 It has been a very kind of interesting kind of morning. Misdi watu ame amkaji. But you know how it is. For me and my house, kwengane kakikakitu kwenyumba, for me and my house, we will do something. But as for me and my house, I will remain with my peace and I will remain with my joy. Okay? You can't take that away from me. At the bounce too. At the bounce. Onasasa. Why to perform on Facebook? How do I to perform on Twitter? Hashtag is why in the morning. And today I said at the bounce, nime kwenahanguwe a bounce, tulikuwa bounce tanusiku. But it's alright. Now you know we're finishing what in the morning like this. We go from 7 to 10 a.m. Source after source after source. So what we're going to do now is have a conversation with two queens and one king. We're talking about the dilemma faced by the girl child. Kiyona boy, manzanakamnevi, na, you know, it's a crush, but it's not a crush. So you just can't help yourself. But kuna tu kaki, tu kako off. Yeah, so we're going to try and discuss how to how to manage, how to balance or how to walk away. I don't know. Talk to us at Y254 on Facebook, at Y254 Twitter channel or Twitter hashtag is where in the morning. Nasuji nimba na mimi guys. I think niko nanja. Yeah. Mwana dogo nisheme at Y254 channel. Nagini karibu ni sana. Nakawizuri zuri. Let's start with the king. Hi, king. Hi, too. How are you? I'm very fine. It's your first time on set, isn't it? It's my first time for this segment, but I'm the rest of the segment. I'll be there. Oh, onigweji. Hi, Karibu kwe tu. I will. We are here to have a good time and we'd like to be as honest as possible. Umhamo. We face social issues. Yeah. Yeah. Wana kuitana niku nge. Oh, um, oh, we know chain brand. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Onanchori amato. Mm-hmm. Okay, it's my nature. So sometimes we'll buy strings when I talk. Oh, so when it gets heated, I know you're going to start. Okay. I don't, for some extent, it's okay. What do you do? I'm a student. Ah, what do you study? I study commerce and IT. Ah, where? I study IT with the dance university and commerce at African Azora University in Kampas Longa'i. Wow. Karibu sana. Social media handles? Uh, on Facebook amowinochieng. On Instagram amowinochieng 82. Um, on Twitter amowinochieng. Amowinochieng everywhere. All right, Tobinochieng. Karibu sana. Thank you. Hi, queen. I want to, I'd like to finish with her because she's been here before. Hi. Hi. So Samoa. Oh. Aki usi jam. Jadulwa kwa jam usi jam aki. Abe unakapwa. Mm-hmm. Naito nani. Ita shagamarembu. Mm-hmm. I'm a student. What do you study? I study commerce and IT. Where, where, where, where? Wajo ni pesa tu? Okay, because it's... We learn money. Ah, high five, high five. We are together. We are hammer and apple. What are your social media handles? My augus book, I'm Sharonquency. Mm-hmm. Instagram, Sharonporembu. Twitter, Sharonporembu. All right. Marrembu ama marrembu. Marrembu. Sara. Where you are now, here, everywhere in your group, like in 선rembu half to what's your dream. But things are a very viewed turn. So, my name is Justa Makenna. I like to pause. What do you do? Well, I am a journalist. Basically, it's cool. I want to do journalism. But I love doing makeup, like beauty stuff is my thing. But I guess when I combine them both of them. Beauty and brains. Na kuna? Social media? Well, you can find me on Instagram at Justa Makenna. On Twitter at Justa Makenna underscore. And Facebook Justa Makenna. Ladies, do you really feel like kuna dilema yau kuweli kablata tu in Giza King into the conversation? Also, you can use whatever language you feel like. Ataka mania mama, teka tu subtitles apu. Cindy, just express yourself as best as you can. So, nukweli wunezaw na chale, maybe he's really nice. He has kuna ropua, anakupenda, anakujali. But ataka kitu manzea. Manzea ataka fuliza kwa keningumu, wata amampi. Yeah, like it's difficult like that. Ataka kedef kachapu dondo ni tricks. You know, he just cannot provide for you at this particular season in time. Do you think, would you go for it? Like wunezam consider semai wuni potentially? Tell me the truth. Let's start with you. According to me, you didn't consider a broke guy as a potential. Ataka kuna ropua manzea tamia koka, safi. No. No? Why now? Will we eat rosafi? Will we dress rosafi? Will we eat that love? Will we eat that love? Yes. We have to consider pockets sometimes because according to our generation, like kila saa nipesa tina waku. I want to dress my makeup. Juna kapu as we speak. Yeah. Here ataka, I want to do my makeup. Maybe some years to come. I would want my kids to study in a good school. But when they are my humans, I don't see a wrong guy. Sisa kama if that guy is broke. I am not assured that in some years to come, maybe he is broke and he is not working. He is just working hard for your love. Yeah, he is just trying to timber me. As if kasa rani. I will not take him. Now, kwen, oh, shaj prepare answer. Siku pay us wan, inak pati ingine. Now imagine this, we will call him not so young man. In fact, we will give him a bit. If