 Welcome back again! We will continue to study on the family. So we looked into, you know, how to encourage our spouse to grow and what God have called, encourage our spouse to pursue what God's purpose in our life. At the same time, we look in the children. God has called the children to pursue. Each and every child has been uniquely gifted and God has called them for a unique purpose. Can I request one of us to please turn to Psalms 13916? Psalms 13916. Your eyes saw my substance being yet unformed and in your book they all were written, the day's fashion for me, then as yet there were none of them. Amen. So God has designed each child uniquely for a purpose he has in mind for them. As children, we need, as parents, we need to see the children in the area what they are gifted and we need to support them to nurture them in that area. Because God given gifts and talents in the child, in the way the area has been growing and expressing himself as a parent, we need to encourage and direct the children in that area so that the child can grow in that gift. It shouldn't become like, you know, yes, I'm a preacher, so I want my son also to be a pastor, a preacher, a ministry leader. Yes, that's a good desire. You can pray about it, you can ask God, but then you should not influence, you should not pressurize the child to do what you wanted to do. If the child want to become a doctor, please support the child for him to become a doctor, if he wants to become an engineer, go ahead. Or if he wants to take up an artist's job, if he is creative in that you see him painting wonderful paintings and he's much interested in that, show him the path, how he can grow, how he can explore the skill, the talent that God has put into him. If you see a child, you know, always into the music, he loves playing drums, playing guitar, encourage him, do not stop or do not take away that, try to stop that talent. What is this talent? Just because you may not be interested in the music and you wanted your son to do something else, do not stop from what God has given the talent to him. We need to nurture, we need to first recognize and then nurture and build that skill in the child, give that opportunity, open up that kind of environment or you can put him in a music school or send him to a good place under a good tutor where he can learn and flourish in the call that God has given to that child. As a parent, we need to nourish and see to it that, you know, he grows in that talent. But then if he is also interested in preaching and teaching the word and he likes serving in the church, that's wonderful. You can praise God for it and you can nurture the child in that area as well. But remember, God is creative. He does not produce duplicates. But we must not pressurize our children to do something what we want to do with having our expectation in our mind and implementing that on our children may not be right but allow what God has called the child to do. So we as a ministry leader should give the freedom for our wife, for our spouse and for the children to do what they want to do in their life and support them. And encourage them, be there for them. And by doing this, we also set a godly example at home. As in 1st Timothy 3.5, we read that, for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God? Or in Proverbs 17.6, we read that children's children are the crown of old men and the glory of children is their fathers. And Isaiah 38.19 says, the living man, he shall praise you as I do this day. The father shall make known your truth to the children. So our life speaks all the time to our children, to our spouse because we live in the four walls. And we set a godly example by showcasing the love of God to them. We being there at home to meet their need as well. This is what God has called us as a ministry leader to do, to show God's love not only to the church congregation but to our own family as well. And do not preach to your spouse. Very important. Can I request one of us to please turn to 1st Peter chapter 3 verse 7 please. Okay. 1 Peter 3 verse 7. Likewise, husbands, leave with your wives in an understanding with showing Anna to the woman as the widow herself. Since they are serious with you on the grace of life so that your prayers may not be hindered. Amen. Husband likewise, dwell with them with understanding. Giving honor to the wife as to the weaker vessel has been hairs together the grace of life that our prayers may not be hindered. So if there's any any problem. Any discussion arises. We need to discuss it out on a day to day basis. But we should not take that to build a sermon and to preach to our partner at home. No one wants to be preached. You are a husband. You are the wife of your spouse. Shouldn't become like you know for every deed for everything. There's a worse been quoted. There's a sermon been preached. There's a correction for everything. No, you know, waiting to pinpoint the mistake. Then there is no love. If we, you know, there's a quote from Mother Teresa where she says if you keep judging a person then you don't have time to love that person. Especially and husband and wife we need to be loving each other. Shouldn't become the other way like waiting to find fault on each other or judging each other. The Sunday you preach like this but at home this is what you're setting up. So family should be something like this. They should be joy. So it doesn't happen automatically. We need to create it. We need to create it especially in the ministers of God family. We may have gone on a great ministry preaching and teaching and we have seen big signs, funders and miracles happen in the ministry. And the minute you come back everything is changed at home. There's anger, the vibes at home, the atmosphere is not very pleasant. There's kind of fight, anger, you know, heated arguments at home. Children are not obedient to the parents or the wife is very displeased with the husband. So how do we handle this situation? It doesn't mean that none of us would face in a married life. All of us will face this. But it all depends how we handle our life. You know something? I have