 one of my core ones as well which is i don't there's no rejection for me also because the categories kind of been replaced for me it's either things are going to go well and have a great attraction have fun get laid make a friend make a girlfriend whatever or other category funny story and that's been my mindset for two years now funny story the worst things i've ever happened to the worst things they've always been funny ass stories and i've shared this before in the internet so i won't go into it but it's a great mindset as well there's no rejection because it's either gonna go great or it's gonna be hilarious that's it some girl attacks you tries to kick me in the balls you know freaks out that's fucking hilarious i'll be telling that to my friends for this chick tried to kill me it was awesome i'll be telling the next girl i have a date with right so i want to really emphasize this point generally speaking life see guys are afraid to get what they want to look what if i try and i fail as your friend a failure but it's ridiculous because in reality you're only competing with three percent of guys three percent in every field most i pretty much realize that in most fields in everything every job you can imagine most people suck have you noticed that most people suck most doctors suck most dentists suck most lawyers most p u a's suck most people just suck it or or they're just mediocre very few people are actually good at what they do very few people actually try to become in that top echelon uh... there's a story there's a uh... one speaker name eluse me but i love the guy i just haven't listened to a stuff in years he gives a specific example uh... that uh... many years ago there was a a chain called macy's in the states and they basically had this thing where they uh... they were going to have a program to train people in their company to become manager so if you're working for like seven bucks an hour or whatever you could become a manager and then get a much higher paid job you can manage your own store all this kind of stuff and they put out this program uh... to their own employees saying okay look you can come in twice a week will train you for free maybe six hours a week and then you go through the training you get more money become a manager maybe even on the store one day okay awesome guess what percent of people in the entire chain actually applied just applied to be trained for free to get better jobs more money three percent so if you're actually in that three percent you're like yep i'm gonna be a boss i'm gonna be awesome to improve myself ninety seven percent people aren't even competing against you so it's not that hard to get good and succeed because most people are lazy so again by being here i believe you're already in three percent all right why direct like many of you in this room probably uh... in my early years i tried doing kind of like indirect stuff and just kind of trying to talk to girls without being clear about my intentions and what i was doing and i suffered horribly i suffered horribly and today i'm going to talk quite a bit about this i direct is a word you're gonna see a lot for me more authentic you're a man nine times out of ten when you see a girl that you want to talk to why do you want to talk to her she's hot she's sexy there's something about her nice smile nice tits nice ass whatever she's fucking hot you want to talk to her this is the most natural thing in the world jesus gave us penises and then vaginas that's the way it's meant to be would've been funnier two weeks ago when i look like jesus but not anymore so it's just the most natural thing in the world that's what you're supposed to do all the all the guys i've met that are truly amazing with women that are you know naturals they're not coming up with any excuses to talk to women whatsoever they're talking to girls they're saying whatever's on their mind they're not sexy they'll tell her she's sexy they'll grab girls they don't care they're not afraid of anything and it is absolutely authentic and natural to just express that desire and to tell a girl hey you know what i want to talk to you i want to get to know you you're cute you're sexy whatever who are you showing that authentic natural uh... interest in a woman is normal and it's very strange to to on purpose try and not show that you like to go to trine's you know to on purpose hide your intention you know fire wants on from if i want you to pass me if i can kind of coca be like you'll pass me the coca might be like so uh... listen i was wondering uh... that kind of coca doesn't really look met my follow-up word is can you just maybe pass that over here and then later be like actually i wanted to drink the coke that's why had you know i'm just gonna fucking just pass me the fucking coca you know a lot like your your most you guys are already naturally direct but then when it comes to women were all fucking pussy doesn't make sense way more natural they were authentic next point saves time in psychological energy who here has ever spoke to a girl for half an hour and then you find out all who's she's got a boyfriend i want to kill myself every time i have a literally want to jump on like why the fuck was i talking to you i want to have sex with you and you've got a boyfriend or your fucking you're not interested with the fuck is this game i hate it i want i've actually wanted to punch rolls in the face because i'm clearly flirting with them for like half an hour all married why would you be here for half an hour what are you doing uh... guess i should open with the starbucks opener alright so saves time time is our most precious commodity we're i know a lot of you guys are young guys we're all gonna fucking die we're all dead as soon as you're born it's a fucking death sentence okay there's only one thing more valuable then everything in your sex drive that money everything it's time once your time is gone it's gone that's it you have x amount of days on this planet hopefully there's a lot of them you never know could be here nobody fucking knows some people believe the world is coming to an end so your time is your most important thing right so i hate wasting my time in a like i'm thirty three now i'm getting older i don't want to waste any time gay every minute i want to be doing someone to be having a good time you know i want to be either working or being productive or or joining myself i don't want to just waste fucking time nothing angers me more than wasting my time with girls it was not interested cool just tell me i'm interested so