you had a bucket list or a list of things that you expect in your potential bay. Namepita tumiakatu. Let's say he is a bit older than you, you had anticipated expected for. Na umeskiya personalized face. Na umeskiya surreal image. Baka tuha ruza kakaribu kuwa private. Ikwetu watatu na witnesses. Because venti anakama say... but you cannot lack anything, money or tass. You cannot lack anything, my friend. Namepita tumiakatu. He goes and buys it for you because that's how he likes to express himself. Would you go for that guy? Yes, I would. I like the image, but think about his two head. Ya, I would. You know, Val, it's not necessarily like every young guy out there is meant for you. Maybe we may already have sharp it at that level. That's the one umgwallyamu like, that's the one for you. And you know, as mature as he is, he's already seen enough of this. As legwins out there. And if he sets his eyes on you and he's like, ya, I want you, I want to marry you, I want to, I want to, you know. Why not? Like I'm guaranteed my future is all bright, I can already see it. At least they are guaranteed there will be no issues within the future. So ya, why not? I want you to discuss their two answers. Transia, how are you? Let me start. As a boy child representative. Let me start by Sharon's. She refers to that she want men with money. Ya, a man with money. Okay, a man. Ya, anaza kwa 2 moja. Okay, a man with money. A man with money. So in this case, questioning, do you need love or money? It's well. She defends it by saying that she want to eat the love. She want to spend the love. But it said she will be spending money so she will go for money. And I want us to accept that as much as our generation is that there is a change. That we are trying to copy everything from the western. We should think of our own social basis. You are going to summon the ancestors. I would tell us. Okay. To accept that we are Africans and we have something that holds us back. We should respect our status. I understand that old men also, old wealth men also like or prefer the young ladies. For various factors. So it could be a match made in heaven. Someone likes old guy, old guy likes someone young. Ya, but now we are how we are doing. So is this our generation going to change so that we don't marry, men don't marry when they are young. And who will they marry because the young ones they should be marrying are going. That is a dilemma. That's a dilemma. So I just see like we should regenerate this generation. I always talk of this, we regenerate it because we have to consider the past and what the past stated initially. How would you describe the average boy child? Like to say mimi bianna pesami ngisana. Like haja haja. Someone in progress, let's put it like that. Always when someone is in progress, that person eventually becomes great. Because eventually. Ya, I can say personally today I'm not that. I'm not that. I don't know if it's not that way. But I'm in progress. That after some time I want to be the same. You know when men live with the mind that after some time we want to be the same. Ya. So now you want us to trust as the girl child you were because she said that there's no way that it's guaranteed that all this your dreams will come into reality. I want you to be the same. I want you to be the same. Well, what happens? I want you to be saying such things. What happens is, yes, I don't have the money now. But you can see it from my heart, from my progress. What could be the outcome in the near future. Okay. Ya. So now you want to be the same, but you want to be the same. Me? Instead of doing what you suppose to be doing in this time, you want to be the same in 2022. But why? Yes, talk to me. That's the sense. Okay. Oh, we can't wait until it's too late. What if it comes when you are party? And what if real life, the life that everybody will desire comes when you are party? What if it doesn't come? It will eventually come, let me tell you, unless you die. I actually agree with him somehow. How? In that, I guess whatever he is trying to say is, the theme of growing together. It's exactly. I agree with him, but actually for me, I'll prefer that in our relationship. Whereby you meet a guy, okay, he might not, he might be, let's say, stable or just managing. But why don't you also work? Why don't you try to help each other, grow together? You know, like, usingo jati when you know he's rich, he marries me, then later, like when he's, there's a problem maybe, divorce or something maybe, then pesehote niake, what about me? Wait. We as girls, we were born with the nature that men always provide. In our family, pesehama mangu, niake. Like, my dad will always provide for everything. Now, if you want to pick Brian from his low point, let's say, Brian is study, I'm also study, then he wants us to date. Apaku nitu na date, Brian or Ridesha nitu kwa, asif am his own. Susahile, he doesn't want you to explore, doesn't want you to do anything out of... Explore, I don't know what you're exploring. Apana, I took you when the injured, I took you as