 Ladies and gentlemen Tony Gaskins here if you're gonna be watching the replay of this I Got to go ahead and Start talking while I'm getting this Live together Let me see YouTube YouTube Sending this out the night. I should have had it already set up, but Was running behind doing some errands from my wife, so I was a little behind Been meaning to get on here been wanting to get on here But every time I get ready to get on a good game coming on and you know me and my wife That's be our little quality time watching the game. So I haven't been able to get on here Here recently, but I don't think a game on the night Yeah, the game come on tomorrow night. So I want to get on here tonight I might have to I might try to get back on again this week But I appreciate y'all checking out the community page to keep up with When we doing these lives and as you know only the blessed tribe members can be in the chat on the lives and This is intended to be a live Q&A for the blessed tribe members To post your questions in the chat right here You do not have to do any of the little donation things. You don't have to do that to ask a question People do that on their own, but you don't have to do that for me to ask you a question and oh The president's bait on Okay, and I watch the president But look at Ain't no president was on. Yeah, y'all can give me now now y'all watch the president, but hey, I don't got on him So me and the president is on tonight. So y'all got to forgive me cuz And make sure y'all vote now now where I'm from We don't really do a whole lot of voting, but this year we get not to the polls. All right, November No in November 3rd or 4th We getting on out there. Somebody say who you vote for Jesus. I'd be right on the ballot put the Lord in office And put the Lord in office Jesus say render unto Caesar was Caesar's. I Just self-publish a book. What should I do next start promoting it? You know get your little business card put the The cover on business cards handed out to everybody at the mall. How you some gloves on now because they might thank you You know just in case they think you got that 19 and then make sure you you know post it online Post a little snippets from it You know get the e-book put it on available for e-book Download your own e-book and then open it up in the e-reader on your phone on your smartphone in the Kindle app Or the iBooks app if you got an iPhone and then highlight certain little sections Screenshot it and then post that screenshot on Facebook and Instagram and wherever you have social media My ex sent me a picture of him and his new woman telling me Thank you for preparing me for this fantastic woman and sorry for how he treated me thoughts Well, I'll tell you what your ex He lost he your ex is actually hurting and he actually misses you and he actually has a soul tie with you and He is hurting so he wants to hurt you Because you had the audacity to leave him or to let him go That's why he is but hurt and that's why he's showing you a picture of the new woman Men do that when their soul ties acting up on them meaning that soul ties strangling them He thinking about you a lot He probably had a dream about you the night before because that's how soul ties work and then that's why he text you That the next day Trying to be nasty So just understand that just just take it with a you know take it like a like a vitamin and keep keep moving How do you rid yourself of negative energy when it's around you daily? Work environment Well, put you put you some music on you know get your little headphone get your luck Airpod or a little headphone just how you some music going on and then you got to also Transition and look at the way you look at negative energy see sometimes you look at negative energy to say oh this draining me No negative energy is preparing you for your purpose So when I come in the comments, I got to deal with negative energy when I get on some coaching calls I got to deal with negative energy So me working on a job that I had negative energy all around me I started looking at my job like paid training like if I could be good here if I could serve here If I could be happy here, I'm gonna be able to be happy anywhere So you got to just you know reframe the way you look at it Good evening in the middle of no contact His birthday is tomorrow should I wish him happy birthday? This is a tough time to go no contact So it's a this is a tough time to go no contact So you you kind of should have thought that out before you went no contact But if you had to go no contact you got to you got to leave that birthday alone You can't contact on the birthday because when you contact on the birthday that mean you're no contact is play play That mean you play play that mean you're playing around now This the other bad side about it if you don't contact him on his birthday He's for one gonna know you serious about this here no contact But two he may come back with resentment and come back only to hurt you So you've got to understand that be ready for that be able to keep your distance to where you don't come in And drop your guard too fast and get taken advantage of Jenna say don't tell Black folks that lie Tell them at least At least and say you do vote General I said I vote on her now. I say well, I'm from we don't vote and my thing is That's not Telling a lie. I'm telling it. I'm telling the truth You saw the NFL player that say he never voted in his life, you know, that's that's the truth More people don't vote and they say only 60% of voted but this year we vote got vote Got to get out and vote But if I don't vote, I'm not gonna say I do vote because I got to answer the guard I don't tell lies. I tell the truth. So Jenna, you know, keep your two cents on your page Don't be coming on my page telling me what to do on my page. Okay? That's the quick easy way to get blocked. All right. Thank you very much. Oh, it's up on solicited advice I go on your page. I want some advice, but me I'm gonna keep it all the way real over here. All right Okay, get a little red left the right now trying to come on here and do something good answer the question Do good men date single mothers? Yes, good men do date single mothers because a man Understands that a single mother. It's about her. It's about the way she carries herself It's not even about the children. What you got to understand is with me When it come to children He really don't care if the woman is who he wants So if the woman is who he wants, he'll deal with you know Uh Then if the man is whoever if the woman who you want When is the next time courses will be 50% off? I missed the Labor Day sale. I cannot tell you. I Don't know if they'll ever be 50% off Hopefully Black Friday or be something Be some kind of special. I would like to be able to do 50% off on Black Friday. Lord willing It just kind of they have to go with the market You know It kind of go with the market and based on what the market is saying with each of courses so that they you know taking serious and Respect I've asked my ex to delete pictures of me on his Facebook page He has he has been in relationship with a woman, but still won't delete my pictures from his page Do you think there's a reason for this? Yeah, he may not really be in a real relationship with that woman He may kind of be using her as a rebound and so Having pictures of you let her know she don't really got him and it's making her fight for him and serve him and work For him and kind of like a do-girl and then there's people who he doesn't want to know that y'all done broke up He don't want you to know that so therefore He's not Deleting you so that they Certain guys don't come for you and that certain people don't come to him saying why y'all broke up y'all was such a beautiful couple So it is a reason for it Coach Kim F. God bless you. Thanks Tony for all that you do and inspire me to become a life coach had my first session last week I coach on self-love singles Situationships. Oh awesome. That's a blessing That's a blessing Came out the gate and got your blessing caramel kisses God bless you now y'all try to keep the chat clear just questions Just questions somebody asked a question. They really don't you know won't advice from a million people They really asking questions so that they could get some singular Advice and I had a lot of people right in about that. So y'all keep y'all advice to yourself or on your YouTube channel and Keep the chat for questions and put hashtag you Oh three Clary. I see you. I see you right here Why do men wait until you don't want them anymore to want you to come back and do right? Sometimes even years later at least three tried to come back last week That's ego That's ego because see what you have to realize about me is About humans Most humans want the easy route. So a man gonna try you and try to dog you out To see if you're gonna deal with it when you show him you're not gonna deal with it That's when he come and try to give you a better version of him But first he want to see if you're gonna deal with cheating with yelling with screaming with cussing with what have you? That's what you want to see if you're gonna deal with first when you shut that down Then that's why he come back and may like he want you but now he's just gonna give you a little bit more He'll give you 60% you leave him on that night. Now you want to come back g 70 You leave on that night. I want to come back and try to get you so that's really what it is Hey, Tony. I was texting a guy My reply was the last one at 545 p.m. And he replied Later the next day at 1 p.m. Was I wrong to cut him off? Plus I saw that he was active on Instagram No, you weren't wrong to cut them off. You weren't wrong to cut them off Hey, you serious now about that cutoff game now you serious about that there But you were not wrong to do that Because by you doing that it saved you a whole lot of time because see a man who want you he waiting up by that text He on that text all the time. He looking at that text. He ain't going nowhere. So understand that Barbara in God bless you now happy belated to your queen starbucks on me also Thank you for half off on your latest course. Hey, God bless you Barbara bless you So at my latest course is called a personal brand Where I'm kind of talking about how you use Yourself to build a personal brand y'all see what I'm doing. That's a personal brand. So I got a course and I'm teaching how I built to a seven-figure earner without having a staff without having anybody on payroll without having a full team Working from home. So I'm teaching you the principles that I build with The actual business is itself you're gonna find your passions and your purpose So I can't say hey go do life coaching. Hey go do YouTube. Hey go write books. Your thing may be comedy Your thing may be something else, but I'm teaching the principles of Taking yourself and building your personal brand. And so that's on Tony gas in the academy calm And it's half price right now. It's listed at half price. You don't need a coupon code There's a lot of information there's seven and a half hour long course Good evening. I've always had people gravitate towards me as someone