a secret. I have a good news to share. That we as a man of God, women of God have the authority in our hand to change that atmosphere to love. To love because this is what the enemy desires to be. Enemy can put in your mind like, hey, you are a great preacher and a teacher in your church and your congregation and people applaud you, people celebrate you. But when you go home, it is a big disaster. Your wife says, oh, why did you come? Or you feel, oh, why did I come home? I have to hear all this back from them. No, make it a pleasant place. Make a place very pleasant. See God in every area because God has given us the authority to change. This is what it is. We as a minister, as a leader, as a servant of God, as a servant of God, we have the authority to change this atmosphere at home. Speak God's word. Speak Jehovah's Shalom. Speak God's peace at home. Speak God's joy at home. Humble yourself. If your wife is rude, that's okay. Humble yourself. Show God's love to her. God will change you as a person. Change your spouse, endure the spouse like what God is expected her to be. A person of love. Pray for your children. If they have gone astray or you see certain things not right, instead of abusing them, shouting at them, showcase God's love. Sit with them. Understand why they are doing what they are doing. Spend some time with them. By you doing that, your family will become the family of joy. Crack jokes. It's nothing wrong. It's not like you're a man of God. How can you crack a joke? Yes, crack some good jokes. See to that your family loves. Spend time. Take them out for a lunch, dinner. Spend that time with them. Take them out often. You need to take them out at least in a year once or twice in a year, depending on your schedule and the financial status. Something small that we can do so that they cherish their remember this time or family time. And when you are at home, try to understand their need. Talk about the personal need, the family issues at home. What happened? Find out why your spouse was angry. See to that you solve a problem that she's happy. Take her out on a personal dinner. There's nothing wrong in having a date with your wife, with your husband after marriage. That's wonderful. That's beautiful to give in their time. They are filled with love. Give them the priority. You're saying, wow, I love you. I'll cherish you. Come, let's go out. Give the children their time, the dad time, the mum time. Take them out, play with them. See what they are interested. So that, you know, they get to spend time with you. As the child grew in different states, the interest would be different. If you have a grown up child, a child may be interested to go to a gym or swimming or play a badminton. Whatever the child is interested in, play a soccer, spend time and doing that activity with your child. So that when you do things what your child is interested in, then he will do the things what you are interested in. In that way, you're first setting an example to your child. Hey, I'm much more interested in what you're doing, what you're saying. I want to listen to you. I want to talk to you. I won't hear you through. How was your school? How was your day? When you have this personal one-to-one discussion and then when you want to share something good to your child, your child will pay that 100% attention to you and he will also implement that in his life. As Proverbs 226 says, train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it because God has given us as a parent the responsibility to train a child and nurture them in faith. And as you get the opportunity, yes, you should not preach your own family, but then how you can do it. The small ways, if you get the liberty at home, my husband gets to put the children to sleep. He puts the elder one to sleep and I put my younger one to sleep. So when we put them to sleep, we get that opportunity one-to-one. We get to hear them what they are interested in, how they spend their time playing, what are their issues. Yes, it may be silly things. If a six-year-old can say that, I created a paper rocket from it is a great achievement. He learned that and he created different designs of rocket and he has stolen one whole notebook to make that paper rocket. Instead of shouting at him, hey, you destroyed the whole book. Instead of that, we saw his creativity. Wow, that's super, that's very nice. And the same time, next time I showed him the book that he could use to create those paper aeroplanes. For him, it's a great creative thing. And a learning, yes, I want to correct him in that, because the whole house with mess, when we go out we see the whole house with all papers everywhere. It is an additional thing to clean. But yes, I didn't correct him immediately. But then night when we put him to sleep, we hear him through, appreciated him, like, wow, you did this very nice. But is it possible that we could collect back those papers into our back so that it's easy for us to discard? And he agreed immediately. And next time we saw him doing that. We saw him use the used papers than tearing the pages from a good notebook. So the small correction, we can tend to implement it in a one-on-one time. You're in there. As we listen to him, you can share the world. You can share the truth. You can show God's love to the child. So one thing that we have in place, something nice is, you know, we make sure that every day before go to bed, you know, my son comes and hugs me. Yes, because my husband puts him to sleep. So before he could put him to sleep, he makes sure that he comes, hugs me, kisses me, and we both pamper each other. And then he goes to sleep. And I get to play with him and, you know, read the bedtime stories and, you know, share the learning time. We get to study together. So we make it like a game. I say, okay, I need to study this portion and let's see who study first. So we create because children learn in playful manner. We have to be creative. So according to the age, we can do it. Just to build that love, trust and respect with our children. We need to go to their level to teach them what is expected from