 Well, let me talk to you about what I call fan clubs and fight clubs. Fan clubs, fan clubs and fight clubs both meet in the same places is the thought I want to share with you. And this idea came to me because I was recently speaking at a venue that was a public community, you know, public hall venue that was used by the community for lots of things. And I was reading whilst I was there prior to me speaking at an event. I was reading on the pinboard all the advertising that the various groups that rented the property were advertising on. And the range of people from the community that were renting the facility was huge. And it literally had a fan club that met there. It was a fan club of a pop star or a pop group and their fan club met there. And then it also literally had a fight club that met there. Two different times of the week, two different groups, nothing to do with each other, nothing in common. The people at these events not gathering there for the same reason, the same interests, the same walk and passion and mindsets of life at all. All that they had in common, all of this range of people renting the community centre, the flower arranging club, the automobile interest classic car club, the bingo club, the mechanics club, the dance class, the aerobics class, the pilates class, the various lectures that were going on, my event, the public speaking event that I was doing, my growing big people event and so on and so on. What I realised was that the common denominator wasn't that we all knew each other or we all even live in that area or we are a community. The common denominator was the venue. And it occurred to me that metaphorically in all of our lives we host a range of ideas, interests, motives, ways of thinking, value systems, outlooks on life, belief systems and everything from fan clubs to fight clubs are equally inside our makeup as people and yet none of them should define us. The community centre wasn't a fan club because one met there one night a week. It wasn't a fight club because the fight club met there one night a week. It was not a bingo club. It was not a dance class because they were just users of the venue, renters of the venue. And I want to say to you that I think in life sometimes we allow what's happening inside us to define us and we become it. We get over identified because we feel that that is dominant in us at the moment. We feel we are more fight club than fan club. We feel we are a worse than a better person. We feel that this thing in our lives is not good about us so we over define ourselves by a season of failure or a season of mistake in our lives and we let that define us but at the same time you know that time next week something else is happening inside if you like the community centre of your life that would be honourable and respectable and is interesting and exciting and you're glad to be hosting it as it were. Don't let any renter, any renter if you like, of your internal space define your identity. Don't let it put signage on the front of the venue. The fight club couldn't put a sign up on the front of the community centre calling it a fight club because they only use it one night a week and that venue may change and they move on to some of the venue. No more than the dance class could put dance class signage on the front of the building because it didn't belong to them, they rented it. Don't allow what is going on inside you to put signage on the front of your life telling everybody this is who you are because it's not and I think every human, I know every human, we all have this range of good and bad and ugly inside us. We have everything from fan club to fight club, we have everything from our best days to our worst days. Don't let any of them decide this is who you are and don't let any of them put signage up claiming you as their property or claiming ownership of your venue if you like and just keep growing. Just keep learning, just keep thriving, keep experimenting, keep kicking out bad tenants because you don't want to be associated with perhaps that kind of rental until you eventually have the luxury of only working with a clientele that you choose. Until eventually you grow your life to a place where you are only hosting great stuff, the better best version of you. It doesn't mean you'll ever be without some mixture of weakness but you move towards only having a clientele if you like only having renters if you like taking space inside the community center of your life and your soul that you are proud to have as clients, proud to have as users. So it occurred to me when I was just looking at that board and all the range of people renting that property and advertising their product, advertising their class, their interest group, it struck me that this community center was a metaphor for every human being's life. Fan club or fight club, you're not either of them, you are both of them simultaneously at the same time. It's all good, don't let either of them define you, just keep growing until you finish it realizing, yeah, I think I am much more this than that. But I think I had to go through that stage, I had to put up with that renter if you like for a while. I'm glad I didn't decide to make that the defining user of my life, of my community center if you like. Hope you follow that metaphor, that analogy, trying to say it to you as best I can because I know I've had such a range of things inside my life at different times just like the community center was. Community center had none of these users, none of these renters are permanent residents that can claim to be who you are. They're just temporary users until you figure out how do we get to a more exclusive clientele that I'd like to have taken up more space inside me. Fan clubs and fight clubs.