 signs you have defeated the narcissist that's what we're going to be talking about in today's live video so yeah let's get right into it how do you know when you've defeated the narcissist what signs are there to reveal to you that you have defeated them one of the most obvious signs that you have caused a narcissistic injury and you have defeated the narcissist is when they're angry when the narcissist is angry you could be sure that you have defeated them you have got under their skin because otherwise there would be no reason for them to be angry their anger is an emotion and something is caused in that emotion and it's likely something that you did to cause them to feel that way another sign of the narcissist that you have defeated the narcissist is when they try to make you envious or jealous whether it's of them or of something else if they try to make you envious or jealous in any way that is a clear sign that you have defeated the narcissist so be aware that however they try to make you feel whatever neg the motion that they try to provoke within you whether it's envy jealousy fear guilt or shame whatever emotion it is that you feel following an interaction with the narcissist it's because they're trying to project that emotion onto you and you should know by that emotion that you have defeated the narcissist which leads me on to another sign that you have defeated the narcissist and that's when they try to hurt you in any way whenever you can see that they are intentionally trying to cause harm to you that is a sign that you have defeated them it's like the saying goes hurt people hurt people and that is very true when it comes to these narcissists when they feel hurt they will try to hurt you you notice when you're having a bad day when you feel hurt about something which is unrelated to the narcissist they don't want to hear it they don't even want to give you that space to be hurt they might even tell you to lighten up regardless of the situation that you're going through because when they're having a good day or that may be quite unlikely actually but let's just say that having a good moment five minutes of happiness they're not gonna give you that space to even feel your pain if they're in a good mood everyone has to be in a good mood doesn't matter what you're going through but then when they're hurt they have to hurt you that's how you know that you have caused a narcissistic injury in some way that's how you know that you have defeated the narcissist so those are three signs that you have defeated the narcissist cause there aren't many more anyway I'd just like to thank you for joining me on this live video this evening I hope it resonated with you if you haven't yet please give it a thumbs up leave your thoughts on the comment section and share this video so that it can help other survivors as well just out here at the beach but I'm gonna go now because it's very cold and it feels like my hands are about to fall off so yeah have a good day depending on where you are and I will talk to you soon