them. Yes, it's not easy. It takes time. It takes a lot of patience. But then God has asked us to do that because God has been patient with us. God teaches each one of us in the way we can understand. God is a good parent to each of us. Isn't it? God was patient when we went astray. God was patient in correcting us and bringing us back in track. God is impatient in teaching us to understand. So how can we become upset with our children when they don't do what we are expected them to do? So we need to be patient. We need to showcase the love and trust and respect so that we can see the child grow in the same way. Love, trust and respect. Spending time with them is more important, especially to the children and to your spouse. As we do it, what's important to them becomes what important to us. In this way, we also teach them what is important to us becomes important to them as well. Maintain your family altar. Maintain your family altar. Can I request one of us to please turn to Psalm 78. 1, 2, 7. Jefina, can you read Psalm 78? Verse 1, 2, 7. Brother Lupega, anyone can read the scripture. Somewhat. Yes, please. Somewhat. Somewhat. Yes, brother. Please go ahead. What's Psalm 78? Psalm 78 verse 1, 2, 7. Yes. Okay. This year, all my people to my Lord incline your fear to the walls of my mouth. Verse 2. I will open my mouth with a parable. I will offer that thing of food. Which we have had and know. And our fathers have told us verse 4. We will not hide them from their children. Showing to the generations to come the praises of the Lord and his strength and his wonderful works that he has done. Verse 5. For he established a testimony in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel which is commanded by our fathers that they could make them know unto their children. Verse 6. That the generations to come might know them. Even the children to be born want to arrive and declare them to their children. That they might take their oath in God and not forget the work of God. But to do commandment. But to do commandment with God. Praise God. Thank you brother. Yes it is so very important to maintain the family altar to set this time to read the scriptures together so that as the scripture says that what we do you know it affects her children declare them to their children. So what happens here is when we set this time very meaningful according to the age of our children in the way they could understand we should not go in a different tangent you know bring big prayers reading and you know but they are too small so we need to keep it interesting to our children how we need to you know pray right now like you know our children are small so what we do is we we teach them few scriptures and then we pray together and guess my elder son is good in singing so we ask him to lead us lead worship so we sing along with him so he every day you know he selects two songs he sings and we all sing together then after that he will lead us in scripture reading so there are few scriptures that we have taught him so he goes ahead so he along with him we repeat the scripture so there is a small time of personal prayer we teach him how to pray so he has been completely involved we involve him in the prayer and then he goes to play and then you know each of us take turn we all take turn to pray and we end that and after that we do our own scripture reading we do our own prayer if it takes about one hour or one and half hour or two hours for our prayer we cannot expect small children they will lose interest for prayer they will be waiting like when this prayer will come to an end they will not enjoy that family all the time so when we keep it interesting when we keep it fun when we involve the child to do what they can do what they can understand they will enjoy that time of prayer they will seek God they will pray our youngest son the prayer is very very very interesting for everything very short for prayer night time prayer over the food also thank you Jesus praise you Jesus love you Jesus we keep it so simple so that he learns to say that so his prayer towards the food will be the same thing his prayer during the prayer all the time will be the same thing and also when he is sleeping prayer is the same thing because we want him to just learn to say the three words thank you Jesus this is so interesting for him he knows for each time he do when he is having food he places his hand over the food like this and he says thank you Jesus praise you Jesus love you Jesus and during the all the time he folds his hand like this and sleeping time also he says this this is what the small thing yes but according to the child how they can pray God delights in it isn't it we don't expect something big to sing the song what he likes to sing he likes some simple songs I'm not getting it right now God's love is so wonderful he likes to sing that he sings with his loud pitch with his own expression wow that's beautiful I'm sure God delights in that song the version that he sings every word may not be clearly pronounced but yes I'm sure God enjoys that song we laugh we enjoy yes so something similar so according to the age of our children keep it interesting if you have a grown up child read a short stanza and explain that stanza or each one take a turn if we are four of us in our family and we have a grown up children you can give them a scripture we all can sing a song to worship a song of scripture each one read and explain what they understand and now remember you may be a great preacher but if your son and daughter is explaining that scripture in a very simple way or maybe in what they understand appreciate it we should not try to correct them oh you could also have shared so much yes that is as per your knowledge the knowledge that you don't have to appreciate them for their few words of their understanding what they have shared and join it to say like wow you explained it so well today I learned something from you of what you shared it makes that person feel good and also it gives the opportunity for that child to learn more on the scripture it also gives an opportunity for that child the freedom