 Karlo, would you like some water as well? Oh, it's coming in with a Dutch. Nee, dank je. Nee. In the beginning, yo, he said nee. I didn't know it because it sounds so rude. So I did that for me. So make it nee-hoor or nee-yum. So true me off. Because you know what Gani always has to say. Yes, please. No, please. I'm okay. I just know it's a bit rude. I would rather shift and just a little bit here. This way. Instead of round, it looks very straight. Oh, I got more. No, you're fine. Where you are is perfectly fine. I don't know who's, yeah, she's introducing the thing because I'm going to do it. No, it's our video. What? It's our video. So I'm introducing? No, but maybe it's good to share what we had in mind. So we have a lot of discussions about Nenus and Ghana. We can leave it there. She needs to warm up her throat. Sorry, her voice is smooth and silky. So we have a lot of discussions about Nenus and Ghana because Gani is kind of he really would like to practically plan to go to Nenus. Tomorrow if we can. Let's just go. So I'm in camp. I want to say Ghana for a while. I'm not done playing. I like it here. So why should we move right now? We can, you know, I don't see myself growing up in Ghana, but I don't want to go now. And because you guys are also leaving and you have a good perspective of the Nenus and of Ghana, we tell, we can do a love hate thing. We love about Ghana, what you love about Nenus but also, what are you not going to miss? Yeah. What would you tell somebody like the one who's in the heart to leave? I'm not going to introduce this video. I've already done that. Oh really? That's it. I've been recording all this while. I think it's really good. Surprise. Everything we said is going to go inside. It's natural. So I'm not going to come high and low. Good. That's basically the summary that Elaine has given and she often says that she's shy and she doesn't want to do this. Do you see how she was talking? Very nice. But I didn't know the camera was on. I was just talking to my friends. That's usually how I would trick documentary subjects for example. I would usually tell them that. So you just, let's just practice. You just talk to me. They don't know that. And then they give me their best take all the time. I'm like, good, thank you. But when we started, no, we're done. Very good. Very smart move. So yeah. Kwame wants to go to the Netherlands. I was asking Ann What did I ask again? You asked me what would I miss about Ghana. And I said that I think I found who I am in Ghana. I'm back. So when you become a mom you change as a person. So in the Netherlands, being a mom meant that okay, not being a mom. Anyway, when you are together in the Netherlands it's very structured. You go by your house or you rent or you do whatever. And then traditionally or I don't it just went like that. Kevin went to work working nine to five taking into account the time that he comes home basically raising the kids was all of me. Like he was there in the weekends but he would come home they would have eaten, they would have been baked and then ready for daddy to read their story. But I did everything. At a certain point I was like wow, so this is being a mom that means I'm being in my pajamas 24 seven and then with food on me. All the time. Where's the time for me? We had so many families around us in the same position. I was like okay so if they're doing it I should do it too but I wasn't really happy. I felt like okay I'm a mom but that's my life now. I don't have any life anymore and what am I going to do? But then also you don't really learn how to let go because my mom was there every Friday taking care of my daughter. But that was like the exception of the rule. Like my mom took off a day to take care of her grandchild. That was like big but then because she did that day I didn't want to take another day and because I had school, like Friday was my study day but I didn't feel like where is the time for me and who can I bring my child to just have some me time. So that was something I was really struggling with and when I came to Ghana we had these two girls that we employed. One to help with the household chores and all of that because I had a health disability. Because of my past birth it was very difficult so I had to like learn how to walk again. It was a crazy birth but we came with the thought that okay we're going to put the kids in school, we're going to learn about the whole lifestyle and everything here and Anna can rest because she doesn't have to do household chores and that was like finally I was like wow there's something like rest I can sit down I don't have to cook and I felt like oh my god this is life. So it was a little bit of a struggle in the beginning like letting them bathe, Sophie and Micah making sure they are ready for bed and I was like I don't want anybody to touch my kids but gradually I learned that oh when somebody does it they might also be very happy and I can take some time for myself and then I'll be much more happy to read them a story instead of later come let me read this story so you sleep. So it was like yeah it became like a chore for you in the end like a chore it wasn't love it's just been oh my god the story but then it was like oh you're ready for bed come let me read your story because you have so much space mentally now. I was much more happy and like physically as well the household chores not having to think about what I'm going