 There is no confusion about identity when the tuning in is to the soul because you don't listen to the ego and its confusions. You're very clear about what this is and you're in surrender to that, to the soul and you act as its instrument. In the absence of that knowledge or that attempt to tune into the soul at all and with God absent there is only rebellion against that confusion and the adopting of that confusion in every aspect of that person, that young person because that's where it's all happening actually.