 because the focus isn't on what's going on around you. The focus is on what's happening within you. So you bring what's happening within you to bear, you bring your internal climate to the external conditions instead of the other way around. Instead of allowing the external conditions to affect your internal climate, you bring your internal climate to bear on the external circumstances, on the external energies, on the external dramas. Because reflecting the world around you always keeps you in conflict with yourself, always. And instead, we need to be our authentic self and the world around us will change accordingly, eventually it has to. And that means you, those energies don't live around you anymore because they know and the people that generate them know. These energies aren't welcome around you. These involvements and these commitments and these things in your diary and how you give your time, all of that starts to drop off because you have decided to stop aligning yourself and reflecting what's going on around you. And you decided that your authentic self will be a fixed true north and the world will have to change to accommodate you, not the other way around.