 The people who've known you the longest are the most threatened when you start to change. Even when they see you reading a certain book, it's like, what is that? What are you reading? What? You're listening to what podcast? You're going to see what? You're going to what event? You're doing what? They realize that these are things you haven't discussed with them. These are things that haven't been signed off by them. So now it's disproportionately dramatic because you didn't tell them about it. And you didn't tell them about it because the old version of you told them everything. The new version of usually, you know what? I'm not telling them anything anymore because when I tell them what I finish up with is their version of that too. Not what I wanted it to be. So what version do you have of someone in your head that you need to let go?