 There's gonna be some asian guys mad about this dude. I'm just mad at the asian girls who think they're white This guy is a complete nightmare for a billable A lot of women in America. They want you to have a use if in you They want you to have some use of moments. I know what the right answer is, but I can't give you the right answer, bro I'm a free spirit. Welcome everybody to the hotpot boys David and Andrew here And we are going to be analyzing jubilee's a viral video asian dad Chooses date for his daughter. Yeah, I knew this was a banger when non asian youtube commentators made full reaction videos This went viral on reddit so many people sent it to us wanting our takeaways wanting our analysis And I'll say this anytime there is something trivial that could spark deeper discussions that people don't normally want to have I'm here for it. Hey, and also anytime. There's any sort of OC ABG on YouTube It's always interesting. Anyways guys if you're interested by our analysis, please hit that like button and let's get into the first clip My name is Nikki. I Grew up in Orange County, California Currently a full-time student in San Francisco Do you think your dad knows your type? No, I do not think he knows my type at all Perfect guy for Nikki in my eyes We expecting family person Not out there calling in a lot once in a while. I'm okay with that but not every weekend have their goal Like what they looking for in the future for themselves Not just for Nikki at first because if they don't have any goals, so you lost. I'm still young, you know I'm looking for some fun adventure. Oh man right off the bat. You see the generational differences Obviously the dad is looking for somebody more mature grown long-term and of course. She's got blonde hair She's got a septum piercing. She got the OC via twang That's like not with the old ABG AZ and gangster days But you know, there's more modern fluid like kind of did see white wash OC vibes where she's like my dad doesn't even know What I want I tell you if a girl talks like this with this accent. She is American eyes I can tell you that right off the bat David. She's studying in San Francisco. Is it pharmacy or nursing? It's one of those two for sure Born and raised in Egypt Travel around for a bit ended up out here in California for fun. I'll be surfing or skateboarding You just want to go and just pack and take off without saying anything or anything to anybody If I ever find the chance Adventure when you thinking like okay, I'm gonna go to like China and just pack See the right answer. I should say no, I would never just leave without telling anyone But I mean Backpacking in China sounds kind of fun Yeah, you know, I mean I'm just like living my life doing my thing, you know, it's just like just good vibes Hey, you got to give it to use of though. He is being honest. He said hey dad I know what the right answer is, but I can't give you the right answer, bro I'm a free spirit. He looked like he walked straight out of like a stuicy ad or like a vans ad See Listen, he's being honest, but yeah, I could tell you right off the Batman. This dude is handsome. All right He's like ambiguous looking Ambiguously ethnic looking so I'm just like yo this guy's got it going on He's clearly charismatic and he clearly knows what he's bringing to the table and trust me He gets attention from women. I can tell you and not only that too. You got to understand like what Lane He's in he's not trying to be your Gordon Gekko like liquidity like Wall Street dude at all He's playing a whole other like skater like yeah, I'm just like a model. I'm an actor You know just like live life day by day. That's a whole different lane. That's not your problematic Like I'm trying to rule the world through equity, bro He's more playing like the cool stoner You could find me on the wall of pack son or the van store Let me tell you this for an Asian dad who is thinking about a long-term husband for his daughter This guy is a complete nightmare. What's your name? Wilson Wilson. Yes. How are you Wilson? I'm doing good Tell me about yourself myself. I'm born and raised in Singapore. My parents are from Indonesia Currently, I'm a junior at the University of Southern California studying computer science Oh my god, my Singaporean brother. Don't let these girls get you down. Okay Wilson for different folks. Yeah, I mean listen guys Wilson by all means seems like he comes from a family with money all the indications are there chindo Chinese Indonesian from Singapore Studying at USC right computer science now. Hey, maybe I just get a fang job. It's kind of easy But then if I really want to push myself, maybe get some shares then I go join start up I'll say this He seems more like the face of almost like a tutoring or a Chinese language learning app Whereas you see seems like the face of like urban outfitters like he's like on an ad at urban outfitters So I mean you got like completely different lanes right here I mean, this is just a good boy from Singapore. Listen, he's stagnant standard with the hands behind his back Speaking to