 Hey y'all time for another chit chat hold on let me put on I put on some purple earrings look my friend Wanda has a channel on here the Wanda and girl she came to me a while back she came to me a while back and asked me for advice on how to start up a YouTube channel I gave her some advice and I told her don't spend a lot of money on you know equipment and all that tell me why this helpful a couple of months later this have a has a complete production company so we were chit chatting a couple of months ago and I said look how the hell are you gonna have a complete production company you know your your content is a1 and I'm coming on camera with purple lipstick and a bonnet and she busted that laugh and I said says I don't care I'll be showing up looking hot miss yes friend look y'all I blew up my hair last night from wash to finish it took me like four or five hours I was over let me get a comb so I can give you some hair porn and it's already shrunken up oh yes it's pretty much especially when I take it down you can see it especially at the root that it shrunk up already I hope y'all can see this the quality is dark today for some reason I may make the camera a little bit lighter but my hair is very dark anyway so I trumped my ends not a lot but we did what we could I'll take you down and put it back up for y'all cuz cuz I ain't gonna get this hair for a while because I'm gonna do I'm I'm going to be doing a I supposed to be styling my I supposed to be selling my hair and I so you see hi sorry girl yes come through well what song can I sing with this hair right now no no that's not let me sing what's the Chaka Khan song what's my favorite song by Chaka Khan is not one of her most popular do you like what you feel I forgot the words already for my birthday girl now I was wanting to do flex your eyes for y'all but I also don't want to go to bed with like 30 flexor rods on y'all see that show and I can feel it it's already getting bushy um so I'm like no we ain't gonna do flex your rods I'm gonna do a flat twist with perm right it's gonna be pretty y'all so those of you who've been rocking with me for a while y'all know my hair grows out like this and then it comes down so she is she's grown yes she's grown and this is what the side get that girl come through soft be rated point okay Vivian y'all have to excuse me hold on let me kind of comb this out I have mercy why though when I when I was blowing it out I tried to do as much on camera and I did film this which is gonna be a hot mess because it's been a cup it's been a minute since I've blown on my hair is it's been a while so and I have to do it sober well yeah so um hold on but while I was blowing up my 85% done right and I'm going already going through my head okay this is what I'm gonna do is what I'm why did I get to something right here I felt a clip y'all I almost started crying like I legit almost started crying cuz I thought I was done it was like right here this right here I have to do yeah so let me get the hush up and turn around to the back I don't know what the back is looking like but cool child it is annoying to have a smart kid he figured out he look he got a bobby pin bit the bobby pin I'm like what the hell are you been watching on TV bit the bobby pin and was able to unlock the door girl yes now I'm giving you a Jody Watley I'm looking for a new love baby a new love yeah yeah yeah girl let's get into this video so y'all know how we do but this is gonna be a birthday edition so I'm gonna show y'all what all I got for my birthday yeah so buy things for myself on my birthday I demand gifts I don't do that um some people gave me gifts my husband was like here's my credit card now what do I have to do yeah but since it was my 40th birthday I wanted to go all out and get me a bunch of different things but I also bought myself some outfits because we were supposed to go to California and of course that's not happening so you guys y'all know how we do this I left all my chit-chat notes up in the front we talk about what's going on these you two streets we talk about personal life and we talk about what I've been watching so I do remember what I was gonna speak about I don't know if it's because what I'm watching now I'm not sure if it's because I did a video or not but I'm noticing I'm getting recommendation for videos regarding the the my yell incident with her and Linda and y'all I probably have watched at this point I didn't watch charades I watched another young lady lady who was upset about that Monique basically ignored her when she asked how she felt what was her position when it came to the George Floyd incident and I think I watched like one more person but at this point I'm gonna say this I am very I'm siding some people not everyone not you know everyone that I even mentioned I'm gonna make that clear right now but I can definitely tell when people are I'm not gonna watch my language this is a chit chat when people are not they're just here for the shit and giggles at this point they are here for the drama and they're riding the coattails or the curtails or whatever you know what I mean and so it's really hard because we don't know these people and quite frankly you don't even know me it's really hard to tell who is really empathetic and then who's just here to make a video about drama so doing a hard sigh and I'm not looking at any more of the videos at this point because I'm like whatever and I did tell Linda let her know this is blown out of proportion this is blown this is a lot bigger than I thought it would be and if it gets too crazy I will put my video on private I'm about to spank this child give him a good 1984 but anyway besides that not really looking at a lot on YouTube I did see I'm seeing a couple more I've been natural for or no I'm perming my hair after five years of being natural okay sis you know and do whatever you want baby but be prepared for the wrath of some of these other