a shed now to bring in, asha kuchukuwa. Asha kufunga. Asha kufunga. Ati, true love. Welcome here. How utafunga, like, if you really want to work, you're in campus, right? Like for me, when I was a Nikiyanza, campus and stuff, you know, sometimes classes in Asha, maybe midweek, and then I was like, okay, will I just go back to the hostel, sit and do nothing? So I just, like, I find a side hustle, na jitafuja pesangu for the hair. You know, you don't have to keep on, mam nyele, mam, jewa what? Squeeze it, mam. Bei? No. Actually, for me, I don't feel like it's right. Ati, silez mu kaya pungoji kuja. Just go to something for yourself. And just maybe, siyati na toa puentiako, I just want to ask honestly, an honest question. The way she said, you know, eidatuna pigia mam ama bei. And the way you've said, you know, daddy takes care of the responsibilities in the house. When did the people who were dating become our fathers? Now that we're expecting them to provide, like, when did that happen? We don't expect them to provide. Like me, I don't expect my bed to provide for me anything. My point is, una pata e ina fukai, Like, if you want to go, una mambe umepata kaha self-learning, that guy will not accept, ilia na una wuki einda, you'll be going out with the other guys. A lafata kuja na kumbe iti, I can provide everything, ukuja wukai, wukai itimi. That was my point. Excuse me. You're excused. That is, when the sense of maturity comes. Oh my gosh. Fafanoa. Why would I should call my girlfriend going for work, if she goes, she'll be going with the other guys and I understand that it's from the work we'll be getting cash and I know she loves me and I love her. So you're trusting, like that? Wait till you want to tell me you trust your bed, like that? Fafanoa, I'm not sure what I'm getting, so I can't talk about it. You're not sure? How are you not sure, you baby? How are you not willing to say how are you not willing to say how are you not too bad though? You're not sure? How about a sample, sample sample, Miki miki miki, ni kābo feivi! Miki, I've tried helping my child. OK let's get to a couple of comments, at W8F on Facebook, at W8F on Twitter. Hashtag is what in the morning, me me. Nangalia chest nasura. Do you want to keep poor? Teso ni kuna yangwe menito, wow! Hi, Val, I'm Jain. I will take a wealthy Rude man, I love her, We have to be as rude as him but we can't even communicate with them Ha taka bale neendele. 2 telke have a farm and they want rich men and I have money for rent. But from what I've seen, most rich guys, those who make it have to get them, and most of them are rude They just don't respect them Is it rude or arrogant? Or harsh? They're harsh Pатели? It's just the sign of intelligence. It's like they own you. Your hair, your whole will be in to MPMEs. So why would you want someone to own you? Get you on worse … Imagine someone who wouldn't dare mess with you any time she is here, what will happen to that lady? h effects we still don't feel comfortable When I went to the bava maid and said I was fishing I had a feeling I was going to throw her down Raza kanakufunga, tapia haupi ichochote. I think that's what is ina letizu, Like, couples is killing each other. It's toxic. Kwa kipatami wu at the first time... Namba optete? I love you. Baka ni salamu One expect a lot from somebody Tisailu unakuja If she walks out of her life I'm left with no option Apundu na mwa kumkata shingu Haa mone kujino Please Speak on your hand In definition of love there's a part called There's a part of a word affection May highlight Affection is quite heavy That it deals with the feelings and emotion of human And psychologically Men Once in love are very weak You testify that They're weak to the lady In this sense You see the way we're all paying attention In this sense I'll expect much I'll give you my all When I love you Because you'll give her your all For she could be your only one I'll give you my all Let me tell you A man can be Anakzakwa na hanya But Anajwa kwenye mwewa ke uko But then if your heart is there Why are you looking for solutions Somewhere else? Sometimes these things come and we need it A friend will just drive it there So If she finds out What do you expect if she wants to live How will you feel? It must be painful Of the word affection Because it must affect you In your feelings and emotions I like the way that you're standing up This is not the first time I've heard it The woman here bear for some time Now that there's a species Of men So I don't want to say That man is a hanya But there's one, that one person How would you feel if the roles were reversed? So just crazy Day makita kwa kuchesa nivu Unless asa kwa namtua mi tapa video Kaipost na suddenly misdori But day maki kuchesa ta kuchesa But I love you But forgive me Infact iku ewa asa na kuchesa na babako Since we're talking about older guys with money Can you just give a vaccine? You just look at her beautiful like this Luga luga Naya kawna hanya na haya Sasa lafu Siu tajama shoka Why do you expect us to be so understanding of your carnal