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So the first question is, do you feel like you want space from each other for like more than a week? No, more than a week. And guys, I'm gonna be answering these questions. At least I am. I'm gonna be answering them 100% genuine honesty. At least I am. What you call me a liar? I'm just saying, I'm gonna say everything straight up. A week? No. Do I say that there's like a day or two that we should be separated? Yes, only because I feel like it makes you like miss the person and want the person. You know what I mean? It makes you like appreciate like what you have. And I'm not about a lie. I do be annoyed sometimes. Oh, okay. So you want to go that route? I'll be annoyed too. I'll be really annoyed. I said annoying, that annoyed wow. I'll take back what I said. I'll take back what I said. Okay, he's really not holding back clearly. Yeah. I was gonna say the same answer. I feel like it's healthy for relationships to have some sort of separation sometimes because it helps you appreciate the person that you're with more. And it's also cool to like, you know, to separate. You know what's crazy is that I feel like we can't go more than a couple of hours without each other. I think that's true. And I don't know if that's a good or bad thing. I think I have separation anxiety. I wouldn't say I have that, but it's like I just always want you by me. Like I like when you're by me. Everything's more fun. That's how you just said a couple of minutes ago. Exactly. But yeah, I'm the same way. Like if I'm out and I'm not having a good time, which is a lot of the time, I'm like, I should have stayed home with Isaiah. Like I would have been so much happier with him and my dog. I told you, I told you stay home with us. Do the pranks ever get to you guys and cause real problems in your relationship? No, cause when we first started our channel, we always agreed that the pranks are, they're just pranks. They're all for fun. There's no hard feelings or anything like that. We however always agree to like never, I guess do anything too serious. Like I wouldn't do like a, like I would never like have another girl in the house when she's not there. Like I would never do stuff like that cause that's just suspicious. Either way, prank or not. Yeah, we just have an agreement that we've over respect each other's boundaries and like some things we just don't cross. And we're also, I don't know, we're fun. Like we don't really catch a heart attack over like stuff like that. It's all funny games. That's all it is at the end of the day. We're just, you know, obviously you get upset in the moment but it's like the other day, bro, it's just a prank. This is what you signed up for. Exactly. So we don't take any of that stuff seriously. Would you let Isaiah go to the strip club by himself? I'm gonna answer this for you cause I think I know the answer. I think you would let me go. By yourself? I do think 100% that you would let me go by myself. Like what my friends? That's not by yourself though. All right, without you, but without you. Without me, yeah, I don't care. You wouldn't care if I go to a strip club? No, I wouldn't. Just because like everybody wants to have fun. Like, what the hell? Not even that, I feel like- Why do I keep you away from that? I feel like that shows like your trust for me. Yeah, that's true. Like I'd be, I'd be okay. Like if you were to like go to a club as well, like you're, you already know what's up. Like you respect me. I respect you. Let's say like, you know what you got at home. That's true, exactly. And I'm like confident enough in myself that I just feel like he should know what he got. You know what I mean? Oh, I know. You haven't got to tell me. And I know I'm so grateful and blessed and I love it. You know, I love you. Yeah, I love you too. That's right. But that's pretty much how I feel about it. But honestly, I would prefer you go with me because I just feel like I want to have fun too. I'd rather go with you anyway because I feel like it'd be more fun. Yeah, cause like, I feel like girls could do more at a strip club than guys. Cause let's be honest, guys be like- No, yeah, guys be doing the most sometimes just sometimes it gets a little uncomfortable. Even like watching it gets a little uncomfortable. And girls shippers literally would love girls more than guys. That's the facts. I wouldn't know that. Next question is, do you plan on seeking other options for incorporating children in the future? We've talked about that because as you guys know, Janice has endometriosis. So she's brought up a couple of times like freezing her eggs and all that. I'm not gonna lie. I'm not really educated on it. She kind of gave me like the basics of it, but I'm not opposed to it as long as everything goes smooth and the way it's supposed to. But if it's like some risk of like complications or anything like that, I would probably like steer away from it. Me personally. For me, I don't really know because we haven't tried. You know what I mean? So I don't wanna go looking for options without knowing what's going to be the result. If we try to have children and we can't, God forbid, then all right, I'll like look deeper into it. Like I said before, I have thought about freezing my eggs, but I heard it's a painful process, so I don't really know how I feel about that. Let me know if you guys have done it before in the comments below. We could always just get like 30 dogs. That's true. I'd be okay with that. I'm no about 30. I would like three max. But like as far as adoption and things like that, that we haven't really dived into because that is a very serious conversation. Yes, that takes a lot of thought. Yeah, but long story short, we just haven't got to that point yet because we haven't tried to have kids. Once that comes, then we'll get there. We will see. Have you ever been to couples therapy? What are your thoughts on it and would you get premarital counseling? We have never been to couples therapy. I don't feel like we ever needed that. I feel like that's for like really toxic movies. That's just the way I see it. I feel like if you guys can't talk out and you're in problems with each other, I feel like then me personally, you guys shouldn't be together. That's just how I feel. Don't come from me in the comments. I understand that therapy and counseling works. I'm not saying it doesn't, but I just feel like I wouldn't be able to do that stuff. I can't go to couples therapy and counseling. I'm not gonna have like someone else run or try to help my relationship. I feel like that's within us. And then what do you feel about premarital counseling? I wouldn't wanna do that because it's like the same thing. I don't need someone to tell me if we're good for each other. You know what I mean? I know we're good for each other. We've been together this long and we've never had problems. Yeah, so this is how I feel about it. Personally, I do think therapy is great. Personally, I feel like I- Hold on just a minute. I'm just