mr. Tommy Tran as if that is like Lee Quan you you know, he's just like yes, sir Yeah, I want to do this and this is who I am. Listen, this guy is not a bad-looking dude He has a really good smile. He's tall and he comes from a good family I can tell you this in Asia in Singapore where he's from He's probably ranking a 7.5 or 8 but maybe in America when you're putting him juxtaposition against surfer dude Youssef who's like a model actor. It's gonna be tough. He's probably looking more like a five. Yeah, I mean in Singapore Wilson's probably not gonna do bad He's probably gonna jump from like a six to a seven point five in America due to the coolness factor He's probably getting decelerated to like a six or a five point five, especially in her eyes Oh The results came out the dad ranked Wilson near the top Yusuf at the bottom I think the only reason he didn't rank Wilson at the very top is he didn't want to seem racially Prejudicial or discriminatory or preferential and then Nikki the daughter ranked Yusuf at the top and Wilson All the way at number five and I think that that's what got the internet triggered either way I think the man is fear, you know guys were commenting because they're like all look girls Classically choosing the cool f-boy stoner over like this guy who's about to be rich But he's a nerd but he's on his P's and Q's and then I think the Asian guy internet was like dude Asian girls always publicly ranking Asian men in the last place so disrespectful Yeah, I mean I think this is an interesting conversation for people like we don't know exactly what Nikki is thinking Or if she did any post interviews But a lot of people are speculating that she's like a self-hating Asian but she grew up in OC So I think she grew up around Asian guys, but I think if there was a Kevin win in the dating pool I think he ranks higher than Wilson. I just don't think this is her type of Asian guy now I do think it's a little foul. She ranked him at the lowest I don't know clearly he is very much not her type because she's really not looking for him I mean, let's be honest I think there's some racial aspects of it too not that there's not every single type of Asian guy and like every ethnicity But I would say Wilson is for sure more of a Chinese guy stereotype Whereas like Korean via Filipino guys I would say they would have a higher ratio of your Kevin win guys who like really spend a lot of time Morphing themselves, but also like being more what like modern urban outfitters pack Sun festival girls want Oh man, I was looking forward to going to Singapore man. Those hawker stalls look so good The chicken rice man. I wasn't on YouTube obviously seeing the dad's ranking and the girls ranking be very very different is very interesting And that's what caused a lot of the controversy David But let's go through some of our favorite comments and some of them were kind of heated But some of them were very insightful the first comment was like damn man This girl is every dad's nightmare He seems down to earth honest and easy to talk to and his daughter just ended up a basic party girl And then other people were like hey, man That's the world we live in with social media and all these celebrity influences You can raise your daughter right and try your hardest and she might just end up a party girl looking for quick fun from hot guys I think this is making a lot of assumptions that listen. Hey mr. Tommy Tran seemed like a really cool dude in this video But that doesn't mean he like raised his daughter a certain way I'm just saying like, you know, you raise your daughter in America. She becomes very Americanized You name her Nikki. You got a son named Travis Those are very American names This is likely to happen. But is this so bad? I guess is a question out there You know, not only that it's the OC to like obviously we're from Seattle I'll tell you this being raised in Seattle. There's a lower likelihood Obviously, they're still a likelihood that the girls end up being party girls because there's no party culture in Seattle Andrew The next comment was from like a lot of angry guys or angry Asian guys that are like dude Girls are always making this type of short-term mistake when they're young in 30 years They'll be like, yeah, I was young and dumb and everybody makes mistakes because they're gonna come crying back to Wilson Because Wilson's gonna have the bag and he's gonna be rich I think that this is false because I think Wilson not saying he's not a bad catch Listen, I think Wilson's gonna do fine in his life He seems like a really nice dude and a lot of girls out there would like to date Wilson I think that Wilson at no point in his life or Nikki's life Are they a good match because I just think personality wise and just culture wise. It's actually so different I don't think Wilson's gonna be looking for Nikki in seven eight years either And I don't think Nikki's gonna be looking for him Because I think this is a false like idea that a lot of guys have that just because a girl rejects you when she's young That she's automatically gonna