who they can talk to Can I really make it as a coach? Thank you Tony. I appreciate you if you believe you can make it you can make it You know like the quote says whether you believe you can or you can't you write So you got to look I made it as a coach and look at me There's ain't nothing special about me. Y'all, you know country I don't made it as code in went on to create the tech site the the project to have other coaches Making it as coaches. So if you believe you could do it, you could do it You could do it and the thing about life coach certification It's a whole lot cheaper than a lot of certification There's a lot cheaper than then what I paid what I owe in student loans. I tell you that So if that's your you feel like that's your purpose. You're calling go ahead Why do guys leave you on red or delivered but like and show interest when spending time together It let you know that he's taking he's dealing with other women And so he juggling women He probably most likely have a main woman and then when he able to break free from her That's when he spent time with you But he can't build with you and talk to you on text because he with his other one He would have made one. So that's when you really know a man is not emotionally available. I Lost my drive to finish my book any suggestions on getting the motivation back Well, you're gonna have to connect with the purpose for the book, you know Who is it for why are you writing you might even need to do a? Consulting session to make sure that you writing the right type of book That you pulling out the right story that you telling the right story So you might want to if you can't do it on your own then hire Author coach we have author coaches on my mentor that life. I'm one as well but that's not one of my categories on my mentor so you have to just put branding and Maybe when you talk through it it can get you over the hump Why do women stay around even when they know a grown boy is juggling does each one think he really loves her? He is very promiscuous. Do women think? equals love Yes equals love or Tammy you as a woman, okay? So see me personally I answer question about men All right, Tammy you is the woman. I can't tell you why women do that You know, I really don't know why women do half of the stuff Y'all do now if you ask me a question about a man I could speak from a male perspective But I really can't speak for women and why they do what they do because I'm still trying to work with the Lord to figure that out myself You see what I mean? So You know you on that right there you get the standard for me lack of self-love desperation Frustration all of that right there. I do not understand it because as men We'll put up with all that as men will put up with all that you breathe wrong As men we readily so when I see women getting drugged through the mud I just don't understand it and to be honest with you That's why I do what I do Because when I change my life It just broke my heart to look out here at the game and just see like wow Women really are here losing. Yes, I'm being lose but no one near as many women that lose So I say and look here How do you know when a man is coming back into your life just to hurt you you don't know until he do But what you'll see though you will see precursors So you'll see antecedent behavior. So you just have to pay attention. You have to pay attention and He will be consistent and he'll be showing you love and he'll be doing right by you and Once you start to see he creates a habit of a negative Behavior, that's when you know, that's what he coming back to do That hurt you. Oh, look, God bless you during your grown boy. Stay. Did you ever? Cheat emotional or physical with your wife and how did you grow both grow through it? Well, only got to read our book on um a woman's influence and Worked through that book and you're gonna kind of see the little issue that we had to deal with in the first two years of Marriage and for us we will we I was 21 when I met my wife I was 23 and we got married. So we didn't have to work through, you know Affairs and all of that but we had to work through our fair share of Issues and it's something that I really can't do justice here in a minute or two So you have to sit down and read the book a woman's influence It's I write a chapter that my wife tell her part at the end and that'll really help you get through that The other thing too is we don't tell all our business either, you know, that's one lesson that some people You know make the mistake of is telling all your business. All right. So sometimes like I used to work in the group home with mentally Mentally disabled clients. They had a little, you know, just a little something going on and one of my clients you say touch, you know You just ask them a what touch, you know, so ever since then I touch, you know So unlike some people that's out here with a relationship with a couples Goals and you know trying to be front-center me and my wife We work through our issues. We wrote about it in the book but we don't just take an air out everything because a relationship is a house and One of my co-workers when I was at the group home. She taught me that she said I tell my kids a relationship is like a house You lock your doors. You close your blinds You don't let strangers in so I teach from my mistakes, but I don't take and lay Every detail that my wife has gone through that I've gone through out because the enemy is real The adversary is real and so just highlight you on here with no picture I don't know who you is you said I mean no picture and no real name You could be working right for the devil and You know and just be coming to try to get a sound bite the clip it and then send that to the blogs and take Some out of context. So that's why with wisdom You got to be in my page. You got to be on my books. You got to be actively in my following and you'll hear my story Over time in the context that it needs to be in Kitty God bless you was dating two guys after one week. They talked about wanting to Have get me running within months. They both have his why do guys mention that? Just nasty just nasty. Don't think too much of it. Just nasty It mean they don't respect you and they just come in the look the sleep around with you So you can't be Fast with people with people you got to build a relationship slow So with a man coming he jumped right to it that mean he coming to get you on your back You know and for some women who really really ready to have a child a They they like that love they take that as you know some cute. They think that's cute Oh, you want me to have your baby? Oh, all right, and then she right on her back. I had a friend of 20 years but I Found out he was lying to me He wanted to stay friends, but I'm not okay with what he did Should I let him back if he comes back around? Kim I can't answer that because I don't know what he did. So you might need in 20 years That might be worth investing in coaching session So for that one right there visit my mentor dot life and in book your session with a life coach And so you could share what he did and go through the whole situation You know cuz I can't just say oh, yeah, give him another chance. I know don't give him another chance when I Don't know what he did Life of V See that right there. You can't really talk about that on here. Do you think it was worth in mental? I'm said you leave for either or Certain words get flagged on here. So that right there is more so for a personal session or You know therapy my ex cheated on me made a baby and Proposed to the woman he cheated on me with why are people looking at me like I am lacking? But no one sees him and how he is marrying a girl who knew he was cheating Well, see the thing about it is nobody really looking at you like you like him You might feel like they're looking at you like you like him. Y'all forgive my house Millennium appeared you might feel like they're looking at you like like you lacking, but You got to think about it a lot of women and gone through that and if not a baby didn't been cheated on so they kind of like Mmm, you know what? He is a dirty dog. She ain't she lost a dog. She lose no man She ain't lose none. I ain't jealous of you said I mean so they really ain't looking at you like you like him It's just really that You may sense that and they are looking at him like a fool because they know what he's doing is wrong And it's also just like a cop out It's really what a man does in a lot of cases men do they'll go ahead and be with that woman just to make it look real They're trying to sell it all the way and then she is boo boo the fool because if a woman didn't with a man and knowing the man is cheating with her then she Sleep with this man know he cheated and then she thinks she won a prize Because he choose her she boo boo the fool and she gonna get exactly All right, it might be my inner neck. I don't know what my inner neck in here doing Tony if I'm dating someone new and he's asking a lot of questions YouTube y'all need to get y'all sit wasting the other night YouTube But I'm trying to observe. How do I answer his questions without telling too much? You don't answer his questions You know answer his questions But you have to understand that one of your answers may be one of your answers may be You'll find out. I'm still waiting to see so if he said You know, how many men have you been with you? Your answer is none of your business How many women have you been with and is that answer going to be a real answer? So why we even talking about that judge me as a woman So what you could sit down and do is write down all the type of question that a man asked you You know, what kind of man you're looking for I Know him when I see him you see what I mean So some of your answers have to be kind of, you know Round about so it's not you not saying okay I want a man that loves God. That's honest as trustworthy. That's ambitious because now he's gonna fake to be all of that Even if he's not Gina God bless you now. Hi, Tony. I watch all your videos and read a couple books Info on point and thank you. You come from a Christian perspective Question is should I share your books and videos with my fiancee or keep for myself? well, if it's your fiancee that says y'all are on good terms and It's kind of like a test in a sense like because if you share a book with him and you do it in a way that you know he is You know, you do it in a way that you know, he Responds to that his personality responds that way Then it's like a test because if he responds negatively now you get to see that while y'all date so if you say Hey, let's read this book together. I want to read this book together and He's like, I don't want to read. I don't want to read that magic. I probably cheating on his wife I'm not reading that stuff. I'm not into all of that Up red flag if you say, oh, okay. Why do you want to read that together? All right. I mean if you insist I'll read it with you Well, okay Well, if I read this book with you will you read this book over here with me if he respond like that now, you know He healthy you said I mean so It's typically you keep all the knowledge to yourself