 And I think a great way when a gant man engages you into his life is he asks you questions. He asks you your opinion. Recently, my girlfriend was telling me some skincare products that I might want to consider to rejuvenate my face a little bit. And I was asking her opinion on this. I want to get her take. Women tend to be better in this process of things like that. So when a man asks you or your opinion, he seeks to get your help or advice, that's a great sign that he is at least committed to want to exploring something beyond the surface. And yet sadly, these days, most people spend too much time on the surface in the, how's your day going? Did you have a good day? I hope you had a good day. You know, we got to stop talking about our day and start digging deeper roots if you want to have a fully committed relationship that goes the distance.