for the child to share next time if we tend to correct the child with some points to it you're somewhere putting a stop to the child hey what you are thinking or understanding is much different and that is not what the scripture says but remember the child is growing when the child attends your age maybe the child would know much more than what you and I know so we need to give the freedom for the child and make the family older interesting and enjoyable and this what God delights in and one thing what we should have that alter every day consistent we have it every day after our prayer time sorry after our dinner after our dinner we set this time and we all come together for prayer and after that we put our children to sleep so have this yes there are times when we have like any kind of work or we go out on ministry we come back home very tired but then we should not miss that have a time of worship sing some songs or we have just prayed we have prayed in tongues or we have just prayed together and we have rest but having the alter time having that prayer before rest is very important so put your family before ministry as we read in 1st Timothy chapter 3 verse 4 and 5 1 rules his own house as well and having his children in submission with all reference is very important so yes as we go on ministry as we serve different areas we need to pay attention to our family as well if you have gone on a weeks time or a months time out on a ministry journey but when you are out compensate that time with your family do not ignore your family take them out or take a break spend more time with your family spend more time with your children so that they do not feel that you are not there for them but then they enjoy your time with them the family is very important guard your family while ministering to people very very important as you are the ministry leader the church congregation can expect a lot of things from your spouse or from your children remember just because you are a pastor does not mean that your wife this is previously so we need to give the liberty for our spouse to grow in the area where she is in the area that she is talented in if there are certain instances certain conference or special meeting in your church for which your spouse is unable to join because she is at work that is okay and your congregation may expect her to be there but then you need to give liberty to your wife you do not have to pressurize your wife I am going for a meeting where as a pastor's wife you need to be there so you apply leave and be here with me we should not do that allow her to do what she is doing as God asked you to do what you are called you to do and if your congregation ask even before they could ask you can inform everyone that your wife is a doctor your wife is a nurse she is a beautician she has work your children congregation may expect your children to be like the angels as a pastor a pastor children needs to be angel they have to be well mannered good while their own kids are playing and doing whatever kids are kids we need to keep in mind or we are human and all our kids are the same everyone make mistake that is okay that is okay allow our children to be what they are if they want to sing I have my children if we ask my son to sing a song he sings rhymes it is okay or he will talk about a superman or the spider man that is okay allow the child to be what they are we are not expecting great stories great sermon from the children but in time they will learn but at the same time what we need to do by teaching the children what need to be learned but then don't pressurize them don't pressurize them even in the church if the child want to color allow the child to color you can't expect your son to be sitting and listening to the long sermon they are small your child is eating during sermon that is okay allow the child to do what they are tend to do and as they grow they will grow looking and learning give them the liberty they love when we correct them too much then they will hate coming to church hate being children of a pastor they cannot pretend that is the reason many children we see as they grow up the pastor's children they don't want to do anything with the church or anything with the calling anything to do related to church they go completely astray the pastor say how strictly I brought my children but now they are not listening to me we should be very careful we should allow the child to grow as a child and do not pressurize the children with the expectation of the congregation because there is no end for the expectation of people allow the child to be what they are and at home you allow the place to be home do not invite everyone everyone home so that you know every time your wife should be you know to be hospitable or your children to be at you know in a good posture at home so that they can treat people yes once a while when you invite people like a guest it's good your home should not become your church office you know I heard one of the pastors shared this he said as I grew up as I grew up he said that you know it was very difficult in my childhood because I decided as I grow up I don't want to become a pastor like my father because everyone he invited home and always he took my bedroom and made others to rest in my room and I didn't have the liberty to do what I wanted to do so this is what you know as growing up the children shared about what the parents did they don't have the liberty to play they don't have the liberty to do what they want to do because home is a place where the child and the family members who are staying try to express what they wanted to be they wanted to do because that's the home they should not do this yes inviting the church members inviting you know anyone at home is good other pastors home is good but once a while it shouldn't become 365 days okay we do invite people but once a while to celebrate with us to just to have that fellowship with the family we do invite and special occasions but that's it keep your home secured keep that place protected for your family do not step out do not step in well as we discussed