when you're just dating like You're not getting ready to marry this guy you y'all just met y'all day It's the first three months six months But if it's a situation y'all engage to be married you y'all need to be growing together You shouldn't find no information that's helping you that you don't share with him Just glendalo Just glendalo God bless you now Tony you went live at the right time Apple music went down right as I was coming to the gym I was getting out of character at that I'm glad you made it Felicia God bless you now Miss Ian. I'm gonna keep listening until I change really just want to be better for me and expand God bless you now Lisa Belle beauty. Hey Tony my ex of five months contacted my dad about his grandpa passing away I didn't say anything If he was toxic is he just reaching to see if I'll contact him and will you Read my picture If he was toxic, yeah, so if he was toxic and it was your ex of five months Yeah, he just he being he's still being toxic. So basically what he's trying to do is just be put on your mind He want to be put on your mind cuz like five months rain know you five months I do the Waitress at the restaurant longer than that Call here talking about who you done lost like this call your cousin call your family member call your girlfriend That you went for a year your ex of five months Now unless you mean y'all just been broke up for five months now now if y'all were together for years Okay, it makes sense. But at the same time too, you know If it's his granddaddy cuz I'm I would assume you're not talking about your dad granddaddy So if it's his his granddaddy, you know, that's really not what a man does a man don't just call and say Hey, I just want to let you know my granddaddy pass Yeah, do you yeah, you feel sorry for me? Oh, okay Yeah, you gonna cry with me Okay, yeah, all right. One two three left cry A man don't really do that like if a man he going in his hole and he going to his closest people Y'all if y'all were together five months, you don't know your daddy you don't mean so he just call and get put back on your radar and Unfortunately, I can't read your picture. I don't want to miss read your picture cuz it's real small and it's and it's a little distant Lola God bless you now. If an X reaches out To you to when you guys ended on bad terms, do you block right away or hear them out? He tried to spoil my name Block him Go on block him cuz really when a man when you in on bad terms and he's tried to spray your name He coming back With bad intentions he's not coming back for anything worth anything so you got to be willing just gone about your business Know when you don't know when you done now You know he your husband and he coming back and you know He made a mistake and you know in your heart that that's your husband That's different if you know, he's your ex and he's not the one you've made that decision keep moving with your life As you God bless you now been getting to know a guy a month when I ask him about his past Relationships and why the recent one ended. He doesn't seem to say much red flag Well, it's really kind of you know, you want to know But at the same time, it's like you only hearing one side of the story So the question is kind of pointless, you know, it's like a rhetorical question because it's like He's not going to say It ended because I'm a grown boy. I'm terrible. I cheated on her and stole her lunch every day and Sliced her tire so she left me. You see what I mean? So it's really like He kind of saying that's a pointless question because it's only my side So what you have to do in these situations is you just got to watch him You got to watch him. How does he move? Does he curse? Does he get drunk? Does he smoke? Does he club? Does he is he obsessed with video games? Does he listen to only trap music, you know What kind of books does he have? Like what is he doing? What is his job? What is his hobbies? What are his passions? So you get to know him Because people can change So even if he was the one who cheated and they broke up people can change So what you have to do is yeah, you want to understand the relationship resume But it'll come out in just normal conversation. You can't put them on the interrogation seat and say Hey, uh, tell me everything about that relationship. It is just it ain't gonna happen How can a 58 year old divorcee start to date and not look so thirsty? Well see at 58 You can't look thirsty unless you out here this woman Unless you out here in booty shorts If you out here with booty cheek hanging out, you know the short you got them up booty cheek hanging out Now you look thirsty You got all kind of cleavage hanging out the way it's capital C cleavage hanging out now you look thirsty, but just you know getting well you Well right now hold off right now right now because you're in at risk You're in the at risk because you step out too fast and somebody called for you And you catch that 19 you live to go meet the lord Faster than you want to so for right now just stay in the house And and what you want to do right now is write out what you want your husband to be right out What how you want your husband to look smell talk what kind of job? How much money you want to make just get that visualization visualization going you see what I mean And then you utilize your social media get on your facebook Because you might see a old classmate that you know was real quiet and shy and not even grew into his shelf That's how I was I was real quiet and shy people one of my classmate just DM me And I know she probably like whoa In the world who is this this was not the guy I knew at high school. I was so quiet and shy So you utilize your facebook post your daily scriptures and stuff like that And you might meet somebody through social media that y'all would get on facetime and start building And you're not gonna look thirsty. Just be active online I feel like god has highlighted a specific person to me Do you believe god will show you your husband before the time? I've been seeking god and staying in my purpose making sure I don't move before god What's he not listening? I love the lord and I'm a hundred percent christian. I'm a devout christian And I believe god move now But see this is the thing you kind of got to check around and you just kind of got to make sure that You're not too spiritual You know, you got to make sure you ain't too heavily minded, you know, you got to make sure that When wind blow you don't think that's the voice of god You see what I mean? So you just got to check your heart and just make sure your heart make sure you settle with the lord Make sure you live and write Make sure you're not in willful sin. See if you're in willful sin god ain't showing you nothing So make sure you're not in willful sin. You're gonna sin now, but it's gonna be a mistake. It's gonna be An accident. It's gonna be human nature meaning every man falls short of the glory of god Also mean every woman falls short of the glory of god, but If you in willful Sin Then god ain't even talking to you showing no revelations but yes, if Your husband god gonna reveal that to you because he also gonna reveal it to the man But now this is the thing if it's not revealed to the man, then that's not your husband Because a man who finds a wife finds a good thing not a woman who finds a wife god I don't send women to go find their husband. You know, I mean a woman may be in position To meet her husband like roof did then they only sent roof They're going ahead and shoot a little shot, but those that were back in the day now We ain't shooting shots. The man got to pursue you So understand this you may feel like this could potentially be my husband But don't get been on it. Don't get stuck on it. What you got to say is lord, if this is my husband Let him approach me. Let him shoot his shot Um ariana Let's see god bless your tony. Do you believe we should give up Slash stop entertaining a good man if we feel we are not all the way at the place Where we desire to be happy birthday to your queen. Thanks for all you do Uh ariana, no, you shouldn't you shouldn't because you're never going to be at the place where you think you should be you're never going to be all the way there and And it's your flaws that make you beautiful. It's your flaws that make you perfect And a man appreciates that, you know, my wife still ain't all the way where she need to be I still ain't all the way where I need to be. We're going on 14 years of marriage So growth is continual. That's something you're going to be doing the rest of your life And if a man is okay being with you and talking to you Then that means he likes you Don't bow out You know because you're judging yourself too too harshly because You may be receiving grace in this situation and he may also have stuff he got to work on and it might be stuff You just don't know about yet, you know, and he and so that's why he's not judging you too harshly Um, mr. Gass, I admit I am off and on with a male friend. I really like him But I had stopped and stepped back from him. However, I renewed something But now since relinked he's not showing anything Jacqueline that mean he he all for you I'm regretting this by the way. He didn't even say good morning. Yeah, he all for you. Jacqueline Go and close the door and move on with your life Because you hang around too long He's gonna let you stay there and then he's gonna put you in a role And he and you're gonna become a role player the way you're gonna be using you for back robatics Or he finna be using you for money or he just finna be using you just to be wasting time with you So go ahead, you know By your question Pretty flower. Why you don't like me tony passed by my two time. See this is the first time I seen you right here So y'all got to realize now All these questions coming they're just doing like this right here. It's doing like this So really when I start talking I just I look right here at the bottom and grab the one that's at the bottom because I'll be scrolling for days So I won't intentionally miss your question But like what I'll be telling y'all all times if you on this here live right now Listen to me now. This is a live rule. Do not write in the chat complaining about being missed Because see had you just copied and paste your question again I would have seen your question right then but what I seen was a complaint You see what I'm saying? That is a life lesson on faith You got to keep the faith the moment that you sit down the power Your blessing pass you and your head down Look at there we go and there go your blessing right there But when you keep the faith And you keep going and you keep the enthusiasm now Boom you fail fail fail fail. Boom. Then you get your blessing. You see what I mean? That's a life lesson with the hit Q&A Had you post your question right now instead of posting that you know Why you don't like me telling and I know you're just joking around but had you post your question see that persistence You got certain people in here like pretty black. They say pretty black and the ratio I know their name because they will post a question the 1,000 million times And sometimes it could be the