 Welcome everyone to my new apartment. Just moved in here yesterday. Big place. Three bedrooms, three bathrooms and this bed is really comfortable. Glad I found the comfortable place to stay. Just been making a video. Lots of new videos coming soon. I may have to do a video out on the balcony as well. Got three big balconies here and a pool area and a gym. So lots of space to make some videos and also for when Nala arrives as well. Shouldn't be too long. This is my little office. Outside we've got the jungle there. Sit in my office chair. Right we've got 25 people in here now. I think it's time to begin. In this one we're going to be talking about when narcissists flaunt their new source. Their new supply. Because you are once their supply you supply them with your attention. Your validation. Your admiration. Maybe you give them money. Maybe you give them a place to stay. You provided them with something. They enjoyed that. At some point they have to get rid of you and find someone else. They find a new supply. And of course it isn't long until they begin to flaunt this new supply in your face. Copy in person. Copy on Facebook. Copy on the gram. But in some way they find a way to flaunt this new source to you. It's actually kind of funny the way they do this because most often they're not even in a relationship with this person. It's not official. They don't have any duties or responsibilities. There's nothing they're accountable for. It's just for their image. It's just to make them look good. And this new source is not doing a fraction of what you were doing. They're not anything special. They're not on top of their game. They're not really about anything. But of course narcissists as we know they are very arrogant. They are delusional. So they will flaunt this new source. They will put pictures out there for you to see. But I know it's funny a lot of you when you see it. You're thinking of it like you could have just hidden that from me. There was no reason for you to show that because it's not even affecting me. But yeah they're doing it to get a reaction out of you. They're doing it to get your attention. They're trying to make you think that they are with someone else and now they are happy. It's all an image. It's perception management. It's an orchestration. Because they know how to plan and coordinate the elements of a situation to produce the desired effect to make you react. They depend on this image. All they care about is how people see them. And that is also the reason why you won't see too many posts. You won't see too many pictures of the new source. Because they ain't all that. They're just very arrogant. They have a high opinion of themselves. They think they're a lot greater than what they actually are. So they don't want you to see too much. Because if they played it like that then they would be putting themselves in possession for you to be laughing at them. You would be laughing at them. Because what you don't know is that they picked this person out of desperation. They were desperate. They felt like they were in a hopeless situation that was impossible for them to deal with. So they had to pick someone because they were willing to do anything. In that moment they were willing to do anything because they were so desperate and hopeless. And they felt like they had no other choice. So they had to get someone. And that is why eventually they get tired of them. They get bored and they're not going to be around them. And then they come up with this false narrative, this story, as though there was something wrong with the new source. There was some reason and some excuse why they had to leave them and then come back to you. But as you should know by now it's all bullshit. They were trying to make you jealous. But it didn't work. They didn't make you jealous because you didn't react. But here's the thing. You have to be really strong, really powerful and confident. If you want to go and flaunt someone in a person's face, if you want to make them jealous, if you want to make them feel bad about themselves, you have got to come strong. You can't come acting foolish. You can't come with bullshit. If this person is meant to hurt you, if they're meant to make you feel a certain way, they're meant to affect you. You can't come like that. You've got to come strong. And this new person they don't even know what they get themselves into. They don't know what they're dealing with. They don't know who the narcissist really is or what they're really about. This is just a distraction. It's something they use in for a short time because they already know this new person ain't about anything. It's just something they use in to hurt you. That's it's only purpose. That's what it's used for. It's not something they're taking seriously. And that's why they're putting it out there to you. But you're not going to see too much. You're not going to hear too much about it because this new person is not on your level. So they will keep them quiet. They do not want them to start talking. That is the last thing they want them to do because they do not want you to hear that. Because then that would make them look bad. And they don't want to look bad. They want to look good. But even the things that you do see whether it's on Twitter. It's on the gram. It's on Facebook. It may even be on TikTok. These things that you do see it's not even official. The narcissist doesn't have any duties responsibilities. They're not accountable for anything. It's just something they use in to make you react really quick. So that they can live in this moment of satisfaction where they can feel like they've won. They've got one over on you. But of course it's only a matter of time until they come back with these excuses. And they