to eat the next day and I finally found myself back like okay I'm Anna as well I'm not only a mom so I think that is the number one thing I'm going to miss is that freedom yeah yeah okay I'm gonna come you're kind of a question sure with all the things that you've learned here and how the routine changed and how you found yourself and fell in love with yourself again yeah how what are you going to take from here to try and you know replicating Anna you're going back I think that I will make more time for myself and not be like the perfect mom if my kids wonder where the same teacher go and wear it I'm not dressing you anymore you can do yourself now I think that also helps there at the bigger age now so Mike and Sophie learn how to dress themselves eventually because I told the girl that was helping like basically she wanted to do everything for them but I said no you can help them to learn how to do it but I need you to teach them instead of doing it for them so they really learn how to dress because it was in a fun way and they were happy so now they're at the age that they can dress they can shower they can do everything by themselves so I'm going to keep that like no I'm not doing it for you and do yourself and it's also easier because now they can also do it yes yes I guess I guess it's been a win-win then yeah very and what about you I learned to be patient with a lot of things because that's what Anna does with you I'm more a person who likes to get things done I like process I like creating process for things and coming to Ghana there's no process there's yeah there's a lot of chaos and I don't mind chaos but you have to make your chaos to your like your own environment and then create structure in it and doing that in Ghana nerd meet do it in a way that you take more time instead of wanting to rush into things just take your time in doing things and be satisfied at the pace in which things are going at the beginning it was very frustrating especially when you want things to be done because you're settling down in the country and that was very difficult in the beginning but then during the whole process in living in Ghana adapting to the process out here it changed my mind and my mindset towards getting things done here so definitely that mentality I'll take it back and I'll use that during my whole life that's I think one of the key things that you're going to take back because it makes you like in any facet of life it's something I recognize a lot because I really like to take off my to-dos it's so satisfying to be like I've done this, I've done this, I've done this but what I kind of developed and it sounds pretty crazy is that I say like oh my Dutch brain is on now I feel like my brain has like now two parts so sometimes I really set in my ways the Dutch way and then I have a day plan like do this do this going from this side of town and then as you can do that yes on your bike you just go no worries but here in Accra traffic all these unexpected things so like oh I've put my Dutch brain on today I should just you know and then I go more into the flow of Ghana and then what you say like you focus more on the process like focus on the pace you won't take off the to-do today but you will get there it's nearly a week or two or there's something else popping up that you didn't think of yet or you're like oh that takes like three steps back but the patience yeah it's really you have to if you're an inpatient person then you will give up at some point so you really have to I don't want to break you or you just learn how to move with it and go with the flow I think that's one of the things that really makes a difference for people to live in Ghana a lot of people come to Ghana and within three months, six months they're gone, they hate it because they just don't put themselves in a position to adapt to the lifestyle or to let themselves change their habits or their ways here that's a big key in making something successful or making something durable for you I think Ghana is not for everybody see there's a lot of people now we have this like this consultation business that we have where families contact us and we help them but there's a lot of people who actually have never never ever been to Ghana or any African continent and say that oh because of your videos we're moving and say don't you can come but make sure you have a plan B because Ghana is not for everybody and I think a lot of people really underestimate that really underestimate but while I'm very happy that you think that because of videos you can move to a country I think it's a great thing and you should try but Ghana is like whoa it's not for everybody definitely not so do you think that with what you portrayed for example on your channel it was a clear picture enough because I like the fact that I think my favorite episode I've watched was about the school yeah the school system and everything I like the fact that you were showing what's good and what was for treating you as well because not a lot of people see that side and they think that everything is you have to be real about things of course I think just from every country most people will just emphasize the best things but then it doesn't give you a real picture how things really are in the country maybe that's the Dutch part enough in us that's like very down to earth straight forward and direct and we feel like that helps people a lot in getting