 Welcome to the show. And yeah, this is pretty much it. So first and foremost, if you would like to join the show live, I go live every single Monday and Wednesday at noon, every once in a while on the weekends or at other times. So you can join us live at any of those times on YouTube and you can join in on the chat on the YouTube or call in 845-277-9131. Not sure based on this intro how my words are going to work today, but let's do what we always do and just wing it. We'll see. We'll see, right? That's all we can do is just wing it and see. Okie dokie. If you'd like to call in the call in number is 845-277-9131. And again, we are live on YouTube. So if you want to watch it, come on over to YouTube and watch the show. I want to say hi to everyone on YouTube so far. There are so many people in here having great conversations. Say out, Mimi and Pawn. Hey Pawn, welcome to the show. Genevieve, Terry and Rebecca, Heather and somebody else. Yep. There may be someone else if I forgot to. I'm so sorry. I'm doing songs this morning for people. So the first name I received this morning, I don't know if it's somebody listening or someone from the other side, but I keep hearing the name Laura or Laura Lai. So if that is your name or you know someone on the other side, they are saying hello. Hi. How are you? The other thing that I keep getting this morning and it's just a general statement and I don't know who it's for, but if it's for you, you'll know. But the statement is don't go down roads. You've already been down. Now I can throw a lot of my own meanings on that, but like it could mean if we're talking relationship, don't go back to a person from the past. If we're talking jobs, it could mean don't go back to a job you've already been at that didn't work out. That didn't work out. If it didn't work out the first time, chances are it's not going to work out the second time. Just saying. Splaining it to you. Just splaining it to you. So yes, that is what I'm hearing. So I am going to throughout the show shout out the number for the show. If you want to connect with me to have a private session one on one. I do not do email sessions. I do not do text sessions. Do not text me a question. Now, if you if it's off the show, you can go to my site, T-O-N-I-G dot I-N-F-O. All the info is on my site on how to connect with me along with the number to call. And we have a person to person. Let's talk it out session. Okay. Okay. Hey, Amy. Excuse me. Okey-dokey. I'm going to tell you Sal. I gave Sal a song, but in the in the chat, I could not. I could not. I don't think I could give you enough in the chat to explain the song. And I don't know all the words to the song and I can definitely cannot sing this song correctly, but it's by a man. And if anybody knows this song, please put it in the chat. It's you're beautiful. You're beautiful. And then one of the lines is I saw you. I saw your face in a crowded place and I don't know what to do. Sal, that's your song for today. That is it. I'm sorry I can't give you more something about on a train, but I'm sorry I can't give you more. I wish I could because it's making me crazy when I can't remember the lyrics to a song. So if anybody knows what song that is and you're on YouTube, put it in the chat for Sal. And Sal, if you know what song that is. Yeah, I saw your face in a crowded place and I it's like about a missed connection, I think. I don't know. Okay, anyway, there's that Sal. I'm going to go straight to callers now and I'll be going between the callers and the chat to answer questions. So if you have a question, you can put it in the chat if you have. So you can call in 845-277-91. Sal says awesome, getting chills and that's a confirmation. I love that, Sal. Thank you for letting me know that. When I call your area code on the call log, please have a question, a kind of specific question available or a specific loved one on the other side. This gives me a direct place to go kind of in your energy and then from there, if I get more, I give more. If I don't, I don't. Okay. And having a very specific question lets your peeps on the other side know exactly what you want and we can get right to it. And again, if more information comes through, I will give that information. Okay, there was one more thing I was going to say. I'll never reach out to you on social media, on any social media. So on any of the blog talk stations that I'm on, on any of the YouTube, on any social media, if anybody posts and I get this all the time and I'm having to remove it all the time. Reach out to this person for this. Reach out to that. Don't. Those are all scams. And I will never reach out and say, you need a reading and pretending it's me. I don't do that. I do not do that. So please do not get scammed. It's not me. Again, I will never say I'll email your reading. Jesus, I don't like typing or tippy tapping. I don't even know if they call it typing anymore. Half my words, I'm