worst question and got no answer for it and they will post that question one thousand times I'm like lord, please lord. Why you didn't make this person a quitter in life Why you had to make this person a person a variant person? You said you know that they keep posting your question I see it if god want me to see it. I see it See songs god bless you boy and the people who get tired of posting a question what they do They send it a little donation. Oh Now that that pop up on the screen in a color. Oh, I'm gonna see that now I don't ask y'all to do that They do that on their own But that's somebody who say listen I'm finna get to the front of the line because I want what I want you said I mean that's it That's personality trait again See saw god blessing our boyfriend wants a prenup if we get married to protect his retirement fund, etc A part of me doesn't care, but I don't know new child together. He pays every bill would I be foolish to abide? Oh, that's a personal question. You're gonna have to use a personal question. But see me personally as a man I didn't have nothing to protect when I got married I had only thing I had in my name was a driver license And the only thing I had in my pocket was some lint and the only thing I had in my bank account Was the ink on the screen that when I log in but so it's kind of like You know already put The cart before the horse y'all got a child y'all ain't married So you already upside down So it's like at this point it would not make sense to put your foot down by the prenup when you then Got on your bike and had a child. You see what I'm saying? He can be like You are about a prenup But for me as a man A prenup is a plan to fail It's basically saying I'm gonna get married to go through the motions But I ain't a hundred percent about this and I feel 50 50 on whether we're gonna get a divorce or not So I need to get this love, you know Ah I need to get this little Situation in order because we I'm probably gonna divorce you. That's what it says to me as a man Now I could feel differently if I had something to protect When I got married Gloriously crowned God bless you now. God bless you now And I don't know why you showed out like that though, but I so appreciate you. You have to show out like that doesn't I? I heard that men can tell when a woman did or did not have a father growing up. What are the giveaways? um somebody probably will say that but To be honest with you it's so it's so it's so Because it's several women who had a daddy and doing threesomes And then it's women who didn't have a daddy and it's the strongest woman in the world Like my wife my wife was not raised with her father. She had her daddy But he wasn't teaching her about love and relationships He was doing school work with her and she would go spend the summers with him But he wasn't in the home 12 months out the year and She the strongest woman I ever met. That's why I married her. So really that's kind of like a myth It can't nobody really tell we can assume but It's a lot of loose booty Women that got a daddy You know, so you just can't really tell kiana. God bless you Gina ray god bless your best friend of five years Her new man kept checking me out to the point that I felt uncomfortable told her But I feel like things are not the same is our friendship over Um, she probably went back and told him and then if he putting that meat leg on her he putting that pole on her She she and uh She feeling it and she's and you know, especially depending on what he's doing to her now A woman that gonna trade that for her friend Some women just so ready and desperate for a man She nothing let that man go when she don't know if you hating she don't know if you jealous You know and And we really don't know, you know, sometimes we sometimes we could be Imagine the thing we could think somebody keep looking at us and they just could they could be just a staring person They like to take photographic pictures in their mind and just that's how they just take people in You know It could have made you feel uncomfortable because you expect him to just look at the wall all day He could have looked at you three times, but then three times felt like 30 times. You see what I mean? So she taken all that into consideration. She probably talked to him about it Then he probably said see this one even like dealing with women who got all these close friends because These women be so bitter. They be so jealous and that happened in my last relationship where the woman She came and told her that I wanted her and then Me and my woman broke up And I had to leave her over that your friend probably desperate and jealous or mad about her relationship So he could put anything in her head and she like listen, I'm not finna mess up my my marriage Me having children with this man over what my friend thinks she saw So you have to Just kind of look at it like was it that serious like now if he was like If he was like that right there, okay, you should have told but now if he just was looking And you just called him looking now you might have went overboard and made a molehill into a mountain And if you did that you probably need to go apologize and say, you know as I think about it I feel like I could have misread misread the situation and I could be putting, you know Thoughts in his head and gazes in his eyes when I could have just been misreading the situation Now if you know that you know Go on stick by and if you lose her as a friend at least you told her so that when he do her wrong She could say you are my real friend You're my best friend because you told me that this man was nasty and I come to find out he is nasty So just understand that charise god bless you not tony divorced five years ago But x still calls every now and then ask him to stop. He says he don't care He won't stop calling. What should I do if y'all don't have children under the age of 18 then block them Block them change the number if you need to or just block them And never answer unknown number let them leave a voicemail Even if it's a family member who done got into some type of situation the amulet They're gonna leave a voicemail the poli they're gonna leave a voicemail So let them leave a voicemail and and listen. Okay. I know it is ambulance All right. Well i'm from we call it amulet. So I understand that it's ambulance So you're gonna have some educated people on here. Oh my god. I'm trying to get off this channel Here because see this is the problem in 2020 we got ignorant Jessica come here This man is on here giving all these people advice and he just girl Let me hit the rewind. Let me tap the screen too. He just said amulet Oh my goodness. So understand. I know it is ambulance All right. It just went from we say amulet So understand that right down Let me see um, Maria god bless you now in canada canadian 1399 canada god bless you from another country Now maria. I think maria might be a coach on my mentor dot life Thank you for all you do coach say this often forever indebted no life money But how does one from canada send random Donation other than mailing we we can't send the cash out. This is belated SB for sherry birthday starbucks. Okay Uh, I don't know. Um, maybe through PayPal maybe through PayPal And you really working hard to get that blessing to me sister You know, it's the thought that count the fact that you just did what you did right there That's still come, you know, that's the that's the donation right there But you ain't got to do that. You ain't got to go out your way Try to find a system or what have you, you know, god bless you sister. We appreciate that We really appreciate it's the thought that count We appreciate that god bless you now and later gonna email me Ain't gonna go through it. I don't know why I said this is that like you don't even see it But y'all got to understand you never see me come on here and say hey y'all send me a donation Send a donation if you want a question Everybody who do that they do that from their heart and god bless them and that's why god blessing them But I do the same thing in my life And tomorrow Here's a example tomorrow. I got tickets for the for the hockey team in Tampa one Stanley cup. I don't watch hockey But guess what? I'm using my tickets to take My son friend and his dad who are hockey fanatics If I'm taking out my time somewhere that I don't necessarily want to go I'm gonna enjoy the experience, but I'm doing it because I know We have access to it and somebody else like it a lot of people don't think about being a blessing to people some people do And then some people get mad when they see people being a blessing to somebody that they don't feel deserve blessings And you got to take that up with the devil that you talking to because that's come from the devil Because god didn't put that on you So a when I say god bless you when I get these here and I say god bless you I really mean that and I pray that it multiplying your life Taylor god bless you now god bless I was wondering when your husband lines up someone new before leaving you would he be Unavailable to the new woman and be on the rebound due to the soul time or are men not effective Um To a certain degree he is emotionally unavailable And he is playing himself So he's playing himself And she is a rebound And he does have a soul Full time so what's gonna happen is Is when he line her up Before y'all get a divorce now what's gonna happen is when he gets with her And he's sleeping with her he's gonna be picturing you he's gonna be picturing you He's gonna be thinking about you because that's how soul ties work when he stayed the night with her He actually gonna wake up in a cold sweat from a dream about you It might be a dream of you In his bike, but he gonna wake up and she what's going on? What's going on and that soul tag on ball them now and then he just messing up his harvest So so yeah, he is they starting on the wrong ground On the wrong foundation and it's going to affect them. It's going to affect them pretty bad now Uh kiana god bless if a man tells you he thinks He isn't what you're looking for in a man. Do you think he is in fear? Of falling in love or he just has more options Uh, was he really kiana? Let's see what's your name kiana. Yeah Now see really what that is is he Thinks that you are not the woman for him But he rather put it on himself than to Tell you that now I should have lied with him and told you that but A man never going to take himself out of your life because he feels like he isn't worthy Because men want to be with a woman that's better than them Or that they don't deserve so understand that right there. So really it's that's the it's me. Not you. That's all that is So just kind of look at it like okay. He basically telling me I'm not the one for him And let me just be glad that he told me that because a lot of men won't tell you that They'll just use you and take advantage of you and just keep on, you know And won't tell you so be glad he told you that and move on with your life Oh the god bless. I appreciate you so much And yours I started to date my trainer. It happened unexpectedly. He is getting a divorce. We know each other For two years. We