an image or getting an idea of how life is here and how life can be and how life is for certain groups of people here in Ghana because there are different layers in Ghana there's a huge gap between poor and rich it's massive I always tell people that social media is not real that is something that I always try to emphasize and we do make videos where we try to keep it very real and raw the way we feel we express it and that is like our Dutch side we don't sugarcoast up I think a lot of people still think that because we're living quite a happy life here that everything is okay but there's a lot of things that you don't see because when I'm stressed I don't want to take the camera I take the camera when I feel happy so that is the side that you see on our vlogs especially in the beginning we were really in this like romantic type of phase because but there's a lot of parts that I just know on camera because we're stressed and I think now I'm a little bit more realistic because I feel so much responsibility of people that are actually moving because of our videos so I try to keep it real and a lot of people don't like the fact that I'm real don't like the fact that I show maybe garbage or show my frustration in traffic or all of that but that is also part of the process when you're in Ghana for a vacation Ghana is so nice so beautiful but when you're here for a longer period there are things that really get to you and eat to you and I don't think everybody that can handle that well for one of those I feel like it's becoming an entity I hate that so maybe we can ask you so what are some things that you drain you in Ghana like you can't really you want to go you're eager to leave I'm eager to leave because like you're saying I think that it's more with the structure and process I didn't grow up knowing it and you would think that for the 33 years or how many years I've been here I would get used to it but I still can't get used to it I can't get used to it I don't know why so where did that structure come from because we are brought up in structure this is what we know from baby you go to crash even their structure I think it's more it's not about external structure mentally I just know that I want this and I want it done it's a women perfectionist I know what I want what I like how I want it and when you also are open to other things by virtue of the fact that the world is a global like you know village now you see things and you're like wait the way I feel I'm not crazy for one thing things to be structured because other places are doing it why you were growing up like for some things because for some things when for example you have to meet people time one of the things that I cannot like I show up on time before her yeah he's always earlier than me and if I give him one and I'm like 10 minutes later he's not happy oh wow I can't turn it off personally I don't care who you are if I show up at 2pm and you tell me it's 2pm or even 1.45pm maybe I don't know the place and so I've already adapted to the system but I still don't like the consequences of my adaptation so what happens if I commentary I say oh I'm with it the traffic you know I can't hide it either I'm also judging that sense because you see from my face that I'm frustrated I'm not going to entertain you're coming at 3pm and say oh but it's okay the worst you don't want to say it's oh but it's not empty to you I'll say that so for me I think you should always say it and always explain why you feel agitated because the concept of time I think a lot of guardians just don't value it and there are certain moments where you just need to value that of course while we're just hanging out it doesn't really matter if you're an hour late if we have a business meeting what to do next time there's money too because once you're waiting you could have done something else and you know earn money with that or anything and now I'm waiting for you wasting my time but even when we're hanging out I still think you should respect people yeah it is so if we're hanging out and we're going to spend let's just say we decided to meet at 4pm and I feel like from 4pm to 8pm I like you to the point where you have to extend to that point but you show up at 7pm I'm angry because I can only spend one hour with you now where's the fun in that so I just can't turn it off so when I went to the Netherlands I was like oh my god this is it this is where I was supposed to be like strangers on time everybody is like you know as long as you make an appointment with somebody immediately they pull out their planner and they're just putting it down so I think you were that quickly then if you like that concept you can really adapt quickly my second time I really started feeling it I was there for longer I started feeling it and I know that I can easily live here so that's the reason why I've not lived again like you were saying holidays different from living yeah so I guess other parts I have not experienced the point where I'm like I don't know what to go about so maybe in time when I do experience it I will engage whether the structure is good enough for me to want to push on and you know try and suppress the other parts which are not very fun okay so let me tell you something about that the structure in the Netherlands okay I work for okay I'm not finished yet but I did internship for a company where we live in the Netherlands so it's like child protective