very dyslexic. Half my words are spelled wrong. I don't know grammar. I'm not sending anybody an emailed anything. Like I'm not sending anybody an emailed anything. Okay, okay, okay, okay. Okay, okay. So it's not me. Don't be scammed. Don't waste your money on people who are writing on other people's social media. Don't do it. The only way I do sessions is over the phone or in person. That's it. Okay, having said that, I'm going to say hi to my youngest brother Stevie. I hope you're having an amazing day. I love you so stinking much little bum. Okay, I'm going to go to 860860. What's your name? Where are you calling from? I'm calling from Connecticut. Thank you so much. I would love to hear from my dad about my current life situation. Okay, beautiful. What's your dad's first name? Robert. Okay. Or Bob. Okay. So again, I'm hearing that statement that I started out the show with, don't go down old roads. So it might not mean you're going down. Let's just say, for example, and Lisa Marie, if you're listening to me in the background, can you turn down whatever you're listening to me on? And then this is what I'm going to say to you. If you, let's just say, in the past, you had a job or boyfriend, and it went a certain way. And what I'm hearing is it could be a new person, but it's going the same way. Don't repeat that cycle. Don't go through that again. Don't go down old roads. I'm not sure. I'm married. Okay. Again, I'm married. Okay. Thank you for clarifying that. And again, it could be a work situation, a family situation, a friend situation. It can be any situation, but what I'm hearing is don't, don't repeat the past or don't do something. Like, even if it's a new person coming in like a new friend, a new job, a new, whatever, don't, um, if it feels like something that happened before, just cut it, cut it quick. Okay. And then the one other thing that I'm hearing for you is it's that song. Oh my gosh, they are always doing this song on the show. I'm all right. Don't nobody worry about me. Don't have to give me advice. Why don't you just let me be done. Um, okay. So we know what the song is. We don't have to keep singing it. So whatever your situation is. So yeah, right? Like seriously, I can't sing and to make me sing that much of this song is ridiculous. Um, whatever this situation situation is, I feel like this song is part of the answer to that situation. I'm going to ask you now, if you're comfortable telling me the situation, please tell me the situation. Um, well, it's a lot. It's, it's a bad marriage. It's a lawsuit for a dog bite that coming up next week and the lawyer just told you to flip and practice one. Like what the health is falling apart at every which way. Okay, so I'm going to go back to my original statements. Don't go down roads. You've already been down. So you've been going down this road for a while and they're just saying like, I mean, I don't maybe that statement doesn't make sense to you for your situation. But that's that statement just makes so much effing sense to me for your situation and probably other people can see it. But I've been in situations now before I go any further with my little statement where someone's told said something to me and I'm like, huh, that doesn't make any sense. But everybody else could see for me that it made sense because I was a little bit like I don't know what to do. I don't know what to do. I'm going to tell you right now, you're, and I know, I know what I'm going to hear back from you. I know what you're going to say back. So I'm going to say to you, if you can get out. Your most important biggest step to improve everything in your life is to jump out of the situation that you're the biggest worst situation you're already in. So if you're, let's just say, for example, your marriage isn't good. If your marriage isn't good and you've done everything you can and I'm not telling anybody what to do. I'm saying if, if you can get out of that, you're going to see a dramatic change in everything else in your life. And it's going to start to move in a direction that's better for you. Okay. Now, some people will say, I can't get out of this. I don't have money. I don't have this. I don't have that. And I get that I understand that start making your plan. I always call it your go bank. Have your go bank start siphoning a little money, putting it away by generic. I never say this, but by generic instead of regular any place you can get money and siphon it away. Do that when you go shopping, take an extra 20 out and put it siphoned away, whatever you have to do to get that to go plan together. Okay. I feel like that's what you need to do. And that's going to be the most empowering thing for you. And I do feel like as long as you feel stuck and like you don't have a choice, everything is going to keep being the way it is. I'm going to do a clearing for you, everybody listening, everybody re listening. She she thinks feels no stuck. Yes, let's