 Hey everyone. Another live video. The narcissist will make you feel crazy. I'm sure that this is something many of you have experienced. When you interact with a narcissist, you find that you're always doubting yourself. You're always questioning yourself. At first, you may be doubting the narcissist. You may be questioning what they're saying. But of course, they deflect it onto you. They protect their insecurities onto you. They shift the blame onto you. They invalidate your perspectives, your experience. And then that's what leaves you questioning yourself. Because these narcissists, they know what they're doing when they target you. They know what kind of people we are. They know that we like to keep the peace. They know that we're good people. We don't like conflict. And they know that if they tell us something, there's a good chance that we might believe it. There's a good chance that we might doubt ourselves. And that's really the difference between us and these narcissists. A narcissist is all about putting their views and perspectives ahead of yours or anyone else's. In their minds, they know everything. In their minds, they're always right. But then, if you're an empath, you're going to question yourself. You're going to think, okay, maybe I am wrong. And that's what they're counting on. See what these narcissists need to do is they need to listen more and speak less and consider other people's views and perspectives. But on the other side of the spectrum, what we need to do is we need to listen to ourselves more. You could say that the narcissist needs to hear us more. But we can't control what they do just as they shouldn't control what we do. So instead of depending on them to listen to what we have to say and to take our views into consideration, we need to listen to ourselves. We need to trust ourselves. We need to validate ourselves. The narcissist will make you feel crazy. They will make you doubt your own intuition, your own memory and perception until you feel like you're losing your mind, until you don't even know who you are anymore. You don't know what's right and wrong. You don't know what's up and down, left or right. A narcissist could convince you that the sky is green. You could say to them, it's not green, it's blue. I know it's blue, but they will battle with you until they just tie you out. You become exhausted and you just give up. And you're like, okay, fine, the sky is green. And it's not just bad how it affects your memory and perception. And it makes you think that you're going insane. But another problem that so many people experience is when they leave the narcissist world. Because as I've said in many of my videos, especially in the playlist on the narcissist's alternate reality and fake worlds, narcissists create their own world with their own distorted meanings and interpretations, things that have no basis in reality. So the narcissist could tell you the sky isn't blue, it's green. And if that isn't damaging enough to your perspective, what happens when you leave the narcissist alternate reality or fake world? That's even worse because you're coming to contact with people who are grounded in reality. People who know that the sky isn't green. But then because you've had it drilled into your head so many times, when you come into contact with these people in the real world and you're telling them that the sky is green, they're not thinking about the narcissist. They're thinking there must be something wrong with you. They're thinking that you're crazy. Never mind that you've been told all this time that the sky is green when it's actually blue. I don't see that. As far as they're concerned, here you are now, they've just seen you, they just met you and you're telling them that the sky is green. And that can really do some damage to someone because now it's not just the narcissist who's calling you crazy. Now it's everyone. And what makes this even worse is that even though the narcissist may have clearly said to you that the sky is green in many situations, they're not saying that same thing to everyone else. They're just saying it to you. They're saying to everyone else, no, I don't think the sky is green. The sky is blue. It's them. They're crazy. They're saying it's green and they will gas like you and they will tell you that everything they said up until that point, it never happened. It was all in your mind you made it up and you're crazy to even think that. To even think that the sky is green, to even think that they said all that stuff to you. It's all in your mind. Crazy. But that's just what these people do. That's what they do to you. And that's why you've got to stay on top of it. You've got to stay ahead of their game or out of their game so that they cannot pull you into their world. But they confuse you, they gas like you. They trick you into thinking all these things and then they take a step back and then you look like the crazy one. Even though it's just a result of everything they did to us. Crazy makes us crazy. Some people call it narcissistic fleas. Their traits rub off onto us. And it can be difficult sometimes to see who is the real crazy person here. And that's the thing because the narcissists know when to act crazy, to have an effect on you. They are actually in a sane state of mind. They know what they're doing. And that's why narcissists as well as all of the other cluster B disorders they cannot play insanity in court because they are fully aware of what they're doing. They just act like they don't know. So yeah, we need to trust ourselves, validate ourselves and don't get pulled into the narcissistic world. 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There's always a balance of both good and bad. So what you may find is as you attract more positive things into your life, you may find that there's more negative too. Because there has to be that balance that has to be both positive and negative. You're never going to have a life that's all positive. Narcissists may tell you that they do. But again, that's just their false image. It's not real. The more positivity you have in your life, there's going to be more negativity there too. But the positivity may be so good that you don't mind having the negative there. It's worth it. That's why when people become successful and they've got so many fans, so many people who love them, it also attracts more haters as well. People who want to tear them down. There's always that balance of positivity and negativity. You've just got to enjoy the good times while they last and find ways to cope with the bad times. I just know that they will pass. It's temporary. What you were worrying about a month ago, you're probably not worrying about now. What you're worrying about right now, you probably won't be worrying about in a few weeks or once. It's just good to have that awareness. When you become aware, you can truly appreciate this life, this world in which we live in. It's full of beautiful, magical things. And sometimes when you see one, you just want to chase after it and grab it. But sometimes the most beautiful thing you can do, is just to let that thing go. Because when you let a thing go, you make room. You make space for new things to come into your life. New things that may serve you better. So don't hold on to things that are weighing you down. Don't hold on to things that don't serve you. You may think that you need it right now. Then a few months, or years later, you'll wonder why you ever needed that thing. And you may find that you have something so much better now. Anyway, thank you all for joining this live. 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