this it talks about Genesis chapter 2 verse 24 therefore a man shall leave his father mother and be joined to his wife and they shall become one flesh talks about the marriage marriage is a circle where husband and wife are there together you need to try to work out your weaknesses or challenges whatever comes in your life you need to discuss and work it out you cannot step out or you cannot step in into different person's life okay everything should be within the boundary of that marriage circle at any cost we should not step out this displeases God divorce is not God's idea but marriage is God's idea He has united us so regardless of what reason or needs they be we should not step out of this boundary of marriage we should be there to work things out there's a very beautiful movie fireproof yes I remember fireproof have anyone watched this movie yes that's a beautiful movie so they try to work out they will be ups and downs they try to work out and more about marriage you have a subject of that it's a Christian marriage and family where in detail you would be studying on that okay so get help so if there's any problem that you are not able to solve it is good to seek help you may think hey I'm a minister of God how can I take help from others do not have any kind of pride or any kind of thing stop you from taking help and save your family life Ephesians chapter 416 says from the whole body joint and live together by what every joint supplies according to the effect of working by which every part does it share cause growth of body for a defined of itself in love yes as a ministry leader God would have called us anointed us and gifted us in certain area but when we have our own problem in our family or some expertise who are expert in that area take help from them take help as soon as possible so that you can solve the problem if not it would burst one day which would be a shocking news to everyone and you cannot cover at that stage you cannot recover at that stage so early the better look out for some good counselors or good the minister of God to not have any kind of pride come through while you seek help from others and ministry is not your family business many of us in the ministry where we see where the ministry is grown and we think like after me is my son is my daughter will take this ministry further as Isaiah 59 21 can I request one of us to please read Isaiah chapter 59 verse 21 brother Subashish can you read listen as for me this is my covenant with them says the Lord my spirit who is on you will not depart from you and my words that I have put in your mouth will always be on your lips on the lips of your children and on the lips of their descendants from this time on and forever says the Lord amen thank you as for me says the Lord this is my covenant with them my spirit is upon you and my words which I have put in your mouth shall not depart from your mouth nor from the mouth of your descendants nor from the mouth of your descendants that is children's children from this time and for evermore amen it is the plan and the purpose of God that faith, the revelation, the anointing given to one generation to be passed on to the next generation and it is God's purpose that each generation to build the next generation to build the foundation to the next generation so that they can take it forward and it is wonderful to see the ministry the families in the ministry grow in that way we have seen many families at that time we see so many grown up ministries well established ministries have been taking care like that from their father to their son and to their children and again to their children's children and it is going well they all flow in that anointing and we see greater anointing also in their children children they also take the ministry to a different level to the next level they expand the ministry worldwide it is amazing praise God for it we see they are gifted in that area divine call is upon them there is a purpose and how God has raised and blessed this family it is beautiful but at the other side we also see the wrong expression of this we see the churches grown established and all the major position has been held by their own family members who are not flowing in that anointing who are not flowing in that gift or in that carousel but then because the position should not be given to others they want to hold on to it and you see the ministry not growing further the ministry struggles because God may have called them in a different area to flow in but then they are occupied into that area where God has not called them to be we see many ministries where a husband is a pastor of the church wife takes care of the Sunday school or the children's church and their children or their sisters occupy the other roles in the church not allowing or not giving an opportunity for the church congregation or the church members who are flowing in that area who are gifted in that area why because they want to occupy the friend position in that the major place so here the ministry suffers because the position that God has created and they occupy it without the gift or the call of God and maybe most of the time for some wrong reasons but when it is occupied that way we don't see the growth in the ministry and we see the outcome is very disastrous we saw that in the Bible when we studied the book of Samuel we saw the son of Eli were not as per the father and they had to face the consequence of it at the same time the sons of Samuel so as much as we eager to see our children and our grandchildren rise up and follow those steps in serving God we must remember that as an individual they have God's plan and God has given them the gift and talent we need to recognize that and give them the opportunity to grow in that area and not pressurize them and at the same time if you need help we can assign those ministry areas into our church congregation recognize their talent and skill in the church members and give them that position so that even as an individual even they can grow and even your ministry can grow and establish and expand much better than what we can think so