services the structure in the Netherlands is so big that I could not bring Sofia and Micah here without letting government know where they are which school they're enrolled in and how long exactly are we staying in Ghana so for the first year Sofia and Micah were okay I had to submit documents that we're leaving Ghana with permission of their dad with Britain everything needs to be in paper to Dutch kids it's okay if you go but as kids they need to be in school so they gave us a time frame to make sure that we have a school here in Ghana the school has a certain type of rule and I was a bit like oh this is serious man you can't just take my kid it's my kid I've birthed them you're coming to tell me that this so there's a lot of structure that comes with that when we said that we want to stay longer we had to because you can't take your kids outside of Ghana longer than a year bang but that's when you have a system where there's a lot of rules and the rules are there to like a safety net which is good but then sometimes it's too rigid yeah I think we've experienced the process with visa applications it's crazy what we have to for him to come to Netherlands like it's crazy and now we're trying to get our marriage legalized in the Netherlands and that's also like a good thing it takes 2 years it comes from a place where my dad just brought all of his brothers it came from somewhere because it was very easy back in the days but because it was easy people abused it it's people from Africa it's people from Asia from the world there's an opportunity there and came and of course if there's an opportunity take it but then because of the abuse things are like you see all my uncles have mixed-race kids they have Ghanaian kids too but they all have at least one mixed-race kid just for the paintbrush there was an extra kid wow yeah except for I can't say the name yeah so that is also a thing and being mixed-race I don't know if we're ever going to think about having kids but it's very difficult in the Netherlands I feel I think it's everywhere difficult because you don't belong there I feel that mixed-race kids who are grown up in Ghana are very much more mentally okay than mixed-race kids who grow up in Europe or anywhere else I'm not sure she would like to stay here say it again so I have this principle that again with the prime reason you're leaving with this education system not working for anyone to have the best I was thinking that for what we get here for the students of the school system either super private or in between or public it's not worth what you're paying for definitely not and you can't take any kid who is exposed to European or any type of other culture to public school that is just out of the equation maybe you can take them in in between or high of money that you pay for school when you know that is free in the Netherlands it's just very difficult that too is very difficult and the quality in the Netherlands is good too you don't really pay for it they're small things but it's not and you don't stress about it there are a couple friends of us here in Ghana who enrolled their kids in the best school there is in Ghana which is stated by the majority before was Lincoln they're saying it's not worth it they're paying like almost up until 30,000 dollars a year per child per child and they're saying it's not the best but hey it is what it is it is what it is we can afford it but if there was another country where we could put our kids out of business directly we would do it no no no that friends it's paid for by their company paying them out of their own company some of them have their own business they are very successful but they say that they don't have another choice because they feel like education wise Lincoln is the best no the thing is the reason most people choose for that school most business people who are starting a business here in Ghana choose for that school is bringing your kids into a network that is also one of course there are a lot of experts from a company with their kids there but then there are also very successful business owners there like high top business owners which you're buying yourself into a network and especially if you're starting something here which is going to have a huge impact it's a smart move but then again it costs you a lot and are you willing to pay that amount for the education you're getting in every layer but then paying a lot and then still complain that's something that's you don't want if you check the balance it doesn't work mentally in my head so if I can advise you I would say from 0 to 5 years old the best place to be is Ghana for any child and then growing up I'm serious even having just somebody in the house to help you it's not possible in Netherlands it's 7 days that somebody comes to help you after that 7 days you'll buy yourself and of course you can have family but because of these rules and structures you're going to plan ok next week Friday Kevin's mom can babysit the kids and we can go for a dinner date but then only between this and that time because if you're coming too late no no I need my nap because the next day so we can go for a dinner date until 10 10 we have to be home very back then you can't really live you can go to a certain it doesn't limit the picture only till this is very nice very nice and I think Amsterdam you won't really face a lot of like racism and all of that because racism is still real