Thirsts But when if the roles were reversed You're not willing to show the same compassion Why? It's some species It's good you said it's for some species I like it And be sure that not all men Will be that type And I know that Once a man loves you Atu kuchesa kwa gundua Na kusha gundua Satu piga ni It's hectic Or otherwise he's not sharp But the ladies are sharper Are you not sharp? Ladies are very sharp Help me here Even if you're not the one going out If you're not the one going out I will know And this is how you find it The girl has broken up with you But Keshaw is in a three month relationship What's the problem? What's the problem? What's the problem? What's the problem? What's the problem? Do you know why Men were Charred to be the heads of families At some point in the Bible I don't know why I don't know I also know ladies were This perfect first Because As a man You should be thinking outside the box Far away from the girl child Sometimes I like studying minds But After studying somebody's mind To be in a capable to manage the person You must think beyond her mind That's a lot of effort It's a lot of effort That requires a lot of intelligence Unless you are not Only if you're going to be keen Because Our ladies are very sharp This lady is You'll put all that effort So that you can have that space Just to cheat Your fellow boy child Are investing to become billionaires As you are putting all your effort and energy I know That's not all efforts Who told you that We are not in progress Kwa bach tu Men Men bet But gentlemen don't bet Ah Excuse me No Val have seen big Big people with companies Men is betting Betting Initially before the betting sets came Betting was a hobby It was a gambling Gambling was a hobby That people would go for lotteries You have clearly never been to Las Vegas So not all men Are for that fun So if I was to throw a question to you If you were the type who did not like betting at all Like wachata If you were the type who did not like betting But you bet And then you find that wanka Who has everything else going on for him But an bet What do you do there? Do you compromise? You'd go for him Well you know some people change I'll try maybe Talk some sense into you But you just can't tell someone Hey can you just stop betting No mambi why You can't write There are two reasons that is making sense You can't say Okay well me I like you but I don't like your habit of betting Betting is so addictive Ya And that is the point We are saying You cannot say That you want to deprive somebody of his hobby Wow Because you are in love Because you are in love And psychology We know That hobbies Even if you are so busy You will find yourself in time for your hobbies And even if you are an officer You may get left to your office Because of the hobbies But you know na wana kata ku change For men you cannot change their hobbies But them they want you to change everything If If I don't like you I don't like you Hey hey Like you just understand You boys are all Okay I will give you another message Let me give you another message Hi my name is Christine I chose I chose a man with money hoping he would change Hey kwa ni Naisi Mr. Zako Hoping he would change but this monkey still raises his hand on me What? The cool handsome Steve I left for being broke Got a good job and I am regretting Kindly advise these young people Wow Alright Hi Val my name is Christine So This is something that we started with I am really glad Christine that you sent us a message Because you said And if I am wrong please correct me That you wouldn't be with a broke guy right now Because you don't To happen in the future You're not sure if he's going to get where he thinks he's going to get And then you said With assurity that Yeah matter of course stay with this rich guy Because I'm assured that my people are going to be okay with my kids But what happens girls when life happens There's a life in a zafariya tajiri And a question boy Yeah life can give you a slap A high five On the face And suddenly things have changed So the person who you thought would never make it Was President Obama I'm sure he has a next say And the person you thought would be rich forever Suddenly doesn't have anything Well that's the point You know you have to be this As much as you're married By a rich guy Or you're dating a rich guy Just don't be there Asi bina payang wadi kitaka na paywa In person confirmed Iyo person na paywa ma the money you're getting At least invest It's not just about clothes And all that I'm not told that I'm buying Sai But it's obviously made him to know We always We think to know So whatever happens we got two sets Not unless you're a dummy I don't know but Yeah to know So it's out to get to And to know So it's out to get to Excuse me Not all gini rich men Not all gini rich men At Demagots You will realize that they are investors Yeah Unless somebody Unless somebody Until 100,000 from betting He bets again But I'm not going to bet If you don't know what I'm going to ask What are you going to ask But I think I would be glad if