 paradigm shift writes question. After a second date, he canceled for the third date. I told him no worries. I also mentioned some of the books you recommended. What do I do or say to see if he's worth going forward with? So when you say he canceled the third date, did he mean he didn't want to reschedule a third date or he does not want to date you? I mean, here's the simple thing. Ask him out. Say, Hey, you know, text him right now. It's Wednesday night. Text him and say, Hey, what are you? Are you free Thursday? I'd love to take you out for a drink. Oh my God, Jonathan, that's her being in her masculine energy. And if she's in her masculine energy, he won't claim her because she has to sit in her feminine energy. Fucking humans, let's stop this bullshit rhetoric about masculine and feminine and just be grownups.