 Okay guys, that's all I've got for that. Hope you enjoyed it. Questions. Awesome. Great stuff. Who has got questions for Brent Smith? All right, here we have, What if a woman forgets who you are between the approach and the date? Really? Then you haven't done a very good job of making yourself, making an imprint on her. If she forgets, like, how would I know she forgot? Because you're going to text her and say, hey, it's so-and-so from the other night and she'll go, who's this? Is that what you're saying? Or what are you saying? Exactly. Because you're not texting her. You're waiting for her to text you, right? Yeah. She meets you and then you have a conversation and then she, and then another guy, she meets another guy. Exactly. And that's what I'm counting on. I'm counting on you not being able to wait and go after her because then you're the pursuer and you're not my competition anymore. You see, you have to be willing to just let it all go and give it all up. And you have to work on being this great guy when you're in her presence who's carefree and funny and attractive and, like I said, who gets it and then you won't have to worry about that. So you have to be willing to walk away, right? So I know there's that inclination, right? I had that temptation too. When I was first coming up with this idea, I thought, will I really be able to do it? Number one, I was really attached to all the girls that I was hanging out with at that moment because I had done a lot of work to get them, right? I'd gone out every night, got phone numbers, crafted great messages, talked to these girls, you know, me didn't be late at them a little bit, whatever. We get together and I'm like, man, if I switch it up on them, they're gonna all bail on me, right? But then I had to think, okay, well, if I'm willing to go this new direction, I have to be willing to let it all go. And it was very tough for me, I have to say, but it was one of the most important things I did. So my answer is, let it go and work on being a better guy and less about the one that got away. Make sense? I know it's tough, but you have to kind of, you know, get to that point where you just don't care anymore. What happens if you really connect with someone and they lose your number or they lose their phone or something happens and they lose it? You just lost a connection because... Well, listen, if you come to me and you say, Brent, I know there was a connection and you tell me about the whole interaction and I know that what you're saying is true, then yeah, I'm gonna say, yeah, that's a different story maybe. So yeah, if you don't hear from her, maybe something happened, yeah, you could check in with her. Yeah, so it's not in stone if you, you know, I'm just saying in most scenarios, the basis from what I hear from guys is not that. Unless a guy says, oh, I know we had a connection and then they tell me about it and go, dude, that wasn't a connection. That was something else. You think there was a connection, but there wasn't. But if you really are that kind of guy who really connects with people on a deep level, so I could say that and I could also say this. I could say that you can have what you're willing to give up. So if you're willing to not worry about that one who you had a connection with and maybe she lost her phone, when you are kind of unavailable to giving in to worrying about those situations, then you will truly be on the next level. I could say that too. So my point is that if you could be willing to let that go and not worry about whether she actually lost your number or her phone or gotten a car crash or whatever, I don't wish that to happen. I'm just saying that when you have to just move forward, you have to always be moving forward and don't worry about those little things. As tough as it might be. Brent, thank you for the talk. This really resonates with me. I have two questions. The first one's really easy and then the next one's a little more complicated. What media do you give your number out? So if you're going to leave the conversation and say, hey, yeah, you know, here's my number, whatever. Are you telling her? Are you giving her your card? In what capacity? Text. How are you doing that? Yeah, number. Well, to speak to what he has, the cards are easy to lose. They're easy to misplace. Not if she's attracted to you. Well, I'm just saying that sometimes, right, like go around and run into her again and say, hey, I thought you were going to, you know, call me. Oh, I lost your card. It can be an easy way out and easy excuse. So then it is an exchange of numbers. Yeah, it's an exchange of numbers. Now, if that's all you got, your phone's dead or it's not working, do whatever. But I'm just saying that in most cases, what I do is I will just offer my number. The next thing was, you said not to overcommunicate in your first encounter, if you want to exchange numbers and say, hey, I'm doing this thing or Sunday or whatever it is, I'm going to this bar. How do you know between overcommunicating and mystery and saying, hey, I'm involved in this or I'm doing this? What's the balance there? Okay, well, when I'm talking to her, she's watching her body language and seeing how she's reacting and everything I'm saying. I'm also looking for a little indicator of interest, of course. That's always best, right? If I talk about it and she says, oh, that sounds cool. That sounds fun. I love wine or I love this. I go, oh, well, it's like as an afterthought as opposed to what I used to do. It's, oh, well, you're welcome to join me if you'd like. Just shoot me a text and we'll work it out or whatever. So I'm still not overly excited, but I'm inviting. That's the other thing. I'm never pushy, but I'm very nice and I'm very inviting and I'm like, oh, yeah, you want to join me? Sure, absolutely, yeah. Shoot me a text and we'll try and work it out. Also, I don't commit to it 100% because I don't want to make her feel like she has to either, even though I know that that could be considered bad if you're worried about women flaking. But if you do this the right way, you'll have very few women flaking on you. Does that answer your question? At the end, you said to just send a very blunt text recommending to come over for drinks or to go over to her house for drinks. My question is, I personally, if I got that text, I would be a little like, oh my gosh, maybe scared. So if she gets scared or something like that, is there a way that you would suggest phrasing it or maybe only say it to a specific type of girl? I totally understand where you're going with that. Yeah, I mean, I'm assuming that if you're, and I'm, you know, again, this is all about experimenting and some of this will be, if you have a certain context with a person that you've already set, there will be some pre-context, right? So it's not going to work in every situation. Someone is going to say maybe, oh, I don't feel comfortable with that, right? Like I'm not meeting, let's meet out again, right? And I understand that. So in that case, I would be saying, you know, I don't know what you're doing, but I'm thinking about just staying in and maybe having a glass of wine or watching a movie or something. You know, let me know if that interests you, right? Instead of, you know, being super blunt, you know, let me know. But so what I'm assuming is that when I usually, when I teach this in a much, you know, deeper way where people, you know, the whole course about it is that you're building trust when you first meet someone. So there's, of course, no one's going to get together with someone alone if they don't trust them, right? If you don't feel trust where you're not going to meet up with a stranger at their house or you'll have them into your house. So I understand where you're coming from. So I'm assuming that there's trust built, but there is another way to go about it and hope that was helpful. Okay, cool. All right, most guys complicate things for the story. How do you re-complicate things and lose the story framework? You create a new story about how everything is simple, fun, and easy. That's what you do, okay? My life is simple, fun, and easy, meeting women and attracting them is simple, fun, and easy because I just show up and they feel a sense of trust and support for me and they feel like they can be themselves around me and be assertive and we have a great time and they feel my great vibe and stuff like that. So that's how you would do that. Tell yourself that it's simple, fun, and easy rather than, oh, it's complicated and I'm going to overcome it. Cool? All right, let's give it up for Brent Smith. Okay, thanks.