have a connection. I get self-conscious with the situation and His clientele sexy. What do I do? Uh, yeah, you in a tough situation You probably don't need a session of coaching with one of the coaches on my mentor You kind of playing yourself Because you got to realize when you're working out you're releasing endorphins you're releasing serotonin dope of me You know, you're getting a little oxytocin in there that conversation Somebody building your body. He's building your body. That's quality time. It's it's in training. There's love languages So when you're working with a trainer with a man a woman should be working with a woman trainer If you even if you in a relationship And a man should be working with a man trainer because that's intimate and see people try to pretend that Human that they don't feel stuff. Oh, you feel stuff There's one way or the other you feel stuff It's love being built because love speaks languages So you being available him going through a divorce. He not even divorced yet So essentially he dealing with you he in adultery. So now you're building on the wrong foundation So now y'all whatever y'all got going already cursed It's already cursed. It's already doomed. You see what I mean? So yes, you ought to be self-conscious about the situation because of how you come about the situation And then what you have to realize is just like he's going through a divorce He's going through a divorce because of what he does with his in your word sexy clientele That's why he's going through a divorce Because he don't know how to keep his thing in his pan So you may be the 10th 15th or 20th client he then Hit on and if y'all don't snap together then you the 10 15th or 20th He didn't put on her back And you might just have more to offer more to bring to the table than the other ones he didn't put on their back But what's gonna happen is when he get tired of you Three four five years into you he's gonna leave you for another client. You see what I'm saying? So you have to look at how you start stuff because how you started That typically how you're gonna end it Oh, hello. God bless you now. Good evening. How can I help the man? I'm interested in and love to stop having adult temper tantrums. He says he wants to change god bless You got to stop reinforcing it So when he had a temper tantrum, you got to hang up on him hang up on him You got to leave him. You can't talk to him for a day You know and you got to let him know listen if this right here is gonna happen I can't be with you And then the penalty have to be greater So it might first time you don't talk for hours next time you don't talk 12 hours next time you don't talk 24 Next time 48 next time 72 the last time 14 day break And because see when a man having adult temper tantrum You give it a little time. That's what it's going to be Conor McGregor You're gonna be writing that in in octagon with Conor McGregor and you're gonna be able to escape and and you're gonna look back and say He been having temper tantrum since the day I met him So listen to me. You got to deal with it now. You better deal with it now. Let him know it's it's off limits that that right there can happen um Just glint glint the Lord God bless you more than later starbucks for the first later birthday. God bless you now Hey, I'm gonna give you a blessing now She don't need the most thought but but I'm gonna let her see she be having to get that starbucks I had to buy starbucks stop I say because my wife gonna keep them in bed and so at least let me make some of my money back by buy some of these thought Through god bless you now told my sister about you. She ended up running across you your video. She even thanked the most high Keep speaking that good word, bro. You never know whose spirit you could uplift Hey, god bless you drew drew came in here now now drew Shifting things up for the man drew came in here and sent a blessing now drew could have put that in the chat Drew sent a blessing a blessing drew look why in life look are you rarely see men on here? Taylor god bless you now tony he said She isn't a rebound and wants to spend his life with her But he also said he isn't the type to divorce his wife And wants both women my fear is if I move on he would come back after I heal Taylor Taylor Now see I used to be a grown boy But I but I that's before I got married So when I read stuff like that that right there get my blood boiling because see I'm I'm like here. I am out here being faithful Loving my wife treating like an absolute queen If I show you what I did for her for her birthday You'll throw up in your mouth if you ain't got you no loving husband You will literally unfollow me. You know, I can't deal with this no more I can't this now. I'm so mad with how his wife being treated so good You'll throw up in your mouth if I tell you how I bless my wife for her birthday And I'm doing this right here and then I see a fool like your husband talking about He won't both women talking about he don't like he not the type to divorce his wife So he won't both. I can't tell you what I have to do to him Look here. Oh my god. Listen here. Listen here. Taylor. Hear me when I'm telling you Listen to me Taylor this all the whole rest of the night. I need to be talking to you You need to get so far from that man So fast you need to be on the phone tonight get on tonight. You get on google Divorce attorney You get on their website. You go to the contact page. You send in a contact that they could call you tomorrow What do y'all call to retain you to go through the 500? Okay, here go 500 But you if you got the big bar instead get that 500 get that the voice started and you've got to go You got to go and then listen when you hear he can't reach you He can't even reach you to you worry about him coming back He can't reach you your number change your phone block you to move to a new city or a new apartment or a new house You gone you got them for spouses support. You got them for 50 percent. You got them for alimony You got them for all that you got screenshots of the text messages of him cheating If y'all state got that right down to where you get, you know awarded for the man cheating and all that Hey, you got screenshots. You got all that listen to me You can't play the fool like that now Taylor, please do not be on my page and then playing the fool like that You need to sit you need to pull all nighter. Just let me video play You hit me that right there that that messed me up I'm trying to book on the link, but it's saying no time's available. But there are dates. What do I do, Tony? Kimble if you talking about me Or if you talking about any coach when you when you click on that date It's showing you the date But if it's saying no time's available is no time available on that day. You got to go to the next month So I think all my october if you tell my mind all my october booked up And then it's into november and I saw Sunday day I think around november 4th So now it's booking into november and it could be the same situation for other coaches Who getting books who getting bookings through the my mentor dot life So if it's saying no time's available that date is just a calendar But when you keep going go to the next month and then you click on keep clicking on the dates Then you're going to see one. Um, show you the times Uh, shannon god bless you now words cannot express how your videos have blessed me to recover from a recent painful breakup Thank you, mr. Gassons for being such a blessing to me. Hey god bless you God bless you I neds bless you Ex of three kids has kept leaving me for other women This time he left me At five months pregnant and got back with another ex And proposed to her it broke me Sis, I'm sorry to hear that We don't like to hear that kind of stuff. Yeah, sis. I'm sorry to hear that But see non-list what you got to do and as you got to look at You got to watch the game film when I say the game film you got to look back over the relationship And you got to see what mistakes you made You got to see all the red flags you you ignored all the red flags you miss and that you know are red flags now And you got to write your manifesto make it up in your mind that you're never gonna fall for that again and and He played you and you got to realize you played yourself And you got to learn from that And it broke you you got to let it break you but when it break you it's gonna put you back together Now you got to let it put you back together because see it's gonna hurt But then you're gonna heal so you got to keep getting knowledge and that's what you got to do You got to find areas to be thankful of You got to say well, I'm thankful. I ain't have five kids with them I'm thankful I had these three and I'm finna invest in these three and I'm finna make sure these three become some They go into college. They finna grow. They finna be amazing. I'm finna be raising the next president Or the next principal the next af pro athlete the next doctor lawyer You take this and say thank you for these three blessings Because without y'all wouldn't have them so got them. I'm finna invest in them focus on them They finna become my absolute whole life And that's what you got to find the good in it move on cut him off completely Don't ask him for no money If you want if you need money from him let the courthouse ask him let child support collect the money for you And then come to your car your child support car and you just gone about your life And if he want to see him in being a life then he need to get court ordered visitation if y'all can't set it up amicably And all y'all talking about is them children. Everything else is you focus on you your grind your job your work And your kid and just keep moving with your life It's going to be hard But cry through it if you got that holla in the pillow holla in the pillow If you got to punch the pillow punch the pillow if you got to go walk you three miles go walk you three miles Now you won't feel the same on day 70 as you feel on day seven But you got to keep putting one foot in front of the other Rihanna god bless you do good men look at women who swear slash curse differently than women who don't Yes Yes, good men do if the good man don't curse now It could be a good man and he curse if he curse he don't think nothing wrong with it Me personally, I don't curse and I'm tell you the reason why I thought cursing ugly And when I watch Malcolm X movie And the man told Malcolm X a man curses because he lacks the vocabulary to express what's on his mind when I heard that I said listen, I don't want to be no dummy. I don't want to sound like no dummy. I'm already country So I can be country and cussing So I stopped cussing And that won't occur and then I'll encourage now because it's profane It's profanity and when you live in a sacred righteous lifestyle, you don't want to be using profane language And so yes as me as a good man I don't mind a woman cursing because I'm married But when I was single I was looking for a woman who does not curse Because I wanted her to have a clean mouth Because I wanted to make sure that our children had a clean mouth and not be cursing out their kindergarten