as we do this let each of us serve God with all our heart and mind and so not occupy the position to ourselves but allow it freely allow the church members to grow in the gift in the area that they have been gifted if you see anyone growing in the word in the wisdom of God encourage them encourage them to be part of a good Bible college get them equipped give them the opportunity to serve in the church it shouldn't be like hey what if Eve reaches better than me will I become low like that don't have that fear as a ministry leader we should be in a position to see our congregation grow we should be we should appreciate for the wisdom that God has placed in each one of their life we shouldn't feel that our children are not in the Lord our children are not in preaching and teaching but then their skill and their gifting how can I encourage other children or you know it shouldn't be that way we should encourage God has placed each leaders in our church with certain gift and talent we need to recognize that and give them the opportunity to grow in the church and keep it open because this is the body of Christ ministry belongs to God and not to us it's not a business but it is a place to serve God people we need to be very clear in that in 1 Corinthians chapter 12 verse 18 says but now God has said the member each one of them is a body just as he pleased so we need to please God in every area give opportunity to everyone to serve, teach, preach in the church and recognize and allow each one to grow and appreciate them make a way for them to grow so with this we complete the second chapter in this book on family and I open up to a class to share something that you'd like to share that God has put in your heart what was your learning in this session please feel free Nikki would you like to share something can be anyone in the class Divya brother Abdesh brother Subashesh Hi Hi I mean I I don't have much to say but just want to say that it was a blessed teaching a lot of learning I've personally seen I think you know my testimony so how I came into the ministry I've personally seen both sides of it where some children have gone the extreme of not wanting to have to do anything with church while in the same family some of them have come back to serving the church so I completely agree and I would just say it's very tricky currently I have like all I have a boy who's going to turn four so it's very very tricky to manage both but this teaching was very helpful so thank you for that Thank you Praise God Praise God Brother Elisha Brother Isaac Yes Brother Lubeika please go ahead Thank you pastor I think the most important thing to put on should be empathy Empathy is like putting yourself in the shoes of the other person before you do anything for instance if you have a four year old it wouldn't be nice if you want this kid to have an intellect like yours try to stand in his or her own shoes and ask yourself how would I be seeing this if you see that you cannot explain it to his to him or to her to understand that means that you failed your work as a pastor or as a dad or as a mom so we should always try our level best to situate that we have empathy to the younger ones ask yourself like if it is your bed and they tell you at age four that today you're not going to sleep in this bed how would you feel if you do that I think it can always be great thank you so much Thank you brother thank you for sharing this very important to you know get to the children level at the age level and you know talk to them in the way they talk talk to them in the way they can understand and explain it to them that's nice yes Divya please go ahead Thank you pastor it was a really good session and I just wanted to share the one thing regarding marriage between a husband and a wife throughout my years like our years of marriage one thing that we have learned is basically from Ecclesiastus 412 which says a person standing alone can be attacked and defeated but two can stand back back to back and conquer three are even better for a triple braided cord is not easily broken so that there can be many things that can you know insight or an argument or trying to point fingers at each other but you know always going back to that verse right it helps and we have seen we can testify that yeah it works so yeah so as we share as I share all this it doesn't mean that I'm perfect all the area but then we all try to keep up as Divya said thank you Divya for sharing that yes it is a process every stage in a life is a process learning we are not a parent before unless and until we have a child so we get to learn with them we try things which will work but then we learn the same with the ministry also so it is a process just because we teach and preach it doesn't mean that we are perfect yes we are working we are working and we work together just that we need to have the heart to learn just that we need to be ready to unlearn certain things and learn certain things and we also need to be humble enough to accept the mistake when we do it may be with our children with our spouse because we know we need to be humble enough to accept the mistake when we do wrong at the same time we need to be teachable we can learn things from the little ones and also from anyone in our church from our spouse from our congregation leaders we need to have this teachable attitude within us so with this as the time is running we just end this class with a word of prayer and I request breath Subashish to please lead us and pray thank you loving father once again lord we thank you so much for this beautiful day lord and lord I thank you so much for speaking to everyone lord for your daughter lord a lord family is very important lord in ministry lord we pray as lord we all are learning together lord bless us that will be a good model will be a good husband good wife lord let our family will be a blessing to our church and let our family be will be a light and soul to this old master we thank you so much lord for speaking to us in Jesus minute pray amen amen thank you so much God bless you have a great day thank you good bless thank you