like you when you're a little bit more established I mean who's to say that you're gonna want her anyways I for sure might think that he wouldn't be ranked in fifth place in ten years though I think she will like three or four in seven or eight years I think Nikki will appreciate and respect the Wilson's a little bit more But that doesn't mean she's gonna get with Wilson Of course the next one comes through from you know Asian identity or like the angry Asian male internet where it's like dude Asian women are always going on these shows on Jubilee and picking Asian guys last we're just not picking an Asian guy at all So typical, ah man, it's so tough man because Obviously, I don't think Jubilee set it up this way But I will say this if you're an Asian girl going on a dating show and I've seen this happen in Australia The Asian girls who choose to go on dating shows are usually not the type who are looking for an Asian guy You're looking for something outside of your circle. You're looking to put yourself out there You want to be seen and you want to do something different So yeah, do I think that there's obviously a lot of Asian women out there who like Asian guys and appreciate and respect Asian guys? Hell yeah, but I don't think the ones that go out there Necessarily are looking to meet Asian dudes. Listen, man If you get crazy tattoos and like a septum piercing and you get you know more exotic Hairstyles and then you're this dude who totally looks like a CS major or an accountant It doesn't mean that you don't have girls in your pool, but they just might be in the engineering program They might be in the CS program They might be in med school to be a doctor, you know what I mean not necessarily a nurse no dishonorses but I'm just saying like It's difficult because that you like you said there's no way that a girl like Nikki is ever looking for a guy like Wilson possibly even in Singapore and I'm not even saying on like a world scale that their values to the world or in society is Like very different or that Wilson's might not end up being a little bit higher in a way No, just a Nikki, but I'm just saying like it's just not a good match culturally and of course you've got the classic dude I can't believe Asian girls went on this show and picked him last place. This is so disrespectful to Asian men Yeah I mean if she was trying to do something for Asian people then she ranking the Asian guy number five was a little bit mean But at the end of the day, I don't think she's thinking about them I don't think it's that deep not to say that there wasn't some type of like maybe Anti-fab attitude in her because she's so American eyes and he does Wilson does have a little bit of that accent and he's clearly like a really nice mama's boy So she's just like ah like I could probably get a Wilson whenever I want maybe but like I said I don't necessarily think that Wilson and her are ever a good match in any shape or form or at any point in time because Just culturally that they're very different long story short guys I think that like Asian guys they're pretty mad about a lot of things But I just don't know if this is the best example because there's a lot of other variables at play That make it like unclear why she made her decision Andrew There was even some disagreement about who to blame You know We're staying in sort of like the Asian guys that are mad at Asian girls like space right now because some people were like dude I'm just mad at the Asian girls who think they're white and then other people were like nah, man I'm more mad at girls like Nikki who still pick non-Asian guys even though they're from like OC Probably from like all v it or all Asian high school That's even worse and the other people were like nah, man I'm blaming the boba liberal girls who think that this is okay, and they're not proud even though they date Asian guys But they only date hot Asian guys. What about regular Asian guys? So I was like, oh man, there's a lot of smoke for everybody from this crowd They don't even know who to be mad at yeah I think it's tough and sometimes this crowd is probably never gonna get the answer that they want I'm gonna be honest. However, I will say this Nikki to me. She feels like an American girl She's gonna have plenty of dating options in America as a woman. That's fine I think Wilson though if he splits his time between Asia and America He's gonna have a lot of options. He might not he might have less options in America than she will But if he goes back to Asia, I think he's seen as a good catch Wilson I got the plan for you associate yourself with the fame company. Let's go Apple Let's go Facebook get transferred back to Singapore You can hang out with your mom all you want and you will be more like, you know They'll just care about you more in Singapore. But but why stop at Singapore man go back to Indonesia. That's a bigger market Then of course you have the guys firing right back being like dude It is totally not about him being Asian bro. Wilson has like no chin bro. His jawline is weak He doesn't even lift. He's a