 What's up you guys today? We're going to be talking about how to bring a girl home and have sex with her on a date Because too often I see guys that are going on in dates with girls that are really really into them But they just don't know what to do to make things happen So if you're one of those guys stay tuned because I got five steps that are going to give you the best Opportunity to meet attract and that eventually seduce a girl that you're out on a date with and be able to hook up And have you guys have a good time? So let's get right into it step number one is even before the date even happens You need to pick a location for the date that's close to the place that you want to bring her back to so if you want to Bring her back to your place Pick a location for the date. That's really close to where you live I like to put it within walking distance a five minute walk is great Even if it's just down the block that's even better But if you don't live in a big city, maybe a five to ten minute drive would be the best thing for you If you can't bring her back to your place like you got roommates or you live with your parents or something like that Try and pick a spot that's near her place if her place is a no-go like you guys are in high school or something like that Then maybe pick her up in your car and then from the date drive to like a pick a spot That's near a good lookout or a good like vista point or something like that Or maybe even I even used a parking lot when I was a kid when I was taking girls out on dates So you got to be creative basically a location where you two can hook up and have a good time step number two is pick a Seductive location for the date. Don't be taken her out to some denies or something like that That's brightly lit where there's families all around and kids running next to you pick a date. That's sexy pick a spot That's like, you know, maybe a little bit more dimly lit with some cool music. That's going on Maybe like some loungy area. That's classy with like good design and stuff like that I like to pick a spot where they serve drinks because sometimes if it's especially if it's a first date, you know Sometimes people get a little nervous and alcohol can calm their nerves a little bit But pick a spot that's sexy man. Don't be picking a spot. That's like not gonna put people in the mood Step number three is to position yourself in ways that allows you guys to start touching each other So if you're sitting across from each other on a table It's gonna be very difficult for you to start touching her because you got to reach over the table or something like that You have a barrier in between you guys I think a better option is to try and sit next to her whether it's at the bar Or maybe there's an empty seat next to her right here that you can come near This is gonna allow for if you just even sit next to her Your knees might accidentally touch or something like that or you can get closer and position yourself or you can say hey Let me check out some of your jewelry or something like that and then you can touch your hand It's gonna be a lot more difficult to do that if there's barriers in between you But if you're sitting right next to each other or you're standing right next to each other or you're close to each other There's a lot more opportunities for that to happen now when you are trying to Get things going physically or physically escalate See how she responds so when you sit down next to her is she coming closer to you is is she backing off? Or is she kind of staying there? And if you come closer, how is she reacting is she staying there? Is she coming more into you or is she backing away? She's backing away Maybe give her some space for a little bit But if she's coming closer to you or is she staying there then you're free to keep going a little bit But you can also flirt and maybe like take your hand and throw it away or you know Have fun with it, but you want to be physically escalating things because if you do want to have sex with someone sex is a physical act And if you don't get things started physically it ain't gonna happen step number four is to lead her back to your place Now if you've been going if you've been doing things well, and you've been touching each other You guys are like making out or whatever at the bar Not every girl likes to make out at the bar some girls don't like PDA But if she's coming closer to you and she's obviously really enjoying you being closer to her in her space then it's time to bring her back to your place or Wherever you guys are gonna hook up. I Like if you are a beginner what I like to do is you have one of my recommendations is to have an excuse The reason why is because when you're bringing someone back to your place You need to say it with authority and you need to be confident. Don't be like would you maybe like to come back with me? It's okay if you don't but like would you that's not gonna make her want to come back She's gonna feel weird. She's gonna say no But if you say things with more authority then it gives you the opportunity to do that now beginner guys aren't gonna know when to say hey Let's come on. Let's get out of here So what I recommend is you guys have something for you to do at your place That is going to be not associated with you guys hooking up something platonic that you guys can do So like maybe you have a nice bottle of wine at your place that you want to show her Maybe you have some artwork. You'd like to show her maybe you have like a some music That's cool that you think that she'd like Whatever it is you could say well There's this really cool bottle of wine that I bought that I think you'd like we can have a glass and then I'll take you back home Having a time constraint to can help as well because sometimes she's gonna be nervous She's gonna be like well, what are we gonna do like what's gonna happen after a lot of these thoughts that are making her nervous and uncomfortable You can put them aside by telling her that you know We're gonna do this and then I'm gonna take you home And if things don't go according to plan you're still gonna end up at your place You're still gonna be safe and you're still gonna be comfortable If you have been touching her and you guys have been making out a whole bunch and you've been all over each other And you can't keep each other's hands off each other then you can just say let's get out of here And that's usually fine, which is usually what what I do. I don't usually do excuses anymore because Because girls usually know what's going on step number five is kind of related to step number four And that's make sure she is comfortable when she comes back to your place as soon as you lead her in the door Or maybe if she's going to her place don't try and have sex with her as soon as you shut the door Wait a little bit maybe have that glass of wine talk to her wait for her to get comfortable If she's in a new environment that she's never been in with a guy that she doesn't know very well But maybe might be attracted to and still wants to hook up with she's not gonna do it unless she's feeling okay and comfortable with the whole situation So the way you do that is you kind of let her settle in let her get comfortable And then afterwards you can start touching her but if you guys have been like all over each other like you can't keep each other's hands off each other and You're basically almost having sex before you get in the door, then yeah get down to business right away There's no reason to wait Now when it comes to the part where the clothes are actually coming off and you guys are about to have sex I would recommend that you take off your clothes first that way you're kind of leading things And then do whatever she's comfortable with if she's not comfortable having sex or she doesn't want to or she's not ready Whatever the reason is don't sweat it man. There's plenty of fish in the sea do what she's comfortable with I find that the guys who are the least secure about their sexuality get the most angry in this sort of situations So don't be like that ironically coming from a purely selfish standpoint This will give you the best chance of actually getting late in the end Is if you don't freak out and you're not like angry or you're not trying to pressure her or do anything that she doesn't want to do All right, so hopefully this helps you guys Let me know what you thought about this in the comment section below if you made it to the end consider subscribing I come up with videos like this every single week I'm sure you guys will have a lot of thoughts about this. It's a pretty touchy subject But I think it's one that we should have a conversation more of Especially in this country. So let me know what you thought. Thanks a lot and good luck out there you guys