 Another thing I want to mention, the mistake I've made as a communicator is what I would call wearing Saul's armor. You guys that are from a church background and read Bible would understand that metaphor when David was when Saul's trying to persuade David to put on his military armor to fight Goliath. Because David wasn't a soldier, had no weaponry, had no armory, wasn't trained to fight in the way that Goliath was. So I'm going to give him my armor. And what it's become a metaphor for us all for is don't take on someone else's way of doing a thing, stick to your way of doing a thing. Now don't mean we can't be advised and get wisdom from people. But fundamentally you'll come to a point in your communication where you know who you are. You are comfortable in your own skin. You do not need help from anyone with regard to how to do it, how to communicate well, how to connect with people. You are so masterful in your craft you'll get to this stage where none of that stuff needs to be dealt with anymore. You're still making tweaks on other things but not to the point of completely changing the way you do what you do, which is the armor scenario. And what I mean by that is for me it was like people would say to me speak on this topic and I don't like that topic and I can't get interested in that topic. It's forcing me into their armor or people would say to me don't talk about this or people would say to me you've got 15 minutes and talk about this and I'm thinking I can't say that in 15 minutes. So it's this imposition, this sense of constriction on me to try and do it their way, their style, in their timing, with the language they want me to say it with, saying it to, they want me to say it to, don't mention this, don't mention that and stand here, stand there, use this microphone, use this media, all this stuff that can just completely shut down your flow. And what I've learned over the years is to say well thank you for that request, I'll think about it but I don't think I'll be doing that and if that governs the invite or not then I won't be there. It's to the point where you have to say no to some people who only want you if you'll wear their armor and I have decided for years now to not do that and I've done it in the past and every time I have done it I have felt awkward, I felt vulnerable, I felt inauthentic because I took on someone else's idea of how to say a thing well. So stick to your sling and your stones even though it looks the worst strategy to have, the worst way to approach what you're approaching. Yeah, don't let him put Saul's armor on you guys, I'm going to say more about that another way around in another mistake that I've made so I'll come to that soon.