ladies would protect themselves By saying that you would want Men who have invested resources Now we will seek out a buy note of Tamstana See you feel some type of wife They are just going to be investors But I think You should consider the source Is it permanent By the way You might drop a guy 3 years to his dream To live his life And you go for somebody Who is the next 3 years Is a fallen soldier So you should begin the sense As much as you are trying To cope with the western generation But we accept that you are Africans So I don't know if you are being recolonized Or we are But you know what's happening nowadays Ladies out there Are getting married To this rich man But we are not friends We are friends So you are married here Most of the time they are not here In business He is all over So you are always alone So you go And you are like This guy is going to die anytime soon So you are just here You know you have us somewhere Yes, sweet According to me What I have seen most of the girls do They don't stay in those old men's life They are there Kupada tuka kitu Like I have my boyfriend And he is with me I know he is with me He is with me So He is This is He is with me You already have your money Like this This man has already invested on you Girls don't stay in those old men's life 2 or 4 A period of time they don't stay there for life Okay I know this might sound a bit crass But I don't know what girls do That's what girls do No Queens let's have a meeting Next week I want to know What girls do We have to talk about this We want to know if you invested We are not prepared for If they are So do not do that It's dangerous But they don't stay in those days That problem is not staying You are going to stay You are going to go to Mwaja And I want us now Maybe address Honesty from the bottom of your heart To kiyongelisha audience Tell them how you feel It's proper to disand Like kujue Ni wapi na faku wacha Ni wapi na faku jeribu Ni wapi na onatinezonger na uboichild Nye weata change Not for you, not for anyone Okay according to me The issue of dating old men It's not good at all If you find a guy who is broke Work on your side Then support him To work on the other side If he fails at least you Uta kumepata Experience Don't be that girl Me ni anenda ati My boyfriend is broke And that guy who wants me He is wealthy I will not go for a wealthy man Over a broke guy I will try If we can grow together If it won't work out That's when I will find another route Okay continue mum Okay for me I just Say to me don't go for old guy Go for young guy Do you What's good for you Do the right thing Just use your common sense It's not very common unfortunately Yes I feel like The person you dating right now If you are at a state of getting married You can say maybe What's he doing And I will tell him In the next 10, 20 years to come Unona ni ni Then settle with that person If unona na nothing Then just Okay Okay As a A very short one Short one In as much as our ladies Can we are going to Like Rich, roger men We should consider The state of the wealth Is it that one is famous And I know We should also consider The future in this sense That not all men are static Men are always in progress In this century Every man Would want to drive tomorrow Every man would want to have A decent house tomorrow Every man would want to have His kids educated tomorrow So we shouldn't just like What is for now And ignore what is for future Just because of money That is not even right Right for you So now I know Shoka inakula na because of this Shoka inakula na because of this I give you my little that I get And again I find with that An old roger man to make it worse So I ask Our ladies that Even as we think Big about this Let's avoid Letting old men Psychologically I know old men There is that age kifika We would not want to date our wives We don't travel that love for our wives It fades Okay like When those feelings They just fades Okay first of all I need to catch you Of course we need to go and then Second of all love is not a feeling Please it's a doing word I know it Because you are describing it as a feeling It's fading Thanks Alright so last two messages Haival amjoni I'm seriously moneyed And polite but also generous To many girls The girls I did get offended by my generosity And leave me Nishi dagani konebo itzhele Kindly ask girls to learn to share Okay Haival na ito ka ro Mtuwa chagwe boi mahambo But amfundisha kuhaso Some guys are broken not doing anything about it Ina range rova Do you love me babe Thank you so very much for watching us on girl talk Thank you for staying with us The whole duration of wine in the morning Again we run from 7 to 10 In the morning sauce daily Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday And Friday tomorrow is hip-hop Thursday So you don't want to miss it I'm sure they have a fantastic array of guests So for me and my panelist Have an amazing midweek And weekend kikarebe apil have awesome weekend Na have a good day Yeah anything else I missed Have an amazing life But na kwa na suun See you