 What's going on you guys welcome to the single-guy channel my name is Lloyd so today We're gonna be talking about a subject that's come up quite a few times when people have asked me questions But this guy's question in particular I'm gonna highlight and he asked me Lloyd. I have a problem with you know, but the girls that I'm meeting He says he loves the channel. He says he loves everything. Okay great So whenever I go out, I can usually get a girl that's into me I can usually get her to hang out with me for a while But whenever I actually go for the number or something like that. They almost always have a boyfriend Why is this? Why do I keep attracting women with boyfriends? I want to grow that single I feel like this is the only problem I need to fix and I'll be good. Okay, cool. Well, that's what this guy says Now I'm actually gonna challenge a few parts of the question that he asked because What's actually happening here and I have a lot of students who have this issue I had this issue for a time when I was a lot younger It's it's more symptomatic of a larger problem And if you don't fix this problem You're never gonna be able to get the girls that you want or find a single girl that's into you You know, maybe you'll get lucky, but probably not probably not. Okay, so I'm gonna talk about in this video Why girls with boyfriends for certain guys who especially if they're not having success with women They seem to always encounter women with boyfriends. They can only get a girl who's got a boyfriend Okay, and then I'm gonna be telling you what you can do to solve this problem and actually a girls who are single, okay? 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She's probably got a man She's acting way more confidently and assertively than Typically single girls would not a single girl can it can act like this Okay, but usually if I see a girl acting like this I come to find out that she's got a boyfriend somewhere on the long line And for that reason because she doesn't feel like she needs a man or that sort of stuff She doesn't have that maybe she has that security behind her. She's starting to do those sorts of things So a guy who is in that position where he's talking to this girl and she's inviting him to do a bunch of stuff She's kind of leading leading things He feels like this girl is into her it's our into him because she's just spending a lot of time with him And she's talking with him She's enjoying the conversation and typically women with boyfriends will do this all the time They enjoy just talking with people just to talk with people now If I meet a girl who's kind of nervous who's not really contributing as much to the conversation Sometimes things get a little awkward. I'm like that girl is single. Okay? She's gonna be a little bit more nervous. She's gonna be a little bit. It's gonna feel a little bit clunkier Okay, because she cares about the outcome. She cares about the outcome a lot more than a girl who's in a relationship would So if you're getting these girls that are you're following them around a lot You're you know, you're they're inviting you to do stuff and you're doing it and you think they're really into you I'm afraid they might be into you, but not in the way that you want Okay, they might be looking at you as a friend or just some cool person to hang out with Typically if the girl likes you she's gonna want to follow you Okay, so you have to lead and if you're always following other women, maybe they're more assertive than you Maybe they are inviting you out to different stuff. I find that a lot of guys who are struggling who are in scarcity They are more Susceptible to these kinds of women who won't who aren't really romantically interested in them But they are spending time with them and for these guys who are in this position Spending time with them is better than what they're getting So my recommendation to you is if you are in this position where you feel like the only girls that you're talking to you They're spending time with you have boyfriends What you need to do is you need to start leading and getting girls to follow you a girl as a boyfriend It's not gonna follow you. She's gonna want to get you to do what she wants to do because she's treating you as a friend But if you get a girl who's following you around who's doing what you want to do Who's on board for that sort of stuff that girl likes you and that girl's probably single I almost I almost never get a girl with a boyfriend anymore Are you I can usually sniff it out pretty quickly, but I rarely it really happens to me And the reason why it really happens to me is because I don't understand this process And that's what I'm going for like I'm doing stuff that I want to do having fun the way that I want to have fun And I'm inviting people bring them into the party and the girls that stick around other girls that want to get with me So I would invite you to have this strategy more as opposed to following other girls around because that shit You know usually never works, okay, and it's gonna end up being a lot of it's gonna be gonna end up being Frustrating for you man. No one wants to live like that Okay, cool. Well, that's my advice for you man guys If you may didn't consider subscribing I come out with videos like this every single week If you're interested in my weekly mentorship program and get coached by me personally fill out the form down below click on the link and We'll get back to you