 Hi you guys, I'm back and yes, I know it's been a while. So everyone knows it got flooded in Houston. My kids were home for a week because their school was closed. And like three days later, I realized I was, you know, I needed to go somewhere. And I've been using my husband's car because he's been home. And then I try to start my car and it won't start. So I think that it got too wet and like the computer and my car got messed up because my computer lies on the floor board that, you know, makes the car work. So I have to get a new car. Actually, I actually have to go meet someone right now to sell my car, you know, for what it's worth without running. And then I have to get that money, put it in my savings and then, you know, see what kind of car I can get. But that's a good thing because like I've been wanting a new car anyway, you know. So that's why I'm not too, you know, too, too upset. My car did have sentimental value because I did bring both my home. I mean, both my home, both my kids' home from the hospital in it. And, you know, that's, that's like memories and stuff. I've had that car forever, but now it's time for a new car. Yes. Plus I'm getting ready to move. So I'm going to have a new car, a new house. It's just going to be a good year for me. We're probably not going to move for about six months because our house has to be built. So we're going through that process right now. But yes, I'm sorry, I've been gone for a week. I think I will be covering topics. Actually, I want to actually talk about Lemonade by Beyonce. And I'm also going to do another breakdown video for that video on my other channel. So y'all look out for that. But yes, Beyonce called out her man for cheating. She was like, you know, putting it all out there. She was, you know, putting everybody's business out in the street and, you know, talking about the side chick, how she's going to skin her and wear her skin and her teeth that's confetti. And she was just like so upset and she wanted, you know, she expressed that in the video. So I'm just going to talk about that aspect of the video because she was trying to say, you know, a lot of women are mistreated, a lot of black men cheat no matter what, you can be Beyonce and still get cheated on. But basically she took the power back in her own hands and she's like, you know what? Even though you did this, this, and that, our relationship is much more valuable than, you know, we're more valuable together than we are apart. I'm not going to let that, you know, get in the way of our relationship and we're going to try to rebuild and restart and renew. And a lot of women do this when their husband or boyfriend cheats, they will give them another chance. And usually after this third chance, if they don't learn, it's pretty much over. So she was basically warning him, look, you're going to lose your wife. She threw her ring. And everyone knows that when a big diva leaves her husband, there is some billionaire, foreign probably, waiting in the sidelines for her, okay? Everybody knows that. If she left Jay-Z tomorrow, she could get a billionaire the next day. No problem, like 10 times richer than Jay-Z. That's the funny part, and he knows that. And then his whole career would be ruined. Why? Because the man that cheated in this Beyonce, are you serious? He's going to get drugged through the dirt. His name's going to be trashed, you know. She's going to come out with somebody way richer. Or, you know, I don't even know where she would go in that direction, but she's probably going to do way more, become like a giant star, more giant than she already is, because of, you know, oh, my husband was terrible, and now I'm a single mother, and she's just going to get all this outpouring of love and support from people, and it's just going to overshadow him and make him look like the bad guy. So he can't leave her. So he has to get his act together, because she is airing his dirty laundry, and he has to co-sign it. Just to keep her. Now you know that takes a lot of humiliation, so. Anyway, if you haven't seen it, I have it on my Facebook page. It's on Beyonce Turkeys on Facebook, if you're looking for it. That's another group, I think. And yeah, y'all go check it out. It's really deep spiritually as well, and like I said, I'm going to break down the spiritual aspect of that video on my other channel, because this channel is not really in that direction. So I'm just going to break down the parts where the relationship parts. And why would Jay-Z want another woman? If you had Beyonce, I'll tell you why, because it gets routine, it gets boring. Like I said, remain mysterious, or your man is going to find something else, something different, something more interesting, something more mysterious. If you're always there, if you're always doing everything he asks, if you're always saying, oh, I love you, that's too much, women should back up and let the man chase them. Even after marriage, I keep telling people, the games don't stop when you get married. They start all over, okay? And if your husband is not chasing you, then he's going to want to chase something. So if you're always giving it up too easy, if you're always cooking, cleaning, doing, being the perfect wife and stuff, that's not enough. You have to have mystery about you. You have to give him something to chase. You need to challenge him in some type of way, because he's going to get bored real quick. He has to be able to worry about you, wonder about you, miss you, think about you. If you're always just calling him on the phone, texting him, saying, oh, I can't wait for you. That's cute and fun in the beginning, but after you've been married so many years, got kids, it's like blah. If you don't text your husband all day and he's wondering where you are and you're not giving him the information on every step you take. If you plan trips without him, go this place and that place, make moves without him knowing, oh, I forgot to tell you, he's going to be like, well, dang, how can I get her attention back? So you have to remain mysterious. You have to be more into yourself. Women that are really into themselves, their husbands are always chasing them. Okay, if you ever notice that it's the materialistic, narcissistic women whose husbands are always chasing them in the marriage. Why? Because they still have not caught them. And that is the key. You cannot ever be caught even when you're married. You have to be like, oh yeah, I'm married, but I still like to have my fun, I still do this, I'm going to go shopping, I'm going on vacation, I might go out with the girls. Your opinion, the husband's opinion is not number one. Okay, your opinion is number one. Then maybe your mom's, then maybe you're so thin here. You gotta, and guys, I'm sorry, but this is just how it works because men take things for granted too much and you can't give them that much power in your marriage. So you have to put them like third when you're trying to keep it mysterious. Now, if you're trying to get a man and you're not married yet, yeah, you gotta give him that attention. But when you've been married, things are old, he's had you, you've had his kids, things are just blah, every day is the same. You gotta give him a reason to think about you, to wonder about you, to want to text you to do this, this, and that, besides, oh, we're married. You gotta make him think, oh, go to the gym in the nice side of town where all the rich guys go. Get you some cute gym clothes. Make yourself up every day. Don't let him come home, letting, seeing you like a couch potato with no makeup and sweats on. Look good when he gets home. And if he asks you where you've been, he's like, oh, I just been out running errands and stuff. Like he doesn't know. If you're all made up, he's gonna think you were out having fun doing something. Now he's gonna be like, well, what is she doing? I better text her tomorrow, just around lunch, you see what, you gotta keep him guessing. That is the game, always in marriage. I wake up every day, I put my makeup on, I do my hair, I put on an outfit, some jewelry. My husband don't know what I do during the day. I could be gone on the other side of town. I could be right here at my house. I could be doing anything, and that is the mystery. And the freedom that I have, and that's what keeps him interested because I have eight hours plus to do whatever I want during the day, okay? And everyone's in the wild, he'll text me, where are you, what you doing? Sometimes I'll answer, sometimes I won't. That's what you gotta do. It's all a game. And if y'all haven't learned that by watching Beyonce's Lemonade, y'all ain't never gonna learn. Games do not stop after marriage. They start and they get stronger, okay? So I'm just here to let y'all know I've been married for 10 years, 11 years, been with the same person for 15, 15 years, going on 16 years. So I know what I'm talking about, okay? He's still chasing me. He's still haven't caught me, and we've been married for a long time, I have two kids. You know why he has never caught me? Because I always let him know. I always let him know. That I could have better. And that might sound conceited, and that might sound crazy, and I know guys are gonna be like, but y'all not him, y'all aren't him, okay? Y'all don't have his thoughts in your mind. So y'all can't chime in on the conversation. But I've done lots of things to ensure that he's not going anywhere, believe me, and that he will always continue to chase me. And that's how it's always gonna be. And that's the good thing. So I will see you guys later. Don't forget to check out my other video, on my other channel. If I do it, I'll try to link it below. It's more of the spiritual aspect, you know? And I will see y'all later. All right, bye.