in the outer parts of the Netherlands but Amsterdam, Rotterdam, big cities is ok but I think as for kids Ghana would be a very good way to start just the help around having a child because a child is not only your child here and in Holland it is your child and the government looks over are you doing it ok? if you miss 2 days of school there's going to be a call from the teacher why is your kid not in school today ok my child is still feeling sick it's serious it's serious and if you don't can't submit that doctor's report there's going to be a phone call to an organization like mine I will come to your house where is your kid why is your kid not in school we look at the situation we see what's going on if there's something going on that's not ok we have the power to place your kids outside of the home until you fix that situation and your child is safe enough to be back home again so that's something to do seriously you said that you feel the mixed race mixed race kids who grew up in Ghana are more mentally stable than the other way what makes you say that I'm just curious I think a big factor is that you have a big role on you you too I see too mixed race kids in the Netherlands who grew up with a Ghanaian mom don't have that really they're ok because they're really taught about the culture they're taught to speak the language they know how to cook they really come to Ghana maybe I think almost every summer you don't have any choice while our dads they were not really that involved in our life they just feel like their wife and mom it's ok let the mom take care of them and I would go to my dad on weekends but I eat food I'm never exposed to the language I would come to Ghana almost every summer but I was very secluded I'm not really made to go out and be free so I didn't really know who I was and while you're in the Netherlands the family that I know was my Dutch family but I don't look like them I don't behave like them I don't act like them so I always felt a little bit weirded out and that is why I say that if you grow up in Ghana you feel and you know who you are and then you go to the Netherlands I think you're mentally stable and more equipped to deal with racism or thoughts you're more grounded but I think that's also more apart as you just explained I feel like you're saying the moms are more involved in upbringing the child than the dad in mixed race kids most of the time that is the case isn't it a generational thing though? maybe I think it's a generational thing I don't think we can generalize yes we have the experience especially the fact that you grew up in mixed race and that's what you experience but now with what we know and where we're going and how present you both are in the lives of your kids I think they will have a difference so I think it's a generational thing when we go back and we go back to work the structure of the Netherlands doesn't allow the dad to be at home a lot of the time because you work because of the rigid structure of work days and you can get that day off that's like a day you can get off you still get 70% paid but that is like only a day but it also depends on what you do now true, very true but the normal 9 to 5 structure I quit my job because strategically as we started dating and we're thinking about the possibilities of either we're staying here or there or whatever it is and I started a career in voice acting and film because then it's my own career and I can do it with freelance I can get called as a cinematographer to go and do something but in between that time I'm home I have my studio in the house I don't have to be present in the studio to record a voice over I can still earn while I'm still home so I think the world is changing my career for example doesn't require me to be present somewhere 9 to 5 granted maybe if we do relocate I may have to consider working for an organization even if it's a production organization for a while to learn the system before I jump back out maybe that time would be a very difficult time but then ultimately me mentally I don't see myself committing to a corporate environment for the rest of my life and I feel that what I do know now and how I'm doing it I can exist anywhere with my craft if I go to the Netherlands I'm a filmmaker am I good enough filmmaker if I'm not I need to improve myself to the point where I can get clients and work or even create my own work for myself so I think with that I don't have to be out all the time but that's it an exception to what's normal but I think Covid would change hopefully positive things but I think also one thing what we are taking back to the Netherlands the Netherlands is so structured that any business you think of you're gonna have 10 competitors so I don't personally know a lot of entrepreneurs well when I came to Ghana maybe you'll be the first one to start so there's a lot of entrepreneurial things going on around us but in the Netherlands this is different so I think that might also play a role in why the structure of 9 to 5 is so evident because it's everywhere around us I mean the schools here are as we discussed in the earlier videos schools here are people following the school here are meant to follow a certain way of life and then the moment you finish school you confronted with life because it's the opposite there's no job so you have to create something for yourself and in Holland or in the Netherlands you're gonna simulate it into