 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and in this video We're gonna talk about how to break up with your boyfriend So if you want to break up with your boyfriend, you need to know how to do it so that you can get away from him and He has no chance of coming back to you and you have very little chance of going back to him so the the best way to be successful in a breakup is to Is to make sure that there's no chance for him to come back? And so here's how you do that There's kind of three steps to this and the first step is to blame your breakup on The fact that you just don't feel it for him anymore. This is very very important if you Give him something that he can fix You know if you tell him that he's acting like an idiot he can fix that if you tell him that He's being too much of this or too much of that or too little of this or too little of that He can fix those things and he can change those things if you're like well, you didn't go and do this You know, he'll go and do that, you know, and so if you really want to break up with him and you Want it to work? Make sure you don't give him a way to come back to you right get don't give him a way to fix What you're breaking up with him about and the way to do that is by saying that You don't feel it for him anymore and because there's no way for him to fix how you feel There's nothing he can do to try to fix that So number two is disconnect from him completely and block all communications from him Unfriend him from social media and do anything else that you need to to disconnect from him You need to do this for at least a couple months until he's lost his will to come back to you Which sometimes could have to take a long long time, but you know at least a couple months is best you know People have withdrawal symptoms after a breakup and so they want to like reconnect, you know and you may even want to reconnect and and So the best way to make sure that alas is to cut off all communications block his number, you know Disconnect unfriend him all that kind of stuff And number three is build up your own life and have things to do so that you don't get lonely and end up going back to him one of the challenges With relationships is when people give themselves to a relationship They don't have things going on outside and if you don't have something to go to you'll end up getting lonely and going back to What was comfortable and and what felt good? And so You know pursue your passions hang out with friends Express yourself in whatever ways you need to you know have something that you can go to outside the relationship that you can build up your sense of self and that you can You know make sure that you have so that you don't end up going back to your your ex-boyfriend Which he will be soon So that's it for this video if you want more information on how to attract Mr. Wright into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon