 What's going on, Infinite Fam? Welcome back to another video. If you guys are new to the channel, make sure you guys hit that subscribe button and turn on your post notification bell. Leave a positive comment down below for a chance to get a what? For a chance to win a shout out in the next video. Guys, my baby girl is finally sitting. I'm so happy. I'm leaning forward very much. So if you see that I'm like so in the camera, I have to either lean all the way back or lean all the way forward. I can't sit up straight quite yet. Whatever makes you comfortable, babe. Whatever makes you comfortable. And you're starting to walk faster and all that too. I am. Can you use the bathroom? Woo, it's been a good morning, huh? Yeah, it has so far. I'm so happy. I'm proud of you. I really am. All right guys, so a lot of you guys have been asking us in our DMs, on the comments in the videos, aren't we able to have kids? Cause you guys know that Janice had endometriosis surgery, but I'm gonna let her break down everything as far as us having kids. How the surgery went, the whole nine yards because she actually did have a call with her doctor yesterday of him breaking down the surgery and basically saying what her future would look like and all the good details. So go ahead and tell them everything that the doctor said. So endometriosis is a very tricky thing. And especially when it comes to being able to have children, that was always a big worry in my mind. But I never made it known that it was a big deal because I didn't want people to know how bad. I was like afraid that I would not be able to have a child with Isaiah. So when I heard and I found out that I had endometriosis and I couldn't have children, I was freaking out because I always said never wanted to have kids as a joke because the children in my family are a lot to deal with. And I felt like everyone wanted me to be this like perfect girl. Hey she cannot have kids cause Janice is perfect. And like I just wanted to like put on basically this face for my family and for everybody else that just saw me as like Janice that can't have kids. Like Janice is like the baby first born. I always told her stop saying you don't want kids. Stop saying you're never going to have kids. Cause I'm very big and I tell her this all the time. I'm very big on what you say and put out into like the universe. It's gonna come back to you. So when she said constantly I don't want to have kids. I'm never having kids. So on and so forth. And then she ends up getting the news that she has endometriosis and that she might not actually be able to have kids. She kind of took it like a slap in the face. You were like damn. And then I gave her that look. I didn't say but I gave her that look like I told you to stop doing that. Stop saying that stuff. Things kind of took a turn but I'll let you finish off what you were saying. Yes. So fast forward. I already have gotten surgery and the chances of me having children were still very up in the air. They were very slim considering how far along you were. So I found out that I had stage four endometriosis which is the worst kind. The worst thing to possibly get my doctor actually informed me that he wished that I would have went to him two to three years prior because that's how far out this surgery should have been done. And so that was a little scary. And prior to going into my surgery I also spoke to my doctor and he said listen, like this year particular case is very, very difficult. I might have to call some people in because of how it's looking due to the MRI. Fast forward to my surgery. He said that the MRI didn't show everything that was going on in my ovaries. He said I had kissing ovaries. He said that it was also blocking off my colon completely. So at the last hour of my surgery he actually had to call in a specialist that to help me detach my colon. Completely and reattach it in a different way. And also I wanted to have the surgery done closer to my house. And he told me no, like this is the best decision to like go and do it in New York City because there's specialists there. Just trust me, just trust me. And I kept on pushing. I was like, no. You even tried to reschedule. And I got mad at her guys. I got so mad at her. I'm like why are you trying to reschedule? I felt like you were just like scared. You didn't really, that's what I felt. It probably is not the case. But I felt like you were scared and you kept pushing it off. And I'm like, Loki, I'm like getting mad at you because you're putting your health at risk and your fertility at very high risk. Everyone got mad at me. My doctor was like, absolutely not. We can't reschedule, you're crazy. He was like, you need to get the surgery done. I don't feel safe postponing it even like a day later. He already like made it farther out because I had to wait till my tattoo, I had to wait till it healed two weeks. So he was already pissed off that I got a tattoo and that like I kept trying to push it out further. He told me like your chances of having kids are like basically not existing. I hope you understand that. Why are you trying to push the surgery? It's not happening. We have the date, you can't push it. Fast forwarding to, sorry, this is like all over the place. It's just like- No, I feel like this is a good breakdown. Details that we need to hit to tell you guys. Now that my surgery is done and over with, the big question is, am I able to have children now? And what he told me- Can we just say how when he called you and told you everything, especially like how your future's gonna look besides like the kids part, the future you like broke down? Oh yeah. Yeah, you forgot that part. I don't think we were going, I don't know. You wanna say that part? It goes like I don't know. I mean, they were talking on the phone and he was giving her a breakdown of everything and all that and a biggest, one of the big issues when Dometriosis is that you may have to get multiple surgeries in your lifetime because it's something that keeps coming back. Now like she said, she was stage four which is very severe. It's the worst case you could get. We automatically before even going into the surgery, we knew that she was gonna have to get surgeries like every five years, give or take because that's usually what people have to. Yeah, I was prepared for that. Like I was prepared to just spend the rest of my life getting surgery, surgery, surgery, one after the other, scar after the other and I'm in my head, I was just prepared to have like kind of a miserable life to be honest. And I was like in that mindset and I just wanted to push it off as far as I can so that way October is my favorite month of the year because it's Halloween, it's our anniversary and it's the best weather here in Jersey and I just really wanted to take in like this last month of enjoyment and like just like have this to myself because I knew that in my future I was just going to have multiple surgeries and I probably won't be able to have kids. I was thinking so negatively, I was thinking like maybe Isaiah like would be better off with somebody else because I'm infertile and I carry so much baggage with all my surgeries. And if we couldn't have a kid in my head, low-key I was preparing for that like after we got out of surgery if he says we can't have kids, I was like mentally preparing myself for that because you know, obviously I do want to have kids in the future but if we can't, we can't. It is what it is. I can't blame you for that. I can't get mad at you for that or anything like that but my solution to that was get more dogs. We were just going to get more dogs. We were going to get a big dog. I wanted to get a pit bull. You could have got your Rottweiler and then maybe on a small dog for Bloop to hang out with. Right, Nene? The pretty boy. But yeah, so during the call, he broke down everything and was discussing her future and all that and before the call I told her make a list of questions so you can ask him for things that you might be uncertain about. You know like kids, future surgeries, stuff like that. So the first question she asked him was am I going to need more surgeries in the future? And his answer made her broke down and start crying. The answer to that question was is she going to have more surgeries? He said very unlikely, less than 10% chance he said maybe even less than 5% chance. Right there, Janice broke down, started crying because like how'd you feel at that point? It was like a sense of relief. Yeah, because like my whole life I felt like a burden and even more so now that I'm going to all this health stuff and so just hearing that news that I won't have to continue to get surgeries that like this is probably the only, now he said that there is a chance because it's tricky and I had to perform. And you think it happened? It's basically said it's not impossible anything can happen but he said less than 10%, even less than 5% maybe. She started breaking down right there and I'm not going to lie her crying tears of joy got me all emotional and me watery eyed. I didn't cry though but then the next question after that was am I going to be able to have kids or something like that? Did you ask that or I think he kind of like went into that. Yeah, he went into that and basically he said your chances of getting pregnant now are really, really higher. So having endometriosis it's still difficult. It might take a couple of tries but you know it's not a bad thing. But guys she will be able to have kids thank God. Having and I told her this and I got emotional with this part too. I told her I was like yo you did it. You beat stage four endometriosis and I'm getting emotional now too because I'm like so proud of you and I'm so happy. Don't cry, you're gonna get me crying. I promise no I'm good, I'm good. I'm good. You're gonna get me crying. No crying, no crying. I'm not crying, my eyes are sweating. No. No, no, you gonna have a little baby boy or girl in the future. You're still loving. And you gotta protect them, okay? Thank you. Guys he was so protective over me the whole surgery he wanted to lay down literally on my stomach and I'm like can you not please? But yeah guys so the answer to that question is yes she can still have kids very big plus. She beat stage four endometriosis. She's not gonna need very, very slim chance, very, very slim chance of her having future surgeries. So everything out of this surgery as severe as her case was came out the best way it possibly could have. And for that you gotta thank God and I'm actually so happy that you didn't push it back anymore. Me too, like I feel like I wish I would have known about him sooner. I wish I would have went to him like he said years back but I didn't even know I hadn't done metriosis until three months ago. Like it's literally been three months that all this stuff has been going on. It's been crazy. It's been very, very crazy. Stress. On top of like handling life stuff like regular life stuff and you know it was a lot and now I feel like I could finally be normal, live a normal pain-free life. I know it's not gonna be 100% pain-free. I know it's not but it's gonna be so much easier. Let's talk about that part cause you guys know that she has stomach issues, you know like IBS, she's allergic to gluten and all that. Now he did say that after this surgery she should feel a whole hell of a lot better less back pain, less stomach pains. He did say it's not gonna all 100% go away if you have IBS, you have IBS. You know having endometrial surgery is not gonna take that away. But he did say because he had to detach her colon because things were getting a little messy up in there it basically freed up space because how swollen everything was inside of her basically the food that needed to get out it was like getting blocked from all the swelling. So it was causing like all that stomach pain because there was nowhere for the food to go. There was that's why the bloating was there. All that good stuff. But basically- Yeah and he- She's good now. He also told me that if I would have waited longer then I would have had very severe issues with my colon. Like he said like he touched on it but then he changed the subject cause he didn't want to think about it. But he said that you know I would have had to have a bag attached to me like in order to use it back from the rest of my life. He was like good thing. Like we took care of that. Like you don't have to deal with that anymore. Your case was very, very difficult, very severe and a lot of bad things could have happened. Thank God nothing did. And the surgery went overall great. He was very confident about it and overall everything just went great. There's nothing else to say really. That is literally the end. No more endometriosis issues. Hopefully I feel free. We should celebrate. And guys I opened the video saying that she was able to use the bathroom because he said after she's able to finally use the bathroom she's gonna feel a whole hell of a lot better. And she used the bathroom today and she feels a whole hell of a lot better. Yeah like every single day I kept on like sitting on the toilet like oh my goodness, my butt doesn't work. We gonna stop right there, we gonna stop right there. So honestly guys that's probably, it's gonna wrap it up for this video. We had a lot of questions regarding that type of stuff if we're gonna be able to have kids, future surgery, stuff like that. So we had to give you guys the rundown. A lot of people didn't actually know what kind of surgery she had. So that's why we had to tell you guys endometriosis and all that. But we covered that in the first video, the surgery day kind of shows the loyal ones versus the non-loyal ones. But anyway, that's gonna wrap it up here guys. If you guys enjoyed the video and you guys are happy for the future, happy for Janice. Make sure you guys smash that thumbs up button. Comment down below, sign positive. Again, your positive comments really helped us throughout this whole journey and this whole process. 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