the system yeah there's a system so when you graduate well there's a job and there's another job and there's another job and if you want to create something for yourself later on you can do that you can find documentation about how to do it you can follow lectures a lot of assistants so that's where but do you feel that it's encouraged to be an entrepreneur I feel like it's discouraged to be an entrepreneur in the Netherlands it's not encouraged because there's so many taxes and things you have to look into before you can register and there are so many also competitors like I can't think of something that you can do in the Netherlands which is not already there but they actually do it very well so why would you who doesn't have any background in knowledge let's say I want to open up an ice cream parlor I think in Ghana I could do very well but in the Netherlands there's so many ice cream parlor you have to be exceptional in the saturated market you have to be exceptional while here the market is not saturated so you're going to be exceptional directly because you bring knowledge from the base of level of service from the outside which makes you exceptional compared to the local competitors while in Holland that's totally another case you really have to be different and like different people so it's more like being in Netherlands you're just Dutch but being in Ghana and for you you are both Dutch and Ghanaian so you're bringing both worlds which automatically makes you different to start a business but I do think that the structure in Netherlands it's nice, we all enjoy it but it also makes people play safe a little bit more so you will do more what is kind of expected of you because if you go off the beaten track what we do here in Ghana all the time I mean suddenly you're doing YouTube full time suddenly a career in Netherlands people would have said why are you doing that stick to your 9 to 5 you have a good job why would you risk all that people play safe while here in Ghana there is more at stake like you have to move we have to hustle which is also tiring so that's another side but at least people are very creative very innovative they think so much out of the box I'm always like oh is that possible and I'm also going to start a popcorn stand for events but you get so creative because you get inspired by all these people just doing things for the sake of trying and seeing if it works and if it doesn't work well then we'll try something else and in Netherlands that's kind of taken out of because the system is theirs it's like your safety net oh I'll be fine I'll just say in this job it's not what I want to do but at least it pays the bills then in the weekends I'll just drink a little bit more to forget about my job Kevin what's that right what message did you get because Kevin quit his job to come to Ghana and nobody in our environment has ever done something like that just quit your job and move somewhere so everybody saw this we're crazy I'm comfortable in trying things I think a lot of people also try to discourage you right I don't listen to people what sort of comments because we're trying to explain is it wise to do that what about your house what about the monthly fees I mean yeah those things they're there and I'll fix a way to make sure I can maintain all those things I feel like you have to enable yourself to try things in order to learn new things always being in your comfort zone I don't think that's satisfying I mean it's satisfying in a way but then it gets bored if you're doing the same thing like for instance I said that a couple times at the beginning when we left if I would stay in Holland and do the same thing compared to being in Ghana for a whole year in which case will I learn and benefit more of course going to Ghana and doing something totally out of my comfort zone so based on that and based on the decisions earlier I feel like always try to do something new try to struggle with things it's the moment you learn the most if things are very easy and very accessible for you you won't really learn a lot you will just adapt to it and that's it it's satisfying, it's comfy but you won't gain much the moment you struggle, the moment you fail that's the thing I like from an entrepreneurial mindset failing is learning failing is getting better in life understanding more and I feel like the thing we did for our kids trying to do something very different walking the opposite road from our dad and trying to bring that to our children just for them to learn about heritage that helps that inspires hopefully them I'm not sure but hopefully it inspires them later in life to have a different mindset about the whole process the whole structure they have to follow going through school even now, COVID COVID can be experienced as a bad way but I'm experienced in a way that of course if you get sick it's very bad but it brings you down to earth and it really brings you to a mindset that am I doing things in the correct way can I do things in a different way the traditional way is still the way that's going to maintain my life for the next couple of ten, thirty years especially when anything can happen even when I was working for a company like the first big company I've worked for the moment they cancelled the brands everybody in all the other managers were panicked like I'm going to lose my job and everything I'm like I have to apply again for a job I can do something