teacher Because their mama cussed like a sail Del v god bless your high tone and my boyfriend called me a bee He yells drinks a lot lies about his whereabouts likes female selfies on facebook We live together. How do I explain this to my landlord to get me out of our lease? Now your landlord might not kill especially right now in this situation where People don't have to pay their rent and they couldn't evict people But to be honest with you, there ain't nothing but a little bit of bad credit I got I got one of my clients. She fixed credit. So go ahead and leave If he put let your landlord know and then you have the credit repair specialist Just send a letter of hardship and they'll get that eviction taken off your credit within 30 to 60 Maybe 90 days it'll be gone. But that ain't gonna hurt you that ain't gonna hurt you Or you google a shelter not a shelter you google a foundation And that foundation when you go to get a new apartment that foundation can write a letter on your behalf saying She has this eviction or this whatever this, you know On her credit because she left And of using relationship and that foundation to let them know and I did that with my foundation before for a young man and um They approved him for the apartment even though he had a credit and the job and all that because I wrote on the letterhead as a company on his behalf So it's always a way don't don't let something like Something being on your credit keep you in a toxic situation to where what you just described you can lose your life You hit me you you can lose your life Um, what's the information for the credit person? Uh y'all email support at Tony gas and I got to make sure Make sure my paper weight paperwork straight will because now I'm trying to be an affiliate I can't be I just give a not just give a not be in the name Nine to get my affiliation got to get my affiliate marketing nine Okay Cut off communication with a guy I used to date But uh, but I'm gonna promote the um credit repair company because they actually just got some Hard inquiries off my credit and they just got some they got my student loans removed off my credit Like the whole account so it helped that debt to income ratio So it actually worked. I didn't believe it was gonna work, but it actually worked But I'm gonna interview her on the channel on a small business saturday I'm an interviewer so y'all can meet her and and y'all can hear her come up store because she's a millionaire now Doing credit repair and she used to be homeless And she left an abusing relationship where she almost lost her life at the hands of that man And now she a single mom and a millionaire with eight companies So i'm gonna interview on small business saturday so y'all can see how this could happen How it can work is You focus on the three v's and she wanted my client. She paid for coaching session All right, she come she came and got certified as a life coach in Atlanta you know, she invested in herself and It paid off It paid off in her life Stephen You cut off communication student with a guy I used to date He popped back into my life and asked for a second chance Is actively getting help for his Addictions told me he loves me now says he feels overwhelmed and wants space give him space And don't ever let him back in your space again See because you said some word when you say that a word you can't play with that That's one thing you can't go up against because the only thing that's really gonna help him get over that is jesus christ He go to all the n a he want to go to all the a a he want to if he don't know jesus christ And the power of the holy bible and the holy spirit. He's gonna be struggling with them with it For years to come you got to know the lord You need faith and so Be glad that he needs space Give him his space and let it be eternal space Meaning going about your business you going about your business. Don't ever let him come back when he want if he want to come back just auto reply with the The because see men like that they'll just keep coming and wasting your time before you know You'll be drained and you'll be walking past your husband every day Sonny league god bless you now was with him. He had nothing now. He's scamming and acts arrogant and cruel Doesn't even call anymore. I'm upset but focus on moving on What's the fastest way to get over it now? Do you want the scammer to call you sonny? Okay, you sound like you mad him you ought to be praising the lord now I know you want you a little bit of gooch and lured now I can see you one of the empty boxes that I got from a wife Just so you could sit in there and if you manifest it But you shouldn't want no scammer to call you you just want to have no connection with no scam Because when the boy come get them and trust me they come in to get them They're gonna be looking at his call law. They're gonna subpoena that call law. They who else he's scammed with Suddenly all right suddenly you going down because you was in the scam rain You said I mean you got to be happy. He gone the fast way to get over. All right. You better just step over it That's the fast way to get over. You just lift that leg up and get the going that man's scamming and to be honest We should see me personally. I'm a little petty I'll be on the Stephen Joe is Doing credit card friend fraud One two three main street just keep my anonymous I've seen the calls prime stoppers number and i'm just trying to help the community just get better Yeah, steven joe. Mm-hmm. One two three main street. Mm-hmm. He 36. Mm African American male. Mm-hmm. Yeah Just beyond just I don't think just singing nicest police out there because I don't want them to lose a like I know y'all like to shoot first and add question later And we just keep having all losing everybody. So just send the nice community. Oh y'all about to be defunded Okay, we'll send your community activists out there the top and just go on arrest and tell all right got to go Me personally that's like Oh, you arrogant I'm on that hotline I'll be right out there with the cost of six nine snitching I'm just playing don't do that But when when you see something like that, you got to get gone You got to move on about your life. You got to go and be happy lord. Thank you for revealing to me this man The true colors because guess what? You're not going to be upset when the boys in blue come knocking on his door Because as you can see for people of color, that's a dangerous situation to be in so That that's like lightning on strike. So you want to be as far from that as you can Far from it as you can just pray for his wisdom grace and mercy Tyjon God bless you now. Hi, Tony. I appreciate the work that God is doing in your life and your family. God bless you now God bless you Ruby L bless you now. You talked about this before but would love a video on why men date younger Besides the obvious found out an ex That's about 43 with a 27 year old could Hear you say he playing himself in my head lol Well, it might not be much outside of the obvious, you know, it's kind of like grown boys It's like, do you want a new pass shoes or old pass shoes? You know what I mean? It's like, do you want a new car or an old car? You know, so it's like the way grown boys look at women. They look at women As expendable they look at women like a vehicle. That's why they use the saying Oh, you got the test drive for you pay for it for you drive it off a lot so You hear me and say mileage. Oh, she got too many miles on her. She got too many miles on her. Ooh suddenly god bless you. So A 27 if if he 43 she 27 he looking at like, oh, she ain't got that many miles on 43 he like, oh, all right 43 what you what you a 1967 1977 be with Well, if I get this 27 year old what she is 1993 do I want a 1993 or do I want a 19? You see what I'm saying? So grown boy. That's how he's looking at it So he judging the women for for what he can get and he just wants something he think that is young Dumb he can raise her train her And have him a good old time because she young looking for a sugar daddy So yes, he is playing himself, but he's getting out of it what he want out of it. You see what I mean? She playing herself Bonnie god bless you. Hi, Tony. I'm so thankful for you slash your videos. Happy bday, miss gaskins I've been through a lot The last couple of years and have lost my motivation to pursue And be successful. What is a good starting point for getting back on track? You hear you hear Bonnie You in the right place you feel in your mind. You get new knowledge. You're working on yourself That's what you're doing. You know when you get new knowledge and you you hearing stuff You reading the books you doing the coaching do I do everything you could do is It's the obvious, you know, it's not You know, hey go in the kitchen pour you some apple cider vinegar with a little ginger root in there And some black tea and boil it and stir it then you want to sprinkle a little salt You see what I mean? It ain't no special potion potion for this is you got to Go and do the work Watch the video take the courses do the coaching You know do the zooms seminars, you know Read the books and the more you do that every time you do that you pulling out some old and putting some new in That's also you you you write what you need to be All right. Now I'm in the chat. Okay. I could see the question now. Can you do a video on dating a man? With a less than one year old Now y'all really want me to get in there now y'all really be want me to be in the nuances now. That's A video on that What kind of video on that now? What you want me to be? Hey y'all That's on again. Uh, can you do a video on a man who got nine and a half toes? and Three children and he live on the corner lot I'll be like listen Okay, so less than one year is old It's like is he ready for a relationship? What is his the movie of the baby mama drama looking like? You know what I mean? Do you want a subscription to that stars episode? Like y'all watching power. Do you want to deal with her power? Less than one years old. You see what I mean now and then if he's not in the child life That say something about him If him and her don't get along and her baby ain't even one That say something about him. You see what I mean? So you have to look at that like that and realize that That speak for itself Now every on the james tony you miss a question from wk Was it a paid question? Because if not if it was a paid question like somebody put a donation in there That should have popped up If it was in the chat I missed a whole lot of those how fast it's going So y'all let me see Since she's saying that um, maybe it was one of the colorful ones That pop up on the screen Or if it's day in the chat, I don't see it. Okay. Yeah, I ain't see this one w a Um Hi, tony x said that i'm perfect and that he is working on himself And he hopes to get back together. Why would he say that? uh, because he's lying Because if you were perfect, he wouldn't let you go and A man don't let a woman go and let a woman get away to work on himself He want to work on himself while he in the relationship so He just lying you can't you can't believe everything a man say How do you respectfully