make you feel like now you've won. You've won them back. You beat out this other person where really it's all just the game. They put these pictures up for you to see but it's all fake. Just have a good look at those pictures closely. Their smiles are so forced. They're pretending to be happy. But it's exaggerated. It's not real. They are putting on a show for you. You are their audience and they're bragging about all of their stuff. But I promise you if you could be a fly on the wall, if you could see what is really going on, you would be laughing at them because it really is a joke. But of course they will use this to come back to you. Especially if you don't care. Especially if you're not reacting to it. Especially if you're not worried about them. They've got to act like they've got something without you. But it's not real. It's not official and with time you will see that. Anything they have they will destroy it because they're always making the wrong decisions. They have very poor judgment. They don't make the right decisions. So it's not going to be long until you see that. Just give it some time but until that time you will see the illusion a lot of manipulation because they are masters of managing your perception. They put this image in front of you and then they make you chase after it because you believe that it's real but they're standing off somewhere looking like a homeless person. They're depressed. They're miserable but they don't want you to see that because if you saw that you'd be laughing at them. You would be laughing because it's a false character. It's a false persona. It is a false identity which they are using to deceive you. To make you feel like you're missing out. To make you feel like you've lost something but you ain't lost nothing. You ain't missing out on anything. It's all an illusion which they are trying to create for you. To keep you under their spell. To make you feel like you're missing out. You've lost something and then they can feel better because you feel like that. Well they've moved on. They're happy without you but they can only get you in the moment. That's the only way they can trick you for a short period of time because they are never happy. How can they be happy when they're always in someone else's business. They're always looking at what someone else is doing. What the next person has got. They haven't got any time to think about their own happiness. They are never happy but they don't want you to know that. They don't need to see it so they will try and make things look good. They've got to try and act like they're happy but that is not what is really going on. They are miserable. They are depressed. They are constantly making mistakes that they regret and they are constantly bragging and boasting about things that they cannot bring into reality because whatever they are trying to make you think that they are doing it is actually the exact opposite. You may feel like you've lost something but the only thing that you have lost is the problem because they were a problem in your life. You didn't miss out on anything and they are not doing better without you. They haven't changed anything about themselves. The only thing that they have changed is the scheme. Their manipulation because now they're dealing with someone else so they have to make slight adjustments to their manipulation but that is the one thing that they are going to change. They're not going to change anything about themselves. They're not going to become a magnificent wonderful person. There's no hidden side of their personality that you haven't seen. What they had to give is what you got. That was it. That's all there is. And all they're going to do with this next person is make these slight adjustments to what that person likes to what that person is interested in. So from the outside it may look a little bit different to what you had with them. And of course it's going to look better in the beginning but have a look again in a few months maybe in one year and see if they are still together. Some of them may still be together but that's only because the new person does not know what they're getting themselves into. They don't know who they're actually dealing with. They don't know that it's a narcissist but just give it some more time and eventually it will fall apart just like it did with you. They cannot sustain anything especially a relationship because remember it's all about them. They only care about themselves. They don't care about anyone else just as they never cared about you. And how can you build anything with that mentality? You can't. So just give it some time and you will see. You will see the results. It's inevitable but many of you you want to believe that they changed. You want to believe that it's something better. Really it's not. What you got from them was exactly what they had to give. Like I said before whatever their name is maybe your narcissist name was Richard. Tell yourself I had the Richard experience. I experienced what Richard had to offer me and that is it. That's all there is. There is nothing else. They don't magically change overnight into this incredible person. That doesn't happen in reality only in fantasy. So yeah it's fake. It's an illusion. All right that's it for today. I enjoyed sitting down my office chair. My little office with the view of the jungle there. Palm trees. Up in the door you can hear the birds singing. Now I'm going to go out and get something to eat and maybe I will do another video later because I am planning on going to the gym. I haven't done a gym video for a while but yeah that's it for now. Thank you all for watching. Please give the video a thumbs up if it was helpful and I will talk to you in another one very soon.