totally different I was like really I was really looking forward to it of course I have my monthly fees but hey but I think that is something on luxury from the Netherlands if you are in Ghana and not happen to you and you are comfortable with earning every month and COVID happen and you are like you get a different place so that that puts you in a mindset that don't always be comfortable with what you have I'm not saying everybody has to be prepared for the worst but put yourself in a mindset that always strive for something more but also make sure there is a safety net for yourself and especially in the country of Ghana there is no government who is going to aid you or assist you even family everybody here is trying their best so don't think that family can help you out just make sure your plan is well thought out and if not set certain things in place in order to just help you later on during your life so I think you too would have the best in both worlds I don't think you should choose and just be in both yeah I definitely think why not be in both worlds I think that's ultimately the dream I'm possibly for you too so you have a house in Ghana, you have a house in Netherlands and then if you can divide your time between the two that would be the time that's the ultimate dream that you can live comfortably yes yes the plan is to come back so if you're going to come back what are you going to do differently are you going to give the kids there to come here nooo wherever we go so everybody has to have that space of we want to come see I think everybody loved to be here in Ghana but at a certain point it was so draining for us not having the comfortability of a house that I think was the most draining part we moved from a very big house to an apartment and the apartment was structured and well enough for everybody of us to live in but Micah could not handle the apartment he wanted to play and he wanted to run and he feels like I'm in school the whole day confined and now you're telling me to sit in an apartment and now we're in Africa and the sun is shining he wants to run so that was like something that we tried to look for where everybody is comfortable and I think that we will only come back when we have the financial means to make sure everybody is comfortable because living in Ghana the way that we want to live with a garden and an outside space for them to play and the schools for them to be in it's very expensive and Ghana is very expensive yeah it's expensive I feel like for me being in Ghana is the first time I've rented a place of course if you don't have the means you have to rent but I really don't like it I really don't like renting but it needs to make sense because if you're staying somewhere for 10 years or 20 years it makes sense if you're staying somewhere for 1 or 2 years it doesn't make sense to build a house or to buy a house and resell it or you have to really know how to sell things and know there's potential in it but I don't feel comfortable in just paying the whole time for something while with our former house the owner is not even really taking good care of it and we have to take care for everything I feel like then I'm just just down the drain so if you're going to be going in and out hopefully you come back after the year or two so if you're going to buy a home here isn't it the best choice rather because you know you can come back I'll build the ideal situation is to find a place to build a home and that we have tried for the past year but because we are confined to the kids schools we can only buy or we could only buy land where we could live comfortably in East Lagoon and that is like we can't afford checkpoints and it's also something that we are not willing to pay I think if we really tried I mean the loans now in the Netherlands are so low we could really live there if we wanted to but do we really want to invest that much money to live in East Lagoon just so that the kids can go to school in East Lagoon I would love to live way up in the mountains in Aburi close to all greenery but then we are going to be neighbors that would be so nice the fact is that where am I going to put my kids into school and then the COVID really made us know that we are not teachers we tried but we can I think we're great parents but we're no teachers we're teachers in a different way I'm a home screener to be honest now who is the mathematician here I always worry about math I worry too when her math came literally I was struggling oh my god I don't know this I need my machine I need my iPad to do it I was shameful but I think we've learned so much from this we've grown so much from this experience that even if we don't come back the experience alone has taught us a lot and I just hope that what I missed in my childhood to know who I am to know where I come from to know there are people who look like me I just hope that I instill that in them and that they can face any type of situation that might come across them in Europe that's really good I think honestly we should just wrap up here because it was a good ending I think we should wrap up here and it's the video is done, thank you thank you so much for watching make sure you subscribe to Kwame Yose's channel to keep on with all of the nice things going on in Ghana see you in the next one bye that was nice I'm sure it's like 45 minutes there's a lot to talk about there so your camera doesn't overheat like no