you know because people will share you know their their feelings on that so so that's what all I'm watching on YouTube personal life for person like we will be showing y'all what all you know gifts or whatever so starting with some jewelry I got these earrings here y'all have to excuse the background I'm literally I'm gonna have to I bought these earrings from Walmart for only three bucks are really cute huh again the intent is what it has and stuff to reach out to Rhonda aka mr. Leipo because she makes sorry I have to put this hair up she makes beaded bracelets and she made me these purple with a lion Leo Lego Lego girl the Leo sign what was so funny she was like you know with you being a Leo I know you like things a certain way and you could be you know y'all could be a little extra I'm like what me extra this is what it looks like all my favorite color is purple by the way y'all I did my nails again by the way yes isn't it pretty this this is very heavy I could tell that she used quality beads for this and so very very pretty I'm show y'all close up what some of them look like very nice very very nice I sent her um well as soon as I got the man I sent her a text message I'm like they're in they're in let me get them child and it came with this great sash that I had to steal from jay because he started putting his little raggedy ass legos in them this boy all right continuing with jewelry I purchased this fashionable watch van from my apple watch pretty so this attached attaches to see this is so I could tell the difference this is cheap this is so lightweight this is literally about 10 of those then again some of the beads are smaller but it will basically attach to my apple watch oh this is kind of tight it's okay and it'll look like that very nice very nice um I'm gonna show this because this is just right here my neighbor dropped off when was it yesterday this is called a danish a danish dough whisker as she said you could use it for anything I've never seen this before I heard about this so I unwrapped it and I'm like okay now I don't make a lot of pastries I don't I don't make a lot of stuff with dough but I guess I don't know I can figure out how to use it y'all so that's cute um let's get into what my husband got me literally he was like here's tears the car get what you want so I purchased this a zorg dip powder kit through amazon comes with several colors okay and then I also got how do y'all I just used this today I purchased a new led UV lamp for my gel nails and they worked really good I mean I just did my nails today I don't know if you guys can really see that um this is not one of these colors this is the color that I purchased through Ulta and literally my nails were done two minutes after using them what the hell's going with the color sorry y'all literally two minutes my nails were done okay on to shoes purses accessories because that's what we got so I got this purse very very cute isn't this cute this is a blush pink with the quilt at front huge beautiful bow I love the hardware on here gold um more of the quilt pattern on the back the inside I like this bucket like tote purse um a good size okay I purchased it through amazon now typically y'all I need to look at it I need to fill it you know before I purchase something especially a purse but I figured you know let me just try it so I like it I like it really really cute okay then this thing child I got this purse through DSW honey when it came in I was like what in a picnic basket hell uh uh I don't know y'all it was $19 I haven't even opened it up I like to beat it that's what I was really you know I didn't realize that it had this basket weed here at the bottom I would prefer if it had this canvas going all the way down but it's okay and she's a good size too um I haven't even opened these up I purchased some black pumps some just like this I still think I have them in there oh this is cute is this sway yeah this is like a swayed let me see if I can unzip this yeah I had something just like these why I still have them that's cute look at that now for me because miss Jackson is fast this right here is a short hill for me that's short I mean I could do a little two step in this and be okay so me that's short but this is good this looks very comfortable what the hell is okay I don't like that I don't like this right here they could have done they could have been you know they didn't have to be there I don't like that circular attachment but very very cute very cute though really nice we went to Ross y'all Ross opened up I've only gone to a department store that's the only department store I've gone to an actor that I was too I'm too afraid so yeah so me and JB stopped by Ross okay look at these floral print aren't these cute these scream spring and summer all of these dresses through asos now this looks slouchy when you see it but it's really cute on it's a little too big in the front here and it's short it's so well I'm short so it goes to my um let me pull this chair back so this is how it will look like on I may do a trial and haul for y'all after I drop a couple of 10 pounds all of these dresses came in a size 12 this is by asos and it ties here at the side there it's also from asos now this dress fits off the shoulder like that you see that and there's a little tight up in the titties but yeah excuse my language I honestly think it's because the fabric isn't giving in the front and it should be giving it has this pretty floral print and look at the sleeves long sleeves is short I'm very whimsical very very spring very pretty this dress I got from venus is very low cup but since my girls have been done and they sitting right I don't need to wear a bra I could just put a little titty glitter in the front I'm so y'all excuse it but it has long sleeves so I don't know what I was thinking getting everything with long sleeves it has these long bell sleeves very 70s 60s feel mostly 60s um late 60s