 What happens when you discard the narcissist? Let's talk about it. Narcissists are known for their infamous discard. They like to discard their victims when they're finally done with them. When they've finally used up everything that they had to offer. That's where narcissists like to walk away. That's when they're finished with you. When you've got nothing more to give. Or when you figure them out. When you won't stop confronting them. When you won't stop bringing the truth to them. Because we know narcissists don't like to hear the truth. They can't deal with that. But now this information on narcissism is becoming mainstream. People are more aware of it. They know what a narcissist is. They're starting to recognize it. And a lot of people are managing to leave the narcissist first. So what happens? When you discard the narcissist. When you discard the narcissist. It will cause a narcissistic injury. Which will be followed by narcissistic rage. They will get very angry. Because they take it as rejection. Abandonment. They see it as though you're abandoning them. As though you no longer want anything to do with them. Because something is wrong with them. Because they've done something wrong. And they don't want to accept it. They don't want to deal with the consequences of their actions. So what they're going to do is put the focus back on you. They're going to stalk and harass you. They're going to hunt you down. And cause problems for you. They're going to blame you for everything. They're going to try to get revenge for something that they believe to have been unfair to them. And they will try to turn other people against you. They will go behind your back. And they will say horrible things about you to other people. To paint you in a bad light. To make everyone hate you. To isolate you. So that you have no support. But also so that no one is against them. Because they need everyone to validate their false image. These illusions of their false self. They need people to support that. And they can't do that if you're leaving them and making them look bad. And you're going and telling people about what they've done to you. And you're trying to expose them. So they have to beat you to the punch. They have to get there first. And most likely they were already talking about you even while you were with them. They were saying all of these things to people. Which they may have exaggerated or completely made up. But what they never tell people is what they've done to you. Or they act like it was something that was in response to what you've done. They don't take accountability. They never look at themselves and that is why they never change. But accountability is the key to success. When we look at ourselves and we see our faults and mistakes as they actually are. Only then can we make a change and become better. But that is why they stay the same. They never get better. But yeah when you discard the narcissist. They're going to do everything they can to make your life hell. To make you regret leaving them. Because that's really what they're trying to do. Especially when they know that you're not coming back. They just want to make you feel regret. Because they're not going to feel that regret for you. They're not going to regret what they've done. Remember the narcissist. They don't think they can do anything wrong. It's always your fault. But when you discard them. They're not just going to leave you alone. They're not just going to let you move on with your life. They're not going to let you have peace and be happy. They're not going to let that happen. Because they seek you as an object. An object that exists to serve them. In their minds that is your purpose in life. Because when they first met you they groomed you. They prepared and trained you for that purpose. And once you've been with a narcissist. They see it as though that's it for life. They own you. You have no right to discard them. That's what they're meant to do to you. But when you do discard them. They just think oh the audacity. They can't believe that you had the arrogance to do that. But at least that's how they see it. Of course that may not have been how you were thinking about it. You were just trying to protect yourself. But they look at it as though you just think you can do better than them. Even though you may never have thought about it in that way. Because the entire time they always blamed you. They always made you feel like you couldn't do anything right. At some point you start blaming yourself. And you realise that you just need to get out of there. And when you do that. The narcissist will come down on you like a ton of bricks. I'm not saying that it's wrong to discard them. That is the right thing for you to do. I'm just saying that it may get worse before it gets better. Because as I said they're not just going to let you go. They will hunt you down. They will monitor you. They will stalk you on social media. They may even show up at your house or your work. They may contact your family and friends and try to turn them against you. They will enforce their flying monkeys and start a smear campaign. They will ruin your reputation. They will try to humiliate you in public. They will target your self-esteem. And they will go off and find someone else. And then they will triangulate you with them. They will do all of these things. But why? Why do they do all of these things when you discard them? They do it because deep down they know they're missing out. They know they've lost something. They're very envious and jealous. And they may not regret what they have done. But they're still human. They do feel that sense of loss. And that is why you need to be very cautious when you do discard the narcissist. Because whatever they think they've lost is what they're going to try to get back. That's my message for today. I hope it was helpful. If it was, please give this video a thumbs up down below. Thank you all for joining me. And I will talk to you soon.