if people are offended and this is bottom line knife I've thought a lot about this in the past few days, especially if people are offended. That's really not my business And yes trisha. I can relate so much to that We have our opinions. Sometimes they're going to make people upset Maybe the way that we talk about things and trisha paid has just made a video going off On h3 calling them all sorts of names and going off on him on twitter So sometimes we are doing this and it involves other people as well All right, but much like trisha paid is my intention is never to hurt anybody My intention is to educate and comment on things that are out there In the public now some of you may have some arguments about this For example, you say don't talk about another person's diagnosis But I would refer you to this He has mental illness so he beats women a lot of people with mental illnesses don't obviously Um, but you know this guy has has gone on record has been diagnosed multiple times with bipolar right there That's trisha paid us talking about someone else's bipolar disorder. All right now something that she said quite a few times in her video Was this he sounds like he's such an expert and I that it's honestly dangerous and it's honestly unhealthy But is it really dangerous when trisha paid us does this And I actually haven't been on any medications and I'm not saying that's like brag or anything like that. I'm saying There are other ways of dealing with mental health issues without having to take pills No, she's just sharing her experience and her opinion And like I always say go talk to a therapist a doctor psychologist or a psychiatrist Don't just take my word for it or don't just like go and google things Now another argument may be if you're not a qualified professional You have no right talking about mental health or mental illness But this is not something that's uncommon. Look at all of these different news articles that talk about celebrity Addiction talk about celebrity mental illness. All right, this is something that is part of our society Okay, and the goal of my channel used to be to use these things as an example to help You the viewer but it started raining down hellfire from these hateful drama channels and commentary channels accusing me of doing something that I never did All right, so this video is about to switch and take a more positive turn But I need you to do me a favor All right If you could do me a favor and go out to some various hate videos about me from the drama channels or Commentary channels and ask them if they feel they owe me an apology for accusing me of diagnosing trisha patis Now in all seriousness, I know i'm not you know, uh trish's You know a favorite person But the reality is is that I have tried to defend Trisha patis All right as somebody who has worked in the mental health industry as somebody who has had his own struggles with mental illness I really want people to understand that it's not just about people being good or bad It's like when we can discuss the mental illness somebody has Maybe we can explain some of their behaviors. I do not think trisha patis is a bad person I have worked with thousands of people who have struggled with borderline personality disorder And I understand that they are dealing with something that's often rooted in trauma So that's why I wanted to make these videos to explain. Hey, all right Trisha patis isn't this evil awful person These are just part of the symptoms of something that she's struggling with But like check this out This is the one of the top comments on this video about borderline personality disorder All right saying that she's using her mental illness as an excuse But no if you understood borderline personality disorder You'd understand the various symptoms such as attention seeking all right insane fear of abandonment The hyper sexuality the substance abuse and the latching on to different identities All right, so trisha patis does talk about you know being Misdiagnosed as bipolar and everything like that And just from my personal experience and you could talk to you know mental health professionals about this The dsm the diagnostic and statistical manual it is a framework, right? It gives mental health professionals An idea of what symptoms that you're struggling with to get you the right type of therapy For example when it comes to borderline personality disorder one of the best therapies for it Is dialectical behavioral therapy with trisha talks about in her video and why her therapist recommended it to her All right, so again nothing was ever with ill intention But I would never talk about someone's mental illness unless they publicly discussed it and all of you out there I hope you recognize when you watch the hate videos about me There are many many many people who talk about my drug addiction But do I get butt hurt about it? No because I made it public All right, but anyways, that's all I got for this video If you like this video, please give it a thumbs up if you're new Make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and go leave some comments on the drama and commentary channels Making hate videos about me seeing if they're interested in apologizing to your old buddy Chris All right, but before I let you go I want to send out a huge thank you to everybody who supports the channel in different ways by Supporting on patreon or buying my books or merch and all that kind of good stuff. All right. Thanks again for watching. I'll see you next time