early 70s they're back very form-fitting last dress is giving me what do y'all see when you see this you old school cup you know what this looks like blessed and highly favored running away running okay Vivian so this reminds me so much of the Clark sisters 1980 what was that 1987 um concert where they had the other sister in there who had two kids out of way like yeah this is what this is giving me so I was like yeah let me go ahead and put this on and have an indoor concert that is it y'all those are all of my gifts that I've gotten so far now I know one of my subscribers T she sent me a message a message a couple of days ago to say that I had something coming in but I wanted to get this video out there and thank you in advance T for whatever you're sending me I'm pretty sure it's gonna be fabulous so y'all what I'm watching baby I had time I had time these couple a few days to start watching so I finished dark it was so good you guys dark is on netflix and it's one of those type of shows you need to be sober while you're watching it you need to pay attention um based out of Germany and it deals with time travel I'm not gonna give a lot but it deals with time trap travel and other dimensions really really good I just finished it and I just um there was a nice scene again with Johan I'm pronouncing his name incorrectly it's spelled Jonas but they pronounce it differently of course since they speak German so anyway um let me stop being thirsty finish that almost done with rain season three of rain was released like this week so I'm on the very last episode absolutely love it I don't know how I feel about these last two these last two episodes though I don't know it's not actually I should say the last three episodes it's not what I expected but it's still a pretty good show again it's called the rain and it's also on netflix I believe they are speaking um Danish on the show which is interesting because some of the words of course Danish is a completely different language but sometimes I'm thinking are they speaking French really interesting um what else what else what else am I watching y'all baby love baby love let me tell you something my husband for now on he needs to start start referring to me as baby love y'all I am watching why did none of you help us recommend 90-day fiance to me girl I am watching 90-day fiance before the 90 days and this show could be should be called what the hell was I thinking I have no self-worth uh I'm desperate for love and for the for the pain and error pocket but whatever your your cup of tea is these people are so desperate for love to be needed it is absolutely sad and it doesn't matter what their background is it doesn't matter what their social economic status it is very sad to see people this desperate to be to feel to feel like they need someone in their life to feel complete um and I honestly have to say the saddest person in my opinion I forgot his name he is the older gentleman very wealthy who is basically set to retire and he's going over to Russia to meet this woman he's had an online relationship for like what like seven years but the most child what is she doing girl keep walking keep walking go check your mail um of course the one with the girl from the um I think she's she's in the Philippines and the big guy basically doesn't have a neck he comes off as very sweet but he has to know that this young girl is only coming to him for money come on now y'all give me a break so yeah I'm all like first of all there's so many episodes I'm like I can't finish this you know so I think I'm on like episode seven um Lisa and Usman the Nigeria what is his name soldier boy soldier boy that's his stage name y'all I was cracking up laughing when Lisa went to um I guess they're on his way to his hometown he's he's based out of out of Nigeria why do these people do their research before they go into other countries she was surprised to see that there wasn't any toilets and certain hotels all there was was a bucket and she's like what is this he's like you take your bath and you done honey I immediately after the third third episode I immediately started finding everyone and subscribing to them y'all I just feel so bad for these people and I get it no one wants to be alone but at the end of the day you do not need another person to complete you if you don't feel completed without adding another person and you're gonna have problems um you you just are so all I'm saying is that you can't find happiness in another person now they can make you happy the experiences can make you happy but your happiness does not come about when you get married or when you find that that love that in your life that doesn't bring that's not going to bring you happiness because it's going to be hard in that relationship you're going to have ups and downs so some of these folks are too old to be acting like this honestly so thank you so much for watching I know that this was all over the place when is it not and be on the lookout for this yes girl be on the lookout for these hair videos be on the lookout now that I'm 40 I'm gonna be giving y'all advice because I know everything now who was I talking to I was talking to angel the other day and I told her I said I have a video idea 40 40 things I've learned before 40 and she's going this time I said girl not a damn thing she started laughing she's like what's the girl I haven't learned a damn thing no I have learned overall um as far as relationships go and work you know all that type of stuff so do be expecting a video like that I'm gonna try to get some of my beauty products together 40 40 of my favorite beauty products and it could be hair products too it could be makeup so things like that for this month y'all um and definitely of course those other hair related videos are coming because I haven't filmed but I'm gonna be stretching everything out so that is it y'all thank you so much for watching take care bye