total square like fob, dude I mean dude if there was a buff Kevin win with like tattoos, she totally would have picked him But he just wasn't there in the episode I actually think even if there was a Kevin win, I don't think she picked some number one I think Yusuf is such a different product and a different type of guy than she's used to meeting I don't even think they meet on the dating app to be honest because I think Yusuf Swice left on her But I think that in this vacuum where she gets a chance I guess to go out with an Egyptian surfer stoner model in LA She's just gonna do the thing that is so different, you know, but I actually think that yeah a Kevin win would probably rank higher Yeah, she would more like end up marrying the Kevin win like you said like the guy who's like five out of ten Kevin win But like an eight out of ten at a thing job That would probably be her perfect vibe in like six seven eight years David What's your overall takeaway ma'am my overall takeaway is that it's tough because a lot of women in America They want you to have a Yusuf in you. They want you to have some Yusuf moments They want you to be adventurous when you need to be adventurous, but then reliable and have a good job So there's always this balance that a lot of guys are trying to find but it is hard right now Wilson is a Wilson and Yusuf is a Yusuf Can you be in between? I think that's what's going through a lot of guys heads Oh, dude for the generation Z that I see this like from like kind of those rich private school families I think Wilson's a little bit of a different case because he's from Asia being a nerd That like wears like Nordstrom's clothes and being proper. That's completely acceptable in Asia You can even get a cute girlfriend doing that in America Because there's so much subculture here and like some people call it downward assimilation of whatever whatever like if that game Playing doesn't really work in the American environment like nearly as well unless you stay in fob circles So to be honest man, it's tough like some people especially from the OC That's the home of like Jabba walkies a B. DC all these Asians to launch in all these brands that are like hyper non traditional But still Asian a little bit at the end of the day. I mean listen ABG culture comes from the OC You got to be what the ABG's want right and some of the ABG's. They're so open-minded now They want a Yusuf. I mean because there's even different types of ABG. She seems like a little bit more of like a whitewash one I mean my overall takeaways are Andrew the different people just like different things, but is she wrong? She's not wrong. She's not wrong because look at how she was raised. There's gonna be some Asian guys mad about this I mean all in all guys. You can't fault Nicky Nicky is a girl from the OC with blonde hair and all the kind of like Festival markings of a girl from the OC who's like wants to have fun and be an RN or be a farm tech or whatever But she grew a beaten fur. Yeah, that's what I'm saying and Wilson is like almost a guy from like 50 60 70 years ago Or at least 30 40 years ago. I know the type. I'm still Chinese I still spend time in Asia that type of guy that Wilson is in Asia is He's definitely not like the top 10 out of 10, but he does quite well He's six foot tall. He's rich and he's probably gonna get a good job like way deep in the six figures But in America we have to understand especially in the 20s. I mean, I don't even think it fully changes in the 30s People care about subculture and like you said everybody's looking for that like hybrid BMW a hybrid Lexus Everybody's looking for a luxurious Tesla where it's really like up on all metrics, you know They get what they want and then no downside and all upside But it's very difficult to find and I do think that a lot of young guys right now in 2022 that are Asian guys are Trying to build themselves into that and that's why a guy who can do computer science Might get buff and get a broccoli cut right now because they're like, huh the niggas of the world That's what they want So this video did go very viral and sparked a lot of conversations for a number of reasons You let us know in the comments down below if we miss some of course I generally think that women want to balance between the Yusuf and Wilson, right want a stable job That'd be cool, but to be a little adventurous, you know, be a little bit more free-spirited when you can It's a hard balance to find a lot of people are trying to find it right now And Andrew to circle back to your original point that you said way in the intro People learn a lot and care a lot what ABG's think you just didn't know that They just do every time an ABG says anything in a YouTube video People care, you know why because they're considered sexy. That's why exactly. All right guys. I know Thank you everybody. Let us know in the comments down below We are the hot-pot boys. We're gonna keep analyzing and reacting to videos Let us know if you like these types of videos too. Thank you so much for watching and until next time. We out. Peace