 Welcome back, so ladies, let's chat, whether we like it or not, we're all playing a role of sorts. And Sissy, you seem to think it might have caused some sort of identity crisis for women. Yes, I've been, as I was sharing with you guys in the green room, I've been talking to a number of women and we have so many roles. I like my, I'm using myself real quick. I'm a wife, I'm a mother, I'm an executive, I'm a mentor, I'm a public servant, I'm a job. Superwoman. I'm a teacher. I have, I mean, a daughter, all those things. And talking to women, Madison and Jess, and what they're saying to me is, I'm pissed off because I've been, my identity is caught up in being a wife and mother and all those things and not celebrating who I am as a woman. And I think that happens. We put that, we get caught up in everything that we do. And what we do does not define who we are. And that's, I think that's- Do you find yourself caught up in that, Madison? No, I don't. And sometimes I find comfort in it. I find comfort in knowing that I can identify myself with I am a mom. Okay. And it makes me feel stronger. And it helps me to guide me and helps me to make choices based on that role and based on that identity. But to your point for Madison, can you go see that a person may feel that I am all these people, I'm these roles, but I'm not, that's not who I am. That's not Madison. That's not Madison. Could you be hiding in those roles? But I feel like all those roles are an extension of who I am. That all of those roles make me who I am. Because I wouldn't be those roles if that's not who I wanted to be. So where someone might start feeling resentful about the roles that they're playing, well they're playing those roles for a reason. And they don't have to continue to play that role. They can let go of that role at any time. And choose to play another role. Well what's interesting though is I think that a lot of us are assumed that we are a certain role. People look at me this tall blonde and then they, I have to play this role. And they're like, I'm tired of that. I'm tired of people thinking that I'm less intelligent or flaky or Hollywood or you're so LA. No, I'm so Josemois' and there's a lot of more layers. That's the main role I'm playing beyond being a daughter, sister, friend, et cetera. I'm trying to play this role of what is my best self in fighting against what everybody else thinks about me. Well it sounds like what you're fighting against is a stereotype. Oh for sure, you fight stereotypes? But to your point, and you're correct, you're right. Those roles that I identify with myself are extension of who I am. But they don't define me because as we know roles change. So how much... The mother that I am today is not the mother I was when my babies were toddlers. And not the mother I'm gonna be when I have wrong children. Right, but you play those roles but you also define what those roles mean. I do, but at the end of the day before I had all those titles I think what the women are saying to me, Stacey, before I have all those titles, I am a woman. Right, but before they had all those titles, they were kids. No, no! You see where I'm going with this? I see where you're going with this. How do you maintain that role of I am Stacey? I am a woman, or can you? I just got it, to be honest with you. I just really got it. And I'm throwing some people for a loop because they're like, wow, Stacey, I didn't know. What do you mean, wow, Stacey, I didn't know? It's to that point, because I was hiding behind so many things I hid behind being a great wife. I hid behind being a great mom. But how are you hiding that? Because to me, those don't sound like things you hide behind. Those sound like things that you... Yes, you own most definitely you can. If you don't deal with something that's going on with you you will overcompensate and live vicariously through your children and your spouse. But now today's roles. I don't have a problem saying, you know what? Mama is not cooking tonight. Everybody work for themselves. I'm going to sleep. But isn't that also being a great mom? Isn't it teaching them to go, hey, sometimes you have to take care of yourself first. And I'm doing it for me. I'm being the example for you. I don't... It could be. No, because if I, Madison, if I was very uncomfortable who I am, and I was, so having my children know that I'm there, pick them up from school, making sure that I cook, making sure everything was live was important to me because I was in chaos. And that's something that I could control. Now what I'm telling our viewers is your roles are going to change. Your life is going to expand. And when you become in control with yourself, it's okay for a parent to say, you know what? I don't like my kid today. It doesn't make you a bad mom. It doesn't make you a bad mom. It makes you an honest, authentic person. That's interesting too because I'm finally at a point in my life growing up, you know, and in my 20s, I'm finally being okay with that. I am not who I was when I was 21. I don't want the same things I wanted when I was 23. And those roles are changing. And I have to be okay with that. Yes, they've evolved. It's okay for me. I've been married almost 23 years. And today I'm uncomfortable with telling my husband, uh-uh, this is not working for me, right? I've evolved because I'm comfortable with me. And I don't think that he's gonna leave me. Right? I wouldn't say things before because I was uncomfortable. Or I shouldn't say that. A wife doesn't say that. No, Amanda loves a woman. A woman loves a man. They're honest and they're communication. Communication. That's what I'm talking about as the roles evolve. You know what I'm saying? Yes. Live your role, ladies. We'll be back with more. After this commercial break, more every way women.