Hey, if you are looking for the right advice that will set you in the right direction to fixing your relationship problems and saving your marriage, there is lots of good information in the video above. Listen to all of the tips in the video - they are very important and not all of them come naturally or are obvious to everybody.
I mention the site at the link above for professional marriage counseling advice... it is a very good place to learn more about action you can take now to get your relationship back to where you want it to be. I have a vested interest in the site above, by the way, and a lot of the info there is excellent.
What you need to get your relationship under your control is the right advice that will show you what specific actions to take and how to fix a relationship under stress, and then you must actually TAKE ACTION on that advice and make an adjustment in yourself for the better.
Remember, you were both in love once, and life's pressures have changed the both of you, but you can learn the right relationship SKILLS to fix your relationship without losing your pride. So get as much help as you can and learn as much as you can to have the best chance of keeping your relationship together. Good luck!