tell a man to heal from the pain and trauma his mother has caused? Just like that. Hey listen, you know, I've been wanting meaning to talk to you and I sense that it's a lot that you have gone through in your life You know, it's a lot of pain a lot of trauma and I really think that you need to heal from that and I want to help But I can't help in the in the way of being a punching bag or You know being it being taken out on me. I do want to help, you know There's a site called my mentor dot life and have a lot of great coaches on there and you can go on there and I will even Pay for the first session. You see what I'm saying just like that right there. It really ain't no You know submitting the permission slip redeem. God bless you now. God bless you Pretty flower a bless you right off the top of your dome Can these a's attentive assertive active go with the flow of The b The bc's you always encourage us to go by if so Can you touch on it? No, uh, now I see that's yours. Okay, don't get me because see sometimes a poem only makes sense to the to the poet so We all know what the words mean attentive assertive and active, but that's yours Now you negate that to me now I might slip up and say that And it might earn me a million dollars That might sell a million copies of a book You know I'm saying you got a you got a e-book called the three a's because he attentive You know that may mean something different to me than you I mean, yeah, it sounded like you need to be attentive to His behavior and what he's doing you need to be assertive let him know You know what you need, but I don't necessarily You know agree with being assertive in the sense of vocalizing everything you need versus just watching active Some people depend on where she come from Little booty 901 after might mean getting on your bike. You see what I mean? So it's gonna mean something different people. So you got to sit down and write out what that mean to you Now you got the three a's write it out Make it a download send it to all your friends and family Put it on your facebook. They can all download it and now that's your little e-book. You see what I mean So, you know, you can't no other Messenger and sometimes people asking that Tony what book you read I'm reading god. I'm reading the holy bible In my space. I only I don't read love and relationship books because I don't want to carry anybody else message I only want to carry the message that god gave me So I wouldn't want to carry your message because see what god gave you to carry that's too heavy for me You see what I mean? So let that you know, encourage you to go ahead and do something with it because if somebody don't help Oh, oh, you know what? Oh, that's good. Yeah. All right. All right, sister. Thank you That's gonna go in my book. Okay. Okay the three a so you shouldn't Say that not somebody's gonna put you in their book. It's so many people on here right now That's right in a book right now. All right three a's. Okay. Thank you, sister You know what I'm gonna do? I'm gonna just change the cert of Yeah, I'm gonna change the cert of two Acrobatics. All right. So this way she can't sue me So a listen now Okay, a god bless you Left husband divorce isn't final because he has moved on With a 22 year old and we are in our 30s with two children I tried to be amicable slash cordial, but he's the opposite um Yeah, he operating out of pain He operating out of pain. So what you gonna have to do? You gotta pull them gloves off Now it's time. I ain't talking about physical. I'm talking about in that courthouse All right. All right the worst thing to get pushed through. Okay. I want alimony. Okay. I want spouse support. Okay I want child support. Okay So now while he with his 22 year old they can't even afford to go out to dinner He's like, um, yeah, do you think you'll be able to cover us tonight because Child support just hit my account yesterday and and spouse support coming out tomorrow So everything you could get. Okay. You want to play like that? All right. I tried to be nice tried to be cordial All right, martina. God bless you now Redeem god bless you now. You got to pour pour them gloves off Lola bless you now lola again her whole coat of satin nine for 15. Oh Lola say come on now. Let me give me one more question here Can you please make a grown boy university video on why men try to trap women with Apparently ulterior motives. I left this comment on one of your vids got over 100 likes Okay, did not see that one did not see that one and to be honest with you You the reason why it's not really a good question because a man can't trap a woman with that Because a woman have to lie down and get on her bike And when you get on your bike with your lead open you trapping yourself So he just doing what you allowing him to do And he don't know what's gonna come of it because they say it's really about 24 hours out the month that a woman can even Can see so It's really you trapping yourself so it's not the because see men not even really all that seductive and Sassy It's like as a woman you look at a man. You're like, oh, he all right, you know, he all right. Yeah, okay. Yeah, you want something Okay, here you go But women actually beautiful and attractive and men be drooling all out their mouth You rarely see a woman drooling out her mouth over a man So the woman has the power right there Now the reason why a man is doing that a grown boy The reason why he's doing that is because he may see you are a good catch, but he's not ready to catch you Phone I can uh You two trying to Could be the internet in here. Y'all forgive me think it's back now could be the internet Maria god, there's thank you for all you do coach say this often forever indebted Okay, I don't know that pop back up Maria But I already Saw that one. I don't know why that came back around and we don't know if you had the goal or you didn't see it But I so appreciate you but what I was saying. Thank you for that blessing And you ain't got the word about trying to find a way to send more blessings Um tracer god bless you my bff just lost her 23 year old son She's grieving her boyfriend of 20 half years says he's going to marry her next year. I'm nervous Think trying to get policy money. Also, his sister is jealous and he doesn't check her any advice um Tracer you got to really sit down and talk to her and if you feel like you can't get through tour Then y'all got to sit down with a mediator with a coach You know or somebody that you feel like can speak to the situation as a third party that she made here But in a situation like that you got to put all your ducks in a row and you got to lay out your whole argument And you got to come from a place of love And and if you are bitter if you've been negative if you mad with your old man or x-man Anything anything going on in your life that she know about That's toxic you got to heal from that you got you can't show that for about three weeks Two or three weeks before bringing this to her Because a woman is not going to listen to you to your advice about her Dangling If you not completely happy in your life, she's gonna say oh you better You better you broken now you trying to tell me about my man Because you want me to be like you you see what I mean? That's what women be telling themselves and they don't take They girlfriend information or advice seriously Even when it's right, so understand that lia lopet god bless you God bless you But that blessing Marcia bless you took your advice to talk to a life coach to try and get out of the Situation ship of five years still hard to let go what to do you just gonna have to do it You know, nobody gonna do it for you. Nobody can do it for you You can talk keep talking to coaches or different coaches, but ultimately the decision is yours You know a coach can't make you do it a coach can kind of help bring some clarity But five years letting go five years or anything letting go five years of a job letting go five years You know spent with a car letting go five years or anything is going to be hard So you got to just do it and expect the pain expect the tears expect the soul time But you got to go Hey y'all I ain't got much longer here. I got a few men and you two keep trying to cut my off Anyway, they're like listen man about on debate on and you on here competing with debate I ain't no debate with the night Something I ain't I don't I want to be on social media like that I come and do my work on social media And I don't really be strolling all the time. So I ain't know the debate So make sure y'all get y'all voters. I got my mail in ballot Because I can't go in there and get coughed on but Got my mail in ballot and um, so make sure y'all go on vote Get out get out to the poll Now me person and I'm gonna tell y'all me person at this point You really got to vote for the person the person that's in vibe with your spirit You know, because me when I see somebody racing And they're racing they be saying stuff against masking They trying to build a wall against the people who build in the country And then they talk to black people. What do you got to lose? Tell black people what you got to lose And then I saw black person up the eigen up in in uh, the man The president and his uh rally and he told my well, I wish this was the old days where we just could Put a good old licking on I'm like, wow So bro, you trying to say you wish that we was still under Jim Crow Oh new You can't get my vote, bro So really people try to vote policy and all that but you got to understand this system bigger than one person You get enough it it was devout christians who Voted for barack obama And a lot of these devout christians said they were against same-set marriage And it was barack who Brought it into law who legalized it So the people who was against it who voted for him thinking Oh, you a christian you see it the way I see it They was like, oh wow brah You didn't put this now some people was like, hey, okay. I get it It's bigger than him. He got to do what they tell him to do And everybody get a choice But it was people who literally voted based on thinking often to have this black christian man out of chicago in office And he went to approving stuff and all of that I'm like, well, bro. I ain't have to have life insurance Nah, you don't put old mama care here. Nah, I got to have a life insurance And and I don't want to be paying $12,000 a year and I don't even go to the doctor And because I'm an entrepreneur and then when I file my taxes if I ain't have life insurance They find him in $3,500 Like what in the world bro, what in the world going on? Now come on, I'm gonna put you in there because thinking you're a brother and now you get me fine $3,500 You see what I'm saying? So you got to vote for who your spirit because what they say they're gonna do They finna do whatever they want to do when they get in there. You got to vote for who god say This who you supposed to vote for you know what I'm telling you because listen I listened to this book one time this man say do you really think The powers that be the people that got all the money in the world finna let people that they see as imbeciles Decide the fate