talking about couples therapy. I'm not saying regular therapy, therapy in general. Of course that's great. If you need therapy, go ahead for it. I'm not opposed to it. Yeah, but I was gonna say couples therapy, I feel like it's true. Like you only should go through couples therapy if you're really going through stuff that you can't overcome on your own. Every issue that Aizan and I have had, we take head on and we're pretty honest and open with each other and we just deal with it and get past it. There's nothing that we haven't done that we got to the point where we need couples therapy. As cliche as it may sound, communication really is key. Exactly. Just talk everything out. Forget the fighting and all that. Obviously, you guys are gonna fight arguments that's all normal in a relationship. But just talk it out when everything's cooled down and just go from there. Yeah, and as far as premarital counseling, I wouldn't do that. Growing up in like a Christian household, it's required to go through that. And I've seen it firsthand that I don't think it's beneficial at all. I just feel like not talking bad about the church, I'm not even gonna get into that. But I'm just saying from my experience, it's just not something that I'm interested in. God forbid anything happened to one of you. Would you want them to wait or pull the plug? Bro, if I'm on life support or something like that, pull the plug, bro. I don't wanna live like that. That's just, why would I wanna live at that point? Again, these are all my opinions. I don't wanna be like that. I feel like I'd be a burden to people. I'm not enjoying my life. So why even just be there? You know what I mean? Just pull the plug, bro. Pull the plug. For me, it depends on the situation. If there's hope, then yeah. Keep me alive, obviously. But if there's no hope, you can be like, yo, it's looking slim, bro. We can keep them alive, but it's looking slim. Unfortunately, if I can't live a normal life, like I have previously or like, I don't know, like I can't use my body to my full extent or whatever the case may be, then yeah, I would say pull the plug too. Life is just difficult in general. And I know so many people who were just like, I wish they would have pulled the plug, but yeah. And guys, you always gotta remember, there's always someone that would love to be in your position. You know, there's always someone that has it worse. So always remember that. What's the weirdest thing you guys have done in front of each other? I feel like you have to answer that for me and I have to answer that for you. I feel like the weirdest thing you've ever done in front of me. I don't know, yo, you're a weird person in general. Everything you do is pretty much weird when like no one's watching. That's what I said, oh God. I really don't know. It's probably gonna be like the way you act when like you're in your like goofy mood. Like you just start talking some gibberish, making some crazy faces I've never seen before. Like I don't know guys, I really can't explain it. You just gotta be there to see it. That's the side of me nobody will ever see on the internet. They probably won't, but I'll catch it one day guys. I gotcha. No, cause that would not allow it. As far as me, what would you say is the weirdest thing I've ever done in front of you? I don't really know. It doesn't really do any weird things. I'll take that, I'm not gonna argue though. Like I feel like the only thing that you do is sometimes. Is what? I do what? I can't even say it. I can't even say it. Whisper it, whisper it, whisper it. Would I be what? Hey yo, you can't say that bro. You can't, you find that weird. I thought it was funny. That is weird though, who does that? It's funny though. Guys we're not gonna say that one because yeah, we're just not going to. All right, so the next one is, do you feel like your relationship has gotten boring in any way? No. I wouldn't say so. I feel like it got more hectic if anything. That's how I feel too. Like in the beginning of our relationship, we really couldn't spend much time together because we were kids and like, we did like long distance for a while so that's kinda sucked. So I feel like our life has never been boring with each other. It's always been like, ooh. I feel like every time we get into like a little stance still and then like something like throws us off and then we start like a different kind of whatever and then we'd be on that stance still and then something else knocks us off and it's like a cycle. Yeah, we're always on a like new level of something. Right. So I mean, I think that keeps our relationship alive. The only thing that I would say that's boring is like since we're adults, it really doesn't have anything to do with our relationship. I feel like in our industry, it's hard to find genuine friends and like we can't really do much with anybody. So it's literally just us majority of the time and our friends that do this are typically far so it's like hard. But yeah, I can say that this just gets a little boring sometimes, not much to do, but I mean, we have each other. I guess that's all we need, right? Yeah. All right, from the fam. So this is the last question and is what is something you used to believe about relationships, but no longer do? I love that question. So I already know. Everyone used to say, oh, be careful when you guys move in together. That's when you guys like argue the most or that's when you guys see the real like you guys and I feel like, bro, I moved in with her and she was the exact same person. The argument's the nine crease. I feel like if anything, everything got way better. Yeah, I agree. But for me, I feel like one thing that I feel is different is that people fantasize over relationships based off of movies. And I used to be told a lot, like, if you're not treated like this or like this or like Edward and Bella, if he's not like as intense then like he doesn't love you. That's not true. And not every relationship is gonna be like that. Don't base your relationship off of TV shows and movies because it's just so unrealistic. I think that's the thing I struggled with growing up because I always expected my life to be like the movies and it's not like that. Life ain't a fairy tale. Exactly. It's not supposed to be. Like everyone's supposed to go through stuff because your personalities are different and everybody is just, you know, trying to make it in the world and you guys have to try to figure out how to make it together. All right, from the fam. So that is it for today's video. I hope you all enjoyed. If you guys did, don't forget to smash that like button. And also, if you wanna see a part two of this video, comment that down below. It is time for today's post notification shout out. Today's post notification shout out goes out to Julia Buevo. Thank you so much for your love and support. Isaiah and I love you. If you wanna post notification shout out, all you guys gotta do is like, comment, share, and subscribe. 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