 Hello everyone, welcome to another Narc Survivor Live video just how you're by the sea as you can see Just enjoying this view of the bridge. So yeah, let's get into it The narcissist greatly fears That you will realize this When all is said and done after everything They try to do to manipulate and control you To put you under their spell They greatly fear that you will realize this because everything They've been doing there is a reason for it It wasn't done without any purpose There's a reason why they did all of that There's a reason why they manipulated and controlled you. There's reason why they insulted you and put you down Why they coerced you Why they treated you with contempt like you were worthless But if they're consideration There's a reason why they treat you that way and Of course, they want you to think that something Is wrong with you as though You can't do things right You mess things up and that's why they treat you that way Because you're bad because you're wrong and They establish that authority over you They maintain their superiority as though there's so much better than you in every way and They have to criticize you They have to tell you what's right and what's wrong About your behavior But then you can't question look front them Because they're your superior They're the authority Now they put themselves in and this authoritative position But you can't fight them But you can't fight back Yeah, as I said, there's a reason Why they do that There's a reason why They treat you that way When a narcissist comes across A powerful person There's one thing they have to do Every time They have to do it they have to Immediately find a way to put you beneath them To make you feel small To make you feel like you were less than them That's what they immediately have to do When they come across a powerful person And the reason why they have to do that is because if they don't You're going to be looking at them and realizing how They're not bringing anything to the table They're not doing anything for you And in actuality, they are actually a liability in your life They're a hindrance They're making your life difficult But they don't want you to see that They don't want you to know that So They have to point the finger at you They have to keep you looking at yourself Making you think that You're not enough What you're doing for them isn't enough or something is wrong with it Or something is wrong with you They have to twist it Keep you looking at yourself Making you think that something is wrong with you That's what they have to do when they come across A powerful person But from the moment they did that From the moment they devalued you You're looking at yourself and thinking What is wrong with me What have I done to them How can I fix it How can I be better And it keeps you running endlessly On this hamster wheel that they've created for you And it just never ends But yeah, they greatly fear that you will realise this That you will wake up to the truth That you will realise that They're not even doing anything for you They're not improving your life They're actually making your life worse But of course at some point You do come to this realisation You begin to realise that You're doing all of the stuff for them And you're getting back nothing in return A relationship should be a mutual exchange There should be reciprocation But they're giving you the bare minimum or nothing But you're giving everything you have to them When you do realise this There's only one thing that they can really do They may try to love bomb you initially But that doesn't work They have to cut you off They have to ghost you They have to discourage you They have to get rid of you Because at that point You've caught on to the gang You've figured them out Do you know what they're about And the narcissist cannot exist around someone like that Someone who knows who they are And what they're about Yeah, that's when they disappear And it may often leave you In this pit of misery That they've created for you You're just looking at yourself and wondering why What did I do? Maybe I deserved this treatment Maybe it's my fault that they left Begin to blame yourself You think something's wrong with you When you did so much for them You may have done more for them Than anyone has ever done for them in their lives But they never told you that They never gave you credit But yeah, that's why I wanted to create this video To tell you that You've done more than enough for the narcissist And if they don't appreciate that That's on them And it's their loss If you bring those same qualities That you have to someone else Someone who can really appreciate them Things will begin to make more sense Remember just because Someone does not appreciate you That does not mean That you are not worthy Of appreciation Remember that Just because someone fails to do For you That does not mean that something is wrong with you Although you are not good enough So please don't ever think that Anyway, that's all I've got to say For this video For this message today And I do hope that It was helpful for you If it was, please give it a thumbs up Down below Helps to support our community Keep us growing Please share this video as well Hit that subscribe button to receive the notifications For my future videos And you can book a One-on-one coaching session with me as well For my website It's Narcseviver.co.uk And Check out my Instagram as well I've been uploading a lot of Pictures and videos of my recent travels So Head over there and check that out It's Narcseviver YouTube on Instagram Hope to see you there Again, thank you all for joining me And I hope you all have a great day