of the world I said wow Basically what he was saying do you think the people that hold 99% of the wealth of the world finna let you A everyday american Use your democracy to decide the fate of the world y'all don't forget one of my life just went out He said no I said wow That that the man got executed the man. I'm talking about they came to the house got in a shootout with him kill Because he He gave out the whole game. So it's like that's why you see people Like myself. I don't really touch on that stuff because see what y'all don't realize Until you get a platform The way you talking to millions you don't understand how dangerous it is A lot of people say oh tell people to vote. Oh, tell people to do this. Listen. Listen. I'm not I'm not finna be putting my family in harm's way and I'm finna have them auditing me all day Pull his audit pull it out of it. So listen, you got to do What the lord tell you to do you hit me because I'm doing what the lord told me to do So don't try to drag me and no political stuff and all that like the lady telling me tell me people that you vote Don't talk to me and nothing because Who's gonna be there for my family when they come out to me? So at the time that I go all the way out, I got to be ready to be done Because when you look at everybody who look like this Who go to talking that real that got to do with politics You see where they end up So I ain't ready to go yet because my son my youngest son six my other one 13 my wife need me So listen, you don't just when y'all sitting out here and you see people to platform Don't always just throw stuff on people. Oh, you need to be saying this You need to be saying that because you don't know what that's gonna bring to that person And when that person Taking up out of here, then what you're gonna do You are not finna pay for their family to live the rest of their life When you help push that person Off the off the ledge trying to talk about talk in a world that don't want to hear the truth You see I'm saying so you got to know What you asking about and you got to understand Why certain people say what they say and why certain people don't say what they say Because see for me because I'm not a comedian because I'm not a radio host when I speak The powers that be they're gonna take me serious They're not gonna look at me like oh, he just talking They ain't gonna look at me like they look at the radio host that plays secular music all all day So I got to wait to when God say, okay, it's time. I got you It's time. Go ahead. I'm 36 years old. Come on now. Yeah, and did they in a a Trace God bless you now. So treasure answer that question. Hey, I got to go. I went over time So I'm glad some of y'all get it But some some people just you know, don't know what come with all that stuff when you go to talk and all about all that right there Some people don't know what come with it and and and just the the the persecution and attack on your life and What they start doing But but when you when you build your brand and you you talk in the millions you realize Hey, God bless y'all. I appreciate you. I might try to hop back on here again later this week. Lord willing I'll be about to get on here. Then I'll be feeling like, you know, how I used to feel about the job I'll be like, man, I'm calling out. I ain't I don't feel like going to work today And that's how I be feeling because this right here is it is very draining if you can imagine sitting here reading 1000 questions And then somebody hollering at you. Oh, you missed mine Oh, you missed this one Like, uh, I'm looking at 2000 questions So it's right here. It's so draining. I can't even put it in the words But when you get over here and you start doing it, you're gonna be like I should have never judged Tony I should never even judge them. And so, you know, why that's why I stopped judging people Because every person that I judge When I got to their position I realized why they did what they did I remember, uh, NFL player came to me and say, Tony My teammate won't need relationship coaching for his marriage Can you reach Dr. Gary Chapman? Dr. Gary Chapman wrote the Fire Love languages When I reached out to Dr. Gary Chapman team They told me Dr. Gary Chapman does not do one-on-one sessions. I say, what if We pay $10,000 for our session He they say Dr. Gary Chapman does not do one-on-one sessions I judged that man and I said, I never do that. I never get so big Because he done sold 50 million books now He don't want to even be accessible to the people even high profile celebrity Who will pay $10,000 to talk to him to say that relationship Man, I say relationship for free You know, I judge that man Nah Listen 2021 I might retire from one-on-one coaching I might retire from one-on-one coaching and one-on-one coaching earns me 10 to $15,000 a month Now you might say ain't no way in the world. I will walk away from 10 to $15,000 a month But listen Money came by certain things money came by peace of mind Money came by And so y'all a lot of times y'all look at what what I do over here and you think it's easy You think it's gravy But you don't know what it feel like to be dealing with everybody and their mama spirits Because see I could read a comment and it could disrupt my entire day It could disrupt my energy with my wife with my sons Because it's a satanic person that was sent by the devil That don't even because words have power. So when I read that it's it goes directly to my mind And so you got to understand that it is the last question No more question now no more questions y'all just coming on here late now the bus and already left you to miss the train No more question now Answer the last question now a guy wanted to get to know said he wanted to see me But never got back to me with a time was I being tested or he really doesn't like me like that? He take him he take him That's all of y'all that keep going says Um Hey, t vid cut off when you were answering my question about men traffic women. Okay. Lola. Sorry about that Lola say I'm finna come get my question. You tired. I don't care. Y'all right You finna answer my question. I don't care about you being tired. Mr. Gaston you'd have been on here I'll 97 minutes you finna get this question in y'all see what I'm gonna be talking about Oh, listen, you finna get the question Lola say I matter All right, my life matters so listen what I was saying on that Lola is I don't really speak on a man trapping a woman with that right with pregnancy because That is a personal choice for a woman to get on her bike So when you get on your bike and you open your legs you trapping yourself If you allowing a man to sleep with you and you allowing a man to sleep with you unprotected You're going half on that baby. You see what I'm saying? That's totally different if he physically Trap you now he finna get put under the jail But if you get on your bike you and you let him All right without protect you saying I want to be happy you see what I'm saying So I really don't speak on things that deal so much with personal responsibility Because we really can't blame somebody else for doing what we allow them to do But the reason why men do that is because some men feel like you worthy enough And they want to keep you in their life forever But they don't want you they don't want all of you They just want a piece of you so if he can get you pregnant Then that means he can keep you in your in his life Meaning you always got to deal with his energy It means that you trap it means that any other man won't ever fully have you to himself Even if he loves you and that child he still won't You know See you all the way as he is because you then brought another man child into the world And so that's why men do that so that it kind of is like a doll peeing On territory. That's why grown boys try to do that you know Me and my wife I wanted that to happen, but we made a decision and she made a decision She said I want that too. You see what I mean? So it's like that's why it happened I joked about it on the breakfast club And somebody tried to make it some serious to where if I really did that I would not be saying that out loud I say hey, I trapped with that baby. I say hey, I'm gonna get you pregnant But if a person don't know you they don't know your sense of humor. So somebody say oh y'all miss where he said he trapped her It's like obviously if I said that out loud, it wasn't something that was malicious and obviously Roe v. Wade If she could have went if she didn't fully want that But that was a choice we made and so that's how I see it with a lot of these situations Is as a woman Now did somebody not okay? Sister must have just got on here and then he'll no more question We said no more question. All right, and then Sierra come on here. Oh, I can get this question in Told bestie. I want god to have favor over my life Don't want to live in sin any longer. She says well, what about the other sins thought? um She right, but you get all the sins out your life You know what sins you got in your life You get all the sins out your life, you know You need to Bob say Jesus say be perfect as my father heaven is perfect. So when you sin, they need to be accident like if you covet Jealousy it need to be accident It need to be Okay, lord, forgive me. I ain't mean to lust after that man I thought I saw a print in them grace sweatpants caught me off. Oh lord, forgive me I ain't I ain't mean to look again. Lord forgive me again You said I mean it need to be an accident To where it ain't just you just getting on your bike. Boom. You just going to work stealing You just getting on tax fraud. You just getting on credit card scam You just you just sinning just blatantly it need to be Accident you stumble upon the sin the man walking past you you got the gray sweatpants on and you just You ain't mean to look And so understand that right there. You get that sin out your life Hey, god bless y'all. Let me see some here But a nine I want to thank y'all because how y'all be blessing me This year probably last month. I got my new phone got this iPhone 11 And did not a butt want to come out of iPhone 12 I say, well, listen, I took all this time raising the money to get my iPhone 11 And now y'all gonna come out with a 12 So, oh lord I'm getting ready to hang up And then here she come You miss my question see see And then she gonna put the sad face with it Not did there was a question like that in the blue if it was in the chat Then I'm gonna miss it. But see Where you did that right there? You could have put your question there You missed my question sad face. You could have typed your question right there. I see that that popped up See y'all got the house a home training nine I'm gonna have to start a school for y'all home training y'all nine Teresa Santos. God bless you So now if you're questioning blue, I mean in a color I could scroll through and see it But if it's just in the chat It's a million messages in the chat. So I came and everything looked the same I got the little to read every name. So y'all understand that God bless you blaming on my uh, my head not my heart God bless you. I got to go. I don't stay it on here 12 minutes to