clear all being stuck. Doors are opening. I get a no let's clear that so doors are opening for everybody listening watching re listening re watching let's get those doors opening. And I'm going to do one in general for health. She's in bad health. I get a yes, let's clear that and instantly I'm going to tell you something. All the rest of the clearance I was good on but as soon as I said the bad health, I felt like a vice was on my head. So I'm going to tell you this is if you want to be in a situation that is where you are healthy, you cannot be in an unhealthy living arrangement with a in a unhealthy relationship. Just start your exit plan. That's what it's going to start your exit plan. It's not something you have to do overnight but an exit plan. You can plan it out in your mind and then just slowly implement it and get out. And I know how difficult that can be. I'm going to I'm going to just say I was when I was much much younger. I was in a very bad, very bad relationship situation. It was really bad. Very bad. As a matter of fact, I don't think I never wanted to live with another person after that and I had to plan an exit strategy on my own. And I know it's possible no matter what your circumstances are based on that. If you if you say to heaven, this is what I want. They will start to open those doors and they will start to make the way for you and they will put the things in front of you that you need. And as a matter of fact, I had to I had a roommate. I did get a roommate but it was a female and I did end up getting a cash job immediately. So then I had the money coming in also and that might be the route you have to take where you have a cash job lined up so that the moment you walk out you have this cash job you can start doing. So you're immediately bringing in money. And other than telling you this I don't know what else I could. I mean there's a lot more I could say. But this is what they're saying that is the best step for you. Okay, sweetie. You are so welcome. I hope you have an amazing rest of the week. You are welcome. I'm going to say hi to Sally hi to Patrick hey Patrick how was California Patrick goes out in California again. How is California Patrick. I hope it was good. Sally online wants to know will Noah and I be in a committed relationship by the end of this year or sooner. Well Sally and Noah be in a committed relationship. Yes no yes no yes no. It will be a very tight a very tight relationship it'll be a good relationship. It's okay so what I'm going to say to you Sally is allow it to go at the pace it's supposed to go at. Don't worry about how fast you get there worry about not worry don't don't think about how quickly you want to get there instead think about paying attention to everything on the way there. Look at this as an amusement park ride an amusement park sorry not an amusement park ride an amusement park. Explore all of it to figure out what you like about this what you don't like about it and work within it. Sometimes we're in such a hurry to get to that commitment or to the what is this or we're on our way to the next step that we might miss one or two things and they're asking you to just take your time and enjoy the view. Okay it's like going okay thank you thank you spirit. It's like going to Italy or another country and being so concerned with seeing the big like oh the Colosseum and the big chapel and the taking the gondola ride that we don't see anything else except for those things that there are millions of pictures of. Enjoy all of the enjoy the all of it is what I'm getting I hope that makes sense to you I really hope it makes sense to you and I'm happy that you he it the dinner seems like it went well. Okay Patrick won 2500 at a casino congrats Patrick that's awesome love that. I'm going to go to the next caller I don't know if I took 860 or not. I don't know if the first caller was 860 I'm going to go to 651 651. What's your name where are you calling from. Hi this is Cristiana from Minnesota. Hey Cristiana how can I help you. I don't know if this is really specific but I have a few people on the other side that maybe you can pick one of them. And honey my son Taylor or my baby Coco. Any of them had a message for me or maybe somebody else on the other side. I continue to guide this and what steps I should take next in life. I have kind of an idea but just wondering. Okay so okay so the first how old was your son Taylor love 8 months. Okay I'm so sorry I'm so sorry. So the first person coming through is Taylor. And then the there are a number of people with Taylor of course. I'm going to say that the next okay okay then the next day. I'm sorry I'm laughing at this I'm sorry because as soon as I say to them what should she do next I hear this song and it's work work work work work you got to work work work work work work work work work work. So I'm so happy you laughed at that. Okay. Thank you for that confirmation. Yeah, that is the very first thing that came through is a work work work work. I'm going to stop singing that. I'm sorry, everybody. And so and then the next thing that's coming through and I'm sorry is you can do it, put your back into it. Like that song is coming through also. But what I'm getting is and that that song is for what I'm about to say. And what I'm about to say to you is, sweetie, how old are you? Oh my god, you sound like you are like a hella 20 or something like that. You sound so young. I'm going to tell you, if you're not doing your own business, you are supposed to start your own thing. Now, when I say do your own business, it doesn't mean get a place and start, you know, invest all this money and product or a storefront or anything like that. It's not like that at all. There's something you've been thinking of doing on your own. And this can be an independent contractor. It can be like a business. And I'm going to give you examples. It doesn't mean it's this, it can be whatever it is that you've already been thinking of, whether it's a some sort of a healing type of business or some sort of like a beauty business, whatever it is. What I'm hearing is it's time for you to start. And then I hear the word home. So I think you might be able to start this either at home or from home and work your way up, up into more of it. I don't know what it is that you've been thinking or had the idea. I'm sorry. It's in people. Okay. And that's why I did get the word healing too. I think that's why I got the healing business. I think your intuitive art business is going to do very, very well. I think you can do intuitive art for healing, for relationship, for whatever. You can have people order very specific if you wanted to. But here's what I'm going to tell you. Whatever it is you've been wanting to do, do it. Get it up. Get it online. Get it going. Don't hesitate and push it. Be a little bit, I don't want to say be aggressive about it, but be aggressive. They want to say be aggressive about it. Be aggressive about it. And once you have your, do you have a website love? I think I was trying to get a fake business up and running, but it wasn't going to be successful with it. So. Okay. So that was being about maybe getting the art one up. And one of the funny, this is interesting because one of the funny, one of the interesting things in the beginning, getting when they said healing, and I kept hearing cards, cards, cards. So I don't know if you, how you do, but what I'm getting is, get out there. You have what, however you are promoting or sharing your business, you have to be a little bit more aggressive about it. Look at the way other people are doing it, and then go that route. Like don't copy them per baton, but put your own spin on it. It's so funny. I will, I said the word spin, but they use the word spit, which I don't even understand. So I didn't use that word, but they're like, put your own spit on it. So what, however you like, watch how other people are doing it and then just keep building and don't worry about how long it takes to take off. And I'm just going to tell you when you're in your own business, you never feel like you're there no matter how far you have come. Okay. So don't even worry about that as, and everybody in business, in their own business will probably agree with me that no matter how far you are in your business, you never sit back and go, yeah. You know what? That's pretty good. I'm going to, I'm, I'm where, because once you get to one thing, you go to the next and the next, you're always building. Yeah. Yeah. Hey, listen, listen, I get that. Everybody gets that. And it's, here's the thing. If you take out all, we have so many hours in a day. And if we can take out certain things that we do and put it towards other, other things, we're going to be able to be so much more successful than we thought. So without being too whatever, I get it. There are many, many people who, and I'm going to use this example. And I know it's not the type of business that you're doing or wanting to do. But even people with like, let's just say a food truck, they all work their regular job, but they'll get out there with their food truck when they're not working and part their food truck. Like if they have a nine to five, you know, they're rushing out of their job, getting in their food truck, prepping food and getting on the street to be there by whatever time. And even if they have to work through bar time, they're doing it. And they're, because they know eventually they'll be able to let go of that nine to five and rock that food truck. However you want to say that, if you only can work weekends or you only can work mornings or nights, do that when you can do it. But don't, don't say, well, I have to do this. So I can't do that. Find a way to make it happen. Okay. Because what they're saying